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KSUViolet06 02-23-2009 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by UGAalum94 (Post 1782394)
That in the past there was as assumption that if a person was pregnant that she needed to mature fast enough to take on a maternal role OR plan on giving the baby up to be raised by someone else.

And now, in a lot of the families where a teenage girl gets pregnant, the teenagers stays in her child role but the family also keeps the kid around.




My mom told me once that if a girl in her HS got pregnant, she "magically disappeared" for 9 months and came back baby-free. This usually meant that she'd had the baby and given it up for adoption.

In some communities, we're seeing that when a girl gets pregant, her parents seem to take on the parental role with the baby, allowing her to continue "living her life" so to speak. Thus sticking the parents with another kid in addition to the ones they already have.

CutiePie2000 02-23-2009 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1783418)
My mom told me once that if a girl in her HS got pregnant, she "magically disappeared" for 9 months and came back baby-free. This usually meant that she'd had the baby and given it up for adoption.

I thought it was called "Going away to visit an aunt"? ;):rolleyes::p

KSUViolet06 02-23-2009 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by CutiePie2000 (Post 1783428)
I thought it was called "Going away to visit an aunt"? ;):rolleyes::p

LOL.

I've heard it described as "going on a vacation" too.

CutiePie2000 02-23-2009 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1783430)
LOL.

I've heard it described as "going on a vacation" too.

What did they call it on "Desperate Housewives" when Danielle van de Kamp was pregnant? I think they sent her to a convent for unwed mothers, but said that she was at "Boarding School in Switzerland".

In any case, this story in England sounds very, very sad. These kids and the baby have really no opportunities to reach their full potential.

Munchkin03 03-26-2009 12:35 PM

OMG THE BABY IS NOT HIS!!! STOP THE PRESSES!!!1

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-sto...5875-21227974/

I'm relieved for him, and kind of not surprised, but he was the best potential father that kid had. It's been alleged that the girl's family decided to frame him as the potential father because he comes from a more affluent background.

Hopefully he will see this as dodging a bullet and be extremely careful from now on!

nikki1920 03-26-2009 12:50 PM

Did Chantelle run off the stage? lol

Wow!! Hopefully his dad had the birds and bees talk with him.

PiKA2001 03-26-2009 01:24 PM

That little girl seems like she might be a hoe.

KSUViolet06 03-26-2009 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by nikki1920 (Post 1794320)
Did Chantelle run off the stage? lol

Wow!! Hopefully his dad had the birds and bees talk with him.




YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!!

BetteDavisEyes 03-26-2009 05:19 PM

The link doesn't work. :(

I'm glad for the boy b/c now he can live some sort of normal life and not be a dad at his young age.

rhoyaltempest 03-26-2009 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 1794327)
That little girl seems like she might be a hoe.

How about misguided? and not properly parented? These are still children we're talking about. :(

geryon 07-31-2009 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 1794327)
That little girl seems like she might be a hoe.

:lol1:

court4short 07-31-2009 02:32 PM

But....the sweatshirt!!?! Alfie better still be there, even though he's not the daddy like his sweatshirt said ;)


And yeah, what's up with this girl?! I kind of believed her when she said Alfie took her virginity and he was the only one. I thought all of the other young men claiming to be the baby's daddy were just trying to get in on the press. I guess she really did spread her goodies all around :(

deepimpact2 07-31-2009 03:05 PM

This just upsets me. Very sad, but as DS said, not surprising.


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