Ok, I think I should rephrase some things that I previously said. This whole topic really has nothing to do with whether a man is bisexual or not. It has everything to do with me not wanting to date a feminine man. I don't care if he is heterosexual; if he is more of a "pretty girl" than I am, I don't want him.

No, acting feminine does not mean you're gay (just as acting masculine doesn't mean you're not gay), but I do believe the chances of a man being bisexual are a lot higher if he portrays such an image. And if anyone still has questions as to what "portraying such an image" means, I'll be happy to fill you in.

AKA2D'91:
You are absolutely correct that simply because a man is masculine and full of testosterone that does not mean he is not gay. I never said that. One of my good friends is a linebacker in the NFL,(you can't get more masculine or full of testosterone than that) and he is gay. If I happend to date someone like this and he turned out to be gay, I would, in fact be fooled by his masculinity. Yet, once I found out, I would no longer date him. My point is this, if a man is BLATANTLY showing signs of femininity, wearing women's perfume, makeup,etc. there is no room for that in my relationship.

I feel ya there sista!

Ok at first I wasn't gonna respond for fear of somebody reading this I know (well he knows), but I gotta tell my story now.


I was seeing this dude who has hair longer than mine (which I guess I could live with) but dude went to the hairdresser mor than me. He got a touch-up all the time and had to get his split ends cut and stuff

He even arched his eyebrows!

And all the time I'm thinking well if there is something with him, I mean I know his bruhs would have said something, right?

He used up all my apple victoria secrets shower gel and had his own pear that I couldn't touch. And once he started talking about anal beads.

One day it just all got to much for me and I was like why don't you shut you p***y ass up and he hung up on me and when he called back I was like I don't think this is working let's just be friends.

now I know he likes women, and I say about 90% of me thinks he is strickly hetreo, but I still have my doubts. and i am just glad to be rid of him.



[This message has been edited by blu_theatrics (edited August 12, 2000).]

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif Whoa! I don't know if he's gay, but he certainly is "adventurous".

[This message has been edited by Serenity (edited August 13, 2000).]

LMAO

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif I'm LMAO too

ya'll I cannot get enough of this board...everytime I am having a 'situation', no matter how, off the wall, I can come on the board and ya'll will be talking about it.

[b]Situation:[b/] I have a regular customer who comes in, he is like 65 or so, and his nephew is always flirting with me (and he is too, for that matter, always saying if I were 40yrs younger...). He, the nephew has offered to take me to some of his fraternity sponsored summer events, and etc, etc. Now, I always said no, b/c it seemed like everytime he asked me out, there were a lot of my co-workers around, and I just didn't want everybody in my business.

A few weeks ago, I was talking to the uncle, he caught me, when I was leaving after my shift...and we stood outside talking for like 20 minutes. He was just asking me about my major and my future plans, and asking me why I am not married or dating. I casually mentioned that his nephew had asked me out, and although he kept the playful tone, he basically said, well, I am not gonna say nothing about that one, but if you are looking for a real man, you need to keep looking. Now, like I said, he still had a joking tone, and everytime his nephew is flirting with me, he, the uncle, always tells me that I need an "older man".

Now the other day....bear with me, I know this is a long story....the nephew caught me while I was outside, coming back from lunch. He was talking to me, and telling me how pretty he thought I was and just saying that he wanted to take me out fot a belated birthday outing. Now, I think that maybe I have read too many E. Lynn Harris novels also, but something about the way he said..."Alright, 'girlfriend', I will defintely call you.."...screamed GAYYYYYYYYYY!!!

Now, maybe it was just my imagination working overtime, but I kept thinking about Basil, Kelvin, and the rest of them, and I also kept thinking about his uncle saying that I should keep looking if I wanted a real man...

AM I OVER-REACTING????
Maybe his uncle was just joking, or maybe he was saying, don't mess with him, I know something you don't....

HELP!!!!!!

blu_theatrics and onesavvydiva,

I don't know what to say but this sh_t is funny (no pun intended) - - LOL

know you know i am LMAO....when i started reading this thread.

i'll make comments later as soon as i can get a hold of myself.
http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

Professor...wanna hear something really funny???

It's been about 3 weeks and the "so and so" never called!!!

Must be gay, 'cause can't no man resist the DIVA!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Just kidding http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif!!!