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IncontRHOllable 06-26-2007 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by mccoyred (Post 1472303)
D9 has set trends over the last 100 years and will continue to set trends well into the next 100 years.

I used to get upset if some non-D9 group did anything remotely related to our traditions. Now, I just shake my head and move on because imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. *shrugs shoulders*

I think that some of the GLO's borrow from the D9 because they think its cool and that's ok to me. What McCoyred said.

frattypalmtree 06-26-2007 01:50 AM

i find a lot of this thread to be racist.

what if i said it annoyed me to see african american men wearing polos, driving pickup trucks, and hunting ducks with their yellow labs? i mean come on people. you people need to just let people do and be what they wanna be and do.

DSTCHAOS 06-26-2007 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by frattypalmtree (Post 1474023)
i find a lot of this thread to be racist.

So are the Geico cavemen commercials. :(

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Originally Posted by frattypalmtree (Post 1474023)
what if i said it annoyed me to see african american men wearing polos, driving pickup trucks, and hunting ducks with their yellow labs?

That would be your opinion. And if it was associated with particular IFC fraternity practices that black men in the NPHC fraternities adopted, your opinion would make sense.

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Originally Posted by frattypalmtree (Post 1474023)
i mean come on people. you people need to just let people do and be what they wanna be and do.

Well we all certainly enjoy being called "you people."

cheerfulgreek 06-26-2007 07:12 PM

OMG! lol :p at the Geico caveman comment.

BlueNYC2 06-26-2007 09:42 PM

I personally dont care if non-nphc orgs step, chant, stroll/party-hop/party-walk, have line names/#s...like someone said...imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

cutie_cat_4ever 06-26-2007 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1472276)
In the past few years, I've seen several NPC and NIC groups' websites where they make reference to their "sands", "crossing", "line brothers/sisters" and other terms that previously were used pretty much exclusively by NPHC groups. A lot of the time, these are at schools that aren't just predominantly white, they're REALLY predominantly white.

Does this tick you off, or do you just find it sort of silly?

Not just NPC/NIC groups, a lot of MGLOs (esp Hispanics and Asians) heavily used the terms "syands" (which I assume is the same as "sands"?) and have line jackets too. Not to mention they perform "steps" quite often at cultural shows etc.

Senusret I 06-26-2007 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by cutie_cat_4ever (Post 1475060)
Not just NPC/NIC groups, a lot of MGLOs (esp Hispanics and Asians) heavily used the terms "syands" (which I assume is the same as "sands"?) and have line jackets too. Not to mention they perform "steps" quite often at cultural shows etc.

FLAG ON THE MOTHERLOVIN PLAY!

SYANDS is not a real term. Whoever invented it is wack and whoever perpetuates it is wacker -- and PLEASE tell anyone who uses it that I said so!

They say it means "Same Year AND Semester."

Do not, I repeat, DO NOT let any of your friends use this term.

cutie_cat_4ever 06-26-2007 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1475066)
FLAG ON THE MOTHERLOVIN PLAY!

SYANDS is not a real term. Whoever invented it is wack and whoever perpetuates it is wacker -- and PLEASE tell anyone who uses it that I said so!

They say it means "Same Year AND Semester."

Do not, I repeat, DO NOT let any of your friends use this term.

lol, I litterally had this image of you taking a glove and smacking people :D

BlueNYC2 06-26-2007 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1475066)
FLAG ON THE MOTHERLOVIN PLAY!

SYANDS is not a real term. Whoever invented it is wack and whoever perpetuates it is wacker -- and PLEASE tell anyone who uses it that I said so!

They say it means "Same Year AND Semester."

Do not, I repeat, DO NOT let any of your friends use this term.


true fuckin story!!! i hate that SYANDS shit...i also hate when pplz call their own LB/LS sands...i mean ya'll from the same line, not another chapter you locked up with...sorry, thats just a pet peeve i have.

Senusret I 06-26-2007 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueNYC2 (Post 1475084)
true fuckin story!!! i hate that SYANDS shit...i also hate when pplz call their own LB/LS sands...i mean ya'll from the same line, not another chapter you locked up with...sorry, thats just a pet peeve i have.


Well you can call your LB or LS your sands because...literally.....well..... discretion, but you know what I mean. :)

Phrozen1ne 06-27-2007 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1473780)
Beginning with s and ending with p? :D

BINGO my fellow SIUC Alum!

jubilance1922 06-27-2007 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by BlueNYC2 (Post 1475084)
true fuckin story!!! i hate that SYANDS shit...i also hate when pplz call their own LB/LS sands...i mean ya'll from the same line, not another chapter you locked up with...sorry, thats just a pet peeve i have.

Cali folks do that all the time, and I don't have a problem with that (calling lb/ls "sands"). There's diferent lingo in different parts of the country.

But that syands thing is ungood. :(

33girl 06-27-2007 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by cutie_cat_4ever (Post 1475080)
lol, I litterally had this image of you taking a glove and smacking people :D

That's hot.

PrettyBoy 06-27-2007 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1473416)
But that is my point. Rather than to continue to allow that to happen a support group was formed--Alpha Omega, which I guess became Kappa Alpha Nu. Thus those 10 Black men saw each other often I would assume.

Having first gone to a PWI that only had 50 Black students, we found ways to get together and be each other's support. So was IU's campus so big that folx literally didn't see each other?

Exactly. Not only did they not want this to continue, but they also didn't like the fact that blacks were not allowed to share the same facilities at IU either. Before two of our founding fathers left Howard to attend IU, there were only 10 black students attending IU, so they really would go weeks without seeing another black student.

NinjaPoodle 06-27-2007 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jubilance1922 (Post 1475229)
Cali folks do that all the time, and I don't have a problem with that (calling lb/ls "sands"). There's diferent lingo in different parts of the country.

Yes, we do.:)

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Originally Posted by jubilance1922 (Post 1475229)

But that syands thing is ungood. :(

Agreed

TheEpitome1920 06-27-2007 12:12 PM

Esqueeze me.
What is syands?

NinjaPoodle 06-27-2007 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TheEpitome1920 (Post 1475395)
Esqueeze me.
What is syands?

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1475066)
FLAG ON THE MOTHERLOVIN PLAY!

SYANDS is not a real term. Whoever invented it is wack and whoever perpetuates it is wacker -- and PLEASE tell anyone who uses it that I said so!

They say it means "Same Year AND Semester."Do not, I repeat, DO NOT let any of your friends use this term.


:D giggle, snicker

ladygreek 06-27-2007 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueNYC2 (Post 1475084)
true fuckin story!!! i hate that SYANDS shit...i also hate when pplz call their own LB/LS sands...i mean ya'll from the same line, not another chapter you locked up with...sorry, thats just a pet peeve i have.

There was a time when your lb or ls did not necessarily become your sands/ship. So the term was used to make the distinction.

rhoyaltempest 06-27-2007 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1473124)
I don't think anyone said that the Founders of our orgs did not create our rituals, but maybe the rits were influenced by other orgs such as the Masons, OES, or even other GLOs. Unless you talked to your Founders personally how would you know this didn't happen?


Just how unique are we? And to say our traditions imitate no other is incorrect. In fact the history of stepping did not start with BGLOs. And many of the traditions to which you refer began in the last 30 years are less--crossing jackets, hand signs, calls, etc. And as I said before even the term Sands is not universally used the same within the NPHC.


Interesting analogy since most of the NPHC orgs were founded at a HBCU. And if Black folx went for weeks at a PWI without seeing another Black student, how in the heck were they able to form a fraternity/sorority? There had to have been some kind of mechanism for them to come together.

Actually since I went to two different PWI's it's not hard at all for me to see this being the case and I'm sure that it was. One school I went to in upstate Pennsylvania (where the Black population was damn near non-existent in the early 90's and still not all that plentiful today), had a Black population so small that we all knew eachother personally, and yes we could go all day without seeing another Black person. The only reason we saw eachother some days at all is because we made it a point to meet in the cafeteria for dinner. We also became friends so we hung out in eachother's rooms and we also had a Black Student Union so that is how we were able to do things together and socialize with one another. I believe creating these kinds of groups is how our founders and others at PWI's stayed connected and later formed greek letter organizations.

Glitter650 06-27-2007 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1472276)
In the past few years, I've seen several NPC and NIC groups' websites where they make reference to their "sands", "crossing", "line brothers/sisters" and other terms that previously were used pretty much exclusively by NPHC groups. A lot of the time, these are at schools that aren't just predominantly white, they're REALLY predominantly white.

Does this tick you off, or do you just find it sort of silly?



I'm suprised that any NPC group would allow this as those terms (at least "crosing") are no-no words like "pledge"

rhoyaltempest 06-27-2007 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1473124)
I don't think anyone said that the Founders of our orgs did not create our rituals, but maybe the rits were influenced by other orgs such as the Masons, OES, or even other GLOs. Unless you talked to your Founders personally how would you know this didn't happen?


Just how unique are we? And to say our traditions imitate no other is incorrect. In fact the history of stepping did not start with BGLOs. And many of the traditions to which you refer began in the last 30 years are less--crossing jackets, hand signs, calls, etc. And as I said before even the term Sands is not universally used the same within the NPHC.

When people say this they really need to clarify because it invalidates the role that NPHC greeks played as the creators of the art form we see and practice today as stepping. While the history of stepping can be traced to African tradition (and so can other things we do), what we have come to know as stepping in this country, what we are all practicing, what many are now imitating, did in fact begin with the NPHC orgs so let's not take away the credit that our brothers and sisters deserve in creating the artform as it exists today because that's not right or fair. And I see a lot of people these days...greek and non-greek trying to do this. So let's not do this or allow others to do it because we all know that once you allow others to take your shine, you'll never get it back.

rhoyaltempest 06-27-2007 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1473124)
I don't think anyone said that the Founders of our orgs did not create our rituals, but maybe the rits were influenced by other orgs such as the Masons, OES, or even other GLOs. Unless you talked to your Founders personally how would you know this didn't happen?

The entire fraternal movement in America began with the Masons so I'm sure their influence is all over the things we all do as GLO's and BGLO's were definitely influenced by GLO's that came before them. But I think the reason why some do not like the copying that other orgs are doing regarding what we do as NPHC orgs, is because these "unique" practices that our orgs created or put a spin on have a history and a meaning behind them no matter when they started exactly. Most people who are copying don't even know or care about that history. I think this is why some people have such a problem. For some it goes really deep and they feel like they're being robbed of something, just as we have been of many things in this country, in the world. I've noticed in working with Black youth especially that we are very protective of the things we create or add uniqueness to...our style, our slang, our traditions, etc. I think this is the deeper issue for some...this is the "real" issue.

Rudey 06-27-2007 09:38 PM

I think it's something you'll see in community service organizations, music/glee clubs, honor societies although I'm sure it turns up rarely in a social fraternity.

-Rudey
--Zing

ladygreek 06-27-2007 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1475716)
The entire fraternal movement in America began with the Masons so I'm sure their influence is all over the things we all do as GLO's and BGLO's were definitely influenced by GLO's that came before them. But I think the reason why some do not like the copying that other orgs are doing regarding what we do as NPHC orgs, is because these "unique" practices that our orgs created or put a spin on have a history and a meaning behind them no matter when they started exactly. Most people who are copying don't even know or care about that history. I think this is why some people have such a problem. For some it goes really deep and they feel like they're being robbed of something, just as we have been of many things in this country, in the world. I've noticed in working with Black youth especially that we are very protective of the things we create or add uniqueness to...our style, our slang, our traditions, etc. I think this is the deeper issue for some...this is the "real" issue.

The only history or meanings I recognize are the ones in our offical tools. Shoot, other folx collected elephants way before Deltas did. And yes I lived "stepping" being derived from dance steps, marching bands, drum and bugle corps, etc., and other precision step avenues. So yes, we may have put a spin on them, but we did not create them, not were they that unique.

So please enlighten me and tell me the deep meaning behind it, as well as calls, hand signs, and crossing jackets--to the point that we are offended at others doing these things. Somehow I missed that in my 38 years as a continually active Delta.

Lastly, if there is such a deep meaning behind stepping, why are there lewd gestures included in some shows, and women pay "tributes" to frats with tongues hanging out, grit faces, copying the lewd gestures of frats, ape walking, etc.? This to me negates any deep (and assuming positive) meaning behind stepping.

DSTCHAOS 06-27-2007 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1475793)
Shoot, other folx collected elephants way before Deltas did.

I know a lot of people who collect elephants. Matter of fact, my mother and I loved and collected elephants.

When I first started befriending the women who also happened be Deltas on the yard, I quickly learned that having elephants around my dorm room can be perceived the wrong way. Nothing was said to me but I could see facial expressions. I can't remember if I put them in a box or not. :o


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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1475793)
So please enlighten me and tell me the deep meaning behind it, as well as calls, hand signs, and crossing jackets--to the point that we are offended at others doing these things. Somehow I missed that in my 38 years as a continually active Delta.

In all fairness, the deep meanings will vary and always be debatable. The real issue is with identifiability.

The "ooo-oop" and elephant aren't official and may've started with a certain intent (the "ooo-oop" may've been a knock off of the New York call and I've heard posthoc stories of where the elephant significance comes from) but in the GLO realm of over a decade, and as far as many Sorority officials who aren't blind to reality of changing practices, it is now closely associated with Deltas.

ladygreek 06-28-2007 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1475820)
I know a lot of people who collect elephants. Matter of fact, my mother and I loved and collected elephants.

When I first started befriending the women who also happened be Deltas on the yard, I quickly learned that having elephants around my dorm room can be perceived the wrong way. Nothing was said to me but I could see facial expressions. I can't remember if I put them in a box or not. :o

In all fairness, the deep meanings will vary and always be debatable. The real issue is with identifiability.

The "ooo-oop" and elephant aren't official and may've started with a certain intent (the "ooo-oop" may've been a knock off of the New York call and I've heard posthoc stories of where the elephant significance comes from) but in the GLO realm of over a decade, and as far as many Sorority officials who aren't blind to reality of changing practices, it is now closely associated with Deltas.

But again, my point is should we hold these "traditions" so dear that when others do them we are offended, because they have "history and meaning." And I am mostly referring to stepping, handsigns, and crossing jackets.

If that is the case, please PM me with the history and meaning you have learned so I can be better educated. And of course, I know the reason behind collecting elephants, but before that it for many years it was ducks. And they weren't official either.

So I am just saying in this next decade or so all of these may change. Are they trends or traditions? And what time frame indicates one over the other? To me a tradition is much more deeply rooted, and endorsed by the national organization.

Oh and as for your last sentence, that is debatable, because many hold the view that was expressed as sacred and tried to reach a compromise. And even I have defended it saying all the D9 have calls, why not us? But I still view it as a trend, not a tradition.

rhoyaltempest 06-28-2007 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1475793)
The only history or meanings I recognize are the ones in our offical tools. Shoot, other folx collected elephants way before Deltas did. And yes I lived "stepping" being derived from dance steps, marching bands, drum and bugle corps, etc., and other precision step avenues. So yes, we may have put a spin on them, but we did not create them, not were they that unique.

So please enlighten me and tell me the deep meaning behind it, as well as calls, hand signs, and crossing jackets--to the point that we are offended at others doing these things. Somehow I missed that in my 38 years as a continually active Delta.

Believe it or not, there is a whole lot that we do as African Americans that connect us to our African heritage without us even knowing it...it's in our blood. I'm learning this more and more with each passing year that I spend married to my Ghanian husband. I also read a lot about the traditions and culture of African tribal groups...there is just so much that we do that are a reflection of Africa and I think a lot of what we do (as Black people, not only as Black greeks), we don't even know why we do this or that but some things were in fact passed down to us by our ancestors, only the stories behind them were cut off at some point and not passed down. For example, the whole idea of call and response, whether we're chanting and representing our neighborhoods, singing, or doing an NPHC call, that tradition has a history. Another example is that there are many NPHC members who will argue that the art of stepping wasn't formally taught to us, that our brothers and sisters had never actually seen African gumboot performances, but somehow we ended up creating something (pulling from various influences and artforms) that greatly resembled what our African brothers were already doing. In fact, this talk of African gumboot performances and our connection to them is only a very recent phenomenon, a conversation that most of us weren't even having when I was an undergrad in the early 90's, stepping my little heart out.:)

rhoyaltempest 06-28-2007 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1475856)
But again, my point is should we hold these "traditions" so dear that when others do them we are offended, because they have "history and meaning." And I am mostly referring to stepping, handsigns, and crossing jackets.

If that is the case, please PM me with the history and meaning you have learned so I can be better educated. And of course, I know the reason behind collecting elephants, but before that it for many years it was ducks. And they weren't official either.

So I am just saying in this next decade or so all of these may change. Are they trends or traditions? And what time frame indicates one over the other? To me a tradition is much more deeply rooted, and endorsed by the national organization.

Oh and as for your last sentence, that is debatable, because many hold the view that was expressed as sacred and tried to reach a compromise. And even I have defended it saying all the D9 have calls, why not us? But I still view it as a trend, not a tradition.

I do know that not all the NPHC orgs officially and nationally recognize their call, handsign, mascot, etc. and I did hear that we may be the only one that does and I'm not sure about Iota Phi Theta. But for the record, Sigma Gamma Rho does in fact have an official call, handsign, and mascot that is recognized nationally and their meanings are of course made known to members.

DSTCHAOS 06-28-2007 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1475856)
But again, my point is should we hold these "traditions" so dear that when others do them we are offended, because they have "history and meaning."

Yes.

But I really think this is a nontopic. I have never encountered a person or organization that unknowingly emulates our organizations.

The existence of PERPS through our more contemporary identifiers like handsigns and calls lets us know that there are thousands of people who recognize us by them. Whether there is a Founding purpose or not.

L.O.C.K. 06-28-2007 09:23 AM

Ladygreek...man you're so SMART!!! :D Hahaha, I like what you said a lot.

I think "tradition" is something people like to throw around. What constitutes a tradition? If you have a health fair for two years in a row, is it a tradition?

On one hand, I see people's points about the need to possess cultural heritage. Specifically, the Black community has been robbed countless times throughout history of its practices and traditions, so it seems natural to be protective of it. I'm sure if you reversed the roles of the last 600 years of Whites and Blacks you'd have the same want of many for protection and preservation of culture.

Yet, culture in itself is such a vague term. What constitutes it? Who can claim to have "ownership" of a certain cultural practice? In Greek terms, just adopting Greek letters is copying Phi Beta Kappa. Have secret rituals, etc. is also from them and before them the Masons. Everything is shared and mutates over time when different people adapt it to their own needs.

Like I said before, I think cultural defensiveness directly stems from how much you feel your culture has been taken from you. For example, if non-Scottish people started trying to play the bagpipes, I wouldn't be offended because inherently I feel I can have ownership of that "tradition" and "cultural" practice.

I don't know if any of my ramblings are making sense. I am trying to look at it from an academic point of view, ahaha.

As BluNYC2 said, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Why do you think Latino/a, Asian, Multicultural Greeks are imitating Black Greeks? I think it comes from a need to find one's niche and establish a counter-culture that is anti-mainstream (ie White). Black Greeks have a much longer tradition of creating (and sustaining) this counter-culture. Because of this, people look to it for guidance and direction, sometimes even subconsciously.

D9 orgs have a lot of pride and history in themselves, and it is truly admirable and something people see. Now, you're seeing people measure themselves to standards of D9 orgs...Latino/a, Asian, Multicultural orgs have their measures of success based upon Black Greek orgs. 100 years ago, that wouldn't have been possible b/c anything that was Black or related to Black culture was considered bad by mainstream society.

Am I saying that everything is peachy now? Helllllll no. But the fact that people who aren't Black are emulating Black culture and traditions is truly intruiging on a sociological level. Is some of that imitation degrading? Yes of course (see people trying to act what they feel is "gangsta" or "ghetto"). However, when it comes to things like developing a strong presence on campus in the form of community programs, student organizational involvement, philanthropy, and alumni involvement, I personally feel that is a very good thing. Indeed, Black Greeks are the Gold Standard when it comes to that.

What I think has to happen now is that there needs to be more interraction between various Greek groups (ie NPC/NIC, NPHC, NALFO, NAPA, NMGC, etc) and beginning to develop mutual understanding and respect for each other (b/c I personally feel it doesn't exist now much outside of one's own ethnic Greek group) and share practices and ideas.

Imagine what could be done if things were shared and people had that cultural respect...man it'd be amazing.

Ok, I'm off my idealistic Soap Box now. :D

rhoyaltempest 06-28-2007 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by L.O.C.K. (Post 1475946)
Ladygreek...man you're so SMART!!! :D Hahaha, I like what you said a lot.

I think "tradition" is something people like to throw around. What constitutes a tradition? If you have a health fair for two years in a row, is it a tradition?

On one hand, I see people's points about the need to possess cultural heritage. Specifically, the Black community has been robbed countless times throughout history of its practices and traditions, so it seems natural to be protective of it. I'm sure if you reversed the roles of the last 600 years of Whites and Blacks you'd have the same want of many for protection and preservation of culture.

Yet, culture in itself is such a vague term. What constitutes it? Who can claim to have "ownership" of a certain cultural practice? In Greek terms, just adopting Greek letters is copying Phi Beta Kappa. Have secret rituals, etc. is also from them and before them the Masons. Everything is shared and mutates over time when different people adapt it to their own needs.

Like I said before, I think cultural defensiveness directly stems from how much you feel your culture has been taken from you. For example, if non-Scottish people started trying to play the bagpipes, I wouldn't be offended because inherently I feel I can have ownership of that "tradition" and "cultural" practice.

I don't know if any of my ramblings are making sense. I am trying to look at it from an academic point of view, ahaha.

As BluNYC2 said, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Why do you think Latino/a, Asian, Multicultural Greeks are imitating Black Greeks? I think it comes from a need to find one's niche and establish a counter-culture that is anti-mainstream (ie White). Black Greeks have a much longer tradition of creating (and sustaining) this counter-culture. Because of this, people look to it for guidance and direction, sometimes even subconsciously.

D9 orgs have a lot of pride and history in themselves, and it is truly admirable and something people see. Now, you're seeing people measure themselves to standards of D9 orgs...Latino/a, Asian, Multicultural orgs have their measures of success based upon Black Greek orgs. 100 years ago, that wouldn't have been possible b/c anything that was Black or related to Black culture was considered bad by mainstream society.

Am I saying that everything is peachy now? Helllllll no. But the fact that people who aren't Black are emulating Black culture and traditions is truly intruiging on a sociological level. Is some of that imitation degrading? Yes of course (see people trying to act what they feel is "gangsta" or "ghetto"). However, when it comes to things like developing a strong presence on campus in the form of community programs, student organizational involvement, philanthropy, and alumni involvement, I personally feel that is a very good thing. Indeed, Black Greeks are the Gold Standard when it comes to that.

What I think has to happen now is that there needs to be more interraction between various Greek groups (ie NPC/NIC, NPHC, NALFO, NAPA, NMGC, etc) and beginning to develop mutual understanding and respect for each other (b/c I personally feel it doesn't exist now much outside of one's own ethnic Greek group) and share practices and ideas.

Imagine what could be done if things were shared and people had that cultural respect...man it'd be amazing.

Ok, I'm off my idealistic Soap Box now. :D

The bold text is what I really have a problem with. I know that some non- NPHC orgs take things like stepping very seriously and they have respect for NPHC greeks and some even look to them for guidance in some areas, but there are some that only clown and make a big joke out of every thing we do and that goes for things in Black culture in general. Every thing we do is just a big old joke to them. I respect everyone's culture whether I understand it or not and I don't make fun of other people's cultures or try to put them down for it just because I don't understand something or just because I personally wouldn't do this or that. But some people are just being plain disrespectful like some of the non-NPHC greeks who want to say now that we did not create stepping as it exists today just because they heard (and I say heard because most of them haven't even done the research for themselves) that stepping has African origins. Some of the things that are going on are just plain rude and disrespectful and yes, if you're going to be disrespectful, then don't emulate us at all...why would you want to? Take things to the next level and start your own damn thang.

33girl 06-28-2007 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1476004)
The bold text is what I really have a problem with. I know that some non- NPHC orgs take things like stepping very seriously and they have respect for NPHC greeks and some even look to them for guidance in some areas, but there are some that only clown and make a big joke out of every thing we do and that goes for things in Black culture in general. Every thing we do is just a big old joke to them. I respect everyone's culture whether I understand it or not and I don't make fun of other people's cultures or try to put them down for it just because I don't understand something or just because I personally wouldn't do this or that. But some people are just being plain disrespectful like some of the non-NPHC greeks who want to say now that we did not create stepping as it exists today just because they heard (and I say heard because most of them haven't even done the research for themselves) that stepping has African origins. Some of the things that are going on are just plain rude and disrespectful and yes, if you're going to be disrespectful, then don't emulate us at all...why would you want to? Take things to the next level and start your own damn thang.

This is kind of what I was getting at. The last 2 posts expressed it perfectly. Thanks!

DSTCHAOS 06-28-2007 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by L.O.C.K. (Post 1475946)
I think "tradition" is something people like to throw around. What constitutes a tradition?

I really think people are putting 10 on 2 with this topic.

Main Entry: tra·di·tion
1 a : an inherited, established, or customary pattern of thought, action, or behavior (as a religious practice or a social custom) b : a belief or story or a body of beliefs or stories relating to the past that are commonly accepted as historical though not verifiable <the bulk of traditions attributed to the Prophet -- J. L. Esposito>
2 : the handing down of information, beliefs, and customs by word of mouth or by example from one generation to another without written instruction
3 : cultural continuity in social attitudes, customs, and institutions
4 : characteristic manner, method, or style <in the best liberal tradition>


From a larger context: Any practice that breeds recognition and has done so for years across the country will be called a "tradition" by many. Not everyone will agree on that and not everyone has to.

Smaller context: If people want to use the term "tradition" then that's what they will do. My chapter had traditional programs and practices that no other organization on that campus had. I remember when another organization tried to take ALL of our ideas and formatting and rename it without even speaking to us about a collaboration. This didn't sit too well with us and the program wasn't accepted by the campus community. That's fine if folks want to adopt and adapt CERTAIN traditions. Just KNOW where you got it from and don't front like you and your organization came up with it. That also goes to NPHC traditions that came from elsewhere.

rhoyaltempest 06-28-2007 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1476033)
I really think people are putting 10 on 2 with this topic.

Main Entry: tra·di·tion
1 a : an inherited, established, or customary pattern of thought, action, or behavior (as a religious practice or a social custom) b : a belief or story or a body of beliefs or stories relating to the past that are commonly accepted as historical though not verifiable <the bulk of traditions attributed to the Prophet -- J. L. Esposito>
2 : the handing down of information, beliefs, and customs by word of mouth or by example from one generation to another without written instruction
3 : cultural continuity in social attitudes, customs, and institutions
4 : characteristic manner, method, or style <in the best liberal tradition>

From a larger context: Any practice that breeds recognition and has done so for years across the country will be called a "tradition" by many. Not everyone will agree on that and not everyone has to.

Smaller context: If people want to use the term "tradition" then that's what they will do. My chapter had traditional programs and practices that no other organization on that campus had. I remember when another organization tried to take ALL of our ideas and formatting and rename it without even speaking to us about a collaboration. This didn't sit too well with us and the program wasn't accepted by the campus community. That's fine if folks want to adopt and adapt CERTAIN traditions. Just KNOW where you got it from and don't front like you and your organization came up with it. That also goes to NPHC traditions that came from elsewhere.

Exactly. And this just adds to the point I made earlier about the disrespect that's currently going on now among some of the non-NPHC orgs that are emulating our traditions.

Ilaria Ame 06-28-2007 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1476004)
The bold text is what I really have a problem with. I know that some non- NPHC orgs take things like stepping very seriously and they have respect for NPHC greeks and some even look to them for guidance in some areas, but there are some that only clown and make a big joke out of every thing we do and that goes for things in Black culture in general. Every thing we do is just a big old joke to them. I respect everyone's culture whether I understand it or not and I don't make fun of other people's cultures or try to put them down for it just because I don't understand something or just because I personally wouldn't do this or that. But some people are just being plain disrespectful like some of the non-NPHC greeks who want to say now that we did not create stepping as it exists today just because they heard (and I say heard because most of them haven't even done the research for themselves) that stepping has African origins. Some of the things that are going on are just plain rude and disrespectful and yes, if you're going to be disrespectful, then don't emulate us at all...why would you want to? Take things to the next level and start your own damn thang.

who do you see as "them"? i've never witnessed a non-HBGLO step, stroll, call, etc in jest. in fact, the orgs i've seen have been very serious about what they're doing and would be insulted to be told that they're not. i'm not saying what you said doesn't happen, but i just can't imagine it.

DSTCHAOS 06-28-2007 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1476055)
Exactly. And this just adds to the point I made earlier about the disrespect that's currently going on now among some of the non-NPHC orgs that are emulating our traditions.


I say "let it ride" unless there's a greater cultural significance beyond Greekdom that you're getting at. :)

In my 8 post-undergraduate years, I haven't encountered too many nonNPHCers who stroll and step. That's because I don't go to step shows that often and don't attend parties with strolling and where nonNPHCers frequent. As for calls, handsigns, and 'nalia practices, I'm generally disinterested in that issue because many nonNPHCers have put their own spin on this stuff and made these practices relevant to their organizations. Many of them also know/acknowledge where they got the basic idea from, within the Greek context, just like many NPHCers know/acknowledge where we got our ideas from.

rhoyaltempest 06-28-2007 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Ilaria Ame (Post 1476068)
who do you see as "them"? i've never witnessed a non-HBGLO step, stroll, call, etc in jest. in fact, the orgs i've seen have been very serious about what they're doing and would be insulted to be told that they're not. i'm not saying what you said doesn't happen, but i just can't imagine it.

This happens all the time...especially among some PW fraternities and I'm talking about mocking Black culture in general, not just that of Black greek orgs. Every campus environment is different. At some schools all the greeks respect one another and at others all kinds of disrespect takes place. At one of the PWIs I attended, we didn't socialize with the PW greeks at all because of the things that were taking place and the disrespect that was shown to us. If they wanted to learn how to step it would have only been because they thought is was funny or "cool," not because they truly wanted to learn the artform.

As for the bolded text, if you're serious about what you do and you don't show disrespect to NPHC orgs, than I'm not talking about those orgs.

Ilaria Ame 06-28-2007 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1476113)
This happens all the time...especially among some PW fraternities and I'm talking about mocking Black culture in general, not just that of Black greek orgs. Every campus environment is different. At some schools all the greeks respect one another and at others all kinds of disrespect takes place. At one of the PWIs I attended, we didn't socialize with the PW greeks at all because of the things that were taking place and the disrespect that was shown to us. If they wanted to learn how to step it would have only been because they thought is was funny or "cool," not because they truly wanted to learn the artform.

As for the bolded text, if you're serious about what you do and you don't show disrespect to NPHC orgs, than I'm not talking about those orgs.


oh, ok. like i said, it just blew my mind to think that this happens. that's sad :( sorry to show my ignorance, but what is a PW greek? i've never heard that term before.

rhoyaltempest 06-28-2007 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Ilaria Ame (Post 1476227)
oh, ok. like i said, it just blew my mind to think that this happens. that's sad :( sorry to show my ignorance, but what is a PW greek? i've never heard that term before.

PW is just my personal code for predominently White greek org or historically White greek org and PWI is for predominently White Institution. I have to add that at the 2nd PWI I went to, the disrespect problem did not exist although the PW and NPHC orgs had no relationship at all with one another. We didn't even socialize or really know one another. Some PWI's (and I said some) have a whole different set of problems and it doesn't matter if you're a greek or non-greek. And I think you know what kind of problems I'm refering to.

Ilaria Ame 06-29-2007 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1476334)
PW is just my personal code for predominently White greek org or historically White greek org and PWI is for predominently White Institution. I have to add that at the 2nd PWI I went to, the disrespect problem did not exist although the PW and NPHC orgs had no relationship at all with one another. We didn't even socialize or really know one another. Some PWI's (and I said some) have a whole different set of problems and it doesn't matter if you're a greek or non-greek. And I think you know what kind of problems I'm refering to.

ok. nice to know...for the record, i am a white girl on a predominately white campus in the deep south. i know the problems you refer to. i see them and deal with them every day in my job, where everyone hates eveyone else. in addition to that, greek life is completely split. seperate events all around. even greek week is only for NPC, NPHC isn't invited to participate. yeah. not kidding. all this is why me and my line sisters founded a chapter of a multicultural org this year. we are hoping to force a change in how greek life is run because we can't be categorized. of course, it could completely flop and we'll be hated by everyone instead of just half of everyone, but all we can do is present ourselves in the best way possible and hope for a miracle!


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