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SFactor 07-27-2001 02:41 PM

Well I can only say that my dream guy is married..........to ME!!!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

SigmaChiCard 06-25-2002 08:10 AM

pbpbck
I'm not sure if I'm the guy for you, I own a pair of Teva's (though they're leather and not the ugly black strappy kind), and my black car is no SUV....I think most of the other things fit me rather well though.. ;) ...Or is that arrogant of me to say?

pbpck 06-25-2002 02:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SigmaChiCard
pbpbck
I'm not sure if I'm the guy for you, I own a pair of Teva's (though they're leather and not the ugly black strappy kind), and my black car is no SUV....I think most of the other things fit me rather well though.. ;) ...Or is that arrogant of me to say?

No it isn't. I too feel as though you fit the profile quite well!

And I am glad that you are aware of the type of Tevas I detest. Haha. I am sure yours are just fine. I trust your sense of style as it has proven to be nothing less than fabulous.

And don't worry about the SUV, I don't have mine yet either!

AOX81 06-25-2002 03:09 PM

Re: DrEaM gUys...
 
Quote:

Originally posted by bebe_cHiCk17
describe your ideal dream guy!
Tom Earp, of course ;)

UF_Pike 06-25-2002 06:26 PM


This is an interesting topic.

Here's my wish list.

The lady has to be outgoing. No taller than 6 feet. Eyes are a big must, either blue,green or grey. Blonde. Slim-- 105-120 depending on whether or not she has fake boobs, the weight is negotiable. She has to be greek (not the country of course). Stylish, I like wearing Armani...i like a woman that looks good in black or red. She has to like going to balls,formal dinners etc....Has to be easy to talk to. Has to have attitude/confidence (I personally like it when a girl can be prissy and bitchy but then listens to what i have to say). Politically active(reg. voter).....I'm a republican, yet liberal hearted to many issues. I have several politicians in my family 1 of which is a senator, so she has to know at least what political party is in the white house/ govenors mansion. She has to like my friends, even though many think they are dicks. Must not have a country accent, i hate that, makes them sound so stupid. The lady must know what she wants in life and know how to attain her goals. She has to like football, a few of my friends are now in the NFL and more will soon be, she must like a football game. Drugs---not an issue, most people go through their stages. However-- I dont want a girl that smokes bud all the time.She must not have a problem with alchohol (wine with dinner, etc.....). She MUST not be one of those girls that tries to get you to go to church all the time.....damn i hate those girls, I dont mind going every once in awhile but not every week. Has to like animals!!! She also has to be comfortable with herself, sexually...This makes bed time much more fun. Has to get along with my parents, mainly my mom. No tatoos, unless its right above the ass (lower back) or her sorority letters/symbol (ex. D anchor G). She has to want to have children. Must have patience, sometimes i'm hard to deal with, but most of all, she must have unconditional love for me.

As for money, doesnt matter.......I'll have enough of it when i'm done with college anyhow.

Dionysus 06-25-2002 07:26 PM

To UF Pike
 
I didn't know you had a dream guy! :D


UF_Pike 06-25-2002 07:37 PM

Dionysus!!!!!!!!!!!


*smiles*---your such a dork+++++ I realized what the original posted thread said afterwrads.I was hoping no one would catch that one....



*Big smile*

ROWDYsister 06-25-2002 08:52 PM

Dream guy:
-taller than me when I wear three inch heels
-short clean-cut hair, nice smile, I LOVE blue eyes
-has to make me laugh and cheer me up when I'm sad
-has to be patient with me when I'm freaking out or pissy
-strong personality...I don't like doormats as friends and I don't like doormats as boyfriends either
-has to have worthwhile things to say.
-somewhat liberal. or at least something. Don't reply "Whatever" when I ask you if you're a registered voter or what you think on a certain issue.
-passionate about at least one sport
-doesn't rag on me too much for being prissy
-able to take care of himself. I'm too young to be a mother, so I'm not going to act like I'm yours.
-spontaneous. I don't like forcing people to go out. I'm not the social director of life.
-have an idea of where you're going in life. I loved it when the most recent boyfriend and I were talking about life and I was thinking white picket fences and 2.4 children and he went off on lavaliers, engagements, grad school, pension plans, and retirement funds, etc. Surprised the hell out of me.
-get excited about things and support me when I'm excited.
-never make me feel like a whore, an alcoholic, or a ditz. Do it and we're done.
-keep me on my toes
-outgoing
-I don't care about money, I can take care of myself...but do not be a wimp if I have more money than you! Ego-smhego
-has to have good manners, like opening doors, letting you walk in front, etc.
-we bring out the best in each other
-loves me and isn't afraid to show it...I need a lavalier. If Dream Guy isn't Greek, quick! You can still join before we graduate! :D

PhiMuNursie 06-25-2002 09:55 PM

hmmm
 
Let's see...He has to be tall (the last boyfriend was 6'8) and big (not too muscle-y, but just enough to know there's some muscles there). He has to be a Southern gentlemen. Cowboy hat, boots, truck and all. BUT, he needs to be able to be a little refined and go to fancy events without being embarassing. And of course someone who will go to church faithfully with the family. He has to want a big family and be able to take care of us financially, emotionally, etc. He needs to realize I am very much like a child sometimes and he has to be patient when I get like that. It would be nice if he got along with my parents, even when they are rough to get along with. And he needs to be one of those guys that is hard for people to get to know/hard to open up to, but it comes easy for him to open up/be sweet with me. (I like the jerks.) He has to like sports, especially football, and promise to take me to football games even if he's going with the guys, they can always bring their wives, I can't be left out of football just cause I'm a girl! And he must not under any circumstances make references to hooking up with my sisters/friends. (that just causes undo hatred toward her when she doesn't even understand why/even thinks he's attractive). And he has to love me unconditionally, even when I make it hard sometimes. He basically needs to be like my Daddy.

Though I haven't found this man as of yet, I've found some that are close...and maybe that's enough. As long as they love you with everything they have...maybe that's enough to be happy! Just a thought.

Tara

BearyCuteAPhi 06-25-2002 09:59 PM

My ideal/dream guy would have to be my boyfriend!!!!!!:D

Ronnie

justhey76 06-25-2002 11:03 PM

Justhey's Dreamguy:
 
*dont want to date a guy who I could beat up, so preferably someone not too wimpy
*must be able to make me laugh
*clean cut, but still rugged (does that make sense?)
*someone who makes me want to be a better person
*someone who is up for anything
*gentlemanly and charming, but NOT FAKE
*someone who is nice to my younger brothers
*I am very ambitious, so I would have to say someone who really wants to DO something with their lives (not neccessarily moneywise, but someone who just wants to really make a difference)
*the KIND of car isnt important to me (i agree with whoever said there is nothing cuter/sweeter than a guy in a taurus bc its practical) but the guy has to KNOW about cars. there is something about a guy who is so passionate about his car that he knows it inside out that is sooooo extremely sexy
*MUST treat me like a lady at all times (i HATE guys that slap you in the butt in public and think its ok bc hes your Bf
*and last but not least, my dream man would be someone who isnt afraid to stand up for someone, or something, no matter WHO is watching

UMgirl 06-25-2002 11:30 PM

Lets see.....

-I'm realizing I kinda favor short guys so...5'6-6'0
-Eye color doesnt matter, but I love eyes that just come out at you.
-Race doesnt matter either
-For the races that dont have the cotton hair...I tend to like the spikey-out-of-bed-George Clooney look
-Well groomed I tend to like the trendy-preppy type, but I want someone who can just throw on jeans or sweats too.
-Good Hygiene....I love guys who wear cologne. Especially Abercrombie, Polo, Candies, Adidas and/or Curve.
- A nice a$$ doesnt hurt either ;) Legs are a killer for me too
- Someone who takes care of themselves. You dont have to have a six pack. And I cant have someone who is skinner then me. I like the athletic to a little husky type.

OK enough about looks....

-Someone who is athletic or at least loves sports as much as I do. I like to go and watch games and be active.
-Sense of Humor is a MUST. I am completely a nut. And the only way you can handle me is if your the same way.
-Someone who knows what they want in life and goes after it. Intelligent, articulate.
- Someone who is social and likes to go to the bars and clubs.
-Honest, trustwothy (trust id big for me), responsible, caring, sensitive, patient, sweet, sompasstionate.
- Not afraid to be themselves and stands up for people
-If they are in a Greek org. ... someone who understands the love one can have for their org and is as active as I am in it. Or if they arent in one, someone who waont mind me rambling occassionllly about, even if they dont agree, but will just sit back and smile
- Someone who is relaxed
- Someone who is willing to take things slow and let them progress instead of rushing stuff. This has been one of the main reason why soo many of my friends have separated from bf's and fiances.

Ohhh someone who will love me for the faults I may have.

XOBear 06-25-2002 11:41 PM

hmmmmmm....

* I like Red Heads, but its not a must

* Has to be intelligent

* Should have goals

* NO BODY ODOR!

* Car doesnt matter, but he should have one.

* Gentleman

* Dresses nice

* Can handle my sisters!

* Doesnt mind my occasional messy ponytail! :)

* TALL.... A must! I'm 5' 11"

* Not freaky.


Not like I am Picky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hee hee

aephi alum 06-26-2002 08:50 AM

(aephi alum scans in picture of her husband and posts it :D )

My dream guy:

- Great personality and sense of humor

- Intelligent

- A gentleman

- At least 5'6" or so = taller than me in heels

- Nice eyes

- Hair color: I always went in for dark hair. Hubby is blond... oh well, nobody's perfect :D

- Physically fit

- Dresses well - no old ripped jeans etc.

- No drug use, nonsmoker, social drinker

- Car doesn't matter

pbpck 06-26-2002 06:42 PM

Hmmm...

Maybe I should revise my list...

-still must be charismatic and intelligent

-under 6 foot

-drives any black car

-is a Sigma Chi

-plays soccer

-resides in KY

Haha. ;)

TaraHopeful 06-26-2002 10:24 PM

Two Words: BRAD PITT

ilovemyglo 06-26-2002 11:44 PM

my perfect guy...

I love dark hair. Light eyes (i like blue or green and yes there are even brown eyed hotties too) are nice with it but dark hair.

This sound funny but a very distinct jaw line. Like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt... makes you want to kiss at the nape of their neck.

Funny... I love to laugh and if we can't laugh how can we have fun together?

Loves his family and treats his mother with total adoration. The way a man treats his mother really says a lot about him.

A guy that isn't wimpy but doesn't try to start a fight.

A guy that makes me want to do things, I don't care if it is mud wrestling or harvesting fruit... I want someone that likes to do different things.

If he liked animals that would help!

This sounds funny too.. but- I want a guy that lets me act like I can get whatever I want from him but isn't afraid to say no, and does sometimes!

I want a guy that lets me have a girls night out with out grief everyonce in awhile.

Three little words, one little bottle AQUA DI GIO

Someone who has ambition. I don't care if he wants to grow up and be a plumber, but a goal oriented man will never worry about food or a roof.

Someone that enjoys learning- like watching the History channel.
Someone that likes to travel and see new things and meet new people.
Someone that will hold me everynight until I fall asleep so I feel safe.
Someone that can pal around with my brothers.

Someone who is confident, not arrogant, self concious, not self absorbed.
A guy that will take me to see Lilo and Stitch and then next week go see the new star wars movies...

Someone like my dad :)

Haha... UF PIKE I like your list. My ex boyfriend hated football, and I always went to BW3's with his friends to watch it, should have known!!!

SigmaChiCard 06-27-2002 07:14 AM

Quote:

Hmmm...

Maybe I should revise my list...

-still must be charismatic and intelligent

-under 6 foot

-drives any black car

-is a Sigma Chi

-plays soccer

-resides in KY
Ha Ha Ha. Jac, you are too much! Anyway....anyone in mind? ;)

fleazk294 06-27-2002 09:19 AM

hm... my dream guy... i would have to say my boyfriend i have now. he fits my dream guy description perfectly and our personalities together is just amazing:D

anyway, here goes...
tall
skinny (not too skinny tho, gotta have some muscle;))
awesome hands, legs, and hair (preferably brownish-blondish)
eyes that stand apart from other guys
a best friend (which we were for 1 1/2 years before we dated & still are)
very open communication
amazing personality and a sense of humor
outgoing but quiet at times, too
sporty lookin car
treats his family good
nonsmoker
i could probably keep on going but i think i'll spare ya anymore :p

pbpck 06-29-2002 03:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by UMgirl

-Good Hygiene....I love guys who were cologne. Especially Abercrombie, Polo, Candies, Adidas and/or Curve.

Speaking of which, Curve for men is the ultimate aphrodisiac for me. It doesn't matter who it's on...that smell. Wow.

Oh and Cory, I may have had someone in mind. A girl can dream, right? ;)

librasoul22 06-29-2002 04:04 PM

Ok, my dream man is UF Pike. He has it all. I love a man with a a sense of humor. From reading his posts, something about him just DOES it for me!

lovelyivy84 06-29-2002 04:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by librasoul22
Ok, my dream man is UF Pike. He has it all. I love a man with a a sense of humor. From reading his posts, something about him just DOES it for me!
Girl, stop bullshitting these good people.

You already know better than this.

UF_Pike is MY man

Don't make me have to break you down now!

http://www.plaudersmilies.de/rough/fal.gif

LMP&GAO!

librasoul22 06-29-2002 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lovelyivy84


Girl, stop bullshitting these good people.

You already know better than this.

UF_Pike is MY man

Don't make me have to break you down now!

http://www.plaudersmilies.de/rough/fal.gif

LMP&GAO!

Okay, that's it. The gloves are off now. I know we have our solidarity thing going on and what not, but it will NOT spill over to men! UF Pike is MINE MINE MINE MINE! :p

Tell her, UF!

Peaches-n-Cream 06-29-2002 04:23 PM

Ladies, Ladies, I'm sure that UFPike won't mind if you share him. :p

lovelyivy84 06-29-2002 04:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cream
Ladies, Ladies, I'm sure that UFPike won't mind if you share him. :p
Yeah, I bet, lol.

librasoul22 06-29-2002 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cream
Ladies, Ladies, I'm sure that UFPike won't mind if you share him. :p
Well, I for one am not going to wait around on him. I see that he is so busy beating the other ladies off with a stick to notice me. I cannot wait in line! Farewell, dream man! You don't know what you are missing!

Sigh, unrequited love!

lovelyivy84 06-29-2002 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by librasoul22


Well, I for one am not going to wait around on him. I see that he is so busy beating the other ladies off with a stick to notice me. I cannot wait in line! Farewell, dream man! You don't know what you are missing!

Sigh, unrequited love!

Alas sister, thine heartbreak hath felled the walls of mine enmity!

He is thine!

Good luck! Ya need it! Make sure you have a good recipe for grits!

MUPhiMuKHap 06-30-2002 07:37 PM

My DREAM man!!
 
Hahaha I hope y'all have a while to read this one, it's going to be slightly long....;)

*Tall, I like him to be at least 6', the fact that I'm 5'4" kind of makes this weird, but whatever!
*Has to be open-minded, I respect his thoughts and opinions, he respects mine, enough said
*Tan, but not OVERLY fake looking tan, ewwww
*I love love LOVE green eyes, they make me weak in the knees, but brown/hazel ones are nice too
*I like him to have a clean cut look about him, but I'm not REALLY picky about this. As long as he brushes his teeth/bathes everyday and shaves, wears deodorant, etc. we'll be ok!
*If he wears Pleasures cologne, that's a MAJOR plus, it drives me crazy, I absolutely ADORE it!
*I prefer darker hair, I've liked my fair share of blondes, I'm just a lot more into dark haired guys, yummy yummy
*Smart!!! I can't stand it when I can't have a nice intelligent conversation with a dude, I almost fell over in shock the other day when a boy I kind of like started talking to me about a book he was reading, for FUN! Woah, that was a first!!!
*Has to be able to put up with my hyperness.....I am 19, and often times I act like I'm 9. I'm sorry, I don't mean too!!!! I just like to giggle....a lot! :p
*Has to enjoy going out and having fun, be comfortable around my friends, etc.
*I love it when a guy has a sense of humor, what a turn on!
*I like dark eyelashes and sexy eyes, that when they look at you, you feel like they know exactly what you're feeling and they can see everything in you, weird I know, but whatever....
*NICE TEETH. They must all be there, I prefer that they don't have gaps, braces, and whatever, I am really picky about this!
*Sexy lips, chapped lips are sooooo icky!
*And of course, a sexy smile that just makes my knees go weak and my stomach turn somersaults......that's always great!
*He must must MUST be in school
*No feet obsessions! I HATE FEET I HATE THEM I HATE THEM I HATE THEM!!! Ok, sorry, but the last guy I dated loved my feet and it grossed me out, icko.
*No excess body hair. I am totally not down with that. Hairy backs, necks, ears, facial hair. None of it. I want hair on their heads, eyebrows, arms, legs, and that "other" place too. But nowhere else!
*Guys who use me for my PARENT'S money (c'mon guys, I have like 6 bucks in my bank account, they have the money NOT me, and if they aren't giving me millions, why would they give it to you?!) Guys who love money totally turn me off, ick.
*I love it when a guy REALLY calls when he says he will, wow, what a concept hehe
*He has to have the potential to become my best friend, because that's what I eventually want for my husband
*He can be in a fraternity, I really don't care THAT much, but.....from what I have experienced with/dealt with at school here so far, I prefer that he isn't. But that's not to say that there aren't TONS of nice ones here, I just seem to attract the bad ones occasionally, oops! :rolleyes:
*Don't really care about the cool car, just no station wagons or mini-vans please
*He has to have goals/dreams/ambitions, etc. and not be afraid to talk about them
*Has to realize that I am NOT a clingy person, and he has to give me my space!!
*He won't play mind games with me!!! (Is that even POSSIBLE to think of a guy not playing mind games? :confused:)
*Can't make fun of my tastes in music, I love country, pop (I am obsessed with *NSYNC, I admit it!), oldies, rock, etc. And he has to pretend like he likes my singing, even though we both know I sound like a dying animal when I sing. :p
*I like guys with nice shoes and PLEASE, no socks with sandals, por favor
*No Nebraska jokes or making fun of me for saying "y'all".....I am sorry, I just don't understand what is SO wrong with Nebraska, I love it!!
*He has to have all five senses
*I also worry, like....a LOT!!! I am one of those people who worries about stupid stupid things that will most likely NEVER happen, but I like to be extra careful, just....in case! So, if he can deal with THAT, then I will know it's love hahaha

Ok, I am totally shutting up now! After reading over this, I realize my expectations are a little....out there, but hey, this is my "dream" man right? ;)

Dionysus 07-01-2002 08:56 AM

I'm too young to get serious ya'll, at this point I only want a guy to be my TROPHY. :p

So if he's not:
1. An athlete
2. OR Greek
3. Coveted (all the ladies want him)
Don't even talk to me.

Most important if he's not in college or don't have a college education DON'T EVEN LOOK AT ME!

But, if and when I want to get serious with a guy I probably want him to be the opposite of the first three.

CrimsonLadybug 07-17-2007 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bebe_cHiCk17 (Post 91603)
It's a pretty long story! I'll make it short though! I hung out with him (Steven) for about 2 weeks straight. One night (a Saturday night) we went to his house after a party and had the best time (not like that.. he wasn't ever that lucky). I left at about 4am to go meet up with my friend at a party b/c i was staying the night with her and Steven called me, and we talked for another hour! I was really thinking things were great. Then i screwed it up the next night b/c we sorta had plans but not official and i never called him like i was supposed to b/c i was with other people all day at the beach and they had told us to come out to a party later so we took showers and went straight there.. he called me and i told him i couldnt talk b/c the cops were busting it and then when i called back he didnt answer. he has caller id.. he hasnt called since and i havent called him. SaDnEsS!

So this just proves that I am sooooooooooo not over my ex whose name is Steven, lives in Texas and loves to talk. I'm reading your story and if it hadn't been for your description, which doesn't fit him, I'd have to ask if it was my ex. LOL Not that that would be bad. It would mean that he was no longer with the skanky tramp he dumped me for :eek:


And so in answer to the thread....LOL:

Any Gilmore Girls on this thread? My dream guy is Jess Mariano. No, seriously, Jess has EVERYTHING I look for in a guy. He's positively gorgeous. I love dark haired guys who are thin and shortish and have their own style. It's the indie kid in me, I suppose. Plus, Jess is smart, a big city kid, a great conversationalist, he loves music and books, and is super romantic (Distillers tickets to make up for behaving like an ass....MARRY ME!!! No, really, I screamed it at my television). And the whole bookstore owner/book printer gig in his last appearance on the show doesn't hurt his image at all.

Fictional character not withstanding, I am totally in love with Jess. I even dig his bad boy qualities because he always lets them go when he's around Rory (er...me?). The only thing I would change is trade Jess' car for the cherried black Charger Milo's leaning on on my desktop. ;)

AOII_LB93 07-17-2007 10:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CrimsonLadybug (Post 1486422)
So this just proves that I am sooooooooooo not over my ex whose name is Steven, lives in Texas and loves to talk. I'm reading your story and if it hadn't been for your description, which doesn't fit him, I'd have to ask if it was my ex. LOL Not that that would be bad. It would mean that he was no longer with the skanky tramp he dumped me for :eek:


And so in answer to the thread....LOL:

Any Gilmore Girls on this thread? My dream guy is Jess Mariano. No, seriously, Jess has EVERYTHING I look for in a guy. He's positively gorgeous. I love dark haired guys who are thin and shortish and have their own style. It's the indie kid in me, I suppose. Plus, Jess is smart, a big city kid, a great conversationalist, he loves music and books, and is super romantic (Distillers tickets to make up for behaving like an ass....MARRY ME!!! No, really, I screamed it at my television). And the whole bookstore owner/book printer gig in his last appearance on the show doesn't hurt his image at all.

Fictional character not withstanding, I am totally in love with Jess. I even dig his bad boy qualities because he always lets them go when he's around Rory (er...me?). The only thing I would change is trade Jess' car for the cherried black Charger Milo's leaning on on my desktop. ;)

Maybe you should check the date on your post before you reply to a 6 year old thread?:p

OneTimeSBX 07-17-2007 10:39 AM

***chiseled jawline*** i will melt into a puddle if you have one of those Brad Pitt/David Beckham jawlines...

i can work with you on the rest. the above is just a requirement that separates the men from the boys lol!


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