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rainbowbrightCS 06-24-2004 11:44 PM

I used to live in AZ and traveled to Cali all the time. You have an accent, and slang.... "like oh my god, dude, and man...."

Just admit it an move on, i think its sexy and cool.

twhrider13 06-25-2004 12:38 AM

This thread made me smile when I saw it, because today at work (I'm a 411 operator), a guy called with some sort of UK accent (British, Scottish, Irish, Welsh--don't know which one). I'm not supposed to stay on the line with customers after I've found what they're looking for, but I found myself kind of bending this rule just to keep him talking in that super-cute accent!

I'm not a huge fan of Southern accents, either--probably because I've lived in the middle of Hickville all my life. Besides the British/Scottish/Irish/Welsh accents, I also like NZ, Aussie, German, and most English-speaking Caribbean accents, like Jamaican and Bahamian (sp?).

MattUMASSD 06-25-2004 11:50 AM

I am attracted by southern accents

adpialumcsuc 06-25-2004 12:17 PM

Aussie!!
My husband has 3 bosses that have Aussie accents and I love listening to them talk. I love that they call everyone Mate.

tsuadpi859 06-25-2004 12:57 PM

Aussie accents are sexy.

I really don't notice the southern accent because I've lived in a rural small southern town all of my life but I definitely can NOT stand the redneck southern accent. I mean come on people, you've heard these words all of your life and that extra 'r' does not belong there :)

tinydancer 06-25-2004 11:32 PM

You need to ask my friends about the time they couldn't get me off of the bus in New Orleans because I just wanted to listen to the Cajun bus driver talk. Oh my......;)

KillarneyRose 06-27-2004 01:28 AM

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Originally posted by AlphaFrog
I happen to think Spanish accents are sexy, when they're actually speaking Spanish (one more reson why I chose to learn Spanish instead of pushing English on him)...but then again, I'm biased...
Antonio Bandaras comes to mind...yummmmmmm :)

sororitygirl2 06-29-2004 02:50 AM

Accents... Yes, Yes, Yes. Unless they sound like Fabio... NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!!

CSUSigEp 10-07-2005 03:30 PM

I made out with this girl from Australia last night, her accent drove me CRAZY. She was a pretty cute girl but not really the type of girl I would go for if it wasnt for her accent.

Is an accent a valid reason for dating someone?

I also love southern accents... whoa :D

BobbyTheDon 10-07-2005 05:03 PM

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Originally posted by CSUSigEp
I made out with this girl from Australia last night, her accent drove me CRAZY. She was a pretty cute girl but not really the type of girl I would go for if it wasnt for her accent.

Is an accent a valid reason for dating someone?

I also love southern accents... whoa :D

I don't know man. I'm not sure if you can put it in the same catagory as " shes ugly but she has nice body so what the hay".

Don't date her. lead her on. Make her think you want her. Use and abuse it baby. Make her wild for you.

Yeah!

UofISigKap 10-07-2005 11:05 PM

As far as the US goes: I could listen to Boston and New York City accents all day.

Out of the States: British and Irish.

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Originally posted by tinydancer
You need to ask my friends about the time they couldn't get me off of the bus in New Orleans because I just wanted to listen to the Cajun bus driver talk. Oh my......;)
I actually was on a bus tour in Ireland for three days with a young Irish guide speaking the entire time, so I hear ya! I could have listened to him forever! I actually looked into teaching there just so I could stay in Ireland...no, not for him. I was just enchanted by everyone!

I didn't even know my accent existed until I moved. I have to watch how I say things since I consistently had students spell words wrong on spelling tests. (Pondering as I grade: why did half my class spell "bother" with an a instead of an o?) People hear the Chicago obviously, but it's enough removed that people think Wisconsin or occasionally Minnesota.

LightBulb 10-10-2005 01:14 AM

Mmm I love a good Southern accent. :)

ETA: I agree; Irish ones are really nice too.

BetteDavisEyes 10-10-2005 03:23 PM

I love accents as long as I can understand what is being said. For example, I do enjoy a good English accent but yesterday at Disneyland, a lady w/a very thick English accent asked me a question. I couldn't understand her & didn't know what she was trying to ask. On the other hand, listening to Clive Owen just makes me weak in the knees. He's just yummmmmmy!

I am Latina (I dislike the term Hispanic) but can't stand to hear Salma Hayek speak. Her accent is like grating fingernails on a chalkboard to me. I also can't stand the New York & Boston accents. They drive me crazy. Just enunciate your R's people! It's not that hard. Southern accents are pretty nice & I never realized I had a California accent until I was in Hawaii & people that heard me speak could tell I was from California. I don't say words like dude, whatever, and all those other words people assume are a staple of the California language.

Radiant_One 10-10-2005 04:01 PM

I love to hear Thandie Newton (Mission Impossible 2).

Trinidadian - YES.

ShyViolet 10-10-2005 07:02 PM

Mmm, accents are lovely. Being in Scotland, of course I am partial to the Scottish accent - and I prefer the Highland accent (especially from near Inverness) to a more common Dundee one, which can get a bit grating whilst on the train to Edinburgh.

English accents are usually nice as well, I quite like the greater-London area accent, Midlands, and the posh accent that knows no geography. :) I'm not really fond of the Geordie accent though from the north - I'm not sure what it is about it though.

Northern Irish and Republic of Ireland accents are lovely in any form.

Hmm, as far as other accents, I do like French (and Quebequois), and New Zealand, though it depends on the person and their intonation.

CutiePie2000 10-10-2005 08:49 PM

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Originally posted by ZTAngel
How do you have a Swiss accent? I thought the Swiss either spoke French, German, or Italian depending on which border they lived closest to.
I can tell when a person is speaking German and they're from Switzerland, rather than Germany or Austria. Swiss-German is a bit more throaty and "gutteral" somehow. You just have to know, that's all. cashmoney is right: they do sort of sound like they are "hocking a loogie at you" (lovely....)

And yes, Germany has different regional accents, blah blah blah, but I won't get into that right now.

YES: Australian, British accents, Southern USA (as long as it's not too "Deliverance"-esque")
NO: Irish, Eastern European accents, South African accents

AchtungBaby80 10-11-2005 08:14 PM

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Originally posted by ShyViolet
Northern Irish and Republic of Ireland accents are lovely in any form.
Yeah, I dated a Northern Irish guy for 2 years, and his accent was lovely...too bad he was a $hitty boyfriend, though. Ah, but all those lies and empty promises sounded beautiful coming out of his mouth... :p

emleepc 10-12-2005 01:05 PM

My man is from Pakistan.....I hardly even notice that he has an accent anymore. He's got a really deep voice, though, which is fabulous. And the way he pronounces certain things......nice.

FAB*SpiceySpice 10-25-2005 07:29 PM

Boston accents and Australian accents make me weak in the knees. Southern accents and British accents really don't do anything for me at all. I don't really encounter any kind of accents though around here, except for some people who have that bootheel/hoosier accent...not a fan of that either. My friend John has the most random accent ever, I don't even know how to describe it. And he was born/raised in Columbia, but sounds like no one else around here...he has the hottest accent ever though. Odd.

ragtimerose 10-25-2005 08:26 PM

Southern US accents don't do a thing for me, probably because I've lived in the South all my life.

I met a doctor from South Africa whose accent was awesome. Too bad he was too old for me--probably married, has 3 kids and a dog, but he was nice to listen to.

Now...Goran Visnjic and his Croatian accent can turn me on anytime. =)

33girl 10-26-2005 10:06 AM

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Originally posted by FAB*SpiceySpice
Boston accents and Australian accents make me weak in the knees.
Then you need to come help me work on my newest account. They all have MAJOR Boston accents and call me on the phone all the time. :D

SOPi_Jawbreaker 10-26-2005 05:51 PM

I loooooove European men. :D One of my exes is from Northern Ireland. He has a really thick Irish accent. The first time I met him and heard that accent, I was like "I have to have him!!!" The only problem was when he was drunk, he would slur his words, and I couldn't understand him at all.

I am such a sucker for accents. I also love British, Scottish, Italian, French, and Russian accents. Mmmmm....

BobbyTheDon 10-26-2005 06:22 PM

yeah baby! Accents rock my world.!



-Bobby


*does the stick that shampoo bottle up my ass at a medium pace...dance*

Rudey 10-26-2005 06:23 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
yeah baby! Accents rock my world.!



-Bobby


*does the stick that shampoo bottle up my ass at a medium pace...dance*

I like accents too.

-Rudey
--Does the fuck me gently with a chainsaw dance.

a.e.B.O.T. 10-26-2005 07:28 PM

a cute southern accent on a girl is cute but only a minor one, not to the point where its just trashy... No other accents

honeychile 11-17-2005 03:50 PM

This will come as no surprise, but I like the "soft" southern accent - not the redneck one, but the polite one. If you're watching the Jeopardy College championship right now, the guy from Alabama is a perfect example.

The other accent that I really love is the Scottish ones! I've missed more hours of sleep, staying up to get a Craig Ferguson fix... Seriously, I was fortunate enough to have made friends with a few Scottish families, and while it's a rough accent, it's sexy as can be! The English & Irish ones follow closely behind.

I have a guy friend from Queens, and when we're in the same city, we go out. A few years ago, we both were in NYC at the same time, and he took me to le Cirque, and since he had been studying French, he insisted on ordering. Close your eyes and try to picture a thick Queens accent speaking French - the waiter was in pain!! Yet, he is one of the world's most wonderful men, has met some terribly exciting people, and has led a fascinating life - he could talk with any accent, and hold me spellbound!

BetteDavisEyes 11-23-2005 07:14 PM

Here's an interesting article on the disappearing southern accent.



By JEFFREY COLLINS and KRISTEN WYATT, Associated Press Writers

COLUMBIA, S.C. - "Y'all" isn't welcome in Erica Tobolski's class in voice and diction at the University of South Carolina. And forget about "fixin'," as in getting ready to do something, or "pin" when talking about the writing instrument.

Tobolski's class is all about getting rid of accents, mostly Southern ones in the heart of the former Confederacy, and replacing them with Standard American Dialect, the uninflected tone of TV news anchors that oozes authority and refinement.

"We sort of avoid talking about class in this country, but clearly class is indicated by how we speak," she said.

"Many come to see me because they want to sound less country," she said. "They say, 'I don't want to lose my accent completely, but I want to be able to minimize it or modify it.'"

That was the case for sophomore Ali Huffstetler, who said she "luuuvs" the slow-paced softness of her upstate South Carolina magnolia mouth but wants to be able to turn it on and off depending on her audience.

"I went to New Hampshire to visit one of my best friends and all they kept saying was, 'Will you please talk, can you just talk for me?'" Huffstetler said. "I felt like a little puppet show."

Across the fast-growing South, accents are under assault, and not just from the modern-day Henry Higginses of academia. There's the flood of transplants from other regions, notions of Southern upward mobility that require dropping the drawl, and stereotypes that "y'alls" and "suhs" signal low status or lack of intelligence.

But is the Southern accent really disappearing?

That depends what accent you mean. The South, because of its rural, isolated past, boasts a diversity of dialects, from Appalachian twangs in several states to Elizabethan lilts in Virginia to Cajun accents in Louisiana to African-influenced Gullah accents on the coasts of Georgia and South Carolina.

One accent that has been all but wiped out is the slow juleps-in-the-moonlight drawl favored by Hollywood portrayals of the South. To find that so-called plantation accent in most parts of the region nowadays requires a trip to the video store.

"The Rhett-and-Scarlett accent, that is disappearing, no doubt about it," said Bill Kretzschmar, a linguist at the University of Georgia and editor of the American Linguistic Atlas, which tracks speech patterns.

"Blame it on the boll weevil," he said, referring to the cotton pest. "That accent from plantation areas, which was never the whole South, has been in decline for a long time. The economic basis of that culture started going away at the turn of the last century," when the bugs nearly wiped out the South's cotton economy.

Even as the stereotypical Southern accent gets rarer, other speech patterns take its place, and they're not any less Southern. The Upland South accent, a faster-paced dialect native to the Appalachian mountains, is said to be spreading just as fast as the plantation drawl disappears.

"The one constant about language is, it's always changing," Kretzschmar said. "The Southern accent is not going anywhere. But you have all kinds of mixtures and changes."

For a long-term study on whether the Southern accent is disappearing, University of Georgia linguists went to Roswell, Ga., an Atlanta suburb that is just the kind of transient place that leads to the death of indigenous dialects. It's packed with strip malls and subdivisions with no cotton patches or peach trees in sight.

"I don't hear it," 21-year-old Roswell native Amanda Locher said of the accent. She's never lived outside the South, but even Northern newcomers question her Southernness. "People tell me I sound like I'm from up North. To hear a true Southern accent, you'd have to go deeper south than here."

Adam Mach, a 25-year-old tire shop worker who moved to the Atlanta suburbs from Lafayette, La., has got a noticeable Louisiana lilt. But he said his accent seldom makes conversation because the area is such a melting pot of newcomers.

"Everybody I meet's not from here," he shrugged.

North Carolina State University linguist Walt Wolfram said it's a misconception among Southerners that Yankee newcomers are stamping out traditional speech. More likely, he said, is that newcomers pick up local speech patterns.

"When people move here and don't think they've changed at all, they go home and people say, 'Wow. You've turned Southern.' They pick up enough to be identified as Southern. So it's still there, still strongly identified with the South," Wolfram said.

But that doesn't mean that population change in the South isn't chipping away at old-timey dialects, especially in cities. Wolfram said the "dearest feature" of the Southern accent — the vowel shift where one-syllable words like "air" come out in two syllables, "ay-ah" — is certainly vanishing. Other aspects — such as double-modal constructions like "might could" — are still pervasive.

Kretzschmar, who has recorded Roswell speakers for three years, said his suburban Atlanta studies have backed up his suspicion that the Southern accent is morphing along with the urbanizing South.

"It's not really disappearing, but the circumstances of living make it different," he said. "People don't have connections with their neighbors to maintain their way of speech.

"The circumstances of how people get together and talk in the cities have changed; they're not constantly talking to people who talk just like them. But in the South outside the cities, you have a lot of similarities."

Georgia-bred humorist Roy Blount Jr. understands that people with strong Southern accents are often perceived as "slow and dimwitted." But he thinks it's "sort of a shame" that people should feel the need to soften or even lose their accents.

"My father, who was a surely intelligent man, would say `cain't'. He wouldn't say `can't.' And, `There ain't no way, just there ain't no way.' You don't want to say, `There isn't any way.' That just spoils the whole thing," Blount said.

"I just think that there's a certain eloquence in Southern vernacular that I wouldn't want to lose touch with ... you ought to sound like where you come from."

But never fear. There are still plenty of professions that thrive on a good Southern twang — from preachers to football coaches to a certain breed of courtroom litigators.

And South Carolina's Tobolski, an Indiana native who came south eight years ago, can help there, too. As a private coach she has even taught a politician she wouldn't name how to ratchet up his Southern accent to make him appear more folksy before certain crowds — a technique she calls "code switching."

"He didn't want to lose his dialect entirely. He just wanted to be able to adapt."

"I don't think that any regional accent is going to be eliminated," she said. "There's still people who want to hang on to how they sound. That's who they are. That's their identity. And that goes from New Jersey to Minnesota to Wyoming to Georgia."

Sistermadly 11-24-2005 11:28 AM

"Code switching".. that's exactly what I do. When I moved up here, people seemed disappointed that when I spoke magnolias didn't fall from my lips. I worked on toning down my Southern accent, but when I'm talking to family or good friends from back home, I switch back to it.

But back to sexy accents, Scottish brogues (like Ewan McGregor's) leave me weak. I also like hearing people from Ghana speak English. It's very musical. With respect to North American accents, I still like to hear that Southern gentleman's drawl (which is one of the main reason Matthew McConaughey is so hot). I also like the way folks in Eastern Canada talk -- especially Ottawa and Toronto.

Taualumna 11-24-2005 06:27 PM

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Originally posted by Sistermadly
I also like the way folks in Eastern Canada talk -- especially Ottawa and Toronto.
Except we don't consider ourselves "easterners." :)

Also, do you mean the "uptalk" accent that many Torontonians (guys and girls!) speak with?

Sistermadly 11-25-2005 03:14 AM

If you're east of Saskatchewan, you're an "Easterner" in my book. ;)

SmartBlondeGPhB 11-26-2005 06:20 PM

Yes.......

Southern and British/Aussie.

But then, my current crush has a Spanish one and that's not too bad either....

PlymouthDZ 12-01-2005 09:25 PM

i LOVE accents.

My fiance has a bit of a southern accent - not too heavy.. but just enough - its WAY cute.

I have a heavy Boston accent - I get tons of comments on my accent being in the "south" (Maryland)

I have a co-worker from England - *drool* I just love listening to him speak.

Boodleboy322 12-04-2005 11:28 PM

accents
 
Chicks with British accents...definately...European and Australian women make better wives and girlfriends in my opinion...but I won't open up a can of worms in here. Cheers! ;)

honeychile 12-04-2005 11:34 PM

Not as sexy or not sexy, but I just LOVE Jamaican accents!! All of my friends know when I've watched Cool Runnings, because I end up talking like that for about a week afterwards! mon!


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