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DeltaSigStan 07-13-2003 08:59 AM

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Originally posted by wishinhopin


3. You want me to stop being two faced? I'll be totally, brutally, bust myself out honest here: Yep, I've hooked up with guys from DOC. It's not a secret, and I'm not ashamed of it.


WHAT?!?!?! Then what was all that "one in a million" talk?

kddani 07-13-2003 09:39 AM

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Originally posted by Educated
I'm not here to flame ANYONE.. and that is why I didn't get in to specifics.. my point is MY comments are in NO WAY more attacking towards wishinhopin than her comments towards DOC.

I have been on the board 1 week, and tried to catch up as best as possible. She is just as attacking and degrading towards this org as I was towards her.

I'm not here to be childish and say, "OH YEAH? WELL YOU DID THIS!!," but look at these comments. Nobody on this board, except her, knows DOC and they already have this impression built by her. If you really want to live by you words.. STOP spreading your biased propaganda to people and just let them bury themselves.

Cast the first stone, wishin...... that's all I'm saying.

That's funny, all you've done is flame. And you sure tossed plenty of stones, which were subsequently deleted by the moderator of this forum because they were personal attacks and totally uncalled for.

I formed my opinion on DOC way before I ever read any of the posts Corina made. If you believe one person on GC has that much power and influence, then you're nuts.

Your posts are totally hypocritical. Part of me wishes that the moderator didn't delete your attacking posts, so then everyone could see for themselves. All you have done since coming to this board is try to spread propaganda about DOC being misunderstood and how they're not all that bad, etc. Look in the mirror at your own actions.

AND- hopefully this hijack of probably THE best thread on GC can end soon.

texas*princess 07-13-2003 01:36 PM

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Originally posted by sugar and spice
Corina's comments have done little (and in some cases nothing) to sway the personal opinions of posters on this board. Most of us post here on GreekChat because we are sick and tired of the Greek stereotypes. DOC, from everything we've said and heard, seems to promote them:

- the koi incident
- the fact that, instead of apologizing, they basically made a public statement that said "We don't care, we'd rather do whatever we want than behave with class, and we don't care who it hurts"
- "Freshman girls, get them while they're skinny"
- shouting rude comments at female students and their mothers

To paraphrase Brooke from SL2, "Can we have a little class? I mean, just a little?"

It is DOC's right to behave however they want; however, if they behave however they want, they also have to learn how to take the isht that comes along with it. And they are going to have to learn how to take a lot of isht from those who are sick and tired of being stereotyped as behaving exactly the way DOC does.

If you want to be treated well, you have to earn it, and DOC sure as hell hasn't.

sugarandspice,
I agree 110% !!!

What wishinhopin has told us is nothing we didn't already know from the press.. so she is not affecting the way we "see" DOC.

Like sugarandspice said:
It is DOC's right to behave however they want; however, if they behave however they want, they also have to learn how to take the isht that comes along with it. And they are going to have to learn how to take a lot of isht from those who are sick and tired of being stereotyped as behaving exactly the way DOC does.

PenguinTrax 07-14-2003 09:03 AM

Let's keep things on topic or Carnation and I will have to act like moderators, kwim?

Thanks in advance...

FuzzieAlum 07-15-2003 04:25 PM

Man, I have to stop going on vacation. Corina, you go girl!

NewBee 08-04-2003 02:05 PM

Wow, I see that there was a little drama a couple of weeks ago.

Chin up wishin', you are doing great, how is rush coming???

mmcat 08-04-2003 11:29 PM

sweetie....school's starting, what's up?
a big hint...let the past angst go and move on. that dialogue (if we can call it that) is in the past. you've learned from every step of the way and you have a sorority. now let's see what the end game is. we're with you.
lol

bgsarah 08-04-2003 11:46 PM

corina, I just wanted to let you know that while I have not been around throughout this entire thread, I read it all in one sitting and have just been amazed at you. In places that you have persevered, I would have given up. You are such a strong, amazing lady and I wish you and the NBO's the best of luck in whatever you decide to do!

wishinhopin 08-05-2003 07:16 AM

Hi everyone,

First off, I'm totally not stressed about the earlier drama. I said what I had to say, and that's all that matters to me at this point. Still no word from Theta Nu Xi re the declaration of interest packet :( I'm going to email her again I suppose. Otherwise, things are ok. We should be getting our rush plans finalized at some point soon. Life is kinda hard for me at this point, but NBO seems to be doing just fine. Everything else will follow suit I'm sure. More later if anything of significance happens. Thank you all again for your support and advice!

Corina

NewBee 08-05-2003 03:07 PM

Corina if you need to talk your "GC family" is here for you.;)

Everyone is rootin for ya!

KappaSunshine 08-12-2003 10:58 AM

good job!
 
First of all, let me say that your whole story is awesome. Being a founder of a chapter myself, I completely understand the challenges you've faced, especially group dynamics, becoming established at your school, and figuring out how your sorority should run. I can see on Greek Chat that the challenges of founding happen to everyone, even though it seems at the time like you're the only one. You've done a great job.

Hopefully finding a national will give you the support you need to continue to grow and be able to finally relax and enjoy what you've built. It won't solve all your problems, but it really does take some of the pressure off of you, and gives you some great national sisters.

It sounds like you're really happy with finding Theta Nu Xi, and I wish you a congrats and the best of luck with that!

However, just in case things don't work out or anything, please feel free to check out the website of my national, www.kappabetagamma.org. We're a Non-NPC group, but we are very similar to many of them in our ideals. We only have collegiate groups, and we aren't geared specifically towards professional or cultural aims...and we've been around since 1917 so we have an established alumni base and staying power. It's worth checking it out!

You can PM me if you have any questions about my experience founding a chapter! :) Good luck with Theta Nu Xi!

mmcat 08-15-2003 10:26 PM

check in time...
 
hi wishin...
school's starting, anything new?

OUlioness01 08-15-2003 10:54 PM

hey Corina I hope everything is alright with you and NBO (and hopefully Theta Nu Xi), and that life gets better for you really soon!

tnxbutterfly 08-25-2003 06:12 PM

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Originally posted by wishinhopin
Hi everyone,

First off, I'm totally not stressed about the earlier drama. I said what I had to say, and that's all that matters to me at this point. Still no word from Theta Nu Xi re the declaration of interest packet :( I'm going to email her again I suppose. Otherwise, things are ok. We should be getting our rush plans finalized at some point soon. Life is kinda hard for me at this point, but NBO seems to be doing just fine. Everything else will follow suit I'm sure. More later if anything of significance happens. Thank you all again for your support and advice!

Corina

I'm not sure if you've heard anything or not. We are in the mist of getting ready for our National Convention. It's next weekend so I'm sure she's a bit stressed. But hey if you need me to check on things or deliver a message. Email or PM me before next Friday and I'll pass it along while I'm at convention.

DaisyCrazy 08-31-2003 11:12 AM

So, I just spent about 3 hours reading this post from beginning to end and I'm so impressed with Corina's dedication to NBO! I can't wait to read future updates! Good luck!!! :)

mmcat 09-01-2003 09:22 AM

what's up corrina???
anything new with rush.

wishinhopin 09-03-2003 06:10 PM

Hi everyone,

Like has been crazy hectic recently! We moved, and I'm looking for a new job, and trying to get rush under control is always fun. I delegated some responsibilities and my fabulous sister Wendy has gotten the Theta Nu Xi stuff taken care of! I'm so happy about that, I kept pushing it to the back burner because I had so much other stuff going on, and it needed to be dealt with. So now we wait til they're done with convention, and hopefully we'll hear from them soon. Other than that, we have super cute rush shirts ordered (if you look at greek101.com, on their screen print design page, on the new designs page, click on page M down at the bottom, and then look at the bottom row, second column from the right (art483). Above and below the picture it's going to say:

If you hear any noise, it ain't the boys...
It's Ladies Night!
(screen printed image)
Nu Beta Omicron Sorority
Fall Rush 2003, UCSC

They're going to be so cute! And we have cds that we're giving out to rushees, so the theme plays out throughout all of rush. I'm really excited. Other than that...not too much going on. We're still doing alright, and hopefully this will be a good rush for us!

MTSUGURL 09-03-2003 07:29 PM

Good luck with rush! :)

TriDeltaGal 09-03-2003 08:00 PM

Good Luck!

ilovemyglo 09-16-2003 04:49 PM

How's rush? Anyone anyone? BUELLER!!!!!!!!!!!

Optimist Prime 09-16-2003 08:02 PM

bump yay for NBO bumb

wishinhopin 09-24-2003 09:23 PM

Theta Nu Xi's national board approved NBO for expansion! Yay yay yay yay yay yay! I'm so excited and so proud of myself and all my sisters, especially Wendy, who coordinated this whole thing and took over for me when I had to delegate some responsibilities. She really made it all happen, and I'm just amazed that what we've been working so hard on is now coming true! Thanks again everyone for your support and encouragement! :D :D :D

efcheerBB 09-24-2003 09:25 PM

Major major congrats. I have been reading your thread and have seen all the hard work that you have put into it. I am so happy for you and the rest of your sisters in NBO...now Theta Nu Xi!!!!

Elena

honeychile 09-24-2003 09:30 PM

Congratulations!!!!!

Corinna, I'm so happy for you & your chapter!!! What a wonderful trip this has been!!!!

tnxbutterfly 09-24-2003 09:40 PM

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Originally posted by wishinhopin
Theta Nu Xi's national board approved NBO for expansion! Yay yay yay yay yay yay! I'm so excited and so proud of myself and all my sisters, especially Wendy, who coordinated this whole thing and took over for me when I had to delegate some responsibilities. She really made it all happen, and I'm just amazed that what we've been working so hard on is now coming true! Thanks again everyone for your support and encouragement! :D :D :D

Sniff,sniff. Oh that is the best news I have heard in a long time! PM me when you get a chance

Peaches-n-Cream 09-24-2003 09:42 PM

CONGRATULATIONS!

sugar and spice 09-24-2003 09:51 PM

CONGRATULATIONS!

That is awesome news! It's so cool to see how you've grown from starting your own sorority and now becoming a colony of a national sorority!

FuzzieAlum 09-24-2003 09:56 PM

Wow! Congratulations! You know that everyone on here is totally excited for you, right?

33girl 09-24-2003 10:28 PM

i just yelled out loud YAAAYYYYYY!!!!

Congrats to all of you and especially you Corina - you have worked your butt off!!!

AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME!!!!! :D :D :D :D

erica812 09-24-2003 10:40 PM

Wow! Congratulations!! Your thread was the first thing I ever read on GC. I was actually brought to it by a Google search; I don't even remember what I was searching for:)

It's been an amazing journey!

Erica

wishuponastar 09-24-2003 11:14 PM

I really wanted to post this information when Wendy called me last night, but I didn't want to steal Corina's thunder!!! Yay!!! I am so so excited!!! I am so proud of myself and all of my sisters, and I am especially proud of Corina, Wendy (I love you big sis!!) and Liz for working their butts off as founding sisters so that the rest of us could have a chance at attaining something so great!!! Thanks for making this all happen for us thus far!! I am excited to discover and learn more about the wonderful sisterhood of THETA NU XI!!!!

mmcat 09-24-2003 11:39 PM

how good is that..enjoy it and be terrific. i know you will be.
have a blast...

sairose 09-24-2003 11:55 PM

What wonderful news, Corina! I am SOOOO proud of you. I have followed this thread for a long time and I'm SO glad your hard work has paid off. Way to go! :)

ToBeSororityGrl 09-24-2003 11:57 PM

Corina your hard work is finally paying off!!!! I'm so excited for you and your sisters!!!

exlurker 09-24-2003 11:58 PM

YES! Wonderful news, and congratulations to the sisters of NBO and Theta Nu Xi.

You know you'll never be ordinary to us GCers.

mmcat 09-25-2003 12:04 AM

there you go...you've got a home...it took a while...it took some tears...but you have a home. corrina, i'm thrilled, but not surprised. you have worked so hard. now you did it....now finish the job. and enjoy graduating...
we are so proud of you.
lol

Kevin 09-25-2003 12:04 AM

Great job! Good luck on receiving your charter. I think your work there is just beginning. Judging from your past response to challenges, I don't think you'll have a problem:D

OrigamiTulip 09-25-2003 12:05 AM

Congratulations ladies!

butterfly2001nc 09-25-2003 01:06 AM

TNX
 
sniff, sniff...I just read this thread for the past couple of hours and i must say that you ladies have done an amazing job on your campus....I am soo excited that we are going to be expanding to your campus!!! I love expansion! It's great!!!!

Like tnxbutterfly, if you have any questions or anything, plese PM me!

I pledged TNX in the Spring of 2001 and have been part of a few colonizing teams...

I hope to ONE day call you all (NBO) my butterfly sisters!!! :)

HeavenslilAngel 09-25-2003 01:17 AM

Congrats Corina and all NBO/TNX sisters. I too have been following this thread all the way through and am amazed at what ya'll did. Building a sorority from the ground up and making national afflilation happen. Again congrats and good luck with whats to come in throughout the journey of getting your charter! :)


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