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Senusret I 05-07-2008 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by L.O.C.K. (Post 1646399)
I am not saying whether or not this chapter was guilty because there hasn't been any results from an investigation.

As for LPhiE's National Board, as Vice Chair of the umbrella organization for 10 Asian American fraternities and sororities, we have offered them the opportunity to join our organization and work with us to improve the Asian American Greek community. However, they have refused. At this point, we have no contact with their National Board (nor do we know who they are).

While I respect the tenants of Lambda Phi Epsilon and I know brothers of the organization who are very respectable and uphold the organizational values, as a whole, Lambda Phi Epsilon has been very hard to work with.

Unfortunately, I just saw this article about a death of one of their brothers from Binghamton. It is a very sad story and my heart goes out to the family of this man who died way too young.

http://www.pressconnects.com/apps/pb...NTPAGECAROUSEL


If you all have more questions, feel free to post here or PM me.

Sincerely,
Nate


Nate, I take issue with this..... Theta Nu Xi hasn't joined the National Multicultural Greek Council and both they and NMGC are doing fine. LPE might not feel your council is the best fit for them, and that's okay.

Educatingblue 05-07-2008 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1645497)
nwu43, stop talking. You don't owe us anything. This is a matter for your national organization to handle -- it's bigger than you. Trust me on this.

(And I still owe you a reply to a PM from March - sorry!)

I was going to PM him this...I think coming on GC and trying to defend your org is one of the biggest mistakes younger orgs make. As hard as it may be, you have to read and ignore.

Kevin 05-07-2008 09:39 AM

I agree.

Younger organizations would do well to understand when it's time to circle the wagons and when it's time to speak.

That said, anything anyone needs deleted regarding this (that is false), PM me.

I'm thinking about locking this thread, but I'm not there yet.

33girl 05-07-2008 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by CULater (Post 1646412)
mentioning Cornell, they have a Sunshine Policy where greeks who have gotten hazing sanctions are put on blast:

http://www.hazing.cornell.edu/incide...ngBlotter.html

The problem with that is, some of them are ridiculous (the toilet paper) and it just makes everyone laugh at it...so even if you got caught "hazing", if it's something the general populace finds funny or not bad it's not going to hurt your numbers....it will more likely help them because it gives you PR.

nittanyalum 05-07-2008 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by PhiGam (Post 1646417)
Most pledges would be happy if this "drink til you drop" was the worst part of their pledgeship.

I think Kevin's post was meant to be sarcastic (dripping with it, in fact).

And the danger of the statement above is that too quickly, these sentiments could turn into ridiculous things like boiling water being poured on pledges and disfiguring them for life.

Kevin 05-07-2008 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by nittanyalum (Post 1646490)
I think Kevin's post was meant to be sarcastic (dripping with it, in fact).

And the danger of the statement above is that too quickly, these sentiments could turn into ridiculous things like boiling water being poured on pledges and disfiguring them for life.

Yes, that was sarcastic, but as far as the correlation between PhiGam's sort of hazing and the pouring of boiling water, I just don't see it. One most certainly does not lead to the other.

While both from a risk standpoint are bad things, of course, and both would for some result in serious bodily injury or possibly death, they just aren't related.

nittanyalum 05-07-2008 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 1646545)
Yes, that was sarcastic, but as far as the correlation between PhiGam's sort of hazing and the pouring of boiling water, I just don't see it. One most certainly does not lead to the other.

While both from a risk standpoint are bad things, of course, and both would for some result in serious bodily injury or possibly death, they just aren't related.

I was trying to relate the impression that the false bravado that I think is too prevalent among guys who start upping the ante on "how tough" their pledging is/was/should be can get out of hand. Saying that guys would wish their pledging was "as easy" as just drinking 'til they drop leaves the door too wide open to suggestions that more = brand of cool/real pledging. Add alcohol and older brothers egging each other on, and clearly, anything can happen. I mean, really, how else do things escalate to the level where idiots will put a pot of boiling water on a stove with the intent to shower pledges with it? Reacting to tales of pledging with a "psht, that ain't nothin'" doesn't move organizations forward and protect the young men coming in to the greek system from boys who get too caught up in their own braggadocio.

Kevin 05-07-2008 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by nittanyalum (Post 1646549)
braggadocio.


I'm not being dismissive of the rest of what you said, but that really is a great word.

Impulse 05-07-2008 11:34 PM

I agree because the pledges did not die and were not seriously hurt, so the sitution is not that bad....but i think its pretty dumb for making the pledges to drink mixed ketchup and hot sauce. There are better ways to unify a pledge class.

To my knowledge, Northwestern Lambda Phi Epsilon will be hosting their National Convention later this month. I honestly hope this situation will not cause too much of a negative effect.

CULater 05-08-2008 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Impulse (Post 1647180)
I agree because the pledges did not die and were not seriously hurt, so the sitution is not that bad....

wow....we might have to agree to disagree on this one.

CULater 05-08-2008 01:57 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1646463)
The problem with that is, some of them are ridiculous (the toilet paper) and it just makes everyone laugh at it...so even if you got caught "hazing", if it's something the general populace finds funny or not bad it's not going to hurt your numbers....it will more likely help them because it gives you PR.

it may be funny but would you want to go through it and risk the university reporting you to the police for theft (they could if they wanted to)? (btw, that toilet paper wasn't done by a frat or sorority)

Low C Sharp 05-08-2008 10:36 AM

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If they kicked complete idiots off of campuses, most schools would have to close.
Selective private schools like Northwestern aren't most schools. For every kid who's admitted, 3 or 4 are turned away. If the accusations are true, get these fools off campus and give those seats in the college to kids who deserve them more. Bright young people are lining up to get into schools like Northwestern.
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chaos07 05-14-2008 04:44 PM

its funny how this organization is getting all the bad rep. yet we know in the greek world that there is much more well known organizations that do much worse and everyone knows it yet they dont get shit for it. its just my opinion but i think because this organization is still young compared to other organizations that have been here for a long time (which i highly respect: especially ones who actually "EARN their letters and colors") they are more proned to get hates from others.

Senusret I 05-14-2008 04:45 PM

Hush your fool mouth.

Unregistered- 05-14-2008 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos07 (Post 1651570)
its funny how this organization is getting all the bad rep. yet we know in the greek world that there is much more well known organizations that do much worse and everyone knows it yet they dont get shit for it. its just my opinion but i think because this organization is still young compared to other organizations that have been here for a long time (which i highly respect: especially ones who actually "EARN their letters and colors") they are more proned to get hates from others.

If you spent time reading the message boards instead of spouting off right away, you'll see in this very forum that it's not just this fraternity getting trouble...mmkay?

Reading is fundamental.

And I think there's room for only one Chaos.

Tom Earp 05-14-2008 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos07 (Post 1651570)
its funny how this organization is getting all the bad rep. yet we know in the greek world that there is much more well known organizations that do much worse and everyone knows it yet they dont get shit for it. its just my opinion but i think because this organization is still young compared to other organizations that have been here for a long time (which i highly respect: especially ones who actually "EARN their letters and colors") they are more proned to get hates from others.



??? what ???

Being on a campus or a National has nothing to do with it.

If not condoned then what?

barbino 05-14-2008 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos07 (Post 1651570)
its funny how this organization is getting all the bad rep. yet we know in the greek world that there is much more well known organizations that do much worse and everyone knows it yet they dont get shit for it. its just my opinion but i think because this organization is still young compared to other organizations that have been here for a long time (which i highly respect: especially ones who actually "EARN their letters and colors") they are more proned to get hates from others.

Sorry, I just cannot resist editing this --

This organization may be ........ more prone to being hated by others.
English 101 is still a requirement for college graduation. :)

nate2512 05-15-2008 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by barbino (Post 1651781)
Sorry, I just cannot resist editing this --

This organization may be ........ more prone to being hated by others.
English 101 is still a requirement for college graduation. :)

English 101 should be required to graduate high school. I took English 101/102 in high school, and I very much think that I generally do better on writing assignments, which due to a new initiative by the University to raise the quality of writing in discipline, is mandatory in ever class. As far as some GCers though, you would be surprised they made it to college with their writing skills.

PhiGam 05-15-2008 02:28 AM

I agree, I took Eng Comp 1101-1102 in HS and it helped me immensely. High school english classes (at least in FL) are a joke.

starang21 05-23-2008 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by nwu43 (Post 1644838)
Oy, I knew it would be a matter of time before this was brought up here.
Look I'm not even gonna bother because you guys seem to have bought into everything this guy has written in his sensational article.

But if you want to see this thing from our side of it as well, look for our statement in response (it will be published on Monday). Also FYI, we're not alone here trying to defend ourselves, as MGC and NPHC chapters here have also got our back and supports us.


dude is your name really hooters? seriously?




LOLOL

exlurker 09-24-2008 05:14 PM

Update September 24, 2008: Four-Year Suspension Upheld

Story from the Daily Northwestern's site:

http://media.www.dailynorthwestern.c...-3448862.shtml

Excerpts:
After losing all appeal attempts this summer, Lambda Phi Epsilon fraternity received a four-year suspension from Northwestern, said Jim Neumeister, director of judicial affairs. The sanction was the result of a hearing in front of University Hearing and Appeals System last spring.

The board found the historically Asian fraternity violated four university rules, Neumeister said: hazing, a rule prohibiting violence or threatening the safety of any person, restrictions on recruitment until Winter Quarter of a student's freshman year and failure to cooperate with the investigation and student conduct hearings.

Knowledge of the hazing practices became widespread after an April story in The Weekly. . . . They [former pledges] said members of the fraternity forced them to perform all-night calisthenics . . . and drink gallon jugs of thick liquid appearing to be a mixture of ketchup and Tabasco sauce.

The fraternity is prohibited from any on-campus or off-campus activities until at least the 2012-2013 school year. . . .

ASTalumna06 09-24-2008 05:36 PM

I just received this email today from AST National Staff about the newly-initiated Lambda Phi Epsilon who died at The University of Texas...


As part of our commitment to Hazing Prevention, we are proud to announce the creation of the Hazing Prevention portion of our website. This story, along with many others, will be profiled on the site.

We now invite you to meet Jack. We hope you learn what he was unable to - A pattern of heavy drinking in alcohol initiations can and will kill you.

Who is Jack?
Phanta Jack Phuommarath entered the University of Texas at Austin in 2005 as a pre-Computer Science major. Just like every college freshman, he created his Facebook profile, met new friends and decided like each one of us, to join a fraternity/sorority. Unfortunately, Jack's life was cut short on December 10, 2005 - eight hours after his fraternity's initiation.

What happened?
Jack was required, with the rest of his new member class, to drink alcohol provided to them by the active members at initiation. Jack became incapacitated as the result of the consumng alcohol and left alone, unattended. Jack died that night.

It was found that the drinking was only a portion of what Jack and his fellow new members had to endure. Jack had shaved his head as part of the initiation and also reportedly had markings that apparently were drawn on him at the fraternity after he passed out at the party.

His Legacy
Jack's family have taken proceeds from the settlement of their cases and have created an endowment in honor of their son to promote alcohol awareness and to educate other students about the dangers of hazing and binge drinking. The family also developed a professionally produced video regarding the dangers of hazing and binge drinking. His family hopes their efforts will make a difference and prevent others from losing a child in such a senseless tragedy.

Watch the Videos
The message is clear. Jack Phoummarath was an incredible young man, who unfortunately, trusted men he was supposed to call his "brothers", and it cost him his life.

The Pledge http://www.stophazing.org/nuwer/july08column.htm (see bottom of webpage)
Jack's Website http://www.inmemoryofjack.com/
StopHazing.org


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