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angelove 09-27-2006 04:15 PM

Fun thread!

Mine was a ZTA, but our entire group thought she was a Theta. During the middle of rush, she had us all write down on a piece of paper what we thought she was. It was sort of funny to see her go through all of these pieces of paper and read out "Theta", "Theta", "Theta", "Theta" ... Seriously, pretty much all twelve or so of us thought she was a Theta, but only one in the group pledged Theta, while two (maybe three? I can't remember for sure) went Zeta.

KSUViolet06 09-27-2006 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by aephi alum (Post 1328766)
Slight hijack...

My response was, "Well, you have a 1 in 17 chance of being right about my affiliation. And even if you are right, I'd just be one sister among many. Think about all the affiliated sisters you've met, in each sorority. You should feel at home with the whole group, not just one or two people."


Yeah, in SRC training, the SRC's are actually told not to get into the whole "let's guess what chapter I'm in" thing. Our Panhellenic Advisor tells them to kind of laugh it off and say something like what you posted. It's pretty relevant now especially with Facebook and MySpace. It's SO EASY to find out what sorority an SRC is in. You have a bigger chance of being "outed", so you have to always let the PNMs know that even if you are found to be an XYZ, you are just one of many.

adpiucf 09-27-2006 04:40 PM

You're not alone! I felt the same way after recruitment! Go through recruitment on the other side next fall and then apply to be a PX that spring for the next fall-- you'll have had the best of both worlds! :)

NutBrnHair 09-27-2006 04:49 PM

I have a good memory, but...
 
It's been many years since I've thought about this! First of all, I think we called them Rush Counselors and I don't recall one or two being "assigned" to a group of rushees. I don't think I ever had a one-on-one conversation with any of them. I just attended the group meetings and didn't have any questions!

I do remember my OA (Orientation Assistant) was an ADPi. I'm sure that had an impact on me returning to ADPi for pref.

aggieAXO 09-27-2006 08:55 PM

I think ours were called rush counselers as well-mine was a theta

dgdramadawg 09-27-2006 10:25 PM

My Orientation Leader and my Rho Chi were both Phi Mus!

trideltrockstar 09-28-2006 08:53 AM

My Orientation Leader was actually in Tri Delta! She graduated before I joined (we have deferred rush and she was a senior my freshman year), but she's been back a lot to help out with various events we've had. My Rho Gammas were in Pi Phi, Alpha Gamma Delta, and Alpha Phi.

BabyPiNK_FL 09-28-2006 09:40 AM

For the life of me, I couldn't figure out if my Rho Gamma was an AZD or a Phi Sig. (her hair said one thing but her clothes screamed ???) But by the second night she gave herself away to me by unconciously doing something kinda rude to me (when she realized that my bf was in the "wrong" fraternity while I was asking a recruitment related question) that my ENTIRE rush group also noticed and pointed out to me (even though I obviously had seen it too). She couldn't help herself I suppose. (I was a junior when I rushed so I knew some of the "stereotypes" that went along with each chapter) She was a Rho Gamma again this year too. We talk when we see each other and I don't hold it against her. Most of her chapter probably would have done the same thing at the time and not even thought twice about it cos it was an unconcious reaction. Now, I don't think they'd react the same way.

BetteDavisEyes 09-28-2006 09:58 AM

Well, I had one even though I ended up dropping & COB'd instead.

The two I had after Day 1 were an Alpha Phi (totally thought she was a DZ) and a Tri-Delta (thought she was a GPhiB). Man I was off.

owlie33 09-28-2006 11:02 AM

mine was an ASA....I thought she was a Phi Sigma Sigma.

Most of my group guessed me correctly (Chi O), but PNMs in other Rho Chis' groups thought I was a Tri Sigma.

AlphaFrog 09-28-2006 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by owlie33 (Post 1329235)
mine was an ASA....I thought she was a Phi Sigma Sigma.

Most of my group guessed me correctly (Chi O), but PNMs in other Rho Chis' groups thought I was a Tri Sigma.

I can see thinking an ASA was a PhiSig at WIU...that makes sense...
But a ChiO as a Tri-Sig???:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

PinkandGreenJ 09-28-2006 12:05 PM

Okay, I am missing something....why is mistaking a Chi O for a Tri Sig so shocking?

AlphaFrog 09-28-2006 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by PinkandGreenJ (Post 1329269)
Okay, I am missing something....why is mistaking a Chi O for a Tri Sig so shocking?

Campus culture.

polarpi 09-28-2006 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by adpiucf (Post 1328106)
At UCF we like to confuse the heck out of the new members. For PX reveal, we run out in the wrong jerseys when they announce it is time to learn who's who. I ran out in an Alpha Xi jersey and then changed into my letters for the real reveal. ;)

They did the same thing at my school when I went through :)

Back to the original question: mine was a Gamma Phi Beta - I knew ahead of time, just because she worked the Student Union info desk both freshman and sophomore year (I went through as a sophomore) and I would see her wearing her letters everywhere :) I didn't say anything, and neither did another fellow sophomore PNM - who also worked in the Student Union with our Rho Chi! :cool:

AlphaFrog 09-28-2006 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jessXIca (Post 1329386)
I assumed that she was basically saying that the Chi-Os are very top tier on that campus and the Tri-Sigs are very weak, or vice versa.

Basically...although I don't think I would use top-tier and weak...just...different. You can have two groups that are both good, strong groups, and have completely different personalities/reps.

SydneyK 09-28-2006 04:51 PM

My Rho Chi was a Gamma Phi Beta. I was SURE she was a Delta Gamma.

KD had two Rho Chi's that year - everyone knew (well, we didn't KNOW, but we all thought they were KDs) which group they belonged to. The revealing on Bid Day was more of a confirmation than a reveal. I was so glad to know I was going to be their sister! :)

howtheSunrose 10-08-2006 06:25 PM

I rushed this year- one of mine was a Chi O and the other was a Phi Mu. They asked us to guess and mostly everyone knew which ones they were!

Stef the Pef 11-08-2006 05:13 AM

One of my rho chis was a KD and the other one was a Theta.

There's a funny story about the Theta...I definitely saw her nametag on one of the girls in the Theta room. All the members have to wear a nametag for rush, and the girl rushing me didn't have hers, so she grabbed a random one from the pile. Turns out, it was my rho chi's nametag! I was like, "that name sounds familiar..." and the girl swore up and down that it was a nametag of a girl who graduated a long time ago! That was the first day of formal rush, too, so...haha, whoops...?

epchick 11-08-2006 06:57 AM

There were 2 rho chi's for my group....one was an Alpha Phi and the other was a Tri Sigma.

KillarneyRose 11-08-2006 11:33 PM

The Rho Chis in my rush group were pretty easy to guess; some of them had dark, bobbed hairstyles and hornrimmed eyeglassas in in colors like blue or red. So it was obvious to anyone in the greek system at that time and place that these girls were Tri Deltas. Chi Omegas were easy to spot because of their cashmere twinsets and discrete pears and their almost uniform long, wavy, chunckily highlighted, blonde heads.

33girl 11-09-2006 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by KillarneyRose (Post 1354318)
discrete pears

Is this Pitt-speak for big boobs?

Ocalagirl 11-09-2006 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1354519)
Is this Pitt-speak for big boobs?

That's pretty funny, but thats what I thought she was talking about too.

I know my Rho Gamma was a ZTA and she the steroetyped ZTA. She was thin, with dark hair, and mediteranian look about her. Although there are differences with ZTA, it seems a good majority of them has these looks. I love the ZTA girls here...they are soo nice!

PhoenixAzul 11-09-2006 11:21 PM

Heh, so here goes Rho Chi round number 2 for yours truly. I'm interested to see what my PNMs think I am. I'm matched with a girl from another sorority, and she and I mesh well...truth is, I can see her being in my sorority! We might just fake 'em out. Now, if only the boys would TAKE ME OUT OF THE FACEBOOK PHOTOS FOR THE LOVE OF PETE!

EGAOPi 11-16-2006 07:01 PM

One of mine was a DG and the other one was an AOPi. I knew the one was a DG, but I had NO idea the other one was an AOPi!
I thought she was a TriDelt...we all did...we even had to guess after pref night and not a single person got it right!
The following day when she revealed she was in AOPi, I was SO excited! She definitely kept her cool when I got my bid card--trying to act happy for me but not TOO excited--it was amazing. :)

AngelPhiSig 11-16-2006 09:53 PM

My PX was my BIG! :) I knew she was a Phi Sig because she had cornered me on campus in the fall after I didnt join that semester! I was so excited to have her has my big!

SigKapSweetie 11-16-2006 10:05 PM

Mine were a Kappa, an AOPi, and a KD. It's funny; I've liked every single KD I've met except for her. That girl got on my last nerve!

Kaydee_cutie 11-16-2006 10:11 PM

When I went through recruitment, my Rho Gamma was a Theta Phi Alpha, and I totally knew it the whole week...

This year when I was a Rho Gamma, all of my girls except 1 thought I for sure I was a Kappa Kappa Gamma, and she thought I was a Delta Delta Delta. One actually went Kappa, and called me crying because she thought for sure I would be her new sister...oops :)

PhiMuAmberkins 11-17-2006 01:52 AM

We only have like 450 people at my school, 2 sororities, and I was a junior when I went through recruitment, so I knew. But most of the freshmen who went through didn't. We had an Alpha Xi Delta and a Phi Mu...both were great girls who made the whole experience even better!

PenguinTrax 11-17-2006 09:14 AM

Please do not hotlink to images on other sites and please remember your Panhellenic manners. If you can't say anything nice, then perhaps nothing should be said.

KSUViolet06 11-17-2006 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by PenguinTrax (Post 1358862)
Please do not hotlink to images on other sites and please remember your Panhellenic manners. If you can't say anything nice, then perhaps nothing should be said.

Seriously - there are Chi O's from that chapter who post here.

AlexMack 11-17-2006 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1359087)
Seriously - there are Chi O's from that chapter who post here.

Crap, what'd I miss?

twinkle555 11-17-2006 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by centaur532 (Post 1359092)
Crap, what'd I miss?

Im not even going to repeat what was showed and said..but it was very rude and discriminating towards chi-o's. we'll leave it at that and move on.

Duchovnysfan 11-26-2006 08:45 AM

In my group we had 3 Rho Chis: A Delta Gamma, an Alpha Phi and a Pi Beta Phi; all fabulous ladies :)

I was right about one being Delta Gamma b/c I was friends with her little sis in the sorority. The one from Alpha Phi, I thought was in Delta Zeta and the one from Pi Beta Phi, I thought was in Kappa Alpha Theta.

It was funny b/c I was absolutely convinced I was right. We were all trying to guess in front of them, they had a great poker faces ;)

ZetaBaby87 11-26-2006 07:01 PM

mine was a ZTA and I was really excited when I found out because I thought she was pretty awesome =)

KSUViolet06 11-28-2006 02:09 PM

I didn't join Sigma through formal recruitment. But my freshman year, my orientation teacher was an SRC. I had friends that were rushing, so I was curious about it. She would talk to me about going Greek and answer all my questions. In the end, I decided not to go through, because I wanted to focus on school and make friends in the other club I was in.

Fast forward to the spring of sophomore year. I became interested in sororities again, and decided to check out Sigma. So I do informal recruitment & get a bid. That March, I was hanging out at Songfest, which is a big competition that lots of sorority alumnae come back to Kent for.

I'm talking, and someone walks up behind me and says "Jocelyn?' I turn around and sure enough, it's SRC girl in MY letters. She was a Sigma alumna.

UCFgirl 11-28-2006 03:57 PM

My rho gamma was a Kappa Kappa Gamma. I guessed it right everyday out of pure dumb luck. I wasnt really paying attention to guessing all that much.

I was a rho gamma last year, and by the end of the week only about 3 girls in my small group had guessed me, most of them thought I was an ADPi. Which makes sense I have a ton of friends in that chapter right now :) The end of day one 12 out of 17 girls thought I was an ADPi.

The girls in my big group absolutely horrible at guessing the 4 of us. Very few ever got us right, but they were usually pretty cood about not guessing the chapters we obviously did not fit into.

Ocalagirl 11-28-2006 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by UCFgirl (Post 1363485)
My rho gamma was a Kappa Kappa Gamma. I guessed it right everyday out of pure dumb luck. I wasnt really paying attention to guessing all that much.

I was a rho gamma last year, and by the end of the week only about 3 girls in my small group had guessed me, most of them thought I was an ADPi. Which makes sense I have a ton of friends in that chapter right now :) The end of day one 12 out of 17 girls thought I was an ADPi.

The girls in my big group absolutely horrible at guessing the 4 of us. Very few ever got us right, but they were usually pretty cood about not guessing the chapters we obviously did not fit into.

she was in my rho gamma group (not my rho gamma, but there was 4 in our group) and I DEFINITELY did not see you as a Alpha Xi. I think I said you were an ADPi too (and another group too but I don't remember what I guessed), but I also kept changing my answers until I finally looked at my master look (evil laugh;)...although a lot of groups on campus could easily have the same people, there are some groups that distinctively are their own (in a very good way).

Ocalagirl 11-30-2006 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jessXIca (Post 1364397)
I have to say that she is the perfect example of a Panhellenic woman and an excellent choice for a Rho Gamma- an outsider could view her as fitting in with any chapter, and she has a deep respect for all of them.

I completely agree!! She and the others in my group ALWAYS had something great to say about EVERY chapter and while I know they are supposed to, it was never forced it was always volunteered...you could tell they meant it. I know it might sound corny, but thats the truth in my opinion.

KillarneyRose 11-30-2006 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1354519)
Is this Pitt-speak for big boobs?

LOLOL!!! I just now finally read this. Nah, S., it's just a typo for "pearls". Pittspeak back then for big boobs was, if I recall correctly, "bodacious tatas"!

gogoaphi 12-08-2006 10:11 PM

I *thought* my RG was an Alpha Chi. I was so convinced of it and I liked her so much that I felt really guilty when I regretted Alpha Chi on the first round of invites. Sooooo ... I then proceeded to accept their invite when they re-invited and released Tri-Delta thinking that I was showing her that I was really interested in being in whatever organization she was a part of. Anyway ... a few days later, I actually picked Alpha Phi feeling terribly guilty that I wasn't putting her sorority on my list for Preference. On bid day, I found out she was a Tri-Delt. I was totally clueless during recruitment! :D

Moral of the story: Don't try to please your RG. :p


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