No offense taken... some may be.

My boyfriend is not a greek but he helps out alot. That way he is involved (but not know private stuf or rituals) and get to know the girls I am sisters with.

I dated a non-greek all of college. It was very hard; however, we were together before I joined (I joined my sophomore year). He was however, not very social, and even with non greeks could come to parties and stuff he wouldn't go, which would leave me going alone. This ultimately became a big deal and was probably just another aspect of our breakup, he just didn't understand the social aspect.

Now my lil sis, who I love to death, is engaged to a non-greek. He is awesome. He does; however, not go to our school. They do visit each other very regularly and when he is in town, he comes out to stuff even though he is non-greek. This way he understands both the sisterhood/ritual aspect along with social. Even when he doesn't visit, normally my lil will get a call from him, which then normally means the phone gets past around to everyone so they can say "hi" since everyone knows him from when he does visit and come out.

It may be different when you're a collegian versus alum. I just graduated; however, I am already signed up to advise where I'm going to grad school, so my commitment is still there.

Who knows, it all about the person and the understanding.

When my boyfriend and I started dating he was already a member of his fraternity (and had been for some time) and I was a non-Greek at the time. 2 months after we started dating, I went through rush, and he was very supportive. We both seem to have the same views on greek life and how much of it we want to partake in and what not, so I'm very happy to be a Greek dating another Greek.

Dating a greek while you are in school (atleast here) can be difficult. Everyone knows everything about your relationship no matter how private you like to keep it. Everyone is up in your business and feels that they have a right to know. Word travels sooooo fast. Maybe it is just because we have developed a really tight knit greek community.

I personally prefer dating greek boys, though. It is nice to have someone who understands your time constraints and knows that sometimes you just need to be with your sisters. A non greek might not exactally like or understand the fact that I cannot talk to him for a week during our initiation week, or that somethings are just a secret.

I'm dating a non-greek boy. There wasn't even a greek system at his college. He was upset when I rushed, and even more upset when I didn't get a bid. After I recieved my bid, he was upset with me for accepting it. He was upset that I pledged. But then he came to our formal in spring, met my sisters, and said NOW I see why you joined!". He thought my sisters were crazy/weird/hyper just like me. All of my sisters loved him too, the next day I was out walking with one of my sisters when my cell phone rang, i started talking to him and she SNATCHED the phone from me and started going "Oh my god Pat you and tracey are so good together! you guys were so cute at formal blah blah balh!". It was really cute and it embarassed the hell out of him. I think once he met my sisters and realized that they weren't forcing me to have sex with guys or drink myself to oblivion he was OK with me being Greek. I'm glad hes' come to grips with it.

I never was interested in Fraternity guys but then I dated a few and I found that they weren't all about the keg parties and getting laid. However, my turning point was I started dating someone in my co-ed fraternity. Its a different type of commitment because it is a service fraternity and we both understand it and yet at the same time, we have the same functions and I am friends with his chapter members

I think having a chick that was in a sorority is the way to go. Maybe its just a fetish of mine or maybe a lot of other guys out there are like me, but I like banging the girl while she's wearing her letters or having a blow job while she's wearing her bid day sailor hat. Its even hotter if she has her letters tatooed or an anchor tatooed somewhere sexy. Whats even hotter is when you have the girl wearing her letters around her neck while wearing a shirt that has your letters on it. Greek girls are just more freaky than non-greek girls. I think if porn wasnt looked down upon you'd see more pornstars that are greek than you would non-greek. Think about it from a guys view, what can be more hot than seeing a super fine chick getting railed while having ZTA, DG, KD, Theta, Tri-Delt or DZ somewhere on her body?

Made that mistake, won't date a sorority girl ever again.

I always thought I wanted to marry a guy who was in a certain fraternity but now that I'm out in the real world away from college and crazy about this guy I'm dating who was never in a fraternity, that doesn't seem to matter much anymore.