"Oh man..it was hilarious...I called her out and had a "chat" with her, she's a lot bigger than me but she started balling...muhahahaha...oh I love my evil side..."

It is admirable that you care enough about your friends to try and settle things for them, but your previous post made it sound as though you enjoyed making her cry. That' in most of our books, qualifies as mean.

True, true, and I apologize for that. But, I will admit I did giggle a bit afterwards, mostly because I didn't mean for my talk to be mean-spirited but she took it harsher than what it was meant to be. *shrugs*

maybe you should be mad at your best friends man for having sex with this chick, instead of going after her. maybe she didnt know he had a girl?

first time I've EVER agreed with Imthachamp.:eek:

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

Champ & MTSU:

SHE DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM, BUT SHE IS SAYING THAT SHE DID!!

*whew* Alrighty then. :p

Please people, read the first page to get all the info :)


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I want to find a freshman girl and save her from being a slut. Cuz not a slut if is just with me.

Sounds like she's a slut, the guys are sluts and I wouldn't respect any of them involved.
But I wouldn't necessarily brag about making her cry, either.

how are you so sure?

did the guy deny it? lol.

I don't think we're the ones you should apologize to. You know you were wrong, you should apologize to her. Freshman are 17-18 and generally fairly stupid to the ways of the world. I'm not saying she should always get a pass, but she's been at college for what, two weeks? Even I think that is way harsh, ESPECIALLY when the issue is none of your business to begin with, aside from her talking to/about your friends.

You acted like a biatch and you know it (hell you acknowledge it in all your posts).

Call me evil like that, but that's how I am. I like knowing that I made someone feel bad, especially if I know they deserved it.

Ain't no shame.

Ditto. :p

In actuality I think it's just their competitive nature coming out. They're jealous that these girls have the guts to go against the social norm and they themselves don't . . . so in order to get back at the girl they call her a "slut."

Heh..no..I won't be apologizing to her that's for sure :) Oh, we've been in classes for 4 weeks. ;)
Yes..it was a part of my business..if it concerns one of my girls it concerns me. I mean seriously, if some girl was spreading rumors (which this is a VERY small campus) that she slept w/your best friend's boyfriend in which he is also one of your best friends, wouldn't that tick you off also? And on top of that, left her nasty thongs in your boyfriend's apt's bathroom you wouldn't be a little upset? C'mon now....
I used to be very timid and give everyone upteen chances, that didn't go anywhere.
As my older sis once told me, "You've gotta be a b*tch at times"

OTW- Hell yeah.

Would I handle it? Yes. Would I make her cry or take pride in it if I did? No. Would I try to figure out why this girl thought this was the only way she could get attention? Yes. I think that it is best to handle things with as much grace and class as possible, and that doesn't include intentionally being a bitch sometimes. I just don't believe that a lady has to be a bitch at all.

I used to go to a VERY small campus as well. I had a roommate who was extremely jealous because I had more friends than she did, the place in the show choir that she wanted, etc etc. She told the guy I was dating and several other people that I had stayed with a guy a couple of months before and I was pregnant. (I was a virgin at the time, and there was no guy.) I was brought before the conduct board because the story reached administration. Did I take care of those rumors? You bet. Are we still on good terms? We're not the best of friends, but yes.

Yes, I would've been upset if I had been in your situation, but I hope I'd have handled it with more class and respect than to brag to people that made a freshman girl cry.

One of my favorite lines on, for all things a Christmas CD by Jewel.

"In the end, only kindness matters."