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CrimsonTide4 05-20-2008 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654755)
I went straight to my soror's house yesterday after I logged out of GC and told her about it. She said this same exact thing as you just wrote above CT4!!! I asked her to come with me to the next NPHC event, but she was like "Why? B/c you feel that you have to go? Nah, you don't have to go. Go if you want to, not because you feel you have to. . . ." She said she would not say this about a sorority event, but for an NPHC event, she felt it wasn't as important. The truth is that I really don't want to go to an NPHC event for reasons stated earlier - at least not right now. Maybe one day I will change my mind. So, I'm not planning on going anytime soon.

:D

Can we play "Guess What Org You Belong To?" I'm bored at work.:o:p

Senusret I 05-20-2008 01:00 PM

I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4 (Post 1654764)
:D

Can we play "Guess What Org You Belong To?" I'm bored at work.:o:p

Hmmmm...let's see...she's 1 out of 4 NPHC sororities. :p

I'll just call her lame for creating this sockpuppet and move on.

CrimsonTide4 05-20-2008 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)
I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

Hmmm this warrants further study, but I have to go fraternize with co-workers now. :)

grad 05-20-2008 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1654533)
This went from having issues with members of the other NPHC sororities to having an issue with one person over a man. Posted in the GL forum rather than your own org's forum (which would seem like a better place to ask for such advice) under an assumed name.

I'm not buying it.

You don't have to buy it LG, but it's true. Weird as it may sound lol
And like I mentioned earlier, this was ONE example so folks saw that it was more than just dealing with annoying people. This was about trespassing into MY home to harm ME. This had nothing to do with a man. This was now personal vendetta on me - I was not fighting for that man. She could have accomplished more by talking to me than by what she actually did. I do have issues with the other NPHC sororities due to the ethics, conduct of their memberS (note that the "s" makes it plural), like I state in my first post. I mean, in this particular example, wth was she thinking? Over a man? For real? I would have issues with my sorority too if I knew of more than one soror that did this type sh*t in her old age LOL This was ONE example of why I have issues with this particular sorority member, her sorors b/c they crazy too and HER sorority as a whole. Now, am I judging a sorority based on a few members? Maybe. But supporting their sorority would be pretty hypocritical of me right? I feel this way about the other 3 and a few of the fraternities might I also add.

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)
I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

I think that would be an excellent event.

DSTRen13 05-20-2008 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)
I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

This is the same for women as well, IMO.

(I also tend to prefer smaller gatherings to larger, regardless of who's attending. You get to know everyone better, and at least then if random people are taking pictures of you to post on Facebook later you know they're doing it ... :rolleyes: )

Velocity_14 05-20-2008 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654749)
If you read my previous posts, I did say this was just ONE example, just to give you an idea of what I was dealing with, which was more than just annoying people.

I was thinking that...I was like she said the is ONE OF not THE example...jeeesh.....but, grad I feel where you are coming from.

But you know what, you may surprise yourself whenever you do see her....as badly as you want to whoop her a$$...how much would it really change??? Probably nothing. Every battle is not worth fighting and based on how you handled the situation when it happened...you did the right thing. Why should you go to jail for her foolishness...girl please. I almost found myself in a situation kind of like that this past weekend because I completely snapped on my crazy roommate...I was waiting for her a$$ to even attempt to hit me because I was about to beat that trick down...luckily for her she didn't...but that girl is crazy and I just don't think she has the brain power to realize how stupid she is..lol. But no need of me getting in a whole lot of trouble for this nut because not only do I represent God and Velocity_14 everyday...as you stated...I am a walking billboard for my sorority and I take all of that very seriously so..forget that trick and all of those other nutcases and continue serving your community, your organization, and your chapter. Do what what you can do and try to see the bigger picture...

Well...thats all I got.....lol. Good luck girl!

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTRen13 (Post 1654786)
You get to know everyone better, and at least then if random people are taking pictures of you to post on Facebook later you know they're doing it ... :rolleyes: )

People do that?

Wow.

grad 05-20-2008 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654754)
I'm glad I didn't have to be the first naysayer.

There's a first time for everything!


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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654754)
A 2 year member who really thinks that not attending NPHC events amounts to a hill of beans if you're not the designated NPHC rep for your chapter? Not buying it. I didn't read her rants about some love triangle but I saw someone mention fighting over a man. Yeah, right...blah.

Exactly! Hence the reason why I didn't want my "real" name associated with this post!

grad 05-20-2008 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4 (Post 1654764)
:D Can we play "Guess What Org You Belong To?" I'm bored at work.:o:p

I would have posted this one too if I was not the OP!

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654803)
There's a first time for everything!

Says the sockpuppet!! :)


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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654803)
Exactly! Hence the reason why I didn't want my "real" name associated with this post!

You have been a member for 2 years but needed a thread to tell you where your priorities lie? mmmmmkay.

Educatingblue 05-20-2008 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)
I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

I was thinking the same thing...that's the nice thing about being a teacher and playing "whose paper is this!"
LOL!!!!

grad 05-20-2008 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)
I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

You're not the first to say that! But I know y'all are just saying that LOL


Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)
I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

SI, you just want all those men to yourself! LOL LOL LOL

grad 05-20-2008 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654811)
You have been a member for 2 years but needed a thread to tell you where your priorities lie? mmmmmkay.


Actually, I was just curious to know what everyone thought. I will do or not do what people suggest. I may or may not take it into consideration. That's my choice.

Senusret I 05-20-2008 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654819)
SI, you just want all those men to yourself! LOL LOL LOL


Just Da Bruhz™!

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654820)
Actually, I was just curious to know what everyone thought. I will do or not do what people suggest. I may or may not take it into consideration. That's my choice.

uh...you could've started a general thread about NPHC participation and spared us the sockpuppet.

CrimsonTide4 05-20-2008 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Educatingblue (Post 1654815)
I was thinking the same thing...that's the nice thing about being a teacher and playing "whose paper is this!"
LOL!!!!

I'm rusty.

One of y'all PM me some hints.:o

grad 05-20-2008 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4 (Post 1654829)
I'm rusty. One of y'all PM me some hints.:o

PM me the hints too!

grad 05-20-2008 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654823)
uh...you could've started a general thread about NPHC participation and spared us the sockpuppet.

True . . . but I didn't just in case I needed to get into specifics which btw I did end up doing.

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654835)
True . . . but I didn't just in case I needed to get into specifics which btw I did end up doing.

The details didn't add to the overall point, though.

I'm sorry but sockpuppets created to discuss inconsequential things are just lame. LOL.

BlueReign 05-20-2008 03:17 PM

I remember a story about some tires/slashing/ex-girlfriend mess in another thread on GC recently. I think it was in a HC? thread. I thought it was that same person but now the more this person posts, I am sure I know who it is. I'm used to reading papers with no name on it. :confused::confused:

You are a sad mess.:(

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 03:18 PM

ruhroh :(

starang21 05-20-2008 03:23 PM

:wassat:

ladygreek 05-20-2008 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654837)
The details didn't add to the overall point, though.

I'm sorry but sockpuppets created to discuss inconsequential things are just lame. LOL.

My point exactly. Plus I am confused as to whether she is talking about NPHC-sponsored events or the event of just one of the NPHC sororities. The example seems to indicate the latter, which I really don't get why it is such a big deal to not go.

AKA_Monet 05-20-2008 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1655097)
My point exactly. Plus I am confused as to whether she is talking about NPHC-sponsored events or the event of just one of the NPHC sororities. The example seems to indicate the latter, which I really don't get why it is such a big deal to not go.

I think she's talking about NPHC sponsored events at which one of the members of a NPHC affiliate is present whom she dislikes...

That is a problem with aversion/rejection and judgment. She needs to attempt more compassion...

tld221 05-20-2008 07:50 PM

ok. i want hints too.

and to the OP: your scenario is about people being people. sheesh, get over yourself. if you wanna hang with just your own sorors, do so. no one is forcing you to hang with all of Pan-Hell. please, i have sorors that only want to hang with their own chapter or only SGRhos. whatever man. do you.

and i too think the alter-GC-ego is lame.

AKA_Monet 05-20-2008 07:53 PM

Well, I don't believe in Sockpuppetry Theatre. So NO, it is NOT me... Besides, I have been a member for 19 years. LOL :D ;) :rolleyes:

DSTCHAOS 05-20-2008 08:12 PM

There are 2 sockpuppets in this thread, though. And that's scary.

AKA_Monet 05-20-2008 09:07 PM

http://img501.imageshack.us/img501/2997/350trt2ox6.gif

Nuff Sayed...

PANTHERTEKE 05-20-2008 10:17 PM

Well then I say the sockpuppet should show us her true identity in the form of an online probate show.

tld221 05-20-2008 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by PANTHERTEKE (Post 1655213)
Well then I say the sockpuppet should show us her true identity in the form of an online probate show.

that would be technically an NPHC event, since all the orgs tend to represent. therefore, she wont come. :(

Little32 05-20-2008 10:36 PM

You all have me. I can not tell who it is.


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