Wow. Someone from your school just gave you heartfelt, helpful advice, and this is your response?

Yeah, good luck, hon.

(Lane swerve)

What a rude thing to say to someone who obviously goes to your intended school, went through a very competitive rush at said school, and was offering advice to help you, a rude PNM, have a successful recruitment.

Wow. :eek:

Not only is it someone from the same school, but it seems as though she might be involved with Panhellenic.

Awesome. The OP has identified herself and talked trash to people from her school.

Hey genius, if you read what she said (not to mention her username), you'll see that she actually is what you want to be -- a member of a sorority at UF. She just might be a member of "the best house on campus with an amazing social calendar." And if she is (and maybe even if she's not), she probably can pretty easily figure out exactly who you are, "E."

So yeah, either you are stupid -- stupid with an attitude -- or you're a nut-job, mustang-riding, volleyball-playing troll. :rolleyes:

No you did not. At least not in this thread, under this persona.

^^^ exactly, precisely, absolutely.

So, they are looking for a cocky legacy who "grew up" in one of the "more popular" houses on campus.

Not "more popular," no. It's the best house on campus!

Hmm. This post you just wrote and your attitude makes me think that this isn't quite right.

I really hate when people write something like "my families house." It's pretty easy: "my family's house." Which I'm hoping is not my sorority, and I bet I'm not the only person thinking the same thing about their own.

Wow! Watch your tongue! If UF Recruitment is anything like Ole Miss recruitment, I have seen legacies with in-house siblings get released from their legacy house. It does happen and you should be ready for this possibility. Good luck with your recruitment process.

Legacies can and do get cut. Last year there was a fourth generation ** at an SEC school who was a pretty, sweet and smart girl. Remember you have 19 and 20 year old girls making decisions (ever seen Mean Girls?). Then sometimes the PNM gets the double whammy that some groups will cut her because they assume she will join her legacy group. I have served as a general advisor and yes, certainly they have the right to choose who they want in their organization. But, there does seem to be some meanspiritedness at gunning for a sitting sister's biological sister or some triple legacy whose mom is working in the kitchen while they cut the girl. I know a woman this happened to. These are social groups who have the right to choose their members and, conversely, a legacy should not feel bound to her legacy group. Gator's family members have told her wonderful things about their group. But she also said she is securing her recs for other groups. Good luck to Florida Gator PNM and I hope she finds a home she will cherish. If it is her legacy group, it will be a great group she can share with her family. If not, she can find her own new group.

I'm so glad I don't go to an SEC school I'd feel horrible cutting the girl of an in house sister or a volunteer. Not that I wouldn't if there was a good enough reason, but I'd still feel bad.