Cosign....

Not to put all my business out there, but I have no problem with my own genitalia and just have an aversion to oral sex (giving and recieving). I was taught to enjoy my body because if
I didn't, no one else would (knowing what would please me and what would not). Simply put, the last time a guy "went down on me", I remember about an half hour of "Selena" and damn near forgot what was going on down below!

But then again, for women, IT IS very much so a mental thing. Trying to convince a girl that her privates CAN be an asset, something to cherish (:D ;) :p ), is something she would have to work out, and going down on her may be a later step after figuring out her stimuli, turn-ons, whatever.

enigma_AKA

BTW: If a girl doesn't "come" (if you will), it says nothing of your sexual/tongue prowess...or maybe it does! J/K...but you'll never know unless you try, try again! :cool:

I don't know - I kind of think it does... It has been proven that, for the majority of women at least, it is much easier for a man to succeed with his tongue than other "instruments."

Not to be funny, but if you have a mindset that you just don't like it, then he may not be able to shake that...the whole mental barrier thing (or you may just hate direct contact with the "wonder button"). Or at least, that's how it is for me...:confused:

Feel like I am missing out on the mystic of the oral reception/gift...

enigma_AKA

I have a mindset that I just do like it!!! :)

How to change that (re: mindset of hatred)? Is is possible? Or will it forever remain that some will have a repulsion? Matter of mind over matter? :p --- Women have sometimes regarded me as wierd for this "handicap", lol---

enigma_AKA

I'm pretty sure a shower and a bikini wax won't undo 20 years of insecurity about my body.

Thank you, drive through.

this thread is absolutely hysterical! lol but on that note- i agree with what a lot of other girls have said on here- i love having sex and enjoying it- oral sex i like- but there is always this voice in the back of my head thinking that the guy REALLY doesn't want to be doing it... so then i get all self conscious and i make him stop... i know that he wouldn't do it if he didn't want to... but i still feel kinda weird about it....i guess it comes from the fact htat i sometimes feel obligated to go down on a guy- and i don't always really want to be doing it (depends on my mood) - so i guess i feel like my guy feels like that too...

Wonder button? That's a quotable. And from what I've been told by a wide variety of males is that they in general do enjoy giving, even if receiving isn't guaranteed. I'm sure there are those few who don't, but I think it's safe to assume that your guy is enjoying it.

I love a good blow job about as much as I like licking a clit. Thing is though, if I'm good enough to have my shit shaved down there.....the girl better of went to see the little asian ladies with the hot wax before wanting some clit licked. There's no bigger boner killer than seeing a hairy bush down there. The way I look at it, the people who wont shave down there and say they don't like it....thats just their safety net in case they have an outbreak. Seriously, there's no other reason. Hair just doesn't look right down there when it's grown out.

Haha little Asian ladies with hot wax. My waxer(?) is not Asian.

Hahaha!! I doubt there are many asian ladies up in WV in the first place.:D

I don't know . . in guy school . . in the Elective Class called foreplay . .. they taught us that:

Order of orgasm:

Girl then guy.

And that oral sex was an easy way to give orgasms.

In fact, Oral sex was a form of foreplay and that you never skipped foreplay. And in fact, foreplay could stand on its own from time to time, like before work, meals, class etc.

I think to many guys took electives like: Premature ejaculation. Poist Coital Sleepiness and Indulgent Self Gratification . . .

You girls should ask for their transcripts.

My waxer is not Asian either... none of mine have been in any city. But, I've noticed that mine have all sort of been hippie chicks and they always have fun crazy boy drama to tell me. Their stories always make me feel a little better about my love life!

I do sometimes go to the Asian nail places in town though. They never have a wait and they're typically cheaper than the full-service salons, which helps since I am broke a lot (maybe from expensive bikini waxes)!

That's true they do tend to make me feel better. Last time I went I was up on the table (and you know what that's like kinda embarassing) and I'm talking to Heather (yes we are ona first name basis) and I was like I don't understand why I still have this done it's not like I'm gettin' any. And she told me the moment I stop I'll have 6 guys wantin to bang me. Maybe I should test her theory.

I love Asian's who do nails. They are so funny and they always tease me cause I'm in there every week.

I always am tired afterwards. There's no time for cuddling cuz I am out in 5 seconds.

Not saying that it isn't nice to wake up with an arm around you. Unless he's ugly then I barf.