Fun Fact: Last time I checked, this wasn't a forum for sorority recruiting. And last time I checked, I'm pretty sure sorority HQs wouldn't appreciate somebody, ESPECIALLY someone who is NOT one of their members, to try to recruit people and help people AI on an internet board, even when they haven't met the person in real life. So stop trying to make yourself sound like the most innocent person on here. You've already been proven to be pretty guilty, and you're going against many NPC sorority sisters' wishes. Do yourself a favor and just stop posting.

Why won't this goddamn I key work?! I I I I I!!!!

Who is recruiting? :confused:

You say a lie often enough and people tend to believe it. Soldier on..

*alarm* My dear, first of all, you put me in the wrong category already. I'm a PNAI, not an AI.....if you can't distinguish that, or if your stalking skills are not high enough, then please stop playing detective.

Also, mind you, you are violating us. Yes, you can easily search through the forms and see what we have said (and hence that's why I didn't ask to delete my original post but remain silent on this issue). But what we're talking about here is that you are singling us out and trying to play the blame game saying "Hey, you guys are AI and suppose to be on my side!!"

Sorry dear, we WISHED we could be on your side, but the truth is, through your actions, you were in some way disgusted a good amount of people here. It's more towards your actions my dear, not to general AIs.

So until you see the damage you have caused here, step back and look around you. I assume you're an AI and in a sorority already. So why not do something for your sorority and stop lurking around on the forums playing police? Do something GOOD for your org and stop making a bad name for yourself for CAT'S SAKE!!

add: and to be honest, just to touch on my current situation, I'm not actively pursuing AI at the moment because I want to suceed in my career. And also realize there's so much more to life than AI...so yeah...I rest my case. The reason I still stay on the forums because it's fun :p

To quote from an old tv episode on Borat:

At some sort of animal protection rally in england:

A " You should not kill pigs!!"
B "Yeah, killing pigs is wrong!!"
Borat " but we kill pigs"
A "why do you kill pigs?!"
Borat "because it's FUN!"

Oh wait! Maybe you have me confused with someone else?

8-11-2003, 01:28 PM
SmartBlondeGPhB
Moderator

Advice to PNAMs from an involved alumna

I (and others) have said this before but I feel it
needs some extra emphasis and I would like to add one
comment to all PNAM's.

I can understand your hesitancy to reveal who you are
pursuing to the whole board, however...........

There are a number of us on this board who are very
involved in our GLO's locally and internationally. If
you are having trouble getting in touch with a certain
GLO that you really desire, please contact us
privately and let us help. We have quick and easy ways
to get you the information you need without revealing
any information about you. We can also contact the AC
and inquire on your behalf and can be as discreet as
you desire.

I'm sure I echo the sentiments of others on the board,
but I hate to see the PNAMs having so much trouble
with simply making contact.

07-29-2006, 12:30 AM
cutie_cat_4ever
Registered User

Hi! I'm new here and was really excited to learn the
opportunities for AI. I'm a recent graduate from a
state school in a city that wasn't so huge on
frats/sororities. In fact, we didn't even have houses
for them, how sad! (That's because half of the school
body were commuters, just like me)

I'm transferred into this school when I was a junior
and was totally new to the idea of sororities. I
remember during orientation, there was a period where
we get to meet some of the orgs and greeks on campus.
I was approached by the one group, got interested and
started the rush process.

The only thing that sucked about commuter universities
is that you always have to watch the time, if you need
to take the train that is. And the rush process became
really rough for me. To put the story short, I didn't
receive a bid and later on learned from one of the
ladies that the reason why I didn't get one was
because I was a commuter and I needed to be able to
commit lots of time into the sorority.

After that, I was hesitant to rush again next semester
fear of being rejected for the same reason. I ended up
being involved as a Student Orientation leader,
student ambassadors, professional societies in my
major and a honor society. Despite being involved in
school, trying to manage my grades, I also held two
part time jobs outside. So I understand what their
concern was. But at the end, for two years, I've been
feeling something is missing in me. I always wanted to
be a part of a sorority.

When I found out that AI exists, I was so thrilled. I
hope my age is not a problem (I'm only 23, though I
look 17, hehe, I guess it's an asian thing)

I'm thinking about going for a sorority that I know a
few ladies there and they have a chapter at our
school. They are really lovely ladies who work hard
and being active in school while having a great time
(I regretted for discovering late and not being able
to rush. I was gonna go for my masters and prepare to
rush for them, but plans changed because my school
screwed up with my graduate assitantship...booo) And I
will contact my friend for more details. =)

I know this is a bit off subject. I *think* (please
correct me if I'm wrong) is that there's no asian
sororities in NPC, right? I was also trying to look
into some asian sororities that have AI that I could
also look into, but end up with nothing. (sorry that
it isn't NPC related, but I was just curious)

I hope with now having more time, I can do something
that I always wanted to do and help to make a change
to our society. And I'm always up for meeting new
people and such.

So I guess, that's my intro. I hope it's not too
boring =) and it's nice to meet you all and kudos to
those who created this board =)

Go ahead dear ;) do whatever you want, but did you read that part I said that I personally didn't ask to delete that post? If I did mind, I would have ask mods to delete the post, right my dear? :p

but it makes me think, what point are you try to prove? :D

But they did appoint themselves official AI Forum Trainwreckers.

I just love how they go on and on about how EVERY PNAI is trying to achieve an unfulfilled college dream of joining a sorority, yet so many that bash in the AI forum are AI's themselves.

I guess being an AI and then turning around and bashing AI's (while not telling othes that you were really an AI) is the NEW wave of the future!

Gotta love those old posts when they first joined GC.

Putting them in touch with a local member is very different than being their sponsor. I put women in touch with local members all the time. If someone approaches me and says "Hi, I want to be a Gamma Phi Beta" I'll help them take that first step. After that, it's up to them to not be crazy and up to the alumnae chapter to see if they are a good fit.

I don't think anyone here wants or needs the lice that would come with it.

Hey, you don't want to offend all of the other posters that are AI members and don't want anyone to knw about it! Shhhhhhhhhhhhh!

HAHAHAHA...that was funny. Oh, wait, no it wasn't.:rolleyes:

Hell yeah it was!

Oh, I see...you're the kind of person that laughs at your own jokes.

Explains a lot.

When they are funny...you bet I will.

Hey, wanted to let you know that they are running the old reruns of "Alf" on Nick at Nite!

I've read a lot of what's gone on without posting...but I feel like it's time to put in my $.02:

While I ended up in the right house when I rushed, there was another house I thought I wanted more (and was dropped from there before prefs). While I was happy to accept my bid, I harbored a small feeling of want for that other chapter. On Bid Day they lined us up to go into the sorority suites--and in the line for that other chapter were some of the rudest, snottiest, and meanest girls I had met in college thus far (2 of whom lived on my freshman floor)...and in that moment I realized "Thank G-D they're not my sisters!".
I feel that way now too--to post private information on a public board is the most below-the-belt tactic I've ever seen in order to get attention. If so many people on this board upset you, yes, you have the right to be here, but maybe this isn't the right place for you.
Props to OTW, ariesrising, and the other girls for nicely putting you in your place--if you're really older than I am (and it seems so) then I surely expect more you--be a lady. And grow up. Realize that not everyone shares your opinion--and that's fine--you can have your own--but shoving it down people's throats in a wholly unacceptable way doesn't earn friend points. There's a reason you feel attacked--you're the one attacking--all people are doing is holding up a mirror and letting things bounce back.
You're like that little bug that won't just lay down and die after being squashed--haven't you had enough yet?

/end hijack and rant

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*claps hard* ;)

Sometimes it's called "getting a taste of your own medicine".

I wouldn't put everyone in the "lady' catagory when OTW's myspace reads like an advertisement for porn.

You are right, I don't know these people, but in cases like OTW, a quick review of her myspace will tell the world she swallows. That's more info than I want to know about the majority of people in general.

wow, you stalk people too??? :eek:

A simple solution would be not to look at her myspace then.

No stalking to it, she's posted the link and her myspace screen name on GC.

It gets quite uncomfortable when people say one thing, and then their past posts come back to prove that they were guilty of doing exactly what they have criticized, doesn't it? It's also quite convenient to rewrite history... that is.. until you're caught.

<claps loudly>

I am now officially taking bets on the following:

Are RTL and BA the same person
or just butt buddies?

Things to take into consideration: They know the same information, they exhibit the same behaviors, they both have their online green lights turned off.

Odds will be based on how many people vote each way.

Oh yeah, and the idea that someone can't change their mind based on new information (such as the crazy actions of a member of this forum) is inane.

They do tend to frequent GC at the same time.

Also, neither one can keep up with a conversation and end up double/triple posting to respond to everyone, because they're not savvy enough to multi-quote (even though John specifically ADDED that feature, as to not have to do it manually anymore).

From Marybluereachthelimit's sig:

In other shocking news...WATER IS WET!!

GEORGE W. BUSH IS THE SECOND MEMBER OF HIS FAMILY TO BE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES!

IT TAKES A MOMMY AND A DADDY TO MAKE A BABY!!


I don't know why you think you're telling anyone anything new...cause you're not.

So what's your bet? :D

Sheila - this is coming from the person that thinks it's funny to make AlphaFrog=Alf. Clever, huh?

Schizophrenia with rapidly changing multiple personalities (is there an official Psych term for that?)?

OMG Jess - I can't believe you didn't get this :rolleyes: I went to a festival called the Autumn Leaf Festival which can be abbreviated ALF and we are sorority sisters so obviously your new name should be Alf! Duh!!

Multiple Personality Disorder

+Schizo
+Narcissistic/Borderline

So that's one for "Same person"

Ok, let's be fair. I'm not going to do any personal attacks on this post, but go by logic. What does OTW's myspace has to do with any of the posts in this thread here? Yes, you do have the right to read her myspace. But it is not right to "quote" her myspace out of context to prove your point when her myspace has NOTHING to do with this thread. Taken the fact that I don't know what her myspace, I think it's not fair to use her.

I rest my case.

genius!! :D

Cutie cat... how rude!

Ladies, the ignore button is a wonderful feature. I strongly suggest that you utilize it.

Unfortunatly, it's not effective when people continue to quote the Idiots.

That was priceless.

Me and Mastercard baby :) Now what's your bet: Same person or butt buddies?

If you're going to be such a stickler for the "vulgar" and "obscene" language used on this board, shouldn't you not use it yourself?