The test I was referring to is the hardest one of them all: The Test of Time.

It takes longer today to be able to trust people-if that's possible. So, I wouldn't leave no woman alone in my place until we've kicked it for a bit and she's proven herself to be thinking of US-instead of herself. Once I've become a part of her, I could leave her alone there.

And Ideal08; TRUST IS IRRESPECTIVE OF GENDER. A man trusts his woman to only be with him too.

I agree with you, Frat, I only used the pronouns that you used. That's all. LOL! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif I'm LOL b/c I knew you were going to post something like that!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Hey Professor - you are so funny!

I am sort of uncomfortable about leaving a man in my place alone. I don't want him "proging". "Proging" is a word that my grandmother uses. It means rambling through things.

You got me, you got me!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

FOR REAL!! I'D RATHER A BROTHER TURN OFF HIS RINGER, THAN FOR HIM TO HAVE TO SAIL HEAD FIRST OVER A COUCH TO ANSWER A RINGING PHONE, OR TURN DOWN THE VOLUME ON THE ANSWERING MACHINE!!!
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[This message has been edited by AKAME92 (edited June 09, 2001).]

Hmmmmm ...

And at what point (if ever) do you give him/her access to your computer? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

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They can have "access" to the PC, but not the email accounts and all that! I have to make sure I am signed out and everything.

You are speaking about PRIOR to marriage?
Still, after you are married, do you allow your spouse to read your email and the like?

I don't think I answered the original question. One can let someone stay at their home/dwelling at any point. It just depends on the "vibe" that is going on with the two involved.

Girl, leave that "snooping" alone! LOL

IM SORRY CALL ME YOUNG AND OLE FASHION BUT WILL THIS PERSON PAY ANY BILLS. ALWAYS REMEMBER NEVER GIVE MORE THAN YOU CAN LOSE
LEAVING SOMEONE AT YOU HOUSE WHILE YOU ARE GONE IS TROUBLE TROUBLE TROUBLE. ASK MY EX EX EX BOYFRIEND HIS NEW GOOFY GIRLFRIEND HIT THAT CALLER ID AND CALLED ME THATS WHAT HE GET. KEEP YALLS KEYS TO YA SELF PLEASE.
AND NOT TO MENTION IF YOU ARE GONNA BE CREEPING DONT YOU DO IT.

Why have sex with someone you can't trust? Why trust someone with your body, the temple of your soul (which is priceless), who you can't trust around things that can be replaced?

Just a thought,
TR Simon