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KSig RC 12-20-2002 06:18 PM

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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
They are being degraded, simple as that. Treated as sex objects. And if you look a little further down, I ALSO said that these same women are making VERY poor choices.


Oh.

I missed the part where you redefined "fact" and "opinion" to mean the same thing.

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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
Please, you act like you don't know what degraded means....It means being treated with less than the respect we each should demand and we each deserve.
what? I don't get how you can possibly draw a direct line between "dancing naked" and "no respect" . . . every time I've been to the Gentleman's Club (which isn't often enough, sadly), the strippers are well-respected, and make a killing. Look, b/c you say it doesn't make it happen, chief.

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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
C'mon, if these were "good" places, why aren't children allowed to see the show? Why aren't children and teenagers encouraged to see this as a quality line of work to go into instead of college? "Suzy, I know you've been thinking about which college to go to. I'd like you to browse this brochure. It shows how much money you could rake in, just by spreading your legs!" Just stop it! Why don't you see a stamp of approval from several religious denominations? "After church today, I'd like you all to please go down to the Foxy Lady and see parishoner Rebecca take her clothes off and look at her lovely breasts and vagina! THE ONE GOD MADE !"
What? Nice straw-man.

Why aren't children allowed to drink, or allowed into R-rated movies? And before you jump back up onto the Christian Coalition soapbox, my friend, think of all the movies that are rated R that have redeeming cultural and artistic value . . . b/c children aren't allowed, are these invalidated?

This is just an ineffective strawmanning of the argument.

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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
Why you don't see them in certain, prestigious neighborhoods?You try to open a strip joint in Potomac, MD or Great Falls, VA (for those who may not know, these are areas with $1.0M homes and higher), and see how quickly you get denied that permit!


OK, I'll play by your rules . . .

In my suburb, no boats are allowed in the driveway (or RVs, campers, etc) unless they cost over a certain amount of money (100k for boats, 400k for RVs, I think) . . . does that make fishing a horrific act?

NO - you're confusing one group's opinion (or egocentric self-interest) for moral validation. Do you want to extend this further? We can . . . and it'll get ugly.

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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
But, I do have to say this one thing: I can't fix this problem alone. People seem to think it's ok, so go if you want. I can't stop you. But, you cannot say that on some level, in some tiny amount, this "profession" doesn't bother you...What if your daughter did this? What if you walked into the club, fully erect, ready for a hot show and your sister came on out, naked as the day she was born? How ok with this would you be then? When these women are up on stage, they are nameless and you aren't exactly looking at their faces. Bring it into your own home, and see how happy you'd be....

She's someone's daughter, she's someone's sister/cousin/friend.

Give her some dignity...

Your logic is appalling - take a freaking class. Look, you can't fix this because you can't piece together a cogent argument. "Fully erect"? Kick me in the face - ridiculous comment. If you can't argue this subject like a real person, quietly exit the thread and go back to converting heathens.

It doesn't bother me - NOT IN THE LEAST - it's just like any other profession, be it law, medicine, taking out the trash, or fighting other nations. YOUR MORALITY IS NOT THE ONLY MORALITY.

If I have a daughter, and she decides the most efficacious way for her to earn money is to strip at an up-scale gentleman's club, then isn't it less dignified for me to deny her the opportunity? Isn't it less dignified to force her to work two jobs to make ends meet rather than allowing her to make an adult decision? Isn't it undignified for me to bite your argumentation style, and appeal to emotion rather than making valid points?

IowaHawkeye 12-20-2002 08:22 PM

really, don't argue with Rob, he wins everytime.

man, i hate smart people ;)

Rudey 12-20-2002 11:29 PM

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Originally posted by KSig RC

If I have a daughter, and she decides the most efficacious way for her to earn money is to strip at an up-scale gentleman's club, then isn't it less dignified for me to deny her the opportunity? Isn't it less dignified to force her to work two jobs to make ends meet rather than allowing her to make an adult decision? Isn't it undignified for me to bite your argumentation style, and appeal to emotion rather than making valid points?

I support you on this!

-Rudey
--But I gotta warn you...upscale or not, I tip with pennies.

damasa 12-21-2002 11:44 AM

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Originally posted by KSig RC





Your logic is appalling - take a freaking class. Look, you can't fix this because you can't piece together a cogent argument. "Fully erect"? Kick me in the face - ridiculous comment. If you can't argue this subject like a real person, quietly exit the thread and go back to converting heathens.

It doesn't bother me - NOT IN THE LEAST - it's just like any other profession, be it law, medicine, taking out the trash, or fighting other nations. YOUR MORALITY IS NOT THE ONLY MORALITY.

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A logic class is so key, so key.
I agree with everything that Rob says and I wanted to say it but he got to if faster tham me (bastage).

The argument regarding children not being able to see it is no agrument at all. There are a lot of other things that children can't do before a certain aga and that is called law. They are restriced to do these until they reach the legal ege to do so.


Remember this for the next time you argue morals and ethics from a legal standpoint: Ethics and morals are hardly the standards or basis in which laws are created and Laws are not always created from an ethical and/or moral standpoint.

Children are also not allowed to view acts of sex before the age of 18 (yet many still do). So, just because children are not allowed to see this sort of act - is the act of sex unethcial?

Dionysus 12-21-2002 12:07 PM

Remember, for those who are against their BF/husband attending strip clubs, he doesn't have to be in a strip club to look at other women suggestively.

KillarneyRose 12-21-2002 08:02 PM

When I was 16, I worked at Wendy's ,for about three weeks. I wore an orange and brown polyester uniform, smelled like grease on the way home from work, had to clean toilets (after people who had terrible aim) and get yelled at by customers who held me personally responsible for the fact that it cost 10 cents extra to get a tomato slice on their burger. For that I was paid the princely sum of $3.35 an hour.

THAT is degrading! Only instead of being degraded by a club owner I was degraded by Dave Thomas

James 11-19-2005 04:31 AM

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