Well it is rather odd that you created this thread 12/7 and on 12/8 you are at your chapter's Christmas party happily strolling. (The Look at Me II thread on Delta Drive.)

Not the mention the whole convo on PP.

I'll always love my mama....she's my favorite girl! :)

My gut reaction when I read the first post was "This isn't Survivor, stop trying to be Johnnny Fairplay" - but I didn't say it on the off chance that it was true.

Welp.....

Your "mama" needs to learn some manners.

I don't want to speak for LG, but from my perspective, that seems like "Mission Accomplished".

My friend lost a sister years ago and decided to conduct business as usual because not doing so would've meant his life was shutting down. That would've made him more depressed. He wasn't at a party, though.

I personally wouldn't be strolling at a party OR creating threads about it. But of course you mourn however you choose.

Her manners are fine. It's the convenience of your story that is interesting.

I hadn't even said much YET.

I really hope you don't think you're going to successfully put a lid on LG, Chaos and I. When have any of the three of us let someone tell us when to not post our opinions?

I wasn't being sarcastic when I typed "but of course you mourn however you choose."

While this is the Krappa forum and a thread about a supposed loss, if you truly want folks to "stay in their lane" you don't create thread announcements.

And I think there's a reason this thread is so short.

Ok, well, I am just going to have to continue to believe you were genuine in your OP, because I just can't fathom otherwise. Those of us who have lost babies know there's nothing harder to get over and my heart truly ached for you (and particularly the mom) when I read your post. So I'm just going to try to stay away from any of these threads because I really don't think I could handle finding out that this may in any way be a ploy for attention or something. That would be the most unforgivable thing I can think of. So I'll keep my delusion, if that's what it is, and continue to think good thoughts for the mom, especially, if there is one out there who is dealing with that deepest of pain and loss.

Thank you, Nittany. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

btw, I finally spoke with the mother in depth last Friday for the first time in over a month. Due to the high level of scrutiny in this thread, if you would like details, you may PM me.

And again, thank you so very much for your words of support.

Do you have access to folx' PMs?

Umm...no, was I reading your mind?

Why? Does "she" know you are putting details about her personal life out on the Net?

Having lost two myself, this is my perspective. I better not find out that the OP is some ploy for attention 'cause that shyt ain't funny :mad: :mad:

He wrote that to me in a PM. Did I miss where he put it on here, too?

You must have. It was posted when I quoted it.

No it's not.

I had a good friend that once we both graduated from college and moved from the Lou, we lost contact. Then one day she called me to update me on her "life." She said she was married and had four kids. During the conversation she would sometimes interrupt it and say something to the kids or her husband. However, I never heard their voices in the background.

Then a couple of years later, she called me to say she had lost her husband and kids in a house fire--she was the only one who survived. I asked my mother about is (she was friends with this soror's mother) and she said the mother never mentioned that to her.

Then a few years later she called to say she had had a brain tumor, but the surgery had cured her.

Her last call--about ten years ago--was that she was living in FL with her new husband who was an Arab and filthy rich, but he was cheating on her and she was so hurt.

She was in real estate and a soror I knew worked with her. I finally asked her about all of this and she told me none of it was true.

So I learned that there are people out there who have a great need for sympathetic attention.

He must have deleted it on here and sent it to me in PM. I wonder why?

There are crazy people. I've had people make up tragedies and other things to get attention or to explain away certain things.

For instance, if someone is ridiculed for being a loser, they may suddenly show up with a story to tell about how they've become popular and even found a mate. Then they might make up a tale about they have decided to start a family. But if it doesn't pan out for whatever reason, such as people starting to ask for details or wanting to invite the family to events, tragedy usually strikes. Tragedies include the mate disappearing suddenly or the other aspects of the family having a tragic end.

You need some Rick rollin'...
 

Then I must also be lying to the Nupes in my chapter, who know the story from start to finish and met the lady personally.

I find it ironic that the same person who was compelled to confirm my membership in Kappa wouldn't think to confirm my story with other NUPES I shared it with, particularly ones in my chapter.

This is just too sad for words.:(

As a parent, a thread on GC losing direction would be the least of my freakin worries a week or so after losing a child...then the party pic...was it really taken a DAY later...wow....I don't do you so I didn't post condolences because they should be neither here or there for you coming from me, BUT once again, as a parent, if this is a ploy for attention, then there is a special kind of hell for you...

I just have eyebrows raised at why a person who is sooooo vocal about everything else, wouldn't have mentioned that he was going to be a father sooner. I could have missed that thread, but if there was none, then that doesn't seem in line w/RM's personality. Hmmmmm...plus its just a matter of track record. If RM didn't seem to thrive off of being the wackiest person around, then I would take it more seriously. I sent up a prayer either way, so whether God is consoling a mourning father or sending help to someone who is disturbed, blessings are coming in either event.

Not the time...

Because I really give a shit.

Sorry, I don't buy this BS.

Your chapter is not the most credible source considering they initiated you.

He broke the news on PP. But I, too, wonder why he didn't mention it here. Maybe it's because he was being clowned so bad over there he had to find a way to fit in ala, Chaos' scenario.

But now he's banned over there so he broke this news over here knowing that some of us visit both boards.

Not the time for what? :confused:

It was a tsk tsk to my insensitivity. :rolleyes:

All I know is that IF this is a lie, it's not funny. I'm not questioning you, Kappa Finest/Rain/Jason, but I DO know that if it's attention you need, you won't get it like this. Death is real and it is painful.

My prayers are still with you; I may have to change the content of them,(especially if you're lying) but they are still with you.

To those who have supported me, I continue to thank you.

To those who say I am lying: After being told I was responsible for the baby's death by a cousin of hers, HOW DARE YOU accuse me of lying, especially considering the news was directed to my fellow Nupes and not at any of you! That is very cruel of you to even think that. Bottom line, it is NOT your place to accuse me of anything, because the news was not addressed to you. Some of you are clearly out of line and totally out of order!!

Shame on you!!