thanks for updating us .. I'm glad to hear that you had a good time today

and please ignore our silliness as we wait on pins and needles for further feeding of our recruitment adictions.

Lol I love that you put up with our jokes about hidden cameras. Rain sucks!! We're trying to do tabling/flyering for our recruitment but the weather is miserable.

Is tomorrow pref? Or did I get confused? I'm excited for you!

You have a great sense of humor. I'm sure someone will see that

Tomorrow is skit day, then prefs and then bid day!

cant wait to hear what happens!! good luck!!!

littlecarebear, glad that you had a good time, despite the rain. leave that opened umbrella outside and don't think twice about it!

best wishes that you have another good day, today!!

So today was not so good. Britney Spears and Paris Hilton cut me. I'm trying to stay positive but I'm noticing the pattern of everytime I really click with the people I meet and am the most myself I get cut. So I only have one house left that I like so I don't know what I'll do if Tara Reid cuts me. I'm going all the way through no matter what (I already bought the outfits so I might as well!) so we'll see what happens. I'll let you all know how the rest of the day goes.

You hang in there -- it's not over!

Great attitude, LittleCareBear. Hang in there!

Hang in there and it only takes 1.

LittleCareBear, I can't believe you are getting cut, your updates are so funny--I would want you in my house. Sometimes the process is so arbitrary. Too bad the girls at your school don't seem to read GreekChat, haha!

Hang in there, I have my fingers crossed for you!!

awwww . . .I'm sorry you are hitting a rough patch. Good luck - stay positive.

don't second guess yourself-keep on being you.

hope that things go well today with the houses you are going to visit. don't just look at the sisters in each chapter, but look at the pnms who are there, because they could end up being your pledge sisters :) best wishes!

Hopefully this doesnt jinx you, but I went back and read your thread through again and It seems like Tara Reid kind of snuck in there under the radar. You've liked this house every round and when you attended lunch. I noticed that the Britney and Paris that you had questionable points about these two chapters.


I hope it all works out for the best! :)

So I'm on break and then I have one house to go! I guess I am pretty lucky because there were lots of crying girls around campus today. I knew from reading these stories that even though you feel like you really connected with a house or girls doesn't mean you'll be asked back, and I don't think that that even crossed some of the PNMs minds.

K-Fed-Liked this house a lot more today, their skit was amazing and now I'm beginning to think I may want to rank them #2 on Pref night should Tara Reid ask me back, when before I was thinking about suiciding. This house is still not my favorite but there are some great girls there, so I can see benefits of joining.

Tara Reid- LOVEEEEE <3 Their skit was hysterical and all the girls I talked to today I really clicked with (which has been the mark of doom in the past *dun dun dun*) but now I am just completely sold on this one.

I have Lindsay in a bit so I'll update again.

I'm glad you are liking K-Fed better! Have fun at Lindsay!

As others have said, remember that it really does only take one... I hope you're enjoying Lindsay and I can't wait to hear how it went! :)

I love that this story is live. I'm so excited/nervous for you! I'm SO glad you're hanging in there, though!

Lindsay-I don't think it could have possibly been more awkward.The skit wasn't very good and it seemed to be sort of thrown together at the last moment, and I definately don't have the same sense of humor as these girls. The girl I talked to was nice, but I had to ask her most of the questions after we would just sit there in silence for a little bit. I want to like this house but I just can't.

So ranking was super easy, but if Tara Reid cuts me I'll don't know what I'll do. Getting cut from all of my favorites so far hurt because it really is like my personality is getting rejected, which is sort of foreign to me because I was really popular in high school. (I know that sounds awful but that is just where I am coming from.) And I know some amazing pretty girls with great grades who are getting cut left and right so I don't know what to think about anything anymore. Everyone cross your fingers for me!!!!

<Crosses fingers (and toes, for good measure)>


How many can you be invited to for the next round (Pref)? When is it?

when is your pref?

Pref is tomorrow and I'll find out where I'm going around 10:30 ish.

I'm crossing everything for you.

me too. Good luck!

So Tara Reid cut me so there has been a lot of tears this morning. I'm still going to prefs but I highly doubt I'm going to put anything on my bid card. I don't want to join a sorority just to join a sorority, I want to join the right one for me and the choices I have left really aren't right for me.

But there is still K-Fed.

Littlecarebear, I know that you are urting. But remember, in any sorority, there will be girls you like, and others you don't. Think carefully before you withdraw. If you go to prefs, notice the other girls who are there... they could be your pledge sisters. If you totally dislike all of them, that is one thing, but if there are girls that you think you could become friends with, well, are you sure that you want to rule out sororitylife?

I was pretty devastated when I was cut from a chapter (XYZ) that I was in love with right before pref, but after joining SK and getting to know the XYZs better in a natural setting, I know I wouldn't have fit in with XYZ.

Strangely, I had deja vu when I was a Rho Gamma last spring visiting their chapter during skit round. It brought up the same feelings I had experienced three years ago, of feeling like I fit just because of how the members treated me and my RG buddy, and how their skit portrayed them as a diverse, hilarious, outgoing group of women. I had to remind myself of how they are outside of recruitment, and how chapters want to have as broad appeal as possible so they have their choice of PNMs.

It really stung when I got cut from XYZ, but I am so glad they did, because I would not have been happy there.

Try to make the most out of your preference parties today. You might see K-Fed as your home, since you seemed to have enjoyed them lately. Have fun today and I hope you make the best decision for you.

LittleCareBear, you have displayed a great attitude and I'm glad you are going to your pref parties. Try to keep an open mind and really see what the girls are all about. Rush can be deceptive. If there's no connection, don't rank, but who knows - maybe you will see something you didn't see before. Good luck!

LittleCareBear, go to the K-Fed pref party. At least give them a chance. If they give you a bid take it and see how things go. Try it for a while and see if it is for you. Just don't just write them off now. If it doesn't work out then drop out before initiation. Good luck to you.

PLEASE give them a chance. Remember, if they invited you to pref., they want YOU. They see something they really like in YOU - so see if you can't see yourself with these women. Trust me (and hundreds of other sorority women) sometimes the chapter can see where you would fit in a little clearer than you can - that's what we mean when we say you'll end up where you are meant to. I hope that is what happens for you!

This is one of those rare instances when K-Fed could be a good thing!! ;)

Oh no! I am so sad for you!!

You should definitely give the other two houses a chance, though. You might be really surprised! I have enjoyed reading your story so much I know that you must be a very intelligent and fun person to be around, so whatever chapter gets you is very very lucky! I really wish you good luck and I hope it works out. I never thought I'd say this but, thank goodness for K-Fed! ;)

Hey, K-Fed is better than Britney right now!

So this could possibly be the most surprising thread ever. I basically cried with my friends all day and went to prefs fully intending to withdraw. But I liked Lindsay Lohan so much that I was nearly crying and just suicided them.



Bet you didn't see that coming, did ya?

So we'll see what happens, I really feel like I made the right decision and if I get the dreaded phone call tomorrow I'll be sad, but I'll know it is meant to be. And if I get a bid and love it, it is meant to be. And if I get a bid and decided not to pledge after a week or so of giving it a shot, it is meant to be. K-Fed tonight just solidified my decision.

WOW! You're right, that is a surprise! Best of luck, LittleCareBear!

Well done for sticking it out, rush is full of surprises! I hope you get your wish :).

That is so great that you stuck it out through pref. I hope you get Lindsay!