Exactly. You're only as old as you feel, and each person is different.

/major lane swerve:

no one else is saying this so I will. aishaelle, you are an aspirant. And you are not a youngster, either, so I can't totally attribute it to the millennial oversharing thing. You are bumping threads that are years (and in some cases more than a decade) old and giving your opinion. As a non-member, is that a good idea?

From what I understand about NPHC intake, I don't think you are doing yourself any favors. I thought discretion was key in the process.

NPHC folks, please flame me if this is inappropriate as I know I'm not in my lane at all. I just can't keep wincing every time I see one of these threads and her advice. I tried scrolling past but it's definitely the "car wreck" analogy. I can't help looking. And wincing.

/backing out now