And so it goes.

Thank you for being candid.

I agree with the above post if they don't want you the first time and with a senior bro recommendation they wouldn't like you the second time. Yea I suggest you go to another place. Look from your posts it sounds very selective out of 40 callbacks 10 made it. But it doesn't hurt to rush again so if you really want to be in that house rush again. but do what preston327 said assess yourself. Also i agree with the word frat some people hate when rushes use that word but in our house we don't really care if people say frat and that is not one of the deciding factor if a rush says the word frat.

try to get to know some of the brother, see if you like them. If they know you and they think youre cool you shouldnt have a problem. Also dont be afraid to rush other frats

He's right. When I was an Associate Member we didn't use the word frat or say A-Psi, we used Alpha Psi Lambda because it's more respectful.