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Kevin 09-13-2006 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl (Post 1320036)
LOL, I got it. I don't know, I just get annoyed by this stuff sometimes. Everything is about race. It's ridiculous. I'm more offended by the porn factor than the black factor.

Don't ever go to an art museum. ;)

mulattogyrl 09-13-2006 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 1320038)
Don't ever go to an art museum. ;)

lol

Elephant Walk 09-13-2006 05:04 PM

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Y'ALL do not find it offensive because you are not in their shoes. Many of y'all are quick to down play the situation when something like this happens....

Anyways, I'm not surprised by this. It is UGA after all.
You are very ignorant.

It's not really a question of what is offensive. I think it's more classless then offensive. There are better things to do with ones time.

What does UGA have anything to do with it? Anything? Remind me again, where all the race riots have occurred in the last 15 - 20 years? Philly, LA, and so on. The ignorance comes from within the ghettoes of these cities, not from the middle class South.

Kevlar281 09-13-2006 05:09 PM

Well I don’t care what anyone says I enjoy watching Flavor of Love 2…wait what thread is this?

AlphaFrog 09-13-2006 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1320042)
The ignorance comes from within the ghettoes of these cities, not from the middle class South.

Did you attend the Dan Quayle School of Spelling?

LaneSig 09-13-2006 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1320042)
You are very ignorant.

It's not really a question of what is offensive. I think it's more classless then offensive. There are better things to do with ones time.

What does UGA have anything to do with it? Anything? Remind me again, where all the race riots have occurred in the last 15 - 20 years? Philly, LA, and so on. The ignorance comes from within the ghettoes of these cities, not from the middle class South.

"Being called ignorant by a regular Greekchatter is like being called racist by a liberal, you know they're losing the argument." - Elephant Walk, Sept. 5, 2006 9:40 pm "AOPi at Arkansas" thread.

DSTCHAOS 09-13-2006 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple (Post 1319956)
My point exactly.

Really?

Kevin 09-13-2006 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp (Post 1320033)
Doesnt some one get offended about something or offended by anything!

When it comes to white on black, it gets press, when it comes on black on white then it is a cover up?

Tom, it's not really press, it's just some race baiting jagoff who thought they should write an editorial to inflame racial tensions.

Tom Earp 09-13-2006 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1320045)
Did you attend the Dan Quayle School of Spelling?

Just curious, what was the reason for the spelling be post? Should this be reported?

Eveveryone has a bad hair day, how about you?:)


Kevin, of course it is as some or most of us should know.;)



But, as a conjuntive adjactive some find more different.:D

EE-BO 09-13-2006 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple (Post 1319915)
It WAS offensive if black women do find it offensive. That's reality. Y'ALL do not find it offensive because you are not in their shoes. Many of y'all are quick to down play the situation when something like this happens....

Anyways, I'm not surprised by this. It is UGA after all.

Who is debating whether black women would find it offensive? I am sure some did. I am sure a lot of people who are not black women find this offensive. That is what makes this incident so dumb- that is was a pointless public exhibition that served no purpose whatsoever.

But this is a free country and this was freedom of expression- even if that freedom was exercised in the poorest of taste.

The punishment for being offensive is that your reputation suffers in the public eye.

Yet now there are people on this thread who think Chi Phi should be kicked off campus even though, a) we don't have all the facts and, b) individuals on this forum- myself included- have offered some more insight into why this particular incident, given the facts presented, is not a clear cut case of wrongdoing by Chi Phi as a chapter or national organization.

But to top it off, you have now said "This is UGA after all" and you are making a definitive statement about a 30,000 member University based on the actions of 7 freshman who made a very bad decision.

This is the kind of thing that kills civil debate. I and others have tried to frame a discussion around this which gets to very important issues about Risk Management and how an adult should behave when representing himself and another group of people.

And the response from some has been to say basically,

1. White men
2. Fraternity
3. Southern University
4. Guilty
5. Kick a whole chapter of a fraternity off campus (and out of school too no doubt if some of you had your way)

How does that attitude to anything to better anybody's situation here? How is that a rational response to what really happened here?

Last time I looked this was GreekChat.com. How is the turn this thread has taken doing anything to forward forum members' understanding and handling of a situation that involves a fraternal organization?

Firehouse 09-13-2006 09:15 PM

OK, the fact is that these guys are idiots, and that puts them solidly in a large category of college students. I don't know if freedom of expression is enough to get the fraternity off the hook for this aprticular act of stupidity.

However, it's interesting that had Chi Phi members been participatng in some sort of sophomoric sociology experiment churned out by some grad student, the whole thing would be written off as an academic exercise ("We were tryin to record the reaction of random people, man.").

Chi Phi would be wise to shut up, apologize to everyone, and lay low for awhile.

BabyPiNK_FL 09-13-2006 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1319845)
Have fun being poor and hairy.

Why would you assume that because I take Women's Studies classes that A) it is my major and future career path and B) I am a hairy person? I am NOT a feminist, but I do identify with many of the issues that they tackle because I am a woman. We are learning in our course how many woman avoid feminism because people (like yourself for example) like to make negative and offensive remarks that broadly stereotype their physical characteristics, sexuality, and career choices. We are also discussing how men (the dominant class) use "scare tactics" like your words above to discourage (whether knowingly doing so or not) women from defending their rights because of the dominant patriachal society that has been with us since the dawn of man/woman. I don't have a problem with ANYONE taking their clothes off to make money, but I do have a problem with someone feeling that it is okay to expose these pictures to those who are not willing viewers. Even now if someone wants to debate whether it's sexist or racist, that's fine, they have the right to do so. But I (as is ME MYSELF AND I AND NOT SPEAKING FOR ANY OTHER PERSON BUT MYSELF) firmly believe that tolerance of such acts (like the ones committed), if not addressed and immediately dealt with, give the impression that behavior like this is okay. And it's NOT OKAY.

DSTCHAOS 09-13-2006 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyPiNK_FL (Post 1320235)
Why would you assume that because I take Women's Studies classes that A) it is my major and future career path and B) I am a hairy person? I am NOT a feminist, but I do identify with many of the issues that they tackle because I am a woman. We are learning in our course how many woman avoid feminism because people (like yourself for example) like to make negative and offensive remarks that broadly stereotype their physical characteristics, sexuality, and career choices. We are also discussing how men (the dominant class) use "scare tactics" like your words above to discourage (whether knowingly doing so or not) women from defending their rights because of the dominant patriachal society that has been with us since the dawn of man/woman.

I used to be on the "I'm NOT a feminist" tangent because I bought into the (gendered) stereotypes.

For clarity's sake:
There are different waves and extremes of feminism since the formal feminist wave of the 1970s. All that aside, being a (male or female) feminist simply means that you believe in equality across sex and gender.

DSTCHAOS 09-13-2006 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Firehouse (Post 1320203)
However, it's interesting that had Chi Phi members been participatng in some sort of sophomoric sociology experiment churned out by some grad student, the whole thing would be written off as an academic exercise ("We were tryin to record the reaction of random people, man.").

At many institutions, the students AND instructors/faculty member(s) in charge would be subject to disciplinary action.

ETA: No TAs with a grain of brain and ethics would think up such an exercise for undergraduates. But if they did, they would be smart enough to consult the sociology department and Institutional Review Board (IRB) beforehand.

Elephant Walk 09-13-2006 10:53 PM

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"Being called ignorant by a regular Greekchatter is like being called racist by a liberal, you know they're losing the argument." - Elephant Walk, Sept. 5, 2006 9:40 pm "AOPi at Arkansas" thread.
That woul be a death knell quote....if I were a regular Greekchatter. However, by calling me one is a pretty good offense...and there was no argument.

BabyPiNK_FL 09-13-2006 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1320242)
I used to be on the "I'm NOT a feminist" tangent because I bought into the (gendered) stereotypes.

For clarity's sake:
There are different waves and extremes of feminism since the formal feminist wave of the 1970s. All that aside, being a (male or female) feminist simply means that you believe in equality across sex and gender.

I say that I'm not a feminist because for me it means being an active advocate for the rights of females. At this point in time, while I gladly stand up for my rights as best as I can, I don't have time to pursue them heavily. Perhaps when I'm older with a steady, proper job then I will devote more time to raising awareness for the worldwide injustice towards women. Right now, I'm just trying to make it through college! :o

DSTCHAOS 09-13-2006 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyPiNK_FL (Post 1320262)
I say that I'm not a feminist because for me it means being an active advocate for the rights of females.

That's not what it means, though.

DSTCHAOS 09-13-2006 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1320254)
That woul be a death knell quote....if I were a regular Greekchatter. However, by calling me one is a pretty good offense...and there was no argument.

Huh? LOL

This retort is as humorous as when you argued that slavery was anti-capitalism. :D

Elephant Walk 09-13-2006 11:08 PM

I don't want to argue it here...but how is there any possible way that slavery could pro-capitalism? How? seriously, slavery is the antithesis of capitalism. Slavery mixes well with mercantilism, but that's borderline fascism.

tld221 09-13-2006 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1320263)
That's not what it means, though.

:light bulb: hey babypink, how bout you readjust that definition for us at the end of the semester sweets?

i dont know why women (or men) are afraid to identify with feminism. anyone who has some college education should know that feminism is not all the non-shaven, man-hating, equal-rights-wanting nonsense one thinks it is. and like sistergreek DSTCHAOS said, there are different waves of feminism that may or may not fit to your "i'm NOT a feminism" attitude.

to quote one of my professors (who considered herself feminist and womanist) re: feminism:

"when i realized that my opinion mattered, people were willing to listen to my opinion, and was no longer afraid to share it, that's when i knew i was a feminist, and furthermore a woman." think about that when you say "my opinion is just my opinion."

i know, i digress, but such is the state of GC these days. carry on.

EE-BO 09-14-2006 01:02 AM

Digress away,

"Who Stole Feminism" by Cristina Hoff Summer tells an intelligent tale about what happens when a vital social movement achieves its goals as an advocacy movement (meaning that further improvement is possible- but the need for political intervention has passed) and is then grotesquely twisted to fill the empty lives of an increasingly fanatical minority who need to find an outlet to deal with personal issues.

The same can be said for other movements as well.

Someone is going to misread this and go off- but oh well. I said it as carefully and succinctly as possible- so to hell with it.

Soul D-Psi-ple 09-14-2006 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 1319973)
Yes, the similarity is that some people find all these things to be offensive. Are you going to try and tell me that your being offended is worht more than someone else being offended? That's pretty darned arrogant.
No. I said that comparing the issue of abortion to racism does not make any sense. Now, of course this is my opinion. People debate about whether abortion is right or wrong. When it comes the issue of racism, IT IS CLEARY WRONG! LOL That's what I'm saying.

People opposed to abortion (again, I'm not one of them, but I think this is a great example {if you say so...})believe that abortion is the same as killing babies. What you are saying is that it's okay to offend someone who thinks you're promoting baby killing (never said that), but an action which states nothing racist, but makes you feel they had racial intentions (it was inappropriate) is not okay? Those are some interesting lines you've drawn there.

So you'd like the government to protect you from things which offend people? Or just things which offend only you?

I could careless actually.

You're asking for the government to close an organization which can't even directly be connected to the event. Their only connection was that these (two?) kids were members and they were doing something which caused contraversy. So far, you nor anyone has been able to show the fact that Chi Phi is directly responsible for this.

I don't believe any org should be closed. I hate seeing that. They should be punished however.

You'd have the University penalize the entire organization without a shred of proof other than circumstance and speculation just because some probationary members did something maybe on their own accord which angered you. Am I not accurate?

Those probationary MEMBERS represent Chi Phi. There are some things that you just don't do when you are representing a national organization. Actions must take place. Chi Phi IS responsible for the actions of their PROBATIONARY MEMBERS and they must be accountable for them.

People! These are grown @ss men! Let them be accountable for their actions! LOL

Soul D-Psi-ple 09-14-2006 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1320018)
Why does it happening at UGA have anything to do with it?

The fact that YOU even said something....

Soul D-Psi-ple 09-14-2006 02:27 AM

Y'all are on feminism now? Wow.

mulattogyrl 09-14-2006 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyPiNK_FL (Post 1320235)
Why would you assume that because I take Women's Studies classes that A) it is my major and future career path and B) I am a hairy person? I am NOT a feminist, but I do identify with many of the issues that they tackle because I am a woman. We are learning in our course how many woman avoid feminism because people (like yourself for example) like to make negative and offensive remarks that broadly stereotype their physical characteristics, sexuality, and career choices. We are also discussing how men (the dominant class) use "scare tactics" like your words above to discourage (whether knowingly doing so or not) women from defending their rights because of the dominant patriachal society that has been with us since the dawn of man/woman. I don't have a problem with ANYONE taking their clothes off to make money, but I do have a problem with someone feeling that it is okay to expose these pictures to those who are not willing viewers. Even now if someone wants to debate whether it's sexist or racist, that's fine, they have the right to do so. But I (as is ME MYSELF AND I AND NOT SPEAKING FOR ANY OTHER PERSON BUT MYSELF) firmly believe that tolerance of such acts (like the ones committed), if not addressed and immediately dealt with, give the impression that behavior like this is okay. And it's NOT OKAY.

Girl I don't even know why you answered him. LOL

starang21 09-14-2006 09:10 AM

at least get paid for the pr0n

mulattogyrl 09-14-2006 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1320415)
at least get paid for the pr0n

LOL!

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple (Post 1320369)
Y'all are on feminism now? Wow.

What do you mean by this?

MysticCat 09-14-2006 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple (Post 1320362)
Those probationary MEMBERS represent Chi Phi. There are some things that you just don't do when you are representing a national organization. Actions must take place. Chi Phi IS responsible for the actions of their PROBATIONARY MEMBERS and they must be accountable for them.

So when Chi Phi accepted these guys as pledges, the chapter assumed responsibility for every thing any pledge does? Remarkable.

If two underage, probationary members of your chapter are caught drinking in their dorm rooms or on the sidewalk, should your whole chapter be held accountable and punished?

PM_Mama00 09-14-2006 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1320415)
at least get paid for the pr0n


Lol for once I like one of your responses!

Kevin 09-14-2006 10:37 AM

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No. I said that comparing the issue of abortion to racism does not make any sense. Now, of course this is my opinion. People debate about whether abortion is right or wrong. When it comes the issue of racism, IT IS CLEARY WRONG! LOL That's what I'm saying.
Not so long ago, this statement was not true. I'm not sure it's even true today. There are some folks who think racism is perfectly alright, that their race is superior to the other(s), etc. They might not call it racism, but "white supremacy," or folks that believe in the melanin theory, etc.

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People opposed to abortion (again, I'm not one of them, but I think this is a great example [/b]{if you say so...}[/b])believe that abortion is the same as killing babies. What you are saying is that it's okay to offend someone who thinks you're promoting baby killing (never said that), but an action which states nothing racist, but makes you feel they had racial intentions (it was inappropriate) is not okay? Those are some interesting lines you've drawn there.
Okay, so you think that the group rallying for abortion rights ought to be punished for their views if they offend others? Because if you say you "never said that," then you must be supportive of the idea of punishing ANY offensive speach. The trouble with that is that what is offensive to one person is not offensive to another. Where do you want to draw the line? Would you punish Christians rallying against homosexual rights? Or would you punish homosexuals rallying against Christians? Israelis protesting terrorist activities? Or would you punish Palestinian students for protesting the Israeli occupation?

You don't seem to mind punishing some speach, so which speach is okay, and which isn't? Are you the one who gets to decide this? Also, what makes you think that this is racism? The picture is of a black woman. So what? Are all pictures of black women racist?

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Those probationary MEMBERS represent Chi Phi. There are some things that you just don't do when you are representing a national organization. Actions must take place. Chi Phi IS responsible for the actions of their PROBATIONARY MEMBERS and they must be accountable for them.
What type of 'actions' would you have take place? I appreciate that you are offended, but besides you, who should care about your being offended? Why Chi Phi? Why not also punish the French Club if these guys are members of that as well?

I don't mean to sound harsh. I appreciate your responses.

PhrozenGod01 09-14-2006 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1320246)
At many institutions, the students AND instructors/faculty member(s) in charge would be subject to disciplinary action.

ETA: No TAs with a grain of brain and ethics would think up such an exercise for undergraduates. But if they did, they would be smart enough to consult the sociology department and Institutional Review Board (IRB) beforehand.

I have to disagree a little bit. I have done two such experiments for sociology classes in high school and college. They were more open ended though. They did not specifically tell us to show porn to people or anything like that, but we were all supposed to do something deviant in public. The instructors and TA's told us before we began, that if students broke any laws, those same students would be fully liable. So if people get arrested, beat up, or punished for their actions in the experiment, it's their own fault.

In this case, I could care less to a point. I'm kind of glad that those Chi Phi pledges are seeing their first amendment rights cut up and used against them. I kind of think about what would have happened a few decades ago if some Black students, greek or not, had pulled that same kind of stunt with a Playboy or something. Even if it was perfectly legal, I shudder to think of how severely they would have been dealt with by students and staff alike.

DSTCHAOS 09-14-2006 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1320269)
I don't want to argue it here


Good idea. ;)

DSTCHAOS 09-14-2006 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by EE-BO (Post 1320331)
Digress away,

"Who Stole Feminism" by Cristina Hoff Summer tells an intelligent tale about what happens when a vital social movement achieves its goals as an advocacy movement (meaning that further improvement is possible- but the need for political intervention has passed) and is then grotesquely twisted to fill the empty lives of an increasingly fanatical minority who need to find an outlet to deal with personal issues.

The same can be said for other movements as well.

Someone is going to misread this and go off- but oh well. I said it as carefully and succinctly as possible- so to hell with it.

What did you supposedly say carefully and succinctly? Translation please.

DSTCHAOS 09-14-2006 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01 (Post 1320477)
They did not specifically tell us to show porn to people or anything like that. The instructors and TA's told us before we began, that if students broke any laws, those same students would be fully liable. So if people get arrested, beat up, or punished for their actions in the experiment, it's their own fault.


Then you don't really disagree with me.

The law holds the students accountable but the institutions hold the (students and) TAs/faculty accountable. Been there, done that.

DSTCHAOS 09-14-2006 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple (Post 1320369)
Y'all are on feminism now? Wow.

We're actually still "on" (racial and) gendered stereotypes.

Forest through the trees, and all that good stuff.

PhrozenGod01 09-14-2006 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1320488)
Then you don't really disagree with me.

You're right. I just haven't said anything in a while.

Soul D-Psi-ple 09-14-2006 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat81 (Post 1320429)
So when Chi Phi accepted these guys as pledges, the chapter assumed responsibility for every thing any pledge does? Remarkable.

From the MOMENT these guys became probationary MEMBERS, they became one of the many representatives of that chapter. It's not my fault that they weren't mindful of their actions even they knew that OTHERS knew that they were associated with the UGA chapter of Chi Phi.

If two underage, probationary members of your chapter are caught drinking in their dorm rooms or on the sidewalk, should your whole chapter be held accountable and punished?

I'd love to answer this, but to be honest, this little scenario you just layed down would never take place.

:rolleyes:

Soul D-Psi-ple 09-14-2006 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 1320469)
Not so long ago, this statement was not true. I'm not sure it's even true today. There are some folks who think racism is perfectly alright, that their race is superior to the other(s), etc. They might not call it racism, but "white supremacy," or folks that believe in the melanin theory, etc.

Maaaaaaaaaaaaan, no matter how you look at it, racism is wrong. LOL.

Okay, so you think that the group rallying for abortion rights ought to be punished for their views if they offend others? Because if you say you "never said that," then you must be supportive of the idea of punishing ANY offensive speach. The trouble with that is that what is offensive to one person is not offensive to another. Where do you want to draw the line? Would you punish Christians rallying against homosexual rights? Or would you punish homosexuals rallying against Christians? Israelis protesting terrorist activities? Or would you punish Palestinian students for protesting the Israeli occupation?

Wow, you're really putting ALOT of words in my mouth. Stop it.

You don't seem to mind punishing some speach, so which speach is okay, and which isn't? Are you the one who gets to decide this? Also, what makes you think that this is racism? The picture is of a black woman. So what? Are all pictures of black women racist?

We're going to throw out this Racism ish, it's really not fitting well in this arguement. To whom ever brought it up, shame on you. Anyways, I believe the reason why some black women were offended by what the pledges was because it looks like they are flat out degraded black women. Why not show naken pictures white, asian, hispanic, or middle eastern women too? True the women in the photographs degraded themselves by being in the pictures but that's another whole issue. Why just black women? IF they were offended they have every right to be. And still I say, what they did was inappropriate. Had they shown pictures of naked women of other races it still would be inappropriate and they still should face reprocutions(sp). Should the whole chapter be punished? No, but they will need to answer for these guys and they cleary did and are cooperating with the administration. If it was found that the chapter was behind this then, yea, they should be punished. Period.


What type of 'actions' would you have take place? I appreciate that you are offended, but besides you, who should care about your being offended? Why Chi Phi? Why not also punish the French Club if these guys are members of that as well?

Oh, I'm not offended. Just bored. Anyways, sactions are always a good start. Now, kicking folks off the yard is harsh. But, sending a simple message saying that some actions are just unacceptable is ok to me. You don't have to suspend chapters for incidents like that.
I don't mean to sound harsh. I appreciate your responses.

Intelligence doesn't sound harsh to me.

Soul D-Psi-ple 09-14-2006 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl (Post 1320418)


What do you mean by this?

I feel like I'm in Intro to Political Science.

mulattogyrl 09-14-2006 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple (Post 1320559)
I feel like I'm in Intro to Political Science.


Hold up, you don't have to get smart with me. I just asked a question. You need to calm your ass down just a tad, for real. I asked that because I thought that's what we WERE talking about.


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