EEEEEEE-YIP!
 

Hey I saw that you were also a pretty 3 Spr 2K1 so you know I had to show love. Beta Zeta hmmm Didnt you guys throw a party in conjunction with Alpha Delta (fisk university kappas) after the ASU vs TSU game? I was one of the SGRhos there and I met a few of your chpt. bros' Well...I was just speaking to show love! Hold it down Rho-yo!

By the way A big Ear scearching eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee-Yip to all my sorors And much greek luv to everyone else.



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NEVER BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU SEE AND HEAR
 

I am a neo, therefore I am new to the Greek world. I am from Virginia. This is my first time hearing that the Kappas and the Sigma Gamma Rho ladies claim to be affiliated. That is fine if they have their own thing going on, but it is knew too me. I am a ZETA lady, and I always new that we were the only sorority constitutionally bound to a fraternity before I became greek. At the college I attended, it was rumor that DST and the Ques were a brother/sister organization, the Kappas and the AKA's, but never did I hear about the Kappa's and the Sghro's. I have love for all of my greek sisters and brothers.

Ummmm....okay...
 

Um, Discrete, yes, Zeta is the only sorority that has constitutional brothers, but there are several traditional bonds. These are the standards:

First Family (AKA/APhiA)
Coleman Love (Delta/Que)
Indiana Love (SGRho/KAPsi)

All of these bonds have historic and traditional significance. Sigma Gamma Rho did not just get up in 2001 and decide, hey KAPsi and we were both founded in Indiana, let's chill out eighty some odd years later. Those who know their history, know the history.

Of course there are other deviations PNG Connection, Golden Love, Canine Love, Pretty Boys, and Pretty Girls, and Crimson and Cream, but there is nothing wrong with showing a little respect or love. Now I do think it is wrong when people go around saying they don't need a constitution.

Everybody knows that with the exception of the blue bond, they are not official. Your bond is a beautiful and unique thing, but there is significance in the others.

SoRHOr you beat me to the punch hole... ;) . I could not have said it better.

Blue Radiance
Spr 2k1
Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc.
Alpha Beta chpt.

Re: Ummmm....okay...
 

I mentioned that I wasn't aware. Thank you for enlightening me. Don't take it personal. I just never heard of it where I am from. I am quite sure that others will agree with me. I apologize

Re: Ummmm....okay...
 

I never said that it wasn't.

I usually try to stay away from these kinds of threads b/c people tend to get upset and take things a little too personal. I will however start by saying that I have much respect for SGRho. However, I can see how my Soror Discrete1 could say that she's never heard of a bond between SGRho and KAPsi. On the campus were I was raised, they hung out together, and or dated, but the first time I heard the term "Indiana Love" has been in the last couple of years. It is interesting to note that not all members of Kappa Alpha Psi nor Sigma Gamma Rho feel that there is any sort of connection, but some do. The same could be said for Delta and Que or AKA and Alpha, etc. etc. Although from what I hear a lot of organizations have some kind of history with each other. In the end, this whole bond thing is small potatoes in the grand scheme of things. All that really matters is that each organiZation is serving it's purpose and continuing to live out their legacies left by their founders.

Thank you Soror!!!;)

Come on, it's not that serious...
 

Okay, folks. It is not like Indiana Love is the first thing I think about when I wake up or anything. This is not that serious.

However, when somebody who has no knowledge of my org's history or anything comes up and "respectfully" says that it could be something that we must "do on our own" just because they are not educated in the matter, I just try to enlighten.

Like I said before, it is not that serious.
TRSimon

Re: Come on, it's not that serious...
 

I will agree

Truly, it is not that serious. Let's not take it too far. Again, I apologize if I offended anyone.

Discrete 1, no one is offended here. Like TRS said, "she just tries to enlighten". Yea, that's my Soror! :D

And what I am saying is, "I don't have a problem with that".

okay...
 

Now that the misunderstanding is out of the way...just wanted to bring us back to the original topic.
Out of curiosity, and since this topic comes up often, what constitutes (no pun intended) a "valid," "purposeful," or "meaningful" brother/sister relationship?
Does there have to be more of an historical perspective, as opposed to just a similarity in colors, or who you feel more comfortable "hanging with," etc.? For instance, there are some Deltas who talk about "Crimson and Cream Love" as opposed to Coleman Love. Not like any of us think about love for any fraternity before the love for our beloved sororities, but since this thread is still active, I'm just curious.


Greek Love,

@AKAtude:

Why is it you ask? Cause we are the only true brothers and sisters and we can do that.

Re: Ummmm....okay...
 

Thank you for that bit of information Sisterfriend.

Well obviously all of the aforementioned traditional connections (Phirst Pham, Coleman Love, ZPBS, Indiana Love) have to do with history, so I think most people tend to gravitate that way.

But in undergrad I think it does have a lot to do with who you kick it with, so therein comes the variation. For instance, on my campus, the last Kappa line was comprised of guys I came into college with last year... therefore, I, and some of my LS's tend to kick it with those guys more basically because we were cool before the whole Greek situation. Does that make sense? :p Anyway, my point is that because we kick it socially doesn't mean I'm trying to have them as my brothers. It means we're friends, period. Unfortunately, some other orgs. and individuals on campus don't see it that way.

What constitutes a brother/sister relationship to me is mutual support, respect and love. If we're having an event, it's already a known fact that the Alphas will be there to support, and vice versa. If it's somebody's birthday, chances are we'll have a Skee-Phi. I know if somebody is tryna mess over me, I can just get my bruhs on em. ;) These guys have been there for me from the start in every way, and I love them. Now, I got love for anybody that has love for me... but all these things combined with the shared history makes them brothers to me. :)

sista orgs
 

Up heya where I'm at, none of the frats refer to the sororities or anything else as sorors. They have their reasons for kickin' it with them, but that's that. It's gon be different no matter where you go. Me and my bruhs kick where the kickin' is best. :D

HEY, WE LOVE EM ALL! WE NEVER COMPROMISE OUR OPTIONS BY CLAIMING THIS OR THAT SOROR. BACK IN THE DAY THE RHO'S, DST'S, AKA'S, AND ZETA'S ALL FELT THAT LOVE. WE HAD PLENTY OF LOVE FOR EM ALL.... THAT'S THE BEAUTY OF BEING THE BOND BABY!

I don't exactly know what organization you're in, but I read your "back in the day" reference, and expected you to have SP86 or something beside your name. LOL. If "back in the day" is SP97, then I'm feeling really old right now :)

LOL...He's a Nupe Deuce...You know how they say after have your 5th birthday you become an old head...perhaps he was referring to that...LOL....btw, hello dirtyharry, didn't know u were on GC... :p

Hey PrettyKitty!!! I feel ya, I'm saying though...I'm feeling real old :) We're too young to be sounding like ol' heads (or soon-to-be-ol'heads). Okay, my fault, back to the original topic ;)

PRETTY KITTY WUT UP? ITS BEEN A MINUTE SINCE THE LAST TIME I HOLLA'D AT CHA. THANX FOR SKOOLIN UR SOROR (LOL!). GIRL YOU ALL OVER THE WEB, DAMN! ANYWAY THE LOVE IS STILL THERE FOR YOU AND CHAOSDST. DAT'S RIGHT I GOT ENOUGH FOR BOTH OF YOU! HOLLA...

:) Showing love from one soon-to-be-ol'head to another :) I have to show you some VA love, too!


Greek Love

Yeah.....haven't been on Nupes.com in longer than I can remember....Yeah, I do have an account everywhere....and u like how I change up my name 2...LOL...PrettyKitty or ZetaQt or Miss Thang...u neva know with me ;).....and u do mean Sister Soror, right? Cause we are in different orgs...but she still my peeps!....U are a mess! LOL... :D

:D I Am A member of Sigma Gamma Rho (Alpha Lambda Chapter SPRING 2001 #1 ) and I go to school at Texas Southern Unv. and like so many have said before it really does depend on where you are at. At our campus we do a lot of thing with the Omegas and the Iotas. We LOVE everyone on our yard, but I see no need to try to make Kappa's notice us and call us soror. I was brought in beliving that a Sigma woman can stand alone. Don't get me wrong I LOVE ME SOME KAPPA MEN, but I show love to those who show me love. I have had Kappa's from my own school walk right by me and not even say hello, but I went to Baylor and the Kappas were calling us Sororsso depending on your region. As a neo I have learned that what is at you capus is not the way things are. I don't take it to heart if a Kappa doesn't acknowlege me as a soror b/c I know that he may not have been brought over that way. I have ALOT OF LOVE FOr KAPPAS but I am a STRONG SIGMA QUEEN and I know that GLORY of the BLUE and GOLD. So if he is slipping on it it is is LOSS not mine. LAST OF ALL WE ARE ALL BLACK AND AND WE NEED TO SHOW LOVE TO ALL NOT JUST A FEW!!

Welcome!! BRAVO!!
 

Welcome to Greek Chat Soror!

BRAVO!! You said it... "A Sigma Woman Stands Alone"

Take a bow :)

Love ya!

Because...
 

My soror is entitled to ask what ever she likes, without explanation, she's got it like that, 1906 and 1908 come before "you know what" We had it like that before you were even "thought of" and whatever bond Alpha or AKA may share is not "less than" just because we didn't choose or feel the need to make the bond "mandatory across the board" its doing great without all that. i respect your "constitutional" bond and its been noted over and over and over again, "so please stop forcing it down other people's throats" don't worry be happy.

Re: Because...
 

Tell me what the purpose is of rehashing an OLD conversation(from 7 MONTHS AGO) besides to start MORE confusion? WHO CARES? **moving right along**:rolleyes:

Heeeey PrettyKitty!


I agree that this topic was broken a long time ago. Let's emphasize the more important things in life...like today's my 25th bday!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MEEEEE!!!!!!!

Doing the cabbage patch....
 

I will enjoy this day to the fullest, while resting from a fun weekend in ATL!!!! Leo love to the fullest :p

Re: Re: Because...
 

it was your soror who started the thread up again so perhaps you should ask her what was the purpose. i responsed to the topic as did others including yourself so don't quote me as if i "started some mess". "who cares?" "you care" or you wouldn't have posted. there was no need to roll the eyes, but "roll on". peace anyway.

No one was even thinking about this thread till you brought it up again. Just because she "started it back up again" 7 MONTHS AGO doesn't mean it should be continued now. I responded to you because I knew it was going to create more unecessary drama and we certainly don't need that. Let's discuss more positive or thought provoking topics....Let's spread some good will and joy to others. Positive energy alwayZ! Have a Blessed Day! :D

excuses, excuses, no thread is off limits regardless of date until it is locked and this one is not, that is why "your soror" started it again this year and i responed. many many posts are brought back to life, at various times, its nothing new. if you want the topic to die out then stop posting here, no drama just a little dialogue on the net and on that note take care as i continue to post when and where i please. peace.

On my campus the Kappas are real close to my sorors of DST. But I've mostly come across Kappa/AKA relationships because of the whole "pretty" motif. But I have yet to here any member of Kappa Alpha Psi refer to any sorority girls as "Soror", that seems rather strange to me. If anybody besides a Que referred to me as Soror, I would feel kind of weird but take it as a compliment I guess.

hmmm.
 

Of course you may have never heard of it. Your not in Pan Hel:rolleyes: (j/k). Say what you say but we know we are single org. (SGRho/KAPsi.) If they want to call me soror so be it...whats the big fuss. As a matter of fact last night as we party walked and stole the crowd the nupes were saying "Go sorors". So if they give love they do...if not they dont ...big deal! We (SGRho's) won't lose sleep I promise you that.
Depends on where you are...if thats who you cool with call em frat ...who really cares? We greeks take this petty @#$% to another level. When it boils down to it, no one need to claim anyone but Zeta Phi Beta Sigma. Hell...one of my best friends is a Zeta and we call each other soror all the time. I know you all are thinking (thats wild :eek: )...We both are sisters of Pan Hel. right? So are we wrong b/c we have sisterly love for each other? Its all greek love really!

Relax and be cordial you guys! Give a frat guy or sorority girl a hug when you see them show some unity:D

Blue Radiance
Sigma Gamma Rho SoRHOrity Inc.!
The aRHOgant AB Chpt
Tn. State Univ.
Spr.01'




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Aha!! LOL! Go Soror Blue Radiance!

While I was in shopping in downtown Miami (with my bold-lettered T-shirt on of course), some man came up to me and said "Hello Soror!!" I automatically knew that he was a Kappa before he stated it, where he was from, what chapter, etc. He took me by surprise, of course but nevertheless, I was still flattered. For the record, I KNOW MY HISTORY but this is the first time a complete stranger greeted me that way.

I have love for all, no matter what. The Zeta/Sigma bond, since many of you state has been shoved down our throats, let me shove this -- I STILL HAVE LOVE FOR ALL!!

:confused: Whatever the year/colors/Indiana or Howard Univ. --Makes no difference to me, either way:confused:

When we differentiate that is where the confusion starts.:rolleyes:

Now Positively AKA, you say don't worry, be happy. Are you happy?

Yall, let this thread die and stop resurrecting it.