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I love it when lurkers come out of the shadows for the sole purpose of starting up shit.
I thought this thread was great with Alphababy, but I was wrong. And once again, I <3 33girl. |
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NPHC is a council. when i say the pan-hellenic part, i add a little pause after pan. don't know if that's officially correct, but that's how many say it on my old campus.
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According to our panhel's Greek glossary (I made the website but I have NO clue where I got the glossary... it was a while ago)....
NPC- National Panhellenic Conference, a conference body composed of delegates from 26 recognized women's social fraternities |
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In reference to NPC's being called historically White, I really (and sincerely) do not understand why people are getting offended. Note the term historically , meaning in the past . If anyone can provide evidence of there being an African American woman initiated into an NPC before 1960 / 1965 - and the chapter was not closed because an attempt was made to initiate an African American woman, then please provide it. Now, I do agree that in these days and times NPCs are no longer majority or exclusively White. So, to refer to NPCs as WGLO's would be incorrect and offensive, but to deny an occurrance in history would be wrong. Again, correct me if I am wrong, but I was under the impression that part of the reason AOII was started was because there were Jewish women (i.e., they were not Protestant) who were denied membership to other NPCs because they were Jewish. Should AOII just ignore that part of their history? I would think not. Historically Black GLOs are just that historically Black, meaning that in the past the members were (exclusively) Black. These days it is common to see White, Hispanic and Asian members of HBGLOs. Again, not trying to offend, just trying to understand. I guess that one can assume that for most of the history of NPCs they had all White membership, so to point it out is like pointing out the obvious. |
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Obviously I am not an SK, so only SKs would be able to verify that info via their sister directory. I did a search of the Cornell University Greek Life site and did not find an existing Sigma Kappa chapter there. Still, the reasons why that chapter may or may not have closed is no one else's business but the members of Sigma Kappa. |
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I think it's just best to accept that they don't like the term and to refrain from using it. Though I understand both sides of the debate, as an outsider to the NPC/NIC, it's just better if I call them what they prefer to be called, and describe them as "general" fraternities and sororities as described in Baird's. Yes, we are "general" fraternities and sororities, too, but we don't mind being called Black, historically Black, cultural, or whatever. |
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I've emailed HQ to see if they can verify whether Barbara Delaney was ever a member of our organization. |
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If she really wasn't the first African-American initiated into the NPC, then who was? And when? And I double checked my sister directory, and there really was a Diana M. Lam initiated into the AGD-U. of British Columbia chapter in 1953. |
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Hopefully HQ can settle it then & soon. I think its definitely something that needs an explanation! |
ok sorry my spelling is wrong....but I know sorority is not offensive. Nope not all sororities were founded by white, however it originated from white people. Now, back to you Ms.D the word "FRAT" is offensive I did not use that word in any way. I used the sord sorority, but I don't take it offensive. Now Mr.OTW if you also read what I stated it tells you that they did begin by white people...not saying that they were only founded by whites because AKA and Delta Thetha Sigma was founded by African American Ladies and Lambda Alpha Theta is a Latino Sorority...actually the first and biggest. Now next time please read carefully and you will understand.
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OOPPS LET ME EXPLAIN. I did not mean to say sororities were founded by whites. I meant to say that it did started by anglos....now I am not saying AKA or DTS was founded by whites, clearly they were founded by African American Women. However, fraternities and sororities were founded by white studfents and this gave the ideas to other students, and so on. Understand now??
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I can't believe I've been called Mr. OTW so many times this year... :rolleyes: If you're going to educate the GC masses about AKA and DST, at least make sure you spell it right. And while you're at it, make sure you get their letters in the right order. |
what is wrong with you and your aggressive attitude??
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Don't take it personally, she's an alchoholic who has no tact. She can't control her diarrhea of the mouth.
In fact, if you'll look at of sample of her posts, you'll see that she rarely has anything of value to say. |
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No seriously, what's wrong....with you? |
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WHERE ARE YOU, AXO ALUM??? |
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If you go back and read my post you should see my specific point of naming a chapter that initiated a Black woman before 1960 / 1965 that was not closed. |
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Is that a new sorority? Never heard of it. |
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now I am not saying AKA or DTS was founded by whites, clearly they were founded by African American Women. How rude is it to get a sorority's letters wrong!? Come on- if you're going to post something that's supposed to be intelligent- Do your research and make sure you get the name and letters right! :rolleyes: |
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Barbara Collier Delany's experience at Cornell in 1956 underscored the problems waiting for Black students who faced the white fraternities and sororities operating on white college campuses. Delany made national headlines in 1956 when, as a student at the Ivy League campus, she was offered membership in the white sorority of Sigma Kappa. She remembers being one of only a handful of blacks at the college at the time. "I was the first black ever to be offered membership in a white sorority," says Delany, who had grown up in a family of privilege. She belonged to Jack and Jill, debuted with the Girl Friends, and graduated from the elite all-girl Hunter High School in Manhattan. "The girls in the sorority were very nice to me, but the officials at the national headquarters were furious, and they told the students that they had better reject me or headquarters would shut down the sorority's chapter at Cornell, " says Delany, who still corresponds with some of those classmates. "When the white students refused to kick me out, headquarters shut down the sorority." So, if there is no longer an active chapter of SK at Cornell, then this is probably why. Again, for much of their history NPCs were historically White. |
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Now, I know I can't speak for the other NPC sororities, but I still hesitate to refer to my own AGD as historically white. It may have been that way from 1904-1952, but not the case from 1953-present. |
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Oh, and edited to add, the database searches both maiden & married names. |
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My only point is that by virture of NPC membership for a period in their history they were all White. Just as my alma mater, Texas A&M, was all male, all White from 1876-1965. Look in any yearbook during that time period and that is the only type of student you will see. Is Texas A&M referred to as a HWCU? No, but it does not take away from the fact that it was. I, myself, am not trying to be offensive. But, I do think acknowledging (?sp) a time period in history should not be offensive. If your sorority / fraternity is about sisterhood / brotherhood, then the bonds you make should be colorblind. |
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As you point out, your alma mater was all male and white until 1965. Do you tell people that you went to a white college or historically white male college? Or do you just tell people that you went to college? I'll guess that you don't feel compelled to clarify that a college is "white" but I do understand the reasoning behind saying a college or GLO is historically black. Much like if I had attended an all women college I would likely point that out because it would be a different experience than a co-ed school. In regards to Barbara Delany, as my sister has already pointed out nobody was initiated in 1956. I checked and there was no Barabara initiated in 1955 but two in 1954 (maiden names Brodie and Ries). The quote from Mr. Graham's book doesn't actually say that she was initiated. Quote:
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Geez, we might as well just start calling everything historically white, since most things in this country were historically white. I guess I'll put in my profile that I'm from historically white Michigan.
We don't like it. Why can't you just leave it at that? Many people have posted their reasons why we don't but yet you guys continue to do it. It's like if someone used the N word. You could explain till your blue in the face, and that person would try to understand, but since historically that word was used, they are still going to use it. Not the same thing AT ALL, but I felt that an analogy was needed since you guys are NOT understanding and I duno how else to put it. Senusret... you're awesome and thank you. |
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Here is the thread on that very subject..... ....and it isn't a very pretty discussion thread, either Is NPHC open to expanding to the D-10? Enjoy! |
Is it sad that I scrolled through all the actual information to watch the catfight on this thread???
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With that said, and knowing we live in a society where no matter how race blind people state they are, there are still racial issues in America. I've read on here several threads started by women of color about their concerns about going NPC, I have never heard of a chapter that has a majority or even a third women of color and about one school that has still never taken a women of color knowingly into any of their chapters (i don't remember the school or the thread right now...too early). Anyway, point is that those things about the history make it seem rational (even if not PC) to most that they are historically white. Challenge is to move past that history and live in the present. There is nothing wrong with that history, it appears to be a fact. As long as you are doing what you say you are doing..which is accepting and loving your sisters of all races...what does it matter? edited because i can't spell before 8am |
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