At first, I interpreted that post as "I would threaten my chapter's VP Recruitment that I would tell PNMs that our chapter sucks and that they should join a 'better' chapter" as a way of making your chapter not want to to talk to PNMs, just like the "I'll tell them I do coke if you make me recruit!". I thought, wow, no Rho Gamma with a half a brain cell would EVER tell a PNM in her group what she thinks are the best chapters.

This post cleared up your opinion and I really can't believe a non-troll would say that. Seriously, if a PNM likes the "worst" chapter on campus, and they like her, then why shouldn't she join? As a Rho Gamma, it is your responsibility to DISCOURAGE this type of tent talk, not facilitate it.

i already said i was going to resign my spot.:o i know what i should do but i dont think i could do it real life so i wont be a rho gamma anymore. i will just be stuck in group one talking to the cheerleaders about like how much they like llooovvvveeee like johnny depp!!!;)

No matter what you think of recruitment, the PNMs are a lot more stressed and nervous about it than you are. If you don't want to talk to them about superficial topics, it's your job to initiate a more deep conversation, and they will follow your lead.

Seriously. Recruitment doesn't have to be superficial if you don't want it to be. It's your job to steer the conversation in directions to determine if she is a good fit for your chapter.

Then make sure you go see Sweeny Todd before recruitment starts. If you'd like to make the conversation less superficial, get the DVD of the Broadway show (it has Doogie in it!) and compare the two. And if you want to just scare them away, then talk about how much you loved the blood and gore. :p

You really do need to contact your adviser...this threating cannot go on...you shouldn't be sent to standards because you are trying to serve Panhellenic....

Pretty PNMs deserve a chance too!!
 

RushLeader, Since you resent your chapter using your prettiness to draw in other attractive PNMs, it seems as though you feel you have a lot more to offer than just your looks. Well, why not give the "pretty" PNMs a chance too? You keep implying that they are all stupid superficial girls interested only in discussing hair products. Did you ever think that maybe some of these other cute girls are also smart or interesting? Maybe if you give it a chance, you'll meet some people you really click with and start to enjoy the whole process more..