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It's funny, I have a hard time telling just about anybody apart for the first few times I meet them. I am terrible with faces no matter what the race and it usually takes a couple interactions before I can pick you out of a crowd. On the other hand, I can remember people's first and last names much easier than any of my friends. I will say that I am better at remembering and differentiating faces of my own race than I am with other races, but I'm pretty hopeless either way.
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I am pretty good at telling ethnic Koreans from other Asians, but that's about it. |
I worked with a girl who "no one" could tell apart. Our residents, RAs and even our RD would start convos with one of us and continue it the next day with the other.
I'd just *blank stare* until they realized I wasn't her. Then followed by the awkward "omgz, you look JUST ALIKE, you even sound the same." Me: 5' 7", dark, clear skin, from nyc w/ an accent to match, contacts, and I worked there almost a year before co-worker! Her: 5' 10", a little lighter, acne-d skin, from florida w/ accent to match, glasses, braces. We just combined our names and when faced w/ mix-up, laugh it off w/ a "I know we have the same smile..." So yeah, I hear what Dr. Phil is saying. |
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The best one was when my SUPERVISOR called me into his office to see how a certain project was coming along... a project that was being handled by the "other white guy". |
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1) Whites are less likely than racial and ethnic minorities to have substantial interracial interactions and associations. Being around other white people most of the time, with exception for the relatively few instances when you are not, does not lend itself to being mistaken for other white people. Plus, in looking at dominant-minority relations, particular statuses do not lend themselves to mistaking that white person for another white person. Even if you think "they" all look alike, you better damn well know that they aren't the same person if this is a person who has some level of power over you. 2) This is a generally segregated country and world so people's knowledge of "others" will operate accordingly, similar to what Drolefille said but without the dominant-minority relations approach. Being the sprinkle of brown in majority nonbrown settings can lend itself to being confused for another brown person particularly if brown people are not considered "worth" recognizing and distinguishing which is what rhoyaltempest was saying. In other words, these researchers had a particular research question that asks "why" in the literal sense of the imagery and psychology of it all but not in the social sense of "why." Their findings will be taken within context and critiqued as all research is. |
Ditto, TLD! Co-worker and I get mixed up at least once a day. We don't even work on the same floor and never have. Racial nuances aside, there's no reason for us to be mistaken for each other.
Me: Lighter-skinned, medium length natural hair, curvy Her: Dark-skinned, long natural hair, heavy One day, she snapped and yelled, "Oh you think I'm CG? Cuz all the black people look alike, right?" :p I can tell the difference between a Chinese and Korean name before I can a face. I just don't know the features well enough to do that. I know that they look "different" but I never remember which features go with which label. I think that, in general, it's the Europeans who identify by their country of origin anyway. The general population don't usually bother to get any more specific than African-American and Asian-American, Latino, etc. On average, I think a white person will be quicker to point out their Irish ancestors than a Black person will pinpoint Madagascar (noting that part of this may be because a good percentage of Black people don't know from which country their ancestors came). ETA: Dang, y'all replied fast. The "Ditto" was aimed at TLD. And I see what you're saying DP, that makes sense. |
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0 + 4 = 4 2 + 2 = 4 8 - 4 = 4 2 * 2 = 4 16 / 4 = 4 They all equal 4 but the "how" and "why" are different. |
So the nonwhite GCers have shared stories.
Do the GC white folks want to share a "we all look alike" story in which they were confused for another white person? Perhaps a white person who they look like and/or a white person who they look NOTHING alike. This is white folks' opportunity to be the "what do whites (your people) think about this" representatives. :D That's a rarity. |
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And you've said pretty much everything I would have said in this thread, including the distinction between the actual study and some of the broader societal issues. |
One of my bosses looked straight in my face one day and asked where *my name* was and why wasn't *my name* in this meeting that's super important.
The missing person was a coworker, with different hair color, body type, voice, coloring, body language, style of dress, etc. That's the only anecdote I have. I'm usually better with faces than I am with names. We just hired two guys named Dan and I was excited that I only had to learn one name. ETA: I have good timing. Also, boss was white, don't think it had anything to do with white, it was just one of the stranger times I've been mistaken for another person which caused frustration when I didn't answer. Oh, that and the time my dad seriously called me by my brother's name. |
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I don't look much like Mark Wahlberg or Kenny Chesney, yet I've gotten both of them. Also use to be mistaken as Asian, especially southeast Asian during the summer time. I called the University doucher judicial board justice a racist for saying I was high during an interview. I told her I was half asian that's why my eyes were closed. |
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Were you mistaken for Mark Wahlberg and Kenny Chesney? Have you ever been mistaken for another white person? |
I can tell the difference among varying groups of people within a region but I grew up in a area that was very diverse and taken a lot of course work in physical anthropology. The thing is that many people are multi or biracial and even within a regional group there are variations. Furthering that, a trait from the past can pop up due to independent assortment and make someone appear to be from a different group. I've heard/seen this most from Native Americans/Alaska Native/First Nations people of the arctic who are often mistaken for being Asian.
I've been one of two white women in a work place of a few hundred and we were never mistaken for each other. When a customer said they were helped by a white lady they knew to call me or the other woman, but we were different heights and age, as well as working different departments. I've usually taken someone calling me by the wrong name in stride as if a parent called a kid by their sibling's or pet's name, brain misfiring. If someone is a complete jackass and always spells my name wrong, forgetting a vowel or adding consonants, then I get irritated. |
Aside from the standard "Oh you look like Denzel/Morris/Boris/etc," people can usually differentiate me from others.
Seriously, though, I just wanted to comment on this thread so I would know to come back and read it (thanks to the little 'replied' icon). Carry on. |
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