Originally Posted by john764 (Post 1941544)

I would like to be a member, and I would like to have the same experience as undergrads (pledging, bonding with my lbs, line jackets, probates). I understand people will always have their opinions- my original question still stands?

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1941604)

agree or disagree?














http://www.ftmm.com/b4ta/flounce.jpg

Originally Posted by Animate (Post 1941686)

How do you know you will not get these things by joining via a grad chapter? Every undergrad chapter doesn't even do all of those things.

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1941703)

Don't listen to this guy. Feel free to PM me.

:)

Originally Posted by john764 (Post 1941581)

Thanks again, good jab- Ive noticed on this site all you tend to do is make critic others and there questions and comments- I guess this makes you intelligent because you have a good vocabulary? If I am from the young and lazy generation- what generation are you? -You average almost 11 posts a a day on this site....would it be the generation of "have degrees but can't find a job or a relationship" Goodbye I am sure you will have a remark back and thats fine I will not respond, because I might be young but it is pretty apparent that I am already more mature than yourself. bye.

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1941604)

agree or disagree?














http://www.ftmm.com/b4ta/flounce.jpg

Originally Posted by john764 (Post 1941544)

I would like to be a member, and I would like to have the same experience as undergrads (pledging, bonding with my lbs, line jackets, probates). I understand people will always have their opinions- my original question still stands?

Originally Posted by john764 (Post 1941548)

I attended programs they held, I have bonded with alot of the brother in the Fraternity- to which I have posed this question and they were not sure- and I feel as if instead of recieving answers I am being asked more- I do not know where else other than here to look for info- if you could assist me I would not mind doing research myself- thank you in advance.

Originally Posted by Prettyface08 (Post 1941871)

1)They know. They just don't like you as much as you like them so they are not willing to help you. The bond that you felt wasn't reciprocated.
2)If we assist you, you wouldn't be doing the research yourself.

I swear you guys are lazy.

Originally Posted by john764 (Post 1941567)

Honestly, I only posted this question to get positive feedback and personally alot of it has been bashing for no apparent reason. To have the same experience as and undergrad has is nothing to hide, alot of people think very fondly of their experiences pledging undergrad= and i do not think by any means I overstepped any lines by posing the question. Thank you all for your feed back.

Originally Posted by BluPhire (Post 1941872)

Co-sign.

Yes they know. We always know.

We always receive this question. We always answer the same. It helps weed out those we don't want.

Just like pledging second semester.

Originally Posted by Prettyface08 (Post 1941876)

EXACTLY! How could they not? He needs to understand:
THEY'RE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.