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christiangirl 11-06-2009 06:09 AM

^^^Only your post would come with a soundtrack. :rolleyes: :p

AGDee 11-06-2009 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K. (Post 1864551)

Glad to see that she's giving the guy a chance. My question would be why did he have to pay for the nookie? I get that it was a 3 some, but with the world wide interwebz and all the horny freaknasties out there he had to pay for it? idk.

Because this was 15-20 years ago, when the Internet was anywhere nearly as developed as it is now. Back then you had AOL, CompuServe and Prodigy and that was about it.

I.A.S.K. 11-06-2009 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 1864622)
Because this was 15-20 years ago, when the Internet was anywhere nearly as developed as it is now. Back then you had AOL, CompuServe and Prodigy and that was about it.

This being 15-20 years ago doesn't explain why he paid for sex. He could've relied on good old fashioned charm to get two women. I know that the internet wasn't as developed then. That was a joke.

KSig RC 11-06-2009 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K. (Post 1864654)
This being 15-20 years ago doesn't explain why he paid for sex. He could've relied on good old fashioned charm to get two women. I know that the internet wasn't as developed then. That was a joke.

Yes. It's insanely easy to walk your way into a threesome. What a quitter, resorting to cheap Mexican labor. What is he, an American manufacturing company?

SugarANDSpice 11-06-2009 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1864509)
Another issue I hadn't considered before: your man likes how he is around you. He told you these comments to see if it will freak you out. There could be more freaky things--but don't ask. Let it come out over time. The more comfortable he feels in sharing, the more he trusts you. Let him be the open book...

Funny you should say that. One of the things he claims to love about being with me is that he can be himself and we can talk about anything. He obviously trusts me. I'm sure if I just sit back and listen, he will reveal himself to me in time. That's the case with everybody as long as we really LISTEN.

SugarANDSpice 11-06-2009 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1864604)
:eek:
If you have low-self esteem and don't have a positive and healthy regard for yourself, you will settle for anyone who shows any interest in you.

You are absolutely 100% correct. But this does not apply to me.

SugarANDSpice 11-06-2009 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by KSig RC (Post 1864693)
What a quitter, resorting to cheap Mexican labor. What is he, an American manufacturing company?

Ok, I admit this was funny.

Xanthus 11-07-2009 05:06 AM

The guy you're with has to look like shit if he had to pay for sex in this day and age.

33girl 11-07-2009 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Xanthus (Post 1864827)
The guy you're with has to look like shit if he had to pay for sex in this day and age.

It was 15 years ago.

Xanthus 11-08-2009 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1864856)
It was 15 years ago.

I know, and 15 years ago it was pretty simple to get a piece of ass. If he had to pay for it, more likely than not, he looked like shit. A threesome isn't hard to participate in, even 15 years ago.

33girl 11-08-2009 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Xanthus (Post 1865000)
I know, and 15 years ago it was pretty simple to get a piece of ass. If he had to pay for it, more likely than not, he looked like shit. A threesome isn't hard to participate in, even 15 years ago.

Hey Mensa, (tm Rob)

Perhaps he didn't want any emotional baggage. Perhaps he didn't want anyone he knew to know he was doing it. Perhaps the doing it with prostitutes was part of the fantasy. I think saying everyone who's paid for sex is unattractive is asinine.

James 11-24-2009 05:01 AM

He probably just wanted what he wanted when he wanted it. Money changed hands and then done.

]Hey Mensa, (tm Rob)

Perhaps he didn't want any emotional baggage. Perhaps he didn't want anyone he knew to know he was doing it. Perhaps the doing it with prostitutes was part of the fantasy. I think saying everyone who's paid for sex is unattractive is asinine.[/QUOTE]


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