Born again
 

I was until frosh year. A guy I was friends with took advantage of me when we were drinking, I'm convinced he slipped me something. That's all over now and everything's OK, but I am waiting til I get married to do it again. My current b-friend tries to be understanding but I can tell he's getting tired of waiting. But I think true love waits, so I am waiting.:) We're giving each other some space right now but hopefully it'll work out.

Trust me when I tell you that prostitution is one of the oldest and best regarded proffessions . . . indulge:)

Sex is a nice thing. Or so I hear.

B) This is the saddest thing that I have ever heard. My cousin's husband is a doctor and when he was in the residency program he had to diagnose a ten year old as pregnant. It was also an abuse situation. The mother wouldn't let the girl have an abortion despite the fact that it was abuse and that she was nowhere near mature enough to be a mother. The mother's reaction was the most shocking thing that I have ever heard. She got herself into this situation and now she has to pay the price. :rolleyes: A fourth grader becoming a mother. Meanwhile, her mother was still in her twenties and about to become a grandmother. Terrible things happen to little girls sometimes.

Ladies, you must have some incredible battery operated devices.

-Rudey
--Or you must give fantastic head! More power to ya!

I personally do not hold the V-card and to anyone who still does more power to you... I applaud y'all for standing by your convictions.

My question for all of you that are still virgins, do you expect the person you marry to also be a virgin until your wedding night????

'' I expect that my fiance will be one - otherwise that means he's been gettin' some on the side which I know isn't true :)

Nope, I just want them to understand that I am not as experienced as them.

Ditto...I honestly can't say that I'd wait until marriage if I was in a committed relationship with the right person, so I don't expect the man I will eventually marry to have waited. I understand that you can be completely 100% in love with someone and have things just not work out, or that you can have sex for any number of reasons. I've known plenty of people who thought they were ready but weren't and ended up waiting again, or people who were in really bad situations, or people who were pressured...plus all the people who had healthy, happy experiences.

The hardest part for me though has been finding someone who understands my lack of experience AND is cool with it. I have a pretty open attitude about sex, so I'm willing to discuss almost anything, and I think guys think I have much more experience than I do because of it. And if there was any question as to how far things would progress physically with someone, I've always been completely honest up front and have said, "This is what we can do," and if they ask why, I'll tell them, so it's not like I'm a huge tease and would be pissing someone off. But it seems like guys still freak out as soon as they find out. And it's not like I bring it up the first second they meet me...the last one was someone I was seeing for a few weeks and he flat-out asked me if I was still in the Club (since I kept saying I wasn't ready to spend the night...and we had a total of 5 dates, so it wasn't like this was 3 years later). I told him about what I had and mostly hadn't done and he flipped out about how he didn't want to "ruin things" for me and that was pretty much it.

I'll make the statement here for the world to see:

YES, I AM VERY INEXPERIENCED. BUT, IF I HAVE THE RIGHT PERSON, I AM MORE THAN WILLING TO LEARN AND WILL TRY MY HARDEST TO GET IT RIGHT. IT MIGHT TAKE ME A LITTLE LONGER TO DO SO, THAT'S ALL.

grr...:(

Yeah... just fly to Las Vegas, drive out west on Blue Diamond Road (NV 160) to Pahrump till you pass the Nye County line, turn left at Homestead Road and follow it until you get to the end... there's the Chicken Ranch! :) (Prostitution is legal in rural Nevada counties; don't try it in Clark, Washoe or Douglas County, which are considered 'urban' counties -- and where the local gendarmerie regularly conducts john roundups.)

Let me clear myself, though -- I'm not a total virgin, more of a technical nature, is all. (After all, isn't it a rite of passage in the military for young single men to pay at least one visit to the local bordello? That was years ago for me, though. :))

I HANDED IN MY V-CARD FRIDAY NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WOOHOO!

4 hour session of lots o' nookie!

*sigh* I want Friday night back!!!!!!!!!!

hmmm...congrats :) and all but what happened to

lol

YEAH BAYBEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!

Woo hoo!!!!

Where's that humping smilie when I need it? :confused:

Hey, I wasn't holding onto it with a lock and key, or anything!! I was proud, and I'm STILL proud of my "record".

I HAD A KICK ASS NIGHT, and I'm proud of that too....

:D

Congatulations...I'm glad it was the right time for you! :)