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CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 08:14 AM

Anybody ever heard of Fleet Phospho soda?

The both of you need an entire bottle to yourselves.


Like I said before...MOVING RIGHT ALONG... :rolleyes:

Professor 04-21-2006 08:28 AM

lol frat - but seriouly, this is no way to treat our sisters!!!!!!

Quote:

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
Anybody ever heard of Fleet Phospho soda?

The both of you need an entire bottle to yourselves.


Like I said before...MOVING RIGHT ALONG... :rolleyes:


enigma_AKA 04-21-2006 08:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
Anybody ever heard of Fleet Phospho soda?

The both of you need an entire bottle to yourselves.


Like I said before...MOVING RIGHT ALONG... :rolleyes:

Hahahaha--you are tttthooooo funnnnnnnny. I've never heard of this product; perhaps I should try it out! ;)

Professor, it's okay. We all have slow family members who we just *sigh*, SOH and say "Ok, you're right. You're absolutely correct" for the sake of not arguing with the overly sensitive. :)

It's been one helluva day and it's not even 8.00am! :eek:

enigma_AKa

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 09:13 AM

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Originally posted by enigma_AKA
Hahahaha--you are tttthooooo funnnnnnnny. I've never heard of this product; perhaps I should try it out! ;)

Professor, it's okay. We all have slow family members who we just *sigh*, SOH and say "Ok, you're right. You're absolutely correct" for the sake of not arguing with the overly sensitive. :)

It's been one helluva day and it's not even 8.00am! :eek:

enigma_AKa


Fleet Phospho soda:

As a laxative, for relief of occasional constipation. As a purgative, for use as part of a bowel cleansing regimen in preparing for surgery, x-ray or endoscopic examination. Generally produces in bowel movement in 30 minutes to 6 hours. When taken as directed, laxative action is gentle, virtually free from the likelihood of gastrointestinal discomfort or irritation, and is safe for the age groups indicated.

For best results, take on an empty stomach: upon rising, at least 30 minutes before a meal, or at bedtime for overnight action. Dilute recommended dosage with 1/2 glass (4 fl oz) cool water. Drink, then follow with 1 glass (8 fl oz) cool water. SINGLE DAILY DOSAGE: DO NOT TAKE MORE UNLESS DIRECTED BY A DOCTOR. SEE WARNINGS. Adults and children 12 years and over: 20 to 45 mL* (4 to 9 teaspoons*). Children 10 and 11 years: 10 to 20 mL* (2 to 4 teaspoons*). Children 5 to 9 years*: 5 to 10 mL* (1 to 2 teaspoons*). Children under 5 years: Ask a doctor. DO NOT TAKE MORE THAN THIS AMOUNT IN A 24-HOUR PERIOD. Method of Action: Saline laxatives increase retention of water in the intestine, thereby promoting bowel movement.


Have a nice day :D

enigma_AKA 04-21-2006 09:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by enigma_AKA
"Ok, you're right. You're absolutely correct." :D

enigma_AKA

;)

enigma_AKA

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 09:27 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Professor
lol frat - but seriouly, this is no way to treat our sisters!!!!!!
Oh really, brother Professor? Oh, I see--it's okay for the sorors to rag tag the new members but the new members better walk a tight rope? Come on now, frat. I hope that isn't the case. I'm just here to share my opinions and thoughts. In the case of this thread, I'm only speaking on the subject BlackAdam braught up in his post:

Quote:

I noticed this trend back in the day when I was undergrad, and it appears to be the same way these days. I say this because I visited my old campus the other day, and overheard one of my neo's saying he hates dating girls in sororities because he noticed that most of them only date guys in either:

A) A specific frat or
B) In a frat period.

Which lead the both of us to somewhat believe that if brothas aren't affiliated with someone's frat, alot of these sistas "probably" wouldn't even know you existed, much less give you the time of day because you're not in the "right" circle. I know speaking as a guy, we could care less if a girl is affiliated or not, but for some reason, it appears (And I stress appears) that our female counterparts, tend to date along the greek lines exclusively, well, at least a lot of them tend to from what I see. Am I just imagining this or what? What do you guys think?
Am I allowed to simply share my opinions on this topic or am I to be badgered for not following the flock? Seriously, it REALLY ain't that deep but I see the ones that are saying it ain't that deep are the ones that are throwing insults and assuming I'm overly defensive and paranoid.

Participated in or attended by the people or community: “Opinions are formed in a process of open discussion and public debate”

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 09:51 AM

Here's my little story I'd like to share: When I was new on campus, I decided to go as incognito as possible as not to attract a fanclub. I showed a little interest in a sister and she brushed me off. A few months passed by and I met another sister whom I dated consistently. The same sister that had previously brushed me off evidently started asking around campus who I was.

Somehow, she found out who I was--one day she scoped me out in the cafeteria, waited until my girl walked to the other side of the cafeteria then, she approached me at the buffet table. She walked up to me with a big smile and said: "Hello, [insert my name here] nice day isn't it?" I looked at her, thinking to myself: "How the hell does she know my name?" Cracked a smile, and walked away.

Next thing I know, sisters start approaching me at random, slipping in their initial conversations with me: "You're the guy in the black car with the tag." Those encounters cracked me up left and right. :D

starang21 04-21-2006 10:53 AM

uhhh.....

FeeFee 04-21-2006 11:10 AM

Wow, just wow. :eek: :o

CrimsonTide4 04-21-2006 11:16 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by FeeFee
Wow, just wow. :eek: :o
It's too hot in here for me. :eek: :eek:

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
It's too hot in here for me. :eek: :eek:
I know, I know. I should have worn my paraphernalia and told errybody I was an Alpha up front shouldn't I have? Heh heh heh heh... :p

SKEEphistAKAte 04-21-2006 12:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
Anybody ever heard of Fleet Phospho soda?

The both of you need an entire bottle to yourselves.


Like I said before...MOVING RIGHT ALONG... :rolleyes:

Thanks. And I have a tall, cold glass of Lemon Clorox for you. Drink up wankster.

CrimsonTide4 04-21-2006 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
I know, I know. I should have worn my paraphernalia and told errybody I was an Alpha up front shouldn't I have? Heh heh heh heh... :p
Um I think we all know that from your screenname.
And that is not where my WOW comes from.

FeeFee 04-21-2006 12:53 PM

Oh my dayums!!!!

It's a new day.

BlackAdam06 04-21-2006 05:21 PM

Man....I justed wanted people's opinion on the thread I started. This has turned into some sort of battle of the sexes ordeal....

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
Um I think we all know that from your screenname.
And that is not where my WOW comes from.

That wasn't what I was refering to, Crimson. I was alluding to my short story. The point of the story was, I chose not to wear my paraphernalia just to see how peeps would receive me as a GDI at the HBCU I attended. The regular brothers were cool with me but the sisters were picky about who they talked to until they found out I was an Alpha then, here comes the phone calls and the hellos--shallow.

The sister I was dating at the time was going through intake with the Deltas so, she wanted to be as low key as possible, which was ideal for me at the time.

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 05:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BlackAdam06
Man....I justed wanted people's opinion on the thread I started. This has turned into some sort of battle of the sexes ordeal....
Brother, a topic like this is a very sensitive topic for many GLO sisters. You're not going to get a real answer to your question, BlackAdam, at least not the kind of answer you're looking for. The people that really need to bring up the opinions will choose to lurk and keep quiet because they know they'll end up being ridiculed like I have.

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 05:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
Thanks. And I have a tall, cold glass of Lemon Clorox for you. Drink up wankster.
Thank you, SKEEphi. That lemon Clorox probably has a better after taste than that phospho soda. However, I'll have to pass on that Clorox because the scent might clash with my CK cologne. Thank's anyway though. :)

ladygreek 04-21-2006 06:34 PM

Corinthian, seriously how old are you? You think you have been ridiculed here? No way. Folx were just responding to your posts. But now you won't introduce yourself properly because you feel two AKAs have mistreated you? Wow, just wow.

CORINTHIAN1906 04-21-2006 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ladygreek
Corinthian, seriously how old are you? You think you have been ridiculed here? No way. Folx were just responding to your posts. But now you won't introduce yourself properly because you feel two AKAs have mistreated you? Wow, just wow.
You know what? I also saw how this SKEEphi sister was also very rude with another person, tripplej, in another thread, as if she owned this site.

I've recieved nothing but negative, one-sided responses for posting my OPINION and you think I'm going to basically tell you people who I am? I don't care what kind of garbage you're alluding to by asking my age--I won't put up with being badgered and harrassed by people that call themselves being of a GLO and making calluous, arrogant, conceited, narrow-minded, uncalled for responses to a new members posts with as much warmth as a dog biscutt.

No wonder the topics in this forum are so dry and unappealing. You know what? I've made up my mind about this site. This site isn't worth my time if this is the treatment one will recieve. Thanks for showing me your true colors early in the game.

SKEEphistAKAte 04-21-2006 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
You know what? I also saw how this SKEEphi sister was also very rude with another person, tripplej, in another thread, as if she owned this site.
Yep and what are you going to do about it?

No wonder the topics in this forum are so dry and unappealing. You know what? I've made up my mind about this site. This site isn't worth my time if this is the treatment one will recieve. Thanks for showing me your true colors early in the game. [/QUOTE]

Professor pulled your card and now you are running like the biotch that you are. You look and sound super perpish. Thanks for showing us YOUR true colors. Keep it movin' Susan.

AKA_Monet 04-21-2006 07:38 PM

Corinthian- Phrat- Sweetheart-

Summa of us are well, let's just say we know thangs that you have wet dreams about... So most of us can guess your age and you ain't rockin' the P.I.M.P. like that...

Now some of us may want to "utilize your talents and skills", but we all know that if we choose to, it won't be that serious because you are just starting to get your "fanclub" or "groupies" that hangout with cho.

All D5 fraternities have their groupies. Some of the ladies are greeks, some of the ladies are not. But, for the ladies that are greek, there is also something to maintained as allegiance to their own organization, as well as, wanting to keep in line with that "greek love parallel universe"--i.e. "phirst phamily"...

But in reality, most of the time, we go with what we love in the end... And that may be some of them 2-lettered organizations--which is cool for some folks and then sometimes it's the GDI that takes our breath away.

Either way, I don't think it is a big deal that folks are making it all seem...

Does that answer the question that you think BlackAdam was looking for?

AKA_Monet 04-21-2006 07:42 PM

Re: Is it just me, or is it girls in sororities mainly date guys in fraternities?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by BlackAdam06
most of them only date guys in either:

A) A specific frat or
B) In a frat period.

Am I just imagining this or what? What do you guys think?

All fraternities have groupies. It can either be greek or non-greek sistahs.

FeeFee 04-21-2006 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ladygreek
Corinthian, seriously how old are you? You think you have been ridiculed here? No way. Folx were just responding to your posts. But now you won't introduce yourself properly because you feel two AKAs have mistreated you? Wow, just wow.
My sentiments exactly.

My sorors aren't mean people. :( :p

SKEEphistAKAte 04-21-2006 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by FeeFee
My sorors aren't mean people. :( :p
*insert halo angel smiley here* Of course we aren't. We just keep it real and call it like it is. :D The sensitive can't take it. *shrugs shoulders*

SKEEphistAKAte 04-21-2006 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BlackAdam06
Man....I justed wanted people's opinion on the thread I started. This has turned into some sort of battle of the sexes ordeal....
Pham, I'm sorry that your thread was interrupted (although I addressed the question on the very first page). There is no "battle of the sexes" over here, check your "phrat" on that. I'm cool. :cool:

starang21 04-21-2006 11:20 PM

LOL


what on earth is going on in here???

starang21 04-21-2006 11:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
You know what? I also saw how this SKEEphi sister was also very rude with another person, tripplej, in another thread, as if she owned this site.

I've recieved nothing but negative, one-sided responses for posting my OPINION and you think I'm going to basically tell you people who I am? I don't care what kind of garbage you're alluding to by asking my age--I won't put up with being badgered and harrassed by people that call themselves being of a GLO and making calluous, arrogant, conceited, narrow-minded, uncalled for responses to a new members posts with as much warmth as a dog biscutt.

No wonder the topics in this forum are so dry and unappealing. You know what? I've made up my mind about this site. This site isn't worth my time if this is the treatment one will recieve. Thanks for showing me your true colors early in the game.




dude, it's the internet.

geez, i might as well not refer this cat to kazo.

LOL.

Conqueror 04-22-2006 01:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by starang21
dude, it's the internet.

geez, i might as well not refer this cat to kazo.

LOL.

Please don't. Dude, I think we all respect your opinion. But it is not that serious. Calm down. And I would like to point out that maybe you should reassess your comments. It seems to me that you are judging and mischaracterizing the young lady, based on her altercation with someone else. You did not even give her a chance because of a previous incident that did not even include you. Brother, just reassess the situation and calm down. I don't think she meant any harm in her responses to you. Be Cool.

BlackAdam06 04-24-2006 08:54 AM

Damn...I didn't realize this topic would morph into this..

I just made an observation about some of the dating habits of a few individuals & simply wanted to know if I were the only who may or may not have noticed it on their respective campuses....nothing more, nothing less. Had I known this would turn into a battle of wits, I may have simply kept it to myself..

GHOST_WOLF 04-24-2006 11:19 AM

To answer the original post, I think that you observation is just societal nature. As a man, it seems to me that women are attracted to power. I'm not saying this as a put down because as men I think that we are too. On college campuses that comes in the form of a certain status. Unfortunately it's a stereotype of our superficiality. Some people just buy into the hype. During my undergraduate matriculation I observed the same thing. Somehow people have come to correlate greek letters with guaranteed success or power.

ladygreek 04-24-2006 11:29 AM

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Originally posted by BlackAdam06
Damn...I didn't realize this topic would morph into this..

I just made an observation about some of the dating habits of a few individuals & simply wanted to know if I were the only who may or may not have noticed it on their respective campuses....nothing more, nothing less. Had I known this would turn into a battle of wits, I may have simply kept it to myself..

Welcome to GC and the world of message boards. :D

burgertown 02-27-2007 10:01 PM

I didn't finish reading the whole thread, but i felt compelled to answer. Some, dare i say a majority of greek people date greek people for the same reason blacks date black and whites date whites, because that is what they are familiar with. Their life and experiences are surrounded by a certain caliber of person and more than likely people of whatever caliber are going to date the same type.

A friend told me about this when i was concerned about the dating pool i had to choose from. I was scared i might end up with the "hood chick" or some other disastrous type of partner, and he calmly stated that seeing as how i don't travel in circles such as that, i will not be involved with those types of persons.

Hope this is clear.

cheerfulgreek 03-04-2007 03:07 AM

I would prefer a guy in a fraternity because the last guy I was with wasn't greek and he couldn't understand when I had to do things with my sorority, so I broke up with him. A guy in a fraternity would be able to relate to me better.

KAPital PHINUst 03-28-2007 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SKEEphistAKAte (Post 1236950)
*insert halo angel smiley here* Of course we aren't. We just keep it real and call it like it is. :D The sensitive can't take it. *shrugs shoulders*

Personally, if I really called it like it is with some people around here, trust I would have a whole lotta folk up in arms and risk myself being banned from GC *eyes narrowly focused on Skee*.

But I digress. Back to the thread topic.

In short, I don't know if I would ever want to date a Greek woman. In my observation they are a lot of fun to kick it with and be good casual friends with, but by dating them it would create another dynamic that I don't know if I particularly care to involve myself with. And I speak from experience btw.

Senusret I 03-28-2007 02:45 PM

No, what's really real is that even before I posted in it, everyone who responded wasn't even straight. But that's what I get for reading threads a year late.

onetruediva1913 03-31-2008 05:29 AM

Okay so this thread is old but I would like to reply! When I was in undergrad it was eaiser to date a guy who was greek because as many said before he would understand the time,money,etc. commitment. While in college my sorors and I always kicked it with the Alphas just because most of us were friends way before greeklife. Although I did not date any men that were greek all of my LS's except me and one other dated Kappa's and Ques. I personally don't make it a requirement for a guy to be greek because that SEVERLY limits my picks,but I know women who do. Although I do love the Alpha's I do not make the men of A phi A my only choice that's just crazy.

Professor 04-02-2008 08:46 AM

LMBAO - That's for sho . . .

[QUOTE=CORINTHIAN1906;1231439]. . . being just as shadey, broke, fickle, indecisive, indifferent, phoney, etc. as any other woman.


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