About the points/swap thing ... I know many chapters have DDs that drive the girls to the swap, and they are required to go back to the sorority house afterward with their DDs.

So even if a girl was really into you, she would have to jump through a lot of hoops to get back with you later in the night .. and ya know what? That's just not classy at all.

Ohh ohh, I wanna play.

I believe it was kd / ddd / kat

Whoo hoooo Animate! You rock!!:p

i totally agree! its not classy and does not live up to the tradition and values we hold in the south.

For the record...not all the sororities use a points system. So, you have no way of knowing whether they are there for the points or not. So, maybe they don't have to gather points. Maybe they are there to have fun with their sisters. And just maybe, they just don't want anything to do with you.

It's not necessarily about image. It's about their sisters' safety. When my friend was pledging Phi Mu, she told me that her chapter had a rule that they weren't allowed on the second floor of fraternity houses or anywhere else in the house that wasn't a "common" area to prevent any chance of date rape or of girls feeling pressured to do things that they didn't want to do with guys.

It's just a BS excuse girls give when they don't find a guy attractive; sounds like it's time for you to hit the gym.

kevlar, why dont you just tell me a rush line? or better, i can tell you a few that were told to me!

when i rushed, i was told some stuff that would make a man seem like Fabio:

A) "ya man u can just grab a couple girls after a swap and take them back your place. unless ofcourse the president wants to do them."

B) "i took a girl after one of our parties back to lakeside and did her in the elevator"

C) "this pool table [it was in the fraternity house] is filthy...so much has happened on it"

D) "the girls usually just get really get drunk and [insert curse word] here on the couch

E) "i got a girl the first week i was here...we did in the kitchen of our fraternity house"

F) "the girls here are as h***y as we are...they just wanna [insert curse word]


OH and one alumni in a good fraternity told me (very drunk)

"im not gonna bull---- you and give you a bunch of rush lines, but i can say going greek gives you something to do"

so kevlar, maybe we can exchange some more rush lines? just send me a message.



after all of that, its to the girls credit and responsibility not to sleep around...i couldn't image what the guys would say if they did

And your dumb ass fell for it...

Here's the deal - these lines reduce women to sex objects. The vast majority of women are not going to like that - worry more about developing a relationship with a woman, and sex will be a component of that. Most sorority women are intelligent, complex people who are not going to jump on anything with a fraternity jersey. That is not to say they are not sexual beings - but they are probably not sluts, and you simply are not going to have much success if you treat them as such.
I hope you did not pledge based on the rush lines you were fed. You should want to be a part of a fraternity because you want to be a part of a brotherhood, not so they can pimp for you. (!)

Gamma Phi Beta girl...i AGREE with you...i love the Greek system...but i might run for president b/c i really want to revamp the degragation and lies told to recruit members to their fraternity. also, i realize now that any guy (thats Caucasian) can get into ANY fraternity...the fraternities need members and saying "oh we close bidding mid summer...." is usually just a lie to make it seem like a big deal for the pledge.

if the fraternities did not make it seem like getting a bid was a big deal...who would pay 2200 dollars to join? we have rules saying to limit convo's with GDI's...only b/c this raises our own confidence like "oh we're better"

i know all the corruption in our Greek system at UA and i hope to run for president one day to make a change

kddani...i DID fall for it...but i now i realize you aren't a slut.

i feel differently now..fraternities should recruit based on the pride of their brotherhood...and not to degrade women like kddani like objects for our pleasure

LOL!
Wut Dee Fuk?!

Maybe it's a a weird backhanded compliment? I think he means to say that NPHC fraternity recruitment is more selective at UA as compared to IFC.

Oh sweetheart, I would try to make a change first by referring to non-greeks as such... and not as GDIs. I know the greek world at UA is very insular, but not following that rule about not talking to non-greeks and becoming open to meeting some peeps outside the greek system would probably help.

yeah thats what i thought!

What fraternity are you in again? I know for a fact that, at UA, there are a lot of houses you can't get into unless you have prior connections.

I think he said he is an AKL.

By the way, LXA, how are renovations coming on your chapter house? I haven't been on campus in a month or so, and I haven't been on New Row to see what's being done to your chapter house.

The house is actually ahead of schedule, it may even be done by mid to late June. We discussed it tonight at chapter as a matter of fact. It's coming along great though, should be really nice. Gonna be a lot of guys living there too... plus a pretty big band room.

Any/every guy can NOT get into any fraternity he wants at Bama sir.

Sam, Sam, Sam... I encourage you to PLEASE stop posting before you find yourself even deeper in crap, man. You have made many immature, ignorant comments and you are definitely not doing much to promote AKLs at Alabama or fraternities in general.

Were you really so naive to believe all of those stories you heard during rush and pledge solely on principles of "booze and babes"? Sounds to me like your first step should have been towards the health department for STD testing after you left that rush event!

I second that!

Sam, we here are sorry that you fell for a rush line. It's a sad thing that you fell for it, but I think it's even sadder that you were actually being rushed. Please do us all a favor and let this conversation drop, you are doing nothing productive right now. You are only tarnishing the image of greeks here at Alabama, and your GLO. We have very classy ladies here at UA, and I'm sure none of them appreciate your comments.

From his posts, it is hard to imagine he is 18. He sounds more in the 15 or 16 range. It's sad

Thirded. Each post I read from this guy is more and more of a trainwreck.

Awe...wait for it...some!!!

My advice to you is either improving yourself or lowering your standards. With your personality I’d suggest shooting low, real low.

who said i was in akl.


and yes i agree our girls are classy.

these are the kind of women all men dream of marrying b/c of their moral values and class

You did, in post #3, before you so conveniently edited it out.

Sam,
Software that scrapes the screens is easy to purchase. Deleting any words does not always hide what was previously posted. Be careful!

Make up your mind! Are the females classy or prudes?

Oh pleeeeez moderator, shut this thread down!!!!

i would like to stay anonymous b/c i dont wanna put anyone down

and yes they are classy which means they dont just sleep around with guys and date and stuff

roll tides

I'm confused:confused:

huh? i mean our girls at bama are classy and dont just sleep with guys and date and save themselves for marriage/serious relationship etc..

im proud to be a part of UA. i love it.

Are you saying that dating means your have no moral values? Sir, you need to get out more often

BTW...we know you love Alabama. You are beating it to death.

Because not saying your affiliation is related to not putting anyone down...how?

You make no sense.

I am still not convinced that he even attends the school. For all we know, he might just be a 14 year old boy with no social skills IRL.

LOL. Please don't! I find this highly entertaining.

your not goin to understand benzgirl unless ur from bama

and i dont care if u believe me or not anymore. my question has been answered.


thanks to all!

I call BS. You're going to start a new thread asking the same question in about 2-3 weeks or so.

'Bama collegians/alumni/parents of current students have already called you out, so it's obvious who the ignorant one is here.

Your Statements are insane
 

His First Post to GC:
PLEASE HELP! I am SO CONFUSED with GREEK life.
ok im going to the UNIVERSITY OF ALABAMA!. it is my understanding joining a fraternity at Alabama (according to the brothers of the fraternities ive rushed) im paying for a brotherhood and to get girls and to party. they told me that A) ill have a life long brotherhood B) "i can just grab a couple girls at the end of a party and take them to my room" (which i honestly i felt offended even tho i am a guy) C)plenty of partying


also, i asked them bout old row fraternities and how they differ from new ones and they said they dont really. but i have a feeling old row gets more girls...


PLEASE HELP ME! SCHOOL STARTS SOOOO SOON AND I WANT TO BE INFORMED OF WHATS TRUE AND WHATS NOT!!!

Where is drolefille? I bet she could help . . .