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tld221 04-11-2014 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KAPPAcino (Post 2269921)
I think a lot of it depends on the campus. At FSU, it was the Zetas that were fine. But then, when some bruhs and I would travel to other chapters as visiting bruhs, the Zetas at some of those schools were fat. I don't think there is one particular organization where every girl in one sorority at every chapter looks good. You won't find too many ugly NUPES, though lol. And if you do, he's got bad Konfidence.

Right.

and... shiddddddd. Some of these Nupes are Nopes. but again, everyone isn't hot everywhere.

Because, Sigmas everywhere don't look like this:
http://heartofsigma.org/wp-content/u...08/snap014.jpg

KAPPAcino 04-11-2014 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 2269923)
Because, Sigmas everywhere don't look like this: http://heartofsigma.org/wp-content/u...08/snap014.jpg

I would hope not with the way they're wearing those pants in that picture.

DrPhil 04-11-2014 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KAPPAcino (Post 2269921)
you won't find too many ugly NUPES, though lol. And if you do, he's got mad Konfidence.

That depends.

I consider 95% of the Kappas I have seen across chapters and across states to be unattractive, unsexy, and trying way too hard to seem confident.

KDCat 04-11-2014 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2269914)
It wasn't a documentary. I was fiction, but I was just asking because I do know that sorority girls used to look like they are depicted in the movies. If they were never hot, then why do the movies depict them that way? The directors had to have gotten it from somewhere.

Why am I here? That question wasn't very bright, either. I'm here to chat just like you are. I'm not sure why I was banned though.


I agree. I'm sure the founders of sororities didn't wake up and join up with hot girls to start a sorority. I was just wondering where it came from. It started from somewhere, because at one time most sorority girls were really hot. Today, I don't know what happened.


Seriously. I know you think I'm joking, but I kid you not. A friend of mine who I graduated with lives in a trailer park. I visit her every now and then. She recently told me that some Kappa Deltas were renting a double wide trailer across from her. I think she said there were 7 or 9 girls living in there. I saw them and they are PWT at its best. I saw the trailer too. It had the Kappa Delta letters on it and everything. It was a pretty cool trailer.

Move on. Clearly you are far too good for the likes of us.

thetalady 04-11-2014 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2269914)
... Why am I here? That question wasn't very bright, either. I'm here to chat just like you are. I'm not sure why I was banned though.

If you were banned, it was because you are a pig.

AZTheta 04-11-2014 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2269914)
Why am I here? That question wasn't very bright, either. I'm here to chat just like you are. I'm not sure why I was banned though.

Ask the Yeti.

DrPhil 04-11-2014 05:08 PM

LOL. I thought that was Iota Man. Oh well, whoever these usernames are, it is dumb to ban a username over calling members of a GLO ugly. Do you really care?

cheerfulgreek 04-11-2014 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by AZTheta (Post 2269946)
Ask the Yeti.

lol
Hilarious!

But his username is freaking hilarious! lol

cheerfulgreek 04-11-2014 05:33 PM

When I'm attracted to a man initially, I'm not dealing with the core aspects of him, because the inner attributes are not what I first observe. It is a lot more than what he looks like that really attracts me, although the physical is essential, to me. However, those men in that picture look like sheep sh*t on a rocky mountain (all of them). Handsome is definitely in the eyes of the beholder, because men covered in tattoos, wearing boots, with their pants hanging off their butts is disgusting and unattractive, to me. Hmm, how would I describe men like that? FUBAR?

KDCat 04-11-2014 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2269944)
I didn't know you were a Kappa Delta. I can post pictures to prove my point if needed. I don't think I'm too good for anyone, though.


Maybe I said something I shouldn't have, but I don't recall that.

I'm going assume for the sake argument that you really are clueless and not a troll. I doubt it, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I've known a few stupid, creepy guys who needed an education.

Here's where you are going wrong:

1. You assume that women in old movies represent some sort of reality. They're not. They're idealized fantasy images. They always have been. Even in the women in Playboy, gorgeous as they undoubtedly are in real life, are made up, well lit, airbrushed, Photoshopped, and shot in soft focus. There is not time in history in which this was not true.

2. You proceeded to describe Greek women in general as fat and trailer trash. Regardless of whether that was true or not, it's offensive and rude to say something like that to members of the group that you are denigrating. The only thing that it leads to is "No, we're not." "Yes, you are." "No, we're not." "Yes, you are." Gentlemen don't describe women in these terms.

3. When you were told to knock it off and then banned, you came back to double down on your rude, offensive behavior by describing a specific group of Kappa Delta women who you view as "poor white trash." Again, gentlemen don't describe women in these terms.

4. After being so incredibly judgmental and rude that you were BANNED for it, you return you now say that you don't view yourself as better than the women you are judging. Here's a clue: if you judge someone negatively, you are expressing a feeling that you are superior to them and have the right to judge them. By judging the appearance of women, you are relegating them to an inferior role as a sex object.

5. You seem completely unaware that Greek women exist for a reason other than to be sexually appealing to men in general and you in particular. As I said "Be hot" is not in the mission statement of most orgs.

KDCat 04-11-2014 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2269951)
LOL. I thought that was Iota Man. Oh well, whoever these usernames are, it is dumb to ban a username over calling members of a GLO ugly. Do you really care?

I can't take the sexism, Dr. Phil. It's killing me.

DrPhil 04-11-2014 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by KDCat (Post 2269962)
I can't take the sexism, Dr. Phil. It's killing me.

Normally I would agree but this is so overtly silly that I say grow thicker skin. ;)

Afterall, can every username get banned for something deemed sexist, homophobic, racist, etc.? If so, we'd have fewer usernames. Seriously.

KDCat 04-12-2014 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2269980)
Crossed the line? I was just asking why. I see different than what's in the movies. Where did it come from? No one has answered that question.


You don't judge? You actually do. I don't understand what you're upset about. That's what I see.

The operative phrase is "judgmental and rude." You don't have to let every thought you have come out of your mouth or out of your keyboard. It's rude.

KDCat 04-12-2014 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2270027)
What did I say that was rude? So it's fair for me assume that you are aware that you're guilty of what you accused me of? Judging.

You asked why you were banned and you asked why people took offense to what you said. I explained. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask.

KDCat 04-12-2014 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Oh Boi (Post 2270035)
I didn't say anything rude. If you think my posts are rude, don't read.


One more time, for the last time:

Describing any woman as "fat" or "poor white trash" is rude. Describing sorority women to other sorority women in that way is particularly rude. If you continue doing that, you are going to get bad reactions from people.

Good luck, son. You're going to need it.


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