When your staunchly anti-greek boyfriend begins to admit that he "still doesn't like the greek system, but really likes Alpha Phi."

When your an out-of-stater at your college, and facebook stalk the APhis from colleges near home...then meet some of your sisters at Tropical Smoothie and talk for hours!

When you can give a lecture as to why heart health DOES matter and DOES effect you.

when you love your ivy plant and treat it like a pet

you know you're an Alpha Phi when....

suddenly the ivy growing up the sides of buildings has meaning to you

You got stoked when Yankee Candle brought back the lily of the valley scented candle--and immediately went out and bought one

...when your computer pointer is the A PHI letters

your wedding was bordeaux & silver (my school colors are crimson & gray also, so it worked out well)

you talk to every HS grad who's going to college about Going Greek & whether there's an Alpha Phi there

you decorate in ivy

I have been out of school almost a decade and I STILL do this.