Re: Just MHO...
 

I don't think that her husband was being unsupportive; he was telling her the truth. He didn't sugar coat a thing or try to make her feel better. He let her know that she has a job to do and that she needs to get on it because she has a family to look out for. With three kids, I am going to assume that Sara was working full time before she came on the show. With her gone, the family is having to make due on one paycheck because I doubt that Diddy is giving them any money yet. If the band fails, it's going to affect more than just Sara. She has mouths to feed. Her husband was letting her know that. She wanted to complain about all that she had to do and he told her that she needs to just suck it up and do what she has to do. Playtime is over.

I can see how his comments might have seemed unsupportive, but I understand where he is coming from. I also have a father and boyfriend who are exactly the same way. They tell me what I need to hear and not what I want to hear. That's just the way that some men are.

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I don't think that her husband was being unsupportive; he was telling her the truth. He didn't sugar coat a thing or try to make her feel better. He let her know that she has a job to do and that she needs to get on it because she has a family to look out for. With three kids, I am going to assume that Sara was working full time before she came on the show. With her gone, the family is having to make due on one paycheck because I doubt that Diddy is giving them any money yet. If the band fails, it's going to affect more than just Sara. She has mouths to feed. Her husband was letting her know that. She wanted to complain about all that she had to do and he told her that she needs to just suck it up and do what she has to do. Playtime is over. I can see how his comments might have seemed unsupportive, but I understand where he is coming from. I also have a father and boyfriend who are exactly the same way. They tell me what I need to hear and not what I want to hear. That's just the way that some men are.

I can understand at times you do need to hear the truth and not have it sugar coated and fed to you on a spoon. I am that way most of the time. But i think there are other times that you need to feel like you have someone in your corner. Of he is since he the at home mom right now. From my opinion of Sara...she has understood fully how important this is and how hard she needs to buckle down and work. She doesn't have that slacker mentatily like some of the others do. She knows she can easily be replaced so she works hard to get it done. You can only respect her for that. But it just sounded to me (of course editing is a wonderful tool) that she just need some one to say WOO WOO WOO it be ok... just don't give up. Understand?

Was it me or did I not see Chopper hang up on Sara's husband? I see he didn't want to wake her up, but I didn't see him hang the phone up.

I think Sara is SO stressed out. I think Puff should give him a trip home for the weekend so she is able to be back with her family. This must be a tough transition for her since she is used to family life and also since she is slightly older than the rest of the group. She REALLY went off on her hubby!! "He wants me to do a bravado like Beyonce. I'm not no f&%*$n' Beyonce." I was like :eek: . Woosa Sara, breathe deep.

***HIJACK***

Chris Rock singing to Justin Timberlake's "Rock Your Body" had me CTHU.

Gina, Chopper hung up on Tony on the second time that he called the house. I thought Tony deserved it. He was really being disrespectful when he called the house. I would have hung up on him too. Didn't his mother teach him hello? I know that's your wife, but you could show just the tiniest amount of common courtesy to whoever answers the phone. "Yo, where Sara at?" No, no, no, no. That's not gonna get it.

I really felt bad for Sara when she was crying on the phone. But, that soon disappeared when she was crying in the studio. Maybe it's just me, but I have a problem with crying in public. From my experiences, tears just make men disregard how you really feel and say that you're too emotional.

And, I thought Chopper's imitations were really funny. He had Dylan and Babs dead on.

I can't wait to see Dylan get beat up next week. He has been acting a little too big for his britches.

ETA: Chris Rock's commercials were hilarious. That Justin Timberlake was ridiculous and I was laughing out loud when the women were fighting over whether Ja Rule or 50 Cent was better.

I saw the hang up now, thanks Classy. I was just kind of confused b/c when Tony was talking to Babs he said that Chopper had hung up on him, so i was a little :confused:. I do agree that he was being disrespectful when he called, even if Sara is his wife. However, I was happy that her family came to visit although I personally would have been pissed if I was woken up by three little kids (Babs did not look too happy).

Next week is a MUST SEE!! Both Dylan and Chopper think the world revolves around them, so this should be VERY interesting.

Well, I think that there was a lot of editting going on that we didn't see. I also thought that Tony was kind of disrespectful for no reason when he called the house, but then I thought, he had to have had past run-ins with Chopper for him to act like that. I doubt that Tony would just off the bat act a clown with Chopper. Regardless, Chopper could have just put him on hold, but why hang up on him? That was out of line.

Chopper was getting on my nerves for the whole episode!! I know that he was trying to be funny, but sometimes, people don't feel like hearing that isht! I would have been ready to bust his grill when he would have interrupted my talk (with Alison)!! Get the F*** out of my face for just ONE minute, PLEASE!! I felt her frustration. I was happy that Diddy did take the time to talk to Sara, then put the law down on Chopper. He is getting too big for his britches. Like when they went to the club, he just kept saying, "I'm a f***ing Bad Boy!" :rolleyes: NEGRO PLEASE! Do you even have a single out?

Lastly, I was TOO happy when Tony and the kids showed up! I was CTFU when they asked, "Where's the funny man?" Did y'all see when baby boy was beating up on Chopper? He was pounding down on him! LOL! :D

Chopper got his AZZ beat by a little kid!

As Nelxon Muntz from the Simpsons would say: HA-ha!

That was the funniest part of the show!!! Ha Ha!!

I can't wait until next week when Dylan gets knocked off his high horse.

LMAO sometimes I forget how young Chopper is and how much growing up he still has to do. Dang man you ain't Diddy so you cannot roll up to the club with no ID! LMAO. BTW Sara handled herself pretty good cause there would have been some slapping of Chopper if this were some other women. NExt week Dylan is done! Someone needed to check him a looooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnng Time ago!

Sphinxpoet

i was so happy for sara when her kids came. she has an adorable family. and it was cute when they beat choppa up.

did yall see her plucking her eyebrows. now i know that she does that to herself!! she has no one to place the blame on.

choppa's imitations were funny but i can totally understand how all of that clowning around can get on people's nerves. choppa and sara come from 2 totally different worlds and the age difference doesn't help their friendship.

i was in stiches on that one when the two women were fighting over dr. dre and 50! i had to leave the bedroom b/c i was laughing so hard.

Sphinxpoet, Dylan has been trippin' the entire time he's been on the show! Actually, most of them have been on their own little power trip since the VERY BEGINNING. I'm surprised Diddy hasn't kicked anybody off yet.

One thing I like about Baps is her realness. Sister girl keeps it all the way real!! I like that about her.

I was happy when Sara saw her family! Diddy gets MAD PROPS for showing his concern when Sara was crying.

Did y'all know Diddy had THREE sons?! I thought it was just two!!

The third child that he always talks about is not his real son. I believe that the third child is Justin's brother (mother is Misa Brim-Hylton). Puff treats him like he is his own.

I was like, "Where the heck did son #3 come from?" :confused:

P.Diddy gets MAD PROPS for flying Sara's family to New York. :cool: :cool:

ETA: Thanks Gina for the answer. :D

Yes I was like she does do that to herself, maybe they just have a high natural arch?:confused: