HUH? :confused:

But, what if my true self isn't that pretty?
Thats what I am debating on.

I don't think you spelled that first part right, tommy boy.

;)

You guys should chill and just ignore her if you don't like her.


Of course, if you want to lower yourself to the degree of bashing another human's basic right to say what she wants...

go right ahead.

But I wont.
I'm better than that.

Jess

Dehj. no one said I was or am a dicktionary of wording and typing even though i a gat a c in typoing! Typed fast spelling sucked! I think (?) maybe the point was taken, if not well:p

Inside Every Old Man is a Young One Wondering what the Hell Happened!:D " Erik Conrad TKE!"
Credit where it is due!:)

A pretty girl is a melody until there is an off note!:D

Ignoring people who stir up trouble on GreekChat isn't exactly one of the job requirements as a moderator, deja. You're pretty new to GC, and I don't think you were around when SH80 started trouble in the past, causing GCers to request that she be banned from the board. Perhaps you should take into account that you may not know the whole story before you give the mods advice on how to handle troublesome people on GC.

Furthermore, since SH80er/curiouss started the thread by asking the mods a direct question, then I don't see any reason why it should be ignored. If we had not answered the question, then we'd have probably been accused of being unresponsive as moderators. Now that we have, we're being accused of bashing "another human's basic right to say what she wants." It's just a no-win situation with some people. Oh well! :rolleyes:

Yes, the keyword is PAST. What trouble have I stirred up lately?

New I might be, dzrose, however...I have done my research. When you..and I use "you" loosely...accused me of being her...I went back and did a search. Perhaps yes, her questions and behavior was quite out of line...then...which would have required her dismissal from greekchat...but I do not believe that she has yet pushed herself to the same limit. Maybe in time she will.

What I'm only saying...and I'm not trying to be over argumentitive..is that perhaps constructive critisism would be of more use than calling names.

-shrugs, smiling-

Always,
Jess

As for doing research, it's kind of hard to run a search and find past posts that were so offensive that they were completely deleted from GC. So, I respectfully suggest that perhaps your research is incomplete and say, once again, that you do not know the whole, pardon the pun, "shady" story. ;)

By the way, thanks for using "you" loosely, because I for one never accused you of being SH80. :D I tend to keep my observations to myself for the most part until I'm sure about something.

I'm not trying to start a fight with you, dzrose. Your a respected member of greekchat...and respected by myself as well.

I'm only stating my opinion...and research was not just conducted on posts...but on talking to people, ect. I never claimed to know the entire story. :)

I just think that with more positivity...this world would be a much nicer place to live.

:)

And it starts with people like us...trying to promote less of a concieted, snobby, rich-girl, uppity bitch notion, which is what most people who are not greek think about us in sororities..and more of a friendly...caring group of girls who promote kindness and looking the other way.

-smiles sweetly-

Jess

I agree with you on all points, deja, except the "looking the other way" part. I try very hard to ignore things, but sometimes people push me a little too far. That's when my Irish temper flares and overtakes my usual soft-spoken, Southern belle side. :) I guess you could just call me Scarlett. :D

Maybe that's why we clash so, dzrose.
I'm irish too.
-smiles-

Ex Greek, stop taking up our precious space with all those z's! :p

OH BOY IS THIS GREAT OR WHAT???:D Who said that besides me?

A pretty Girl is like a melody dudaduda or what;)

This is a great site to get it out, but a need to get a long with it!

"I am not racist, I do not like anybody!"

" In side every young person is one wonderingwhat the HELL HAPPENED!"

Look at the beginning, Adam ate the Apple, gave up a rib, and since then the male species has been a second class person!

Well maybe not in that order!:D

Youse Guys And Gals or the Bestes of the BEST!;)