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Rudey 04-06-2006 01:35 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
Yes.
Well aside from the fact that certain women are just dying to be in a sorority and join a sorority (any sorority) as an AI because of the fact that some let a lot more in than others, can you think of some reasons why women would AI one org over another?

And if so, please do tell :)

-Rudey

33girl 04-06-2006 01:40 PM

Yes.

AlphaFrog 04-06-2006 01:41 PM

The two most glaringly obvious things I can think of are Philanthropy - it'd be great to pick an org that does charity you're already involved with - BUT I think the #1 factor comes down to prominence in your area. If you're in Oregon, you're probably not going to AI into ASA, being that the closest collegiate chapter to you is in Alaska and the closest Alum chapter is in San Diego, CA.

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 01:43 PM

If I were trying to become an AI, I'd just the hottest sorority, go to the house and be like, " ok girls, pillow fight!"

Then they'd all look at me weird becuase I was 35 about 40 pounds above my college weight and my skin wasn't as nice :(


But who cares. Atleast I'd get to pillow fight with the hottest sorority.

HotDamnImAPhiMu 04-06-2006 02:08 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
can you think of some reasons why women would AI one org over another?

Probably some of the same reasons women have for choosing a sorority in college -
  • they're a legacy
  • their best friend/coworker is in a group, so they've had a lot of exposure to that group
  • personal connection/interest in a certain philanthropy
  • big/visible alumna group in the woman's hometown
  • cutest mascot

You know. The important stuff.

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 02:14 PM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Probably some of the same reasons women have for choosing a sorority in college -
  • they're a legacy
  • their best friend/coworker is in a group, so they've had a lot of exposure to that group
  • personal connection/interest in a certain philanthropy
  • big/visible alumna group in the woman's hometown
  • cutest mascot

You know. The important stuff.


you forgot

- they didnt want to be part of the ugly/fat girl sorority (i've heard girls at my school say that)

- they wanted to party with hot guys, so they went to the hot sorority

- they know that if they associate themselves with "the hot girls", then people wuold automatically think they were hot ....even if they werent hot

HotDamnImAPhiMu 04-06-2006 02:15 PM

Bobby, you obviously know nothing about sorority life.







If you want to look hot, you stand next to fat girls.

Rudey 04-06-2006 02:17 PM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Probably some of the same reasons women have for choosing a sorority in college -
  • they're a legacy
  • their best friend/coworker is in a group, so they've had a lot of exposure to that group
  • personal connection/interest in a certain philanthropy
  • big/visible alumna group in the woman's hometown
  • cutest mascot

You know. The important stuff.

Let's say they don't have family or friends in that sorority and live in a state where there are several sororities with pretty large alumni associations and these sororities also offer AI.

So it comes down to colors, mascot, motto?

Or is there anything else?

And what's stupider - basing your choice on colors, mascot, motto or also taking into account some type of stereotype on the national strength of a sorority?

HMMMMMM

-Rudey

Rudey 04-06-2006 02:18 PM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Bobby, you obviously know nothing about sorority life.







If you want to look hot, you stand next to fat girls.

Bobby remember that pic from Fullerton we saw with the one chick and how every other girl looked ridiculously hot compared to her? hahaha

-Rudey

chio84 04-06-2006 02:19 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
Let's say they don't have family or friends in that sorority and live in a state where there are several sororities with pretty large alumni associations and these sororities also offer AI.

So it comes down to colors, mascot, motto?

Or is there anything else?

And what's stupider - basing your choice on colors, mascot, motto or also taking into account some type of stereotype on the national strength of a sorority?

HMMMMMM

-Rudey

you are without a doubt the most rational person on this board.

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 02:20 PM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Bobby, you are the hottest man ever alive. I want you now more than ever.







If you want to look hot, you stand next to fat girls.


I know some girls who did that. They ultimately resigned because they kept losing in everything, and people would always say, " oh man you are in a sorority with a bunch of cows" and they got sick of it. they usually ended just being fraternity rats lol

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 02:21 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
Bobby remember that pic from Fullerton we saw with the one chick and how every other girl looked ridiculously hot compared to her? hahaha

-Rudey


LOL the thing is. EVERY girl in that pic was hot. So she probably went around going, " we are so hot blah blah blah"

and then other people would say, " sure, your sorority is hot. but you're a cow"

In this case, the ratio of hot girls of ugly girls is greater, so thus the sororities reputation is not hurt

AznSAE 04-06-2006 02:46 PM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
If you want to look hot, you stand next to fat girls.
thanks! i'm going to quote that. :p

and yeah, nu mus are hot too.

AlphaFrog 04-06-2006 02:58 PM

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Originally posted by chio84
you are without a doubt the most rational person on this board.
If you had any credibility before, (which I believe you didn't), you lost it just now.

Rudey 04-06-2006 03:35 PM

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Originally posted by chio84
you are without a doubt the most rational person on this board.
Thank you.

In GC, everyone is made from the same mold, is just as smart as each other, and just as successful.

-Rudey
--GC is the magical land of Narnia and no differences will ever be allowed.

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 05:21 PM

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Originally posted by ariesrising
Of course not, I looked at other things like the purpose, the philanthropy and how I got along with the girls locally. But I didn't know what Alpha Phi's "image" was nationally...I still don't have a clue what people see Alpha Phi as.

My point was you can see how different chapters of the same group can be, the different people they attract. It makes it hard to define a national image when everyone is so different.


Some chapters are known as All for Free

:) Those are my favorite chapters. All chapters should thrive to be like that

Rudey 04-06-2006 05:32 PM

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Originally posted by ariesrising
Of course not, I looked at other things like the purpose, the philanthropy and how I got along with the girls locally. But I didn't know what Alpha Phi's "image" was nationally...I still don't have a clue what people see Alpha Phi as.

My point was you can see how different chapters of the same group can be, the different people they attract. It makes it hard to define a national image when everyone is so different.

The thing is all sororities and fraternities are "Good". And helping cure breast cancer over heart disease isn't "Better."

So really you are left with not too many things to base your opinion on. And you're not joining a college chapter so you don't have a reputation or image on that campus; it's an Alum chapter which can consist of women from several campuses and regions and age groups.

-Rudey

wrigley 04-06-2006 05:52 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
GC...when people stop being polite. And start getting real.
This post made me giggle. Thank you Bobby.

Rudey 04-06-2006 06:02 PM

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Originally posted by ariesrising
Exactly. But I felt a connection to Alpha Phi's philanthropy b/c it affected people in my family, whereas I may not have had that kind of connection to another sorority philanthropy. So it meant more to me.

Joining as an alum really drives home the lack of image since, as you said, alum chapters are made up of women from different chapters, regions and age groups. So it's a real mix of things and image doesn't play into it and things like the local women and how you mesh with them, the opportunity to get involved in the chapter (or lack thereof), the view the sorority has on what their aim is, the philanthropy, the activeness of alums etc...all that plays a part in an AI decision, moreso than at the collegiate level I think.

Those are just some reasons why the image thing seems kind of pointless to me. It's always going to be different, no one's ever going to agree and in the end, it doesn't really matter.

And you could have picked Alpha Phi because of the colors as well.

And since an alum chapter is so diverse, it forces you to think about the sorority nationally and to form an image of them.

I mean heck the fraternity KA has an image nationally to me. Alpha Delta Phi and Psi Upsilon conjure up images. Or how about the machine/skull&bones? That sure conjures up a lot of images for people. It may not be true on every campus, but it doesn't have to be, since it's a national image/stereotype.

-Rudey

AlphaPhiBubbles 04-06-2006 07:15 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
And you could have picked Alpha Phi because of the colors as well.

And since an alum chapter is so diverse, it forces you to think about the sorority nationally and to form an image of them.

I mean heck the fraternity KA has an image nationally to me. Alpha Delta Phi and Psi Upsilon conjure up images. Or how about the machine/skull&bones? That sure conjures up a lot of images for people. It may not be true on every campus, but it doesn't have to be, since it's a national image/stereotype.

-Rudey

What point are you trying to make about AI exactly? That it's pointless, stupid and just for ugly, fat wannabe women who couldn't get into a sorority otherwise?? Or that national reputations truly exist?

Also, being an Alpha Phi (not AI), I know that our colors aren't particularly attractive to me aesthetically (sp?), and our mascot isn't riveting...so i doubt that is ever someone's basis for their decision. Collegiate or not.

Unregistered- 04-06-2006 07:23 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles


Also, being an Alpha Phi (not AI), I know that our colors aren't particularly attractive to me aesthetically (sp?), and our mascot isn't riveting...so i doubt that is ever someone's basis for their decision. Collegiate or not.

Exactly. When I expressed initial interest in AGD, I noticed right away that their table at the Campus Center was decked out in red, buff, and green. I-and-I RASTAFAR-I, we jam to the reggaem MON! to most college kids.

I sure as hell didn't join for the squirrel mascot. We don't even have squirrels in Hawaii!

Rudey 04-06-2006 07:30 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
What point are you trying to make about AI exactly? That it's pointless, stupid and just for ugly, fat wannabe women who couldn't get into a sorority otherwise?? Or that national reputations truly exist?

Also, being an Alpha Phi (not AI), I know that our colors aren't particularly attractive to me aesthetically (sp?), and our mascot isn't riveting...so i doubt that is ever someone's basis for their decision. Collegiate or not.

I wasn't making any point about AI but if you can't read and interpret and want to make a retarded statement, go ahead.

-Rudey
--I was making a point about sorority reputations.

Rudey 04-06-2006 07:33 PM

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Originally posted by ariesrising
Say you have no Greek knowledge at all and you go to university and you meet the sororities on your campus. How will you form a national image of them if all you see is that one chapter on that one campus?

What if you look at all their websites online and you get some kind of image in your head that XYZ is full of bubble, fun loving girls? Another person in the same situation as you could do the same thing and come out thinking they are all a bunch of airheads. It's all subjective.

Did you want to address any of the points I made or just pretend they don't exist?

And if you have no Greek knowledge why do you want to join a sorority? That doesn't make sense. And I suppose you could always ask on Greekchat, like the OP did, but then a pack of girls would chew your head off.

-Rudey

AOII_LB93 04-06-2006 07:43 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Hey whats up?! I've been good. Weather cleared up you know? Really windy though.


Ok more AOPi stuff. You can't really say Cal Poly SLO is SoCal, but AOPi at that school is very pretty. You'd be proud.

I've met girls from SLO at various functions. Very nice ladies. And SLO isn't exactly NorCal either, kind of odd. Lovely day today. Nice not to have any rain. =) ETA: I'm proud of AOII in general, and especially since we're colonizing a new SoCal chapter in the fall. Yippee! I'm thinking about helping out with that. :)

You know, it's stopped being remotely amazing to me that just about any thread at any time can go from 0 to ridiculous in about no time at all. Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of GC lives.

blueangel 04-06-2006 07:47 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
Well aside from the fact that certain women are just dying to be in a sorority and join a sorority (any sorority) as an AI because of the fact that some let a lot more in than others, can you think of some reasons why women would AI one org over another?

And if so, please do tell :)

-Rudey

Because some of us were pledges at said sorority and transferred to another university to go after an athletic dream, but the second university didn't have the sorority we had pledged to. :)

honeychile 04-06-2006 08:45 PM

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Originally posted by OTW
I sure as hell didn't join for the squirrel mascot. We don't even have squirrels in Hawaii!
No squirrels in Hawaii?! Well, now there is!

http://www.alumni.psu.edu/hub/photos...s/squirrel.gif

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 09:00 PM

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Originally posted by AOII_LB93
I've met girls from SLO at various functions. Very nice ladies. And SLO isn't exactly NorCal either, kind of odd. Lovely day today. Nice not to have any rain. =) ETA: I'm proud of AOII in general, and especially since we're colonizing a new SoCal chapter in the fall. Yippee! I'm thinking about helping out with that. :)

You know, it's stopped being remotely amazing to me that just about any thread at any time can go from 0 to ridiculous in about no time at all. Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of GC lives.


Yes. The Cal Poly SLO AOPis...are uhhhh....ummmm how do we say. Easy on the eyes. VERY pretty girls.

I have never met any other AOPi, except one. She was a southern belle and I love her to death. And if you are a Pike, I'm sure you know who I'm talkin about.

Yeah, at any given time. If I enter a thread, it can turn into chaos.

I seem to be the only one contributing to sorority reputations.

Where is AOPi colonizing at? I will be brutually honest. Please tell them to stay away from Cal Poly Pomona.

Chapman would be a awesome school. I like Chapman. Chapman is good. LMU? Pepperdine? Good schools to expand to. And make sure those AOPi girls follow the same mold as the SLO AOPis.

AOII_LB93 04-06-2006 09:49 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Yes. The Cal Poly SLO AOPis...are uhhhh....ummmm how do we say. Easy on the eyes. VERY pretty girls.

I have never met any other AOPi, except one. She was a southern belle and I love her to death. And if you are a Pike, I'm sure you know who I'm talkin about.

Yeah, at any given time. If I enter a thread, it can turn into chaos.

I seem to be the only one contributing to sorority reputations.

Where is AOPi colonizing at? I will be brutually honest. Please tell them to stay away from Cal Poly Pomona.

Chapman would be a awesome school. I like Chapman. Chapman is good. LMU? Pepperdine? Good schools to expand to. And make sure those AOPi girls follow the same mold as the SLO AOPis.

University of La Verne. It was open for expansion and we accepted the invitation of the University Panhellenic. Actually, they don't have a mold...they would follow international's policies. =)

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 10:04 PM

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Originally posted by AOII_LB93
University of La Verne. It was open for expansion and we accepted the invitation of the University Panhellenic. Actually, they don't have a mold...they would follow international's policies. =)

OHHHHHH the ULV. har har har. Good times. Man, I use to live up in the IE baby. Partied with those kids alot as well.

BobbyTheDon 04-06-2006 10:06 PM

Hey Deltalum. Aren't you glad you're not the mod in this forum anymore? HAHA

DeltAlum 04-06-2006 10:11 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Hey Deltalum. Aren't you glad you're not the mod in this forum anymore? HAHA
Yes.

That's why I didn't read this thread.

Oooops. Busted!

Well, after reading all of the others like it, I just couldn't help myself.

Rudey 04-06-2006 10:39 PM

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Originally posted by ariesrising
I know in my area, a lot of people know nothing about Greek life until they see a flyer on campus and come to see what a sorority is.

Your point was you choose to join a group for various reasons, correct? Of course. You can choose to join a group for any reason in the world, be it philanthropy, to local image to colours to the fact your a legacy. My point is that I don't think you can decide based on "national image" because I don't think that exists.

And I told you that colors, mascots, and whatnot are not major factors. Some may consider a sorority for something else.

I also told you that several fraternities have reputations.

I also told you that these are general and not specific to every chapter and brother/sister out there.

-Rudey

Rudey 04-07-2006 11:00 AM

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Originally posted by ariesrising
a) Of course.
b) I don't have a clue about fraternities. But it still might be your perception...I might not see them the same way you do, so the rep might not be accurate...who knows?
c) Yeah, that's my point too. It's kind of silly to ask people's opinions on a group as a whole b/c they're so subjective.

Art is subjective too. Yet people discuss it constantly.

-Rudey

uksparkle 04-08-2006 11:27 PM

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Originally posted by OTW


I sure as hell didn't join for the squirrel mascot. We don't even have squirrels in Hawaii!

You're lucky, I hate squirrels.


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