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No, unfortunately the current actives do not. In fact, they have very little control (individually) of who gets through. Perhaps as alums they will become involved--then they may be able to change things. But for now, they too play with the cards they are dealt. |
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I know the process is flawed and I know it needs to be changed. When I was a Rho Gamma, it broke my heart that almost half of my group didn't receive bids. Especially because I knew most of them would have made very positive additions to the Greek System. It also broke my heart that my sister and I were the only women from our dorm floor to get bids - and we were both CORs. It's awful for everyone involved. I think many of your have excellent points and the further removed I get from the IU recruitment process, the more I see the issues. I think we can all agree that something needs to be and that is going to take a huge shift in attitude and culture. |
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RhoMom -- they do. If as many women as you allege are unhappy with the process they can make it known to their Panhellenic delegates and alumnae. So, either the degree of dissatisfaction is overstated or it's another rationalization for not doing anything. I just keep reading lame excuses.
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If you are comfortable with it, could you elaborate as to why exactly their hands are so tied? GLOs are on campuses at the invitation of the campus. There have been lots of instances of things on here that GLOs didn't like or were flat out against policy that they had to do because the campus said so. And everyone needs to chill on the IU students that are posting here and think about how you would have felt when you were 18-21 and someone proposed something that to your line of thinking would completely change your life. Good Lord, I've heard of knock down drag-outs in Panhellenics over raising or lowering total by 5 people. This is quite a bit more of a deal. |
Oh, the hyperbole. Will change your entire life? Please.
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NPC can't force anyone's had because that is against the Unanimous Agreements and member groups sovereign rights. The Univ can't force the had technically due to freedom of association. They could apply pressure, but please let's not compare IU to Bama right now. The national HQ's have talked about the issue collectively and with the chapters. The feedback has been that the collegians don't want change. Maybe with the added disaster of the weather and an even more brutal recruitment, the community will begin to consider change. Bottom line is that the chapters have to want it and vote for the quota/total system. In the real world if the "social leaders" support change it will happen easily. If not then the other chapters need to band together and get the discussion going. I'm not sure anyone will step up and that might be the most tragic thing of all. |
Still hyperbole -- affects their social life, sure.
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It's simple - talk to or email your President. Your chapter delegate. Your PHC officers. Email doesn't work? Go to a Panhellenic meeting and state your views. (I'm not sure about every school, but we had PHC association meetings occasionally that we encouraged women from all chapters to attend.) I understand IU is a far bigger school than my own (less than 5 chapters), but communicating with each other's pretty darn simple with email, texting, phones, and just stopping by the dorm/meeting room. Change may not happen overnight, but it is the women in the chapters right now that vote on Panhellenic as delegates, propose Panhellenic legislation, serve as officers, and run the governing body - and not the alumnae of each chapter. |
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As Panhellenic co-chair for my area I know personally girls at many different campuses. We have a number of girls at Bama and Arkansas, both schools with huge pledge classes. The thing about having an 85% + placement rate using RFM is that girls are dying to live in the house. These campuses have point systems based on grades, volunteer hours and participation. By encouraging these things you get well rounded young women.
Have all the girls from my area made it though the process and gotten bids at these schools.... no. The girls that do not have lower high school grades and not enough activities and we tell them to keep a very open mind as the will get tough cuts. Many do keep an open mind and find great sisterhoods. My own daughter's chapter at Texas A&M has over 200 girls, while she doesn't know them all really well, she knows where everyone is from and a little about them. She loves her sisters and would be there for any of them. They manage to fit all the girls in the house for meetings, have date parties etc. She is living in the house this year as a sophomore and will be in again next year as an exec officer. Most girls do one year in the house then move off campus. They treasure their year in the house but are happy to let the younger girls move in and have some freedom. It is a travesty to say that campuses with larger quotas/chapters are not having a special experience. |
I know this is probably different for every group, but can a housing corp place any restrictions on the women who live in the house (i.e. can they say seniors have to live out)? Or do they not have that much power?
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