LOL! You know that I HAVE been looking fr jobs there. Since the BLSA conference, I've been I LOVE with Miami! I had a fabulous time for those few days. I would spend nearly every weekend I could at the beach. I hope to visit again soon.

Congrats Proverbs! I think you and I briefly discussed your possibility of going to lawschool there, right?
Congrats!
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MeezDiscreet, may I PM you re the city?
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Yes we did, thank you! :)

^^^
Congrats, Proverbs! You got a lot of people here on GC to get you through the three years of law school. Don't be afraid to utilize us.

The more I keep hearing about Chicago, the more I wonder if I should relocate up there! :D

My friend that's originally from Chicago HATES the cold weather. I'm sure that I would traumatized by it as well. There is no such thing as winter in Louisiana. LOL! But, I keep hearing how great Chicago is. I'll be up there in mid-August for a job fair, so I'll see what all the fuss is about. One of my friends just went there for a summer job. Hopefully he'll get an offer and then I'll be able to visit whenever I like.

Soror, you know what they say - you can always go back from wherever you left. We only live one life and a year or two of cold weather never really killed anybody. It's a great city. I could tell you where to find all of the sorors b/c you know that it's AKAtown, right? :) Nothing but AKA license plates as far as the eye can see. We definitely run Chicago. :) Ok, I'll stop now.... :)

But seriously, many people never really get out of their own backyard. Many from down south have never really lived in or seen the snow. Many from up north have never seen countrysides or anything but the "concrete jungle." I encourage you to venture to someplace different from where you've ever been - no matter where you decide to go. Even if, as we mentioned earlier, you want to spend a year or two or three out of the country. You can always go back to a city or state that's similar to what you are accustomed to. This is a great and fun time of your life. You can literally go anywhere where you want to go so venture out. You only live once. Lucky you! :) How many people get an opp in their lives to throw the net open to *wherever* they want to live.

Also, I lived in NJ for awhile and enjoyed visiting Philly from time to time. Philly also seems like a cool place. It was also listed as one of the top cities for AAs.

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I have been to Philly a couple of times in the past year, and I really liked what I saw there too.

This is really my goal. You've hit the nail on the head! I've been telling people for as long as I can remember that I want to experience something new. I would must rather go somewhere and HATE it, but have the option of coming back home, than to stay here forever and spend my years feeling like I have never "lived." I have ALWAYS felt like this. And after Katrina, I see so may people that have never lived (nor travel, for that matter) beyond New Orleans city limits and are struggling in other places. I don't know if it's just the whole evetnt of being forced out of N.O. or the fact they just don't want to adjust to life away from that one city.

At the end of my day, I want to look back at my life and say that I have been to places, lived places, and done things that I am happy with. I know that I can never be happy knowing that I didn't at least try to make it outside of my comfort zone.

Unspoken one is CORRECT its boring to HER because SHE DOESN'T DO ANYTHING!!!!:D :D ;)

Sweetie.........you know the number! Let's do lunch!:D

my 2 cents
 

im sure you know this, but i thought i would mention it. consider your short and long term professional/personal goals when considering where you want to live. that may help you narrow down the variety of choices you have.

not from houston, but my college roommate has spent almost a decade down there and loves it. it sounds like it is progressive for your professionals, but it is what you make of it. she and i are both northerners..lol, but each time i talked with her, she had so many great stories about the social scene.

i live in suburban md and since it is close to dc, it provides a great opportunity to connect with alot of progressive folks. so much to do! it is a good place to settle, but expensive as hell and the commute is the worst. housing is also really high, but if you are commanding a great salary you will have no problem. personally, i find a number of us are working to pay bills because the housing is so expensive, so again, consider that in the equation. but in my area, i have found a place where i can plant some roots which is nice.

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO @ Soror IcebrAKA!!! LOL!!! Now that i'm back to being single, I guess I will have to get my bootie out there.

I'm going to take you up on that lunch offer! ;)

I'm cosigning with all the folks who stated Charlotte, DC, and Houston as wonderful places to relocate :) I lived in Charlotte for a year before I got married and ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT!!! It is definitely a place I wouldn't think twice about moving back to. Charlotte is centrally located, not to far from ATL, the beach, or the mountains. Everytime I visit I pick up literature to convince the hubby to give it a shot LOL

I would be remiss if I didn't give my thoughts on Raleigh/Durham :( As you can tell by the smiley I didn't have a pleasant experience there but it's probably due to the fact I had just moved from ATL and was spoiled rotten:)

No, you're not, soror. It's the lesser of the two "evils" for me, which is one of the reasons I can't wait to go back home to AK once my "stay" here in The 5th Circle of Hell is over. If I were to stay here in LA, it'd have to be in Baton Rouge (where most of *my* fam ended up post-Katrina). As far as other options go, I'll co-sign with the majority in considering Atlanta, Houston, and Dallas (in that order).

Now, back ttt...

How did you wind up in Louisiana ALLLLLLL the way from Alaska?

Soror would somebody PLEASE tell me the fascination with Atl? My parents caught the Atl bug and moved there back in 1990 and even then people had been flocking there. So I've lived there but, um, why are the masses going there? I might just move on back to be with family, especially now that i have a niece, but here's my viewpoint:

1. it's hard for many people (ex: teachers) to get a job b/c everybody and their mother is moving there and market is oversaturated to some extent
2. the ratio of single and heterosexual AA men to AA women is approximately 3 to 10 (lol) or something like that - does anybody know a woman who was not in college at the au who moved to atlanta and actually found a man that wasn't already married to somebody else?
3. it's not that scenic - there's no water, no mountains, no beaches
4. it gets kinda cold in the winter for it to be the south

so really ya'll, what gives? i love seeing that AA girl in the mural when I come up the escalators at the airport and i love the numbers of AAs. is that basically it?

do tell b/c a sister has been going there at least 5-6 times a year since i graduated from college there in 97 and i don't see it.
what.is.the.fascination?
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My roots...
 

LOL, soror! I get that a lot. I'm originally from LA (Kenner; most of my fam on both sides still lives here), but moved to AK when I was little. So, it's "home" for me. :)

I see where you're comin' from, soror. I see those as (relative) weak points as well (I'll add bad traffic/gridlock as #5). But, I have fam there...lived there during my junior high school years...went to Spelman for a year (94-95), etc. So, I have roots there as well. I'm always chomping at the bit to go visit, especially now that I'm an auntie (and anything to get out of Monroe for a while :rolleyes:). I guess my personal fascination with The ATL can be summed up in two words: SHOPPING (i.e. Lenox Square, Phipps Plaza) and EATING (i.e. The Cheesecake Factory {my fav restaurant, Olive Garden is a close second}, other local and franchises not in LA or AK, etc.), namely the former. I'm just shallow that way. As long as I have those things, I can make do. :cool:

Sorors yall read my mind! :D

Alaska to Louisiana, Wow. Baton Rouge is a great city in Louisiana. I know that I couldn't live in Northern Louisiana. For some reason Atl is not on my "to-do" list. I'm sorry yall but I prefer to be in diverse settings. Not in settings in where one race is the dominant race. Plus the hetero rate to homo rate is a lil scary for me.(I'm just being real)

LOL I wish I knew what the facination was with Atlanta. I hope people soon realize it is all hype and stop moving here. Traffic is bad enough as it it.
Here are my thoughts on your comments from someone who went to college in Atlanta, moved to Minnesota for a while and then moved back.
1. I can't really speak to teaching jobs, but I do know there are a lot of other jobs in Atlanta. Atlanta's housing is also cheaper than the Northeast, hence people moving here and buying mini mansions.
2. Yeah, supposedly there are a lot of down low/homosexual brothers in Atlanta. I have heard (not sure if it is reliable) that ATL is only second to San Francisco for per capita gay men. I am not sure, but I can tell you that I know plently of folks who have met and fallen in love out side of the AUC. I'm talking young (and not so young since that is now my demographic), professional black women who met and married young black men.
3. You are right about that. No water, unless you count the Chattahoochee River or Lake Lanier. No mountains, unless you count Stone Mountain.
4. I don't think it gets that cold here and when it does, it does not stay cold for that long. You could have a cold spell where it is in the 20s for a few days, but don't be surprised if it is in the 60s or 70s a few days later.

I love Atlanta. There is plenty to do, people are friendly and the salaries are decent given the cost of living. I was out of work 2 years ago and seriously considering relocating. I could have made the same amount that I am making now in cities like LA or DC, but my cost of living would have been dramatically reduced.

What about the Left Coast?
 

I know that the South and the Midwest are getting most of the love here, but let me put in a plug for the Bay Area of CA... I grew up in California and went to school in D.C. (LOVED it there), and now I live in Central NJ.

But California has a sizable population of upwardly mobile black professionals in both L.A. and the Bay. I do prefer the Bay slightly.

As for Atlanta, I went there once in high school and hated it, went back in college and liked it... but I don't think I "get it," either. :)

Los Angeles and the Bay are pretty much the only places you can go to have somewhat of a breadth of black professionals now. If that's the key for relocation, I can't recommend California. You need two incomes to buy a house, unless you're going to inherit (which is my situation). Quite a few men, particularly those who are born/raised out here, have Orenthal syndrome.
I lived in Charlotte in 1993-94. I did like the city, very attractive and with sophistication when it came to restaurants, shopping, upscale groceries (loved Harris Teeter in wealthier neighborhoods) but left because of a horrible work situation. But I would rather live in a drier place with no rain.

Ok, you definitely have me there. I was in Northern California over Mother's Day Weekend, and I was complaining to my sister about that very issue. :mad:

Nonetheless, CA is home to me, so I'll always recommend it. And as far as the housing market, prices are being forced down, so if there were a time to buy, it's going to be now or in the near future.

I've lived in both North and South, and I've found that the cultures are vastly different. (Although, Soror, I did notice that you live in San Diego... and I'm pretty sure it's heaven, so if you don't love that city, I can't see you liking any other part of the state. :) )

Soror, I do have love for San Diego. :)
Great climate, good restaurants, decent shopping, not to mention a wonderful chapter. I'm a native San Diegan, and right now, I am technically a bi-city person because I work in OC.
I haven't spent significant time in Northern California since 1989, but I did like my summer at Berkeley.

That's the predominant situation where I'm from (and, something I'll have to "grapple" with when I go back). :( I agree with Soror icebrAKA about wanting to live where there's diversity, but that can be a personal drawback when you're not looking "elsewhere" to date. I guess it's a good thing I'm not the "marrying kind". :rolleyes:

ETA: More about my take on Atlanta...

My fam (and I, back in the day) lives on the "outskirts" of ATL (Lithonia, Decatur, Riverdale, the Cascade area, etc.), not in the heart of the city where (most of) the problems that have been mentioned exist. So, that's why I wouldn't mind going back if need be. The whole dating scene issue *would* be a concern, but that seems to be the issue no matter *where* I am (just MHO; refer back to the "marrying kind" statement). :rolleyes: :(

Really Soror, I live in Lithonia!! :D I don't usually meet many people from Lithonia.The area is pretty nice, sure there are some areas that aren't so nice but thats anywhere. The housing situation is pretty good. There are tons of jobs avaibable in the area. Dekalb County(which Lithonia and Decatur are in) is actually the second wealthiest county in the country for Blacks. Overall, I would give ATL a chance., and I'm not just saying that because I'm from ATL. We have some of the best law firms in the country, not to mention some really good universities.

Exactly Sistergreek! I have lived in Atlanta my whole life, and I can really say that I don't plan on living anywhere else. I guess that I'm just a true southern girl at heart!!:) I love it here!! But as for teaching jobs, they are plentiful. Everyone that I have known, who has a degree in Education had jobs and/or offers before they even graduated. I also don't think that the dating situation is a bad a it is made to seem. I do wish people would stop moving here though, like you said traffic is horrible and everywhere you go they are cutting down trees to build something.

I co-sign. I am from the Bay Area and I wouldn't recommend it either, I LOVE being from California but all the reasons you stated above are why I will never move back. It's funny my Dad's wife is from Thailand, :mad: and don't get me started there. I wouln't call it teh Oriental Syndrome its the anything not a sista syndrome.

Ha! (and so sad.)

Soror, let's see ... where do I start with the left coast... lol.

I went to grad school in the bay area and so I lived up there (Bezerkeley and Oakland for 2.5 years) and have been living in LA for almost 2 years.

Ok, where do I start.

1. First, the housing is ridiculous. You get a raggedy piece of a 2 bedroom CONDO for half a million dollars -just b/c the land is sitting in the state of California. The house will be only 30 years old if you are lucky and it will require work more than likely. The.housing.market.is.ridiculous. I am a lawyer and if *I* think that it's ridiculous - and we are some of the highest paid folk in the country - then how is anyone else supposed to really live there - w/out the need to get married just to be able to afford a mortgage. Perhaps people don't understand that a half a mil condo means almost 4K per month - just for housing expenses, when you add in taxes, 300/month hoas, plus the other stuff that you pay in addition to the 2600/month mortgage...oh, unless you just want an interest only loan or a loan on which you have the option to not even pay the interest..let alone the principal. :rolleyes:

2. Second, the human dynamics out west are just WEIRD plain and simple. The AA guys - the only ones that are normal are the ones who aren't really from there. I have NEVER seen AAs that will avoid the eyes of other AAs on the street. WEIRD. Um, hello, I have news for you scary man, you're AA too. So stop tripping.

3. Third, if I have to go outside or go anywhere one more time and only see AA guys with latinas, I may have to scream. Oh, ok, it's ok b/c they are "ethnic minorities" too. Give me a break. 20 years ago, AA guys were trying to date caucasian women. That didn't go over too well so now they are trying to date latinas. These men will do whatever they can get away with. Cali is the only place in the country that I know of where it is such a "coincidence" that so many AA men fall for non-AA women. Maybe the coincidence is caused by something in the water in LA. Not sure. But I think that we would all agree that the coincidence is just uncanny, isn't it?? Who are our sisters out there supposed to date if they want an AA man? marry? The pickings are real slim.

It is a beautiful place (esp. northern) but it depends on what you're looking for I guess. I have enjoyed Cali but again, I had a boyfriend already (who had been normalized by leaving Cali and going to an HBCU), and I didn't care about building any kind of financial wealth. I was ok with paying $50/week to get my hair washed and wrapped, $50/night to board my dog at his cage free boarding place, $1846/month for my 2 bedroom apartment. Now...I's tired. :)

4. Fourth, everyone is so worried about promoting how great "diversity" is that AA are LANGUISHING - absolutely LANGUISHING - in LA while AAs there are so busy trying to talk about how great a diverse environment is. How is it great when AA are struggling so much? I looked at an LA Urban League report and do you know that AAs in LA have the fewest numbers of businesses, least wealth in terms of home ownership rates, lowest pay??? Now who is diversity helping. Even the immigrants that migrate to the US, like the latino and asian populations in LA have a greater number of business and own a greater number of homes. What gives? This SUCKS for AAs yet we are the first to talk about how great some place is b/c it is diverse. To me, we are so busy trying to get with everyone else and are afraid unfortunately to just be by ourself, ack that there is nothing wrong with that and address the problems of AA, support our own businesses, etc. What is wrong with that? Cali is so diverse yet AA are struggling so much. I'm not convinced that diversity is so great. It's like the segregation, integration arg. I just don't know.

And another thing. What is so diverse about having a population that is mostly caucasian, latino and asian and AAs are only 9% of the population - and even that's just in Oakland and LA- literally. What's so diverse about that? When you travel the six hours between Oakland and LA, you may not see one AA face. What is so diverse about that? From my perspective, it's NO WONDER that these little AA girls in school in LA hate themselves and think that they are ugly. They have no real sense of anyone telling them that they are beautiful and no body at school even looks like them except for in the worst of the worst schools. Why would you want to send your child to school in an environment where they will be isolated and no one even looks like them? It's ludicrous to me...and it's no wonder they are afraid of me and other AAs. It's no wonder that they think that the symbol of beauty is the valley girl - b/c that's who they see in school b/c we are so out of touch with reality that we are sending out kids to schools where there aren't even anymore AA kids. These AA kids come to HBCUs and are amazed - b/c some of them have never even spent any time around me or other AAs...b/c there aren't any in the neighborhoods - unless you live in Inglewood or LA proper, Inglewood of which has one of the worst high schools in the NATION...yes, nation.

Cali has a lot of work to do from my perspective.

It has served it's purpose for me but now it is time to move on. While I am paying 1800 per month for a 2 bedroom apt, I could have a house and 2 others to rent out (literally) almost anywhere below the Mason Dixon line.

It's a beautiful and fun place and if you've got some money to spend, it's a fun time. You just gotta bring your man with you (lol) and ignore everyone else.

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Chanel Lover, having had my family in Atl since 1991 and having gone to college, etc. in Atlanta, I still wonder about Dekalb county. Can you break it down to me. It seems that whenever AA move to Atlanta, realtors direct them to Dekalb county like it is some kind of haven but when I'm in Atlanta (which is almost every other month), I turn on the news and inevitably, there is a murder in Dekalb county or basically something involving gun violence - and it's usually in Dekalb county. It seems like it's like the wild, wild west out there to me. Is it just Decatur? I dated a guy when I was in college who was from Lithonia and he also swore that it was the best place to live. What's going on? My parents lived in Clayton and now have lived in Fulton since about 93 but not even Fulton has the kind of crime that Dekalb appears to have. Did Dekalb county put Atlanta on the map when it was the murder capital a few years?

Just wondering b/c I just can't figure out why AAs are always directed to Dekalb like it's the mecca or something yet Dekalb is the main county on the nightly news. They are even directed away from the Cascade area as if Dekalb county is better than the Cascade area. What gives?

If I were to move back, I would definitely be in the midtown area just b/c my commute is h-ll now living in LA or I'd move to where my financially saavy soror-best friend just moved - to West Cobb where all the schools are good and the property values are apparently really appreciating.

Is Dekalb county just getting a bad rep on the news?

Also, re the legal market. I've been practicing for a few years - practiced in the Chicago market and now the LA and Atl seems to me to be an ok market...however, really I've found that some of the choicest positions for my kind of work are silicon valley and san diego b/c those are technology hotbeds. Atlanta's not really...so it's a little limiting. Also, in-house jobs, I have opps but they are not in Atlanta. They are moreso RTP and Dallas/Austin other technology hotbeds. I just think it depends on the kind of law that you practice.

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Las Vegas isn't much better. It used to be, but with the housing boom of 2004, many moved here because you can make A LOT of money, with very little intelligence, education, character, or morals. Many move to serve deal cards, park cars, serve drinks. A person can make over $100k/year. Unfortunately, as fast as $$ comes, if one isn't careful, it gets away just as fast. Hence, we have foreclosures with lots of liens all over the place. I'm currently a realtor here, but am applying for law school for Fall 2008. Although Vegas is home and all that I've ever known, our law school is probably my fourth or fifth choice. A friend of mine just bought a 3600 sq ft. home in ATL and paid less than $350k. At the time of his closing, I was holding open houses here at a property similar in sq ftg and style, but on a parcel of land the size of a postage stamp. The listing price was $800k--go figure. Yeah, we have some brothas here with the OJ complex, but they're ignorable. Good black men are so hard to find, that not much surprises me anymore. I get more problems from their non-black women who find an intelligent and articulate sista threatening. I guess they're afraid I'll do a "take back". Anyway, I went to ATL recently to visit my old friend and fell in love-- with the city and back in love with him. And you're right, ATL does have some of the best law firms. My friend works for one. Look out Emory, here I come.

Soror, I hope I don't get in trouble for saying this. :)

When I was growing up, we did NOT have as many problems has we do today. I have noticed that there seems to be more crime in Dekalb Cty. After speaking with my mother about this on several occasions, we have some to this conclusion: as you may know, the City of Atlanta and Fulton County have gotten rid of the "projects", in turn they get these Section 8 vouchers, and I mean droves of them have moved to Dekalb.(Don't get me wrong I have nothing agaist lower income people). There has been a noticable change in the dynamics of Lithonia. I do think that we are getting a bad rap. It seems like the news in ATL will pick a county, for about 2 months and tell everything that is wrong with that area, like crime doesn't exist somewhere else.

As far as the housing the main reason people are directed to Dekalb is simple. Property taxes are fairly cheap, public works are pretty good, the schools aren't the best in Georgia, but Georgia schools aren't all that great to begin with; but there are options such as charter schools, optional transfer programs, and magnet programs. You can get a pretty nice house for around $250k with some yard.

As far as the job market, I was just going off of personal expierence. I had a cousin that graduated from Emory last year and had a very very good job offer before even graduating.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think that Atlanta is the end all be all. After graduating in December, I'm moving to D.C. for grad school. I just think that things may be a little easier here for African Americans, than say Miami. From what I've heard, which I may be wrong, most Blacks in Miami are poor, and if you are not Cuban then its hard as he** to make it.

Congratulations on Emory Law. My cousin went there and loved it!

Hi Soror,
We have a soror that frequents this board sometimes with two master's degrees that has been trying to get a teaching job in Atlanta for months now. Can I refer her to you? It seems that you may know of some opportunities.

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Hi Soror. Wow, that's interesting with the vouchers and all that. Do you think that Dekalb county has taxes, etc. that are much less than in other counties in the Atlanta area such as Fulton and Cobb? I was looking at the tax rates (by city) and some of the Dekalb county cities actually seemed to be a little higher than Fulton, Cobb (Marietta) and about on par with Fayette county. I don't know if I was looking at the wrong table. It was some kind of millage?? table as I was trying to figure out, if I moved to Atlanta, the best cities to move to in terms of taxes, services, prices, appreciation, etc.

Perhaps the media is targeting the area as you said. I have just always been surprised that I hear about Dekalb county alot when I would think that I would hear about Fulton county as much or more than Dekalb county as Fulton encompasses the actual Atlanta inner city, where I would think more crime would take place.

Atlanta isn't a bad place and I may have a few offers there now. However, as I mentioned in another post, another one of our sorors has been trying to get a job as a teacher or counselor in Atlanta for months now and can't obtain an interview - and she has two masters in education, etc. and works in higher education now in another state where she lives. I really feel like, when it comes to stuff like teaching, maybe the market is just saturated from all of these people that are flocking to Atlanta in droves like 40 going north (or south in this case - lol). It's just that I am always a little perplexed at why people think it's the promised land. It's cool and thanks for the insight.

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Sistadiva, I hope DC tops your list!!!! Let me know when you come to the area! :)

Hi Soror,
So the weather in Charlotte is really rainy? How did you find the social scene in Charlotte? Do they get a winter with snow up there?
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Good morning, Soror.

I wouldn't say it was really rainy, but it got its share, including the summer. Being a native Californian, I was not used to the humidity and such because it played havoc with my hair. During my time in Charlotte, I returned to the "creamy crack."

As for the social scene, I wasn't a participant. I had some personal issues and didn't want to put them on a guy. Friends of mine found it OK. While I was at the paper, I had some buddies who were dating around.

I can only recall a few snow days in the winter.

Good morning Soror V,
Thanks. The "creamy crack." That is hilarious...but I know what you mean. The things that we do... :)
I was just sitting under a head full of seabreeze last week - wasn't fun as you know.

Charlotte sounds like a cool place.

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Hi Houston Lovers :),
Can anyone comment on the dating scene in Houston? In some places, which shall remain nameless lol, the number of AA single women greatly outnumber the number of AA single men - who actually date AA women. What's it like trying to date and settle down in Houston?

Also, if there are any attys practicing in Houston, what is it like there for AAs in firms or in-house?

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