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AlphaGamDiva 04-25-2003 11:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by james the wacko
A wise woman said:

If you love someone set them free,
If they don't come back,
Hunt them down and kill them . . .

lmao......yay for psychotic women quotes!

PM...girl, let things come naturally. don't go running to his friends that you like him so they go run tell him and then you sit anxiously awaiting for him to rent a white horse and sweep you away. play it coooooool, smooooooth...yes, flirt. yes, show interest! be cute, be smart, be funny, be coy......be mysterious. ;) don't always give him the satisfaction of your attention (not saying you are on him like a moth on a bug light, but jus'sayin)...his friends are cool? SUPER! be cool with his friends, and then instead of his friends telling him you like him, they will be like, "YO! PM is super cool.....we like her....she's KEEN!!" :) then, if his mind isn't already thinkin about ya, that will start him wondering about how "cool" and "keen" you really are! let him make the first move.....yes, it's hard to be patient. but half the fun is the challenge and the chase, right? let him chase you!!!--it's sooo much better that way...small, but very sufficient, doses of attention from you=big, fun doses of attention from him. hard to get, girl....play hard to get! :D

/telling chick secrets of how to snag a man ;)

Attractive#7 04-26-2003 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
Well I olike a guy, and I have no idea how he feels about me. He's so confusing. One minutes he's the sweetest guy ever, and the next minute he's the biggest ass. He tells me how much he wants to see me and get together with me, but he stands me up. Then he apologizes for standing me up and makes plans to see me later and guess what he does...he stand me up again. When I confront him about he gives me a song and dance about how he has priorities, yeah and I don't because of course my entire life revolves around him:rolleyes: Then I won't here from him for days and then when I do he acts like nothing happened.
I can totally relate. I feel in love with this guy. We started seeing each other and we would be together all day everyday. We kicked it so much. His whole family thinks we're together. He tells me he loves me, but he doesnt' want a girlfriend...ok i could deal with that at first, but now he's turned crazy. One minute its boo i love you, then its shut the f*ck up!!! Then it's i wanna be with you then its i'm seeing 5 other girls...this guy is nutz, but i was a bigger nut for puttin up with it. So i had to let go and realized i loved a guy that didn't give a shit about me...so i stopped talkin to him:( but i know its for the best:D

AlphaGamDiva 04-26-2003 12:17 AM

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Originally posted by Attractive#7
this guy is nutz, but i was a bigger nut for puttin up with it. So i had to let go and realized i loved a guy that didn't give a shit about me...so i stopped talkin to him but i know its for the best
see?!? it can be done!!! way to go!!! :D

Attractive#7 04-26-2003 12:21 AM

thank u thank u
its really hard though cuz i still see him on campus and i see all his new girls and they dont know about each other and i know about them all i just wanna blurt out, "HEY HE'S A LYING JERK DON'T BELIEVE ANYTHING HE TELLS YOU", while slashing his tires, but i'm really sensitive and the thought of handcuffs restrain me ;) lol

AlphaGamDiva 04-26-2003 12:29 AM

is it illegal to print out flyers with a jerk's face, name, and warning label on it and place it all over campus? would that be considered slander....even if it's all TRUE???

i just think of that designing women episode where mary jo got screwed over by that guy who tried to date her several times, and when she finally caved in, after a few dates he was out....and then all those women had formed a support group over him. so then she got on that show bernice was hosting and held up his picture screaming, "if you see this man, RUN!" such inspiration.......so tempted to do it......

mine would read:
<idiot's name>
in the air force
he screwed me, he will screw you, too
he is married, with a baby....you won't find this out through him!!!

Attractive#7 04-26-2003 12:32 AM

lol i got one i got one

have u seen this guy???
<picture>
he will lie to you, lead u on, don't believe anything he says, cuz what he tells you, he's telling her too. he's having sex with about 5 girls right now, so if u love your life, don't lay down with him.


ohh oohh what if we do them anonymously *spell check* and if we dont put our names on it, we can't get arrested!!!

AlphaGamDiva 04-26-2003 01:43 AM

sa-WEET!!!! sounds like a plan!!! i've got so many pics of that ass hole i can post him from all angles, too!!! BWAHAHA!!!!

so, updated flyer reads:
<idiot's name>
<idiot's picture(s)>
hobbies: air force, screwin ppl, tryin to be a playa, lying, lying, lying, cheating, lying, and...yeah, lying
he is married, with a kid.....and none of this info would you have found out through him the easy way/by yourself!
he will appear charming
he will appear handsome
he will appear caring, understanding, and sincere
he will deceive you in all of this
he screwed me, and he will screw you, too
ARM YOURSELF THROUGH THE POWER OF SELF-PREVENTION!!!!!

*courtesy of the angry ex girlfriend brigade

PM_Mama00 04-26-2003 12:24 PM

UGH I can't stand it anymore. I can't hold the secret in but I know I HAVE to! Dammit it doesn't even matter if he knows by now cuz I know he don't like me. But for the sake of our friendship, I'm gona wait a few weeks to purposely let him know. If he finds out before, then... I duno.

PM_Mama00 05-02-2003 12:14 AM

Ok... so very soon this guy is gona know I like him. I'm terrified if he doesn't like me back. If he doesn't, he has a helluva way of leading girls on.

AlphaGamDiva 05-02-2003 01:07 AM

yo, have you asked him out for just the 2 of you to hang out and chill......be subtle when you do let the cat out of the bag, so to speak :D

PM_Mama00 05-03-2003 05:47 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva
yo, have you asked him out for just the 2 of you to hang out and chill......be subtle when you do let the cat out of the bag, so to speak :D
Yeah. We ended up driving around and then after a few hours we decided to go to a movie. It was fun, we had a great time. We always have a great time when we're around each other. I really thought there was somethihng there. He called me like every nite for like 2 weeks or something.

I brought him to my formal last nite. I was a horrible date cuz I had a bad sinus headache (same as a migraine). When we were tryin to fall asleep (my best friend and my Italian stallion were in teh bed next to us yelling funny stuff to me-- see original post about Italian stallion) I finally told him I liked him. He said it was bad timing. WTF? I can't say anything bad about him though... I don't want things to be weird cuz I really like being friends with him and I enjoy our conversations.... and he's a frequent GCer and now knows that all this is about him.

Lady Pi Phi 05-03-2003 11:38 PM

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Originally posted by James
If someone doesn't want you the way you want them . . . and you are having emotional issues with just being a booty call . . . you should cut them out of your life completely. Otherwise you are just going to keep getting hurt.

Stop dialing them, call block their number. Don't return messages. It makes it easier to get over someone.

You know I try, but can't seem to drop him completely. I know it's my fault. So what I did was ignored him for 2 weeks. I finally cave when he ICQed me and talked to him, and he was like I;ve been trying to get a hold of you, I wanted you to come and see me, yadda yadda yadda. So He wants to talk to me now. So he did and now I haven't heard from him in several days. What is is problem?

P.S: I didn't go see him, thank god


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