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ZTAMich 06-22-2004 07:52 PM

Shy, generally quiet guys. I don't mind making the first move & carrying the conversations for a while but after that you better have a lot to say. Plus, no one wants to carry a conversation, you want it to be shared.

Dionysus 06-23-2004 05:18 PM

PREACHERS
Uppity/Snobby
Willfully ignorant
Judgemental
Angry/Millitant Blackman type
Control-freak
Shy/Introverted
Nerdy
Pimp/Player (there are exceptions)
Cheap
Compulsive spender
Too conservative/tradtional
Uncreative
Egghead/know-it-all
Lazy
Workaholic

In other words, he has to have BALANCE!

Akkus 08-12-2006 06:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sororitygirl2
Controlling, abusive, arrogant (well, overly arrogant), stupid, self-centered, wimpy, depressed - oh, the list goes on. I am one picky girl!!! :)


ironically i see most girls dating these kind of guys. :rolleyes:

Scandia 08-12-2006 07:32 AM

Controlling, bossy, sexist, abusive, narrow-minded, extremist of either wing, unsupportive, leeching, you get the picture.

aephi alum 08-12-2006 09:44 AM

I must have missed this thread the first time around...

The one personality type I disliked most was the overly-clingy type. There is a difference between wanting to spend time with your S.O. and wanting to spend every moment 24x7 with your S.O.

I also tried to avoid guys with less personality than a box of rocks, unintelligent guys, guys with no ambition, guys who didn't understand that there is more to a relationship than just sex, closed-minded guys (mainly I am referring to political and religious issues here... I have no problem with people who hold different views from my own, as long as they don't try to force those views on me), and control freaks.

Akkus 08-12-2006 10:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aephi alum
I also tried to avoid guys with less personality than a box of rocks, unintelligent guys, guys with no ambition, guys who didn't understand that there is more to a relationship than just sex, closed-minded guys (mainly I am referring to political and religious issues here... I have no problem with people who hold different views from my own, as long as they don't try to force those views on me), and control freaks.


that totals up to about all the guys in the world :D

Dionysus 08-12-2006 10:43 AM

Uh, so how are some of us doing with the sexes we're attracted to? Heterophobes, please forgive me for saying the opposite sex in my OP, I wasn't thinking.

Some of us had some long ass lists.

I shortened my to:

3. No/limited capability of having compassion and selflessness.
2. Not intelligent.
1. Lack of life experience. Especially if they want to remain that way.

texgal 08-12-2006 11:01 AM

Metrosexuals. I tried it once, and I'll never do it again. That was a ridiculous chapter in my life that I do not want to revisit. Any guy who has more hair/skin care/whatever products than me is just not worth it.

Also, I can't handle someone who is initially quiet, because that's the way I am. I need someone a little more outgoing to balance me.

KSUViolet06 08-12-2006 11:20 AM

I like for my man to take care of himself, but I don't like the metrosexual type. I don't want my man getting bi-weekly facials, wearing concealer (yes, I know guys who do), or taking longer than I do to get ready.

Scandia 08-12-2006 11:53 AM

I don't mind it at all if my guy is a metrosexual. As long as he does not try to control the way I look, I don't care how much he invests in his personal appearance.

I do not like macho rugged men. There's nothing wrong with a man being this way- it's just not my preference.

I do not like wimps who have no goals or ambition, who have no inner strength, who are afraid of everything, who are not self-reliant, and who do not have any activities with me or of their own. And this goes for everyone I know of either gender- platonic friends, relatives, and co-workers are much more interesting when they have a lot of things going on in their lives and when they are self-reliant and do not depend on others for everything.

Jimmy Choo 08-12-2006 12:39 PM

Abusive: whether it be physical, emotional, verbal
Control-freaks: I am a bit of a control freak. There is not room for another one in my life. I can barely deal with my self somedays!!!
Dependant: If I am the only thing in your life we will have a problem b/c chances are you are not the only thing in mine!!!

_Opi_ 08-12-2006 01:05 PM

Men with sexist attitudes.

Men who think their idea of a good time is going out to drink.

Men who conform to cultural values and never thinking outside the box or being open-minded.

Men who don't have a backbone. I could be a handful at times :)

Rudey 08-12-2006 05:13 PM

Handicapped girls and girls with vaginas that can fit 2 liter coke bottles in them.

-Rudey
--Because I need a girl that can fit at least a gallon jug of milk.

James 08-13-2006 03:59 AM

What is concealer?

Quote:

Originally Posted by JocelynC
I like for my man to take care of himself, but I don't like the metrosexual type. I don't want my man getting bi-weekly facials, wearing concealer (yes, I know guys who do), or taking longer than I do to get ready.


Akkus 08-13-2006 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by James
What is concealer?


A concealer or colour corrector is a type of makeup used to cover pimples, dark circles and other small blemishes visible on the skin. Women mainly use this product.

CutiePie2000 08-15-2006 10:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thermobryan
I want a girl to not bend over for me, I want a challenge!

I was gonna make a drrrrty comment about not wanting a girl bending over for you, but I'll let your imagination work it out. ;)

GAC3710 08-16-2006 09:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dionysus
What's the one personality type that gets under your skin...in the opposite sex (double standards okay :D)?


Donna from "That 70s show"

Kevlar281 08-17-2006 07:32 PM

Fat Chicks…fat is a personality right?















Nobody freak out it was a joke.

Ok as far as personalities that I won’t date.

1. Spoiled Rich Girls – If you have no concept of money you’re not the girl for me.
2. Dumb Girls – If you consider the latest issue of US good literature you’re not the girl for me.
3. Attention Whores – If I can’t leave your side at a party you’re not the girl for me.

RU OX Alum 08-21-2006 12:27 PM

any of those bitches from the bi-polar thread

they don't know what they're missing

adpiucf 08-21-2006 12:52 PM

A Free Spirit gets on my Type-A nerves.

KAY10 08-28-2006 11:54 PM

I can't stand game playing, and ignorance. Gold diggers bother me too. One of my Xs couldn't find the United States on the map. She also didn't know where her home state was either. I had to let her go. She was a member of XYZ Sorority too. I'll keep that one to myself.

This is strange but if a woman orders a burger and instead of biting into the burger like normal, she pulls pieces of it off with her fingers. I hate that.

Controling, aggressive women I won't give the time a day.

Women who show too much cleavage. What's the point? It's not lady like.
I'm really not that picky, but somethings I just can't deal with.

mulattogyrl 08-30-2006 10:46 AM

A weak man. If a man isn't strong I'll walk all over him.

A man with no sense of humor. I need someone silly like me.

A man that takes more time getting ready than me.

neosoul 08-30-2006 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KAY10
Women who show too much cleavage. What's the point? It's not lady like.

cleavage is always great, but Pamela Anderson cleavage is overkill

I will not date control and neat freaks... can't stand 'em

Dionysus 08-30-2006 01:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adpiucf
A Free Spirit gets on my Type-A nerves.

I'm the opposite. I think Type-A behavior belongs at work and school. Even there, some people take it too far. I totally bump heads with people who are obesessed with chores and make up crazy schedules ON THEIR "FREE" TIME, like on weekends and vacations.

KAY10 09-02-2006 03:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by neosoul
cleavage is always great, but Pamela Anderson cleavage is overkill

I will not date control and neat freaks... can't stand 'em

:eek: I'm a neat freak. LOL

KAY10 09-02-2006 03:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by neosoul
cleavage is always great, but Pamela Anderson cleavage is overkill

I will not date control and neat freaks... can't stand 'em

I just can't get down with that cleavage stuff. A woman that does that, to me has no class.

paul1 09-10-2006 06:25 PM

types
 
women who only think of themselves , that are always right , talk about ex boyfriends , divorced women who still wear there wedding ring and carry there old id cause they need a second form of id . { guess they never heard of a passport , ss card } , women that never offer to pay even tho i wouldnt let them but the offer would be nice sometimes . women that only want a relationship on there time schedule

KatieKate1244 09-12-2006 12:51 AM

Incurable romantics.

Cardinal026 09-12-2006 10:31 AM

I've dated two boys that absolutely hated spiders...and while I don't love them, I'll pick it up quick and throw it outside and wash my hands. I don't need a man that will tangle with snakes or ride bulls...but if they can't handle an insect...:rolleyes:

KAY10 09-13-2006 01:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cardinal026 (Post 1318809)
I've dated two boys that absolutely hated spiders...and while I don't love them, I'll pick it up quick and throw it outside and wash my hands. I don't need a man that will tangle with snakes or ride bulls...but if they can't handle an insect...:rolleyes:

I hate insects. I guess that makes me weak.:p

paul1 09-13-2006 10:37 AM

insects
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1319569)
I hate insects. I guess that makes me weak.:p

Lmao,naw means u hate insects .

RU OX Alum 09-13-2006 11:00 AM

spiders are arachnids

RU OX Alum 09-13-2006 12:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KatieKate1244 (Post 1318681)
Incurable romantics.

What does this mean? Like, too many flowers? Or falls for a different girl each week depending on how much drama is involved, like a male drama queen? :confused:

Cardinal026 09-13-2006 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1319569)
I hate insects. I guess that makes me weak.:p

You can hate them and still get them out of your house...whether you prefer scooping them up in a cup and throwing them outside or squashing it. But if you make ME do it...then that would just make you not my personality type, lol, not necessarily weak. :p

AlphaFrog 09-13-2006 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cardinal026 (Post 1319816)
You can hate them and still get them out of your house...whether you prefer scooping them up in a cup and throwing them outside or squashing it. But if you make ME do it...then that would just make you not my personality type, lol, not necessarily weak. :p

My husband tried to get me to get rid of the dead mouse in the trap in the pantry. I said, "Nope, sorry, that would fall under 'the man's job'". He said that it wasn't going to bite, but that's not the point.

sugarplumfairy 09-13-2006 01:49 PM

I can't date a type-A...I can't keep up with them.

I did go on a blind date once where he order a Beer before dinner, a glass of wine with dinner and an irish coffee afterwards...he had to keep going back to the bathroom for a looooooooooooooong time, and the 3rd time he went I left my part of the bill on the table, left, and saved the guy the embarrassment.

too bad...he was hot!

KSig RC 09-13-2006 03:20 PM

Stupid.

Unless she's REALLY hot.

thesweetestone 09-23-2006 01:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 767312)
PREACHERS
Uppity/Snobby
Willfully ignorant
Judgemental
Angry/Millitant Blackman type
Control-freak
Pimp/Player
Cheap
Too conservative/tradtional
Egghead/know-it-all
Lazy
Workaholic

In other words, he has to have BALANCE!

I co-sign all that and add this: bad grammar and overly uses profanity

KAY10 09-23-2006 01:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thesweetestone (Post 1326057)
I co-sign all that and add this: bad grammar and overly uses profanity

What's up with the preachers?

thesweetestone 09-23-2006 02:01 AM

^^^^
I'm a Christian but being a preacher's wife is not something I would want to be.


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