My school is the same way. If you hook up with someone, it takes 2-3 days to get around if that much. I hooked up with the guy, not knowing he had a gf, in a isters basement, during finals, and I walk onto camous two days after,and everyone knew.

That's the only reason why I don't like getting i vovled with someone in the greek system, it gets spread around so quickly.

thats exactly what happened with one of my sisters. like what i think it is, we get involved with other greeks bc they understand what were going through. like i know thats why i hook up with em, but it blows when you wanna keep something on the dl and then everyone and their mom knows.

An update
 

My roommate actually ended up cheating on her boyfriend and they broke up (completely surprising if you knew the girl... super quiet, super sweet, and super "can't-live-without-him" mentality). My boyfriend and I broke up, and he's now (well, at least before graduation) dating a girl from the sorority that his fraternity hangs out with the most. I realized how ugly he was (inside and out) after we broke up, so it makes me laugh when I read about how "crazy about him" I was.

So, girls, don't EVER drop your life for a boy. I found that the most fun I ever had at a formal was the one that I went to WITHOUT a date. A complete shocker, but I found that I didn't have to worry if my date was happy, if I could leave him alone to go talk to my sisters, if I was going to invite him to the after party or not, etc... I am now single, and not even caring to look. If he comes along, great, but I refuse to be THAT girl who drops her life for a boy.