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Drolefille 08-21-2010 06:20 PM

In the Catholic Church marriage during Lent and Advent are discouraged due to the seriousness of the season and the difference of the mood between Lent/Advent and the celebration of a marriage.

It doesn't mean it never happens, and it would depend on the local priests or possibly approval by the bishop.
Found this:
"When a marriage is celebrated during Advent or Lent or other days of penance, the parish priest should advise the couple to take into consideration the special nature of these liturgical seasons."
Quote:

The new (2002) official English translation of the new (2000) edition of the General Instruction of the Roman Missal has this directive, which I think covers "Anon's" query:

"305. Moderation should be observed in the decoration of the altar [throughout the whole year].
During Advent the floral decoration of the altar should be marked by a moderation suited to the character of this season, without expressing prematurely the full joy of the Nativity of the Lord.
During Lent it is forbidden for the altar to be decorated with flowers. Laetare Sunday (Fourth Sunday of Lent), Solemnities, and Feasts are exceptions.
Floral decorations should always be done with moderation and placed around the altar rather than on its mensa [table-top]."

From this, it follows that a wedding in Lent, with some festive spirit and flowers, is best celebrated on Laetare Sunday or on one of the special days known as "solemnities" and "feasts" (but not ordinary "memorials"). In 2003, there were no "feasts," but there were two solemnities:
March 19: Solemnity of St. Joseph, Husband of Mary.
March 25: Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord.
ETA: http://www.nccbuscc.org/liturgy/q&a/...calendar.shtml

Prohibiting baptism during lent is probably not correct but not terribly uncommon. It would depend on how long you were made to wait (for the RCC that is.) Kind of like removing the holy water from the font(s). Not supposed to happen, does all the time.

aephi alum 08-21-2010 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by IrishLake (Post 1973094)
I went to a Saturday wedding in Advent (Catholic) just last year. Not a prohibition. Lent is another story though. I had to wait to get both of my kids baptised until after Easter.

Strange. I thought Church practice was to get babies baptized as soon as possible after birth, because unbaptized babies who die cannot go to heaven. When I was born, my parents' parish's pastor was after them to get me baptized ASAP. I was baptized about three weeks after I was born (and during Advent).

Drolefille 08-21-2010 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by aephi alum (Post 1973110)
Strange. I thought Church practice was to get babies baptized as soon as possible after birth, because unbaptized babies who die cannot go to heaven. When I was born, my parents' parish's pastor was after them to get me baptized ASAP. I was baptized about three weeks after I was born (and during Advent).

You're supposed to have a baby baptized within 2-3 weeks of birth. However the RCC pretty much rolls with "well God's merciful they'll go to heaven" these days. Even if waiting til the end of Lent were a legit option (and I'm pretty sure it isn't technically ok) if the baby was in danger of dying s/he would be able to receive the sacrament anyway.

KSUViolet06 08-21-2010 07:08 PM

http://fashionbride.files.wordpress....ridesmaid1.jpg

http://fashionbride.files.wordpress..../img_59741.jpg

http://fashionbride.files.wordpress....mstewart-2.jpg

IrishLake 08-21-2010 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1973112)
You're supposed to have a baby baptized within 2-3 weeks of birth. However the RCC pretty much rolls with "well God's merciful they'll go to heaven" these days. Even if waiting til the end of Lent were a legit option (and I'm pretty sure it isn't technically ok) if the baby was in danger of dying s/he would be able to receive the sacrament anyway.

Yep, and even nowadays, I was taught that a person not of the cloth can do a baptism in certain circumstances (emergencies when priest or deacon not available). And really, so many churches observe so many different things these days. Our church does things differently than my in-laws church. And my brother and sister in law were married by a priest in a park (outdoor ceremonies are supposed to be a big Catholic no-no).

Both of my kids are late December babies, and Lent started in February. Had to plan around my moms work schedule, plus Godparents schedule (we live 2-4 hours away from all of our family), and our church wouldn't do more than 4 on a Sunday. Which put us into Lent, and therefore after Lent. Both kids were about 4 months. No biggie.

Drolefille 08-21-2010 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by IrishLake (Post 1973126)
Yep, and even nowadays, I was taught that a person not of the cloth can do a baptism in certain circumstances (emergencies when priest or deacon not available). And really, so many churches observe so many different things these days. Our church does things differently than my in-laws church. And my brother and sister in law were married by a priest in a park (outdoor ceremonies are supposed to be a big Catholic no-no).

Both of my kids are late December babies, and Lent started in February. Had to plan around my moms work schedule, plus Godparents schedule (we live 2-4 hours away from all of our family), and our church wouldn't do more than 4 on a Sunday. Which put us into Lent, and therefore after Lent. Both kids were about 4 months. No biggie.

The outside the church thing typically comes down to the bishop. So of course if the bishop's less particular he grants more permissions.

KSUViolet06 08-21-2010 07:39 PM

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NinjaPoodle 10-14-2010 02:12 AM

http://favoride-sitepics.favorideas....-pastel-lg.jpg

PeppyGPhiB 11-09-2010 06:28 PM

Cross posting these here for future searches...
 
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1193/...1c9bc3a6_z.jpg

http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4020/...bdb3a004_z.jpg

KSUViolet06 11-30-2010 05:17 PM

http://fashionbride.files.wordpress.com/2009/08/5d1.jpg

http://fashionbride.files.wordpress..../img_09411.jpg

NinjaPoodle 12-01-2010 01:29 AM

pretty^^

christiangirl 12-01-2010 02:42 AM

I love fire and ice roses but I'm afraid too many of them in one place with make a "swirl effect" like Creme Savers candy.

Like this: http://uniquecreationsbylisa.com/sho...dalbouquet.jpg

But it's done tastefully here: http://www.pearlriverflorist.com/ima...mages/0033.jpg

(Pics too big to post.)

FSUZeta 12-01-2010 09:19 AM

those would be so stunning for a fall wedding.

KSUViolet06 12-04-2010 05:35 PM

http://fashionbride.files.wordpress....lfiore1011.jpg

FSUZeta 12-04-2010 09:22 PM

ksuviolet, you just have to become a wedding coordinator!

carnation 12-04-2010 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 2007848)
I love fire and ice roses but I'm afraid too many of them in one place with make a "swirl effect" like Creme Savers candy.
But it's done tastefully here: http://www.pearlriverflorist.com/ima...mages/0033.jpg

Christiangirl, that second bouquet is absolutely artistic and I'm glad you were able to pick out the difference in the 2! I used peppermint carnations in my wedding but there's such thing as too much of a good thing so I tempered them with red carnations, Christmas balls, and evergreens.

KSU, those autumn flowers are in credible and FSUZeta is right!

KSUViolet06 12-08-2010 04:57 PM

Interesting non-flower things:

vintage brooch bouquets:

http://www.templegregory.co.uk/blog/...dalbouquet.jpg

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_1NTjVbXtZZ...-bouquets1.jpg

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_1NTjVbXtZZ...6g56o1_400.jpg

button bouquets:

http://www.tinywaterblog.com/wp-cont...ng-bouquet.jpg

http://www.theprettyblog.com/wp-cont...on-bouquet.jpg

http://www.orangebeautiful.com/blog/pics/2138.jpg

Kappamd 12-08-2010 04:59 PM

Not my style, but cute.

KSUViolet06 12-08-2010 08:11 PM

^^^I know! I thought it was cool to share with brides-to-be who are into crafty/unique stuff.

psusue 12-08-2010 08:22 PM

I kind of love those, not going to lie. The simpler bouquets, like the first, third, and fourth, are probably the most my style.

KSUViolet06 12-27-2010 04:57 PM

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...8/JMH_0093.jpg

nittanygirl 12-28-2010 12:33 AM

I just send the link to ALL of those crafty bouquets to a classmate of mine who is planning her wedding. She is WAY into all sorts of stuff like that and I really think she'd be the kind of person to do that AND to pull it off!

KSUViolet06 12-31-2010 02:33 PM

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...eth&Cody-6.jpg

DreamfulSpirit 01-22-2011 10:07 PM

I put a deposit on all my wedding flowers today! I'm getting all my flowers through a place my mom used to work for, and they are giving a big discount! For my bouquet, bridesmaids and jr. bridesmaid bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres, and my simple, low to the table center pieces, plus delivery and set up, is $775! :D

KSUViolet06 01-22-2011 10:31 PM

^^^Yay.

And an interesting bouquet I found on my friend's photo blog (petals arranged to look like one big flower.)

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...etails-126.jpg

ColdInCanada11 01-22-2011 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 2023094)
^^^Yay.

And an interesting bouquet I found on my friend's photo blog (petals arranged to look like one big flower.)

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...etails-126.jpg

That's beautiful- it's amazing what some people can do!!

KSUViolet06 01-30-2011 01:50 PM

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...0/_MG_0899.jpg

KSUViolet06 03-10-2011 05:39 PM

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...m/7842/1-2.jpg

FSUZeta 03-10-2011 05:46 PM

^^that's lovely^^

NinjaPoodle 03-11-2011 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 2037520)

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Originally Posted by FSUZeta (Post 2037524)
^^that's lovely^^

Pretty and quiet

KSUViolet06 04-01-2011 08:45 PM

http://cache.stylemepretty.com/wp-co...845/I_0810.jpg

NinjaPoodle 04-28-2011 03:05 PM

http://www.weddingflowerslong.com/wp...ng-Flowers.jpg

KSUViolet06 05-06-2011 03:32 PM

http://www.stylemepretty.com/wp-cont...3896.10500.jpg

KSUViolet06 05-12-2011 06:43 PM

http://d30opm7hsgivgh.cloudfront.net...apa4ShtQ_c.jpg

AGDee 05-12-2011 08:30 PM

^^ reminds me of Narnia

KSUViolet06 06-03-2011 01:06 PM

http://www.stylemepretty.com/wp-cont...9934.16264.jpg

carnation 06-03-2011 01:21 PM

These are sooo gorgeous! KSU, 3 of my daughters are in serious relationships and look at these threads and if all 3 of them decide to take the plunge with 3 weddings in 1 year because of them--

*I am coming after YOU!!!!*

GeekyPenguin 06-06-2011 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle (Post 2051446)

I LOVE this. I wanted to do hydrangeas in blue mason jars but those are impossible to find, it seems.

txAOII_15 06-07-2011 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin (Post 2061136)
I LOVE this. I wanted to do hydrangeas in blue mason jars but those are impossible to find, it seems.


if you're talking about blue mason jars being too hard to find, maybe you would be willing to make them yourself? i ran across this tutorial not too long ago and bookmarked it because it seemed like tons of fun to do

http://bridalbuzz.blogspot.com/2009/...d-vintage.html

DreamfulSpirit 06-07-2011 12:05 PM

I can't wait to post pics of my flowers! I'm using lavender roses, purple hydrangea, purple spider mums...lol everyone knows how much I love purple!


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