were your bottom two picks really that bad of sororities? did you actually give them another chance before you wrote them off and dropped?

Ecorn, that happened to me, I was only invited to one pref and I cried about it a lot before deciding to go anyway. And that ended up being one of the best decisions I've ever made. Keep your grades up, participate in other campus activities, and rush again. Best of luck to you!

First--I'm sorry, but I think that you should have started your own thread about this rather than hijack aeda's happy story.

That being said, it's important to get yourself out there in a positive way by being involved with on campus orgs and behaving in a classy way. If anyone asks why you're rushing again, I'd just say that you didn't feel like you could fit a sorority into your life before but you're ready now, but honestly, I couldn't see anyone in my chapter asking that. Good luck!