Since you aren't a sorority woman and your pretty perfect princess hasn't even gone through recruitment at this point, there's nothing helpful you can add here.

I have a son who is pretty heavily involved in Greek Life at a state flagship university east of the Mississippi and south of the Mason-Dixon line. Does that count? :)

time to update my signature; you posted something else I liked a lot but this is short & sweet & expresses my current sentiments about numerous situations.
May I?

No, as fraternity legacy policies are not the same as sorority legacy policies.

Not unless your son is a member of an NPC sorority and familiar with his organization's legacy policies. Seriously, your involvement in your daughter's upcoming recruitment and continuing to hang out here offering advice on topics you know nothing about is creepy. It won't be too hard for the girls at Auburn to figure out who overly involved creepy dad's daughter is. You really need to chill for your daughter's sake because there are plenty of lurkers here who may make decisions based on your behavior.

Be my guest.

Seriously, cool down. It's a bulletin board. And my post wasn't advice but a comment on general posting. But, since you seem serious enough to torpedo my daughter, I'll swerve out of your way.

I will. Thanks

She wasn't saying that SHE would torpedo your daughter. She's just being vocal about what some people may be thinking because you're...still here.

I haven't been keeping up with CopterDad, but are you in a fraternity? Please say that you're not only "Greek" through your kids. ;)

I'm not hot about anything. I'm simply concerned for your daughter, and your continuing to post in such a manner shows you care more about yourself than you care about her. Seriously, I am trying to help here.

Exactly. It's not me he needs to worry about. I'm trying to help him from ruining her recruitment.

And yeah, definitely a case of Greek by proxy.

Greek by proxy, I like that! But, hey, I appreciate the recruitment concern. I've obviously stayed too long. If there was a parents of greeks subforum that would be different. I'll step back to posting to other boards.