In on the excessive body hair bandwagon. NO back hair please, it's disgusting. Not too much chest hair either.
Horrible acne.
Shorter than me.
Scrawny
Hands the same size or smaller than mine (I have tiny hands and my ex had the same size hands despite being a big guy.)

Facial hair (of any kind)

Bad teeth (I wake up with perfect teeth every day and except the same)

Tatoos where they can be seen.

Dandruff

Failure to be able to dress correct for the occasion

Excessive cursing or overtly sexual comments

Bad table manners

Smoking (it's like kissing an ash tray) or tobacco use of any kind.

EWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

I refuse to date a guy that has more personal care products than me.

The only thing that is remotely acceptable...is when a guy gets a small blimish (and any of them can be prone to them regardless of how old), if they want to use a drop of cover up, it's much better than staring at a red, infected zit. I'll let them slide on that one.

Ahhh...sort of like "no neck" on guys that pump up too much?

Yuk!

Oh, I used to say the same thing about bald guys, but a shaved head looks 100% better than trying to hang on to that massively receeding hairline.

When my daughter was born, and they noticed her hair was different from mine, they would ask, "Does she get her hair from her father?" and I would jokingly say, "I don't know...I never saw it".

Which is true...he used to be a fitness model and still is very much into body building and has always shaved his head.

LOL. Why? What's up with the hands?

Men with smaller hands than me freak me out, it's just so awkward to see a guy who is well proportioned, (ie nice wide shoulders, not skinny, not fat, muscular but not grossly so, and so on) but then has TINY, tiny hands. And I am uncomfortable too when I hold their hands if they're smaller than mine, that makes me feel like a giant ogre or something, yech. Plus it seems like in every relationship I've ever been in there is a point where we'll hold our hands up to one another's (palms touching) to measure them against the other's. If you measure yours against a guy's and yours are bigger (as a girl), well I get embarassed by that (and yes, it has happened) so this could also play into the fear of men with small hands (again, back to the whole feeling like a huge ogre thing).

This reminds me of the Seinfeld date episode where Jerry refuses to date a woman because she has "man hands!"

-Men shorter than me.
-Overly obese
-BAD TEETH.
-Piercings
-A bunch of tattoos
-Facial hair
-BO
-Smokers or guys who chew
-Having poor grammar.

This counts out most of the men in my area.

Do you have large hands? I know I wouldn't date a woman who had bigger hands than me. There's something wrong with that picture.

I saw that episode. That was too funny.

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention women with a little peach fuzz above the lip. That's an immediate rejection.

What if you married what you thought was the perfect guy, but after about 10 years of marriage and two kids he ended up with a gut and stopped taking care of his teath, and he also started to smell like spoiled lunch meat only on the weekends since he didn't have to go to work. LOL. Would you divorce him? LOL. I'm in tears I can't stop laughing. Be honest.

I could never get near someone with halitosis, let alone date them or "be intimate". It's one thing to have temporary bad breath from eating a caeser salad a half hour ago and then brushing your teeth (but let's face it, you kind of have to "metabolize" the garlic out of your system). It's quite another to have halitosis and essentially have a putrified mouth. GRRRRROSSS!

So you wouldn't date a guy if his breath smelled like 10 pounds of chitlins? LOL.

This wasn't directed at me, but what the heck ...

If my SO starts to disintegrate and get all nasty, I'm not going to divorce him over it, but hopefully he'll start wondering why he stopped getting any and clean his azz up. Otherwise, I guess I'd have to be more direct about it and try to force him to clean up, because I don't want to even live in the same house as somebody with bad hygiene issues and doesn't take care of himself. Ew. 'Specially if we have kids. (Sets a bad example and all that.)

I would threaten divorce until he cleaned his act up :)

Ok, I'm guilty of fake nails.

I hate BO
Bad Teeth
Excessive Body Hair
Beards! ewwwwww!

So if his breath smelled like 10lbs of chitlins(LOL) all the time, even if he used listerine it still smelled, you would still stay with him? What if you didn't have any kids with him? Then would you let him go?

What if he never cleaned his act up? Would you follow through with the divorce?

I usually keep my word ;) It all really depends on how bad it gets..there's plenty of fish in the sea, ya know.

If everything I tried just didn't work, then I would divorce him, especially if we had kids. That kind of thing is an awful example to be setting for your kids, I wouldn't want them to turn out all nasty too.

I just saw this. LMAO. Why it gotta be 10 lbs. of chitlins? LOL!!!

What else would smell worse? LOL. Oh, I guess smelling like spoiled lunch meat could be worse. LOL:p

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Hey--I've gotten better! Though if by "starts to disintegrate" you mean "will need knee replacements" I guess I'm screwed...

The thing that I try to stray away from is a girl with a lot of moles on her. I feel bad because then my eyes start to stray towards the moles and I don't want to focus on that.

Another thing to ask the girls they mention they want a clean guy but not a feminine one. I have not done this, nor probably will but a man that gets pedicures is this a no no? or a man that uses lotion to have smooth hands is this a no no as well?

I like a man that is well groomed....but when you start to out do me...that's a problem.
Example:
1. If we go to the same hairdresser...problem
2. If you gossip more than one of my friends and start of a convo with, "what in the world is she wearing"...problem
3. If you are trying to dress me and pick out my outfits....problem
4. If you hog the mirror from me....we gonna have to fight, b/c the mirror is MINE!

:) I don't know if this is physical apperance or attitude but anyone that doesn't take care of herself or doesn't eat right or exersise regularlry. Not saying she has to be a supermodel rail thin chick but I like to be the bigger one.

That episode was too funny! "She had man Hands" lol

What if he wanted to pick out an outfit for you to wear that turned him on? Would that bother you?
What if he was getting his hair cut at the same hairdresser before he met you? Would you still be with him?
Daaaaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!!!!!!!!! A brotha can't even check himself out in mirror???? LOL

Do you consider eating chitlins, fatback and stuff like that unhealthy? What if she looked good but could destroy a bowl of greens and fatback in 2 minutes. Would you still be with her? LOL.

Agreed

Agreed. I'd date a girl with red hair if she was hot, but 99/100 times that isn't the case.



Agreed

That's creepy.

You may make a suggestion on an outfit, but anything other than that is NO and quite frankly just plain Ike Turnerish.
No man should be going to my hair dresser. She does women's hair...so if a man was to go to her that would mean that his hair style has some feminine quallities to it....NO THANK YOU!

When you said hairdresser, I thought you meant the same place not the same hairdresser. What's so Ike Turnerish about a man wanting his woman to wear something that turns him on?

Unless the guy has erectile dysfuction issues of some sort and/or the woman is really ugly, why would having her wear something "that turns him on" even be an issue? Is getting turned on difficult?

A guy picking out an outfit for a woman to wear that "turns him on" smacks of control issues. The way you said it makes it seem like she's his little dress-up doll or something. Ew.

What? They don't have alcohol where they live?

HEE. :D

LMAO:p

My father told me that I should never let a man you are not married to buy you clothes...

Because he will buy you a dress and say "let me see you in it". And you show him and wear him...

Then he will buy you a shirt and says "let me see you in it". And you show him and wear him...

And then he will buy you a string and will say, "let me see you in it!!!"

Will you show him the string, too?