| ilovemyglo |
10-16-2002 10:18 AM |
My boyfriend of two and half years was in a fraternity... We had a Toga Dance the week after homecoming last year. Well last homecoming we did it with Phi Delt and his fraternity did it with Phi Mu (which is kind of our rival, but not really) anyway... I was asked to Phi Delts homecoming but said no, and then the next day my boyfriend and I broke up. He ended up taking TWO dates to homecoming that he just met that week. And it was my last homecoming!! SO some Sig Ep friends of mine told me to come with them tailgating and then go to their dance. So I went down there and ended up getting stung by a bee (which I am highly allergic to!) and had to take medicines all night while my sisters nursed me to keep me from just about dying. So the guy that had been my boyfriend had promised to go to my dance with me still, even though we weren't together. The day of the dance he tells me that Phi Mu is having a party and he wants to go there instead because he hates our date functions, he never has fun and he would rather be with the girls who "Sweat his sack". So I am furious... I told him that even though he had only been to ONE of our date functions TWO YEARS before he had no right to judge them all and informed him that I would never EVER take him to another one of my sorority dances because of how much trash he talked about my sisterhood. I called my big brother and he went with me (although one of my sisters had a crush on him and had called him to go with her two nights before and he never called her back to answer so she was mad!). I ended up hanging out with him all night and we had a blast!! It was so much fun. So we get the shirts for the dance three days later and by then I was back with my boyfriend. He wanted the shirt cause they were really cool (They said TOGA!!! on the front and had Jim Bulushi from Animal House with a Toga on and a beer and said TOGA TOGA TOGA on the back they were awesome!) and I said no and made him go with me to take it to my big brothers place.
Fast forward five months to our formal. He is all excited about three weeks before and we were having problems again. It was my last formal and I wanted to have fun and I still remembered him ditching me for the Phi Mu party (which he apologized for like three months solid over and turned out they didn't want him there so he went home alone and early from!). I remembered him complaining about my sorority functions so I asked a guy friend of mine. He was mad, but I told him that when he ditched me in October I told him I would NEVER invite him to an AGD function again. I was true to my word. My date at formal got so drunk that we had a $92 bar tab!! It was an okay night, but better than if I had taken my boyfriend! BTW We broke up for good in July, so no more dates/formals/homecomings with him.
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