Turn that Frown Upside Down!!!
 

Hey everyone, if things in life aren't going the way you want them to at the moment, be patient because I assure you the tide will eventually turn ! Everyone goes through their "rough times", but along with those are the good times and they'll roll around sooner or later.

When my bio sister was in med school she was bummed because her life pretty much sucked financially and romantically. I remember sitting with her on my deck watching my daughters playing in the sprinkler and she shook her head and said, "Do you think in 20 years they'll be ashamed of their crazy aunt Kay with the cats who lives in the attic?"

A couple years later though, she has a great job and a fantastic fiance :) Although I still like to tease her about being crazy aunt Kay with the cats who lives in the attic :D

I also plan on collecting cats to keep me company. I've decided if I'm still single-with-cats in ten years, I'm renting a party hall, getting an open bar and a DJ and throwing myself a party. I don't need some guy to be happy and deep down I know that. It just kind of sucks when it seems like everyone around me is hooking up and going out on dates. Like I told my one friend last night, it's not so bad when I have someone to be bitter with. Now that she's getting asked out, it's a little harder to deal with. But oh well, I'm glad my friends are meeting great people because they all deserve to be really happy. I just don't want to be my aunt and uncle's friend who clings on to them all the time because she's 40 and still single. I don't want to be living vicariously through my attached friends in 20 years, so I either have to find someone or make my peace with myself and start working on the cats.

I'm sad because a guy I was hoping would call hasn't and it's been 2 weeks almost. Some say he may have lost my number...because he can be absent minded like that...but if that's not the case why ask for my number if you don't want to talk to me?