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AlphaSigOU 04-04-2004 09:11 AM

Being a New Yawk City native, there are hundreds of ways the F-word can be injected into everyday speech and it's generally not considered offensive unless it's directed at someone. However, there is one certain word that I consider offensive, and I just don't particularly care to use it or hear it said:

C*nt - Whether using it to crudely describe a part of the female anatomy or referring to a despicable woman. Just irks me to no end.

hottytoddy 04-04-2004 10:13 AM

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Originally posted by AXJules
Ok I swore I was not going to jump into this, but...
I say 'gay' all the time, 'cept I write it "ghey". Obivously I know what it sounds like, but too bad...I use the word gay as in, "They were dancing gaily around....or Everyone is happy and gay." That conjures up an image of really cheesy nerdy stuff.....which is my intention and why I write "ghey" instead of 'gay'. And actually, if you think about it, I think that might be what a lot of people mean by it.....seriously now, how can something act like a homosexual? If I say that someone's joke is gay, I don' tmean it's somehting a gay person would say, I mean it's cheesy or horrible.

I know what I mean, I don't need to explain myself, but I hope you all can see where I'm coming from.

Co-sign this. There are many words that have several different meanings. When I say something is gay, I don't mean it's homosexual. I use this word in this way around gay people all the time and they know what I mean.

AlphaSigOU 04-04-2004 10:36 AM

Military Creole... a dying language!
 
Quoth Thomas Wolfe in his classic work of American aerospace literature, The Right Stuff, on page 143 (lightly edited for clarity):

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[Original Mercury 7 astronaut] Deke [Slayton] had started flying in the Second World War, when the Air Force was still part of the Army. In the Army one was continually around people who spoke Army Creole, a language in which there were about ten nouns, five verbs, and one adjective, or participle, or whatever it was called. There always seemed to be a couple of good buddies from Valdosta or Oilville or some place sitting around saying:

"I tol'im iffie tried to f*ck me over, I was gonna kick'is f*ckin' a**, iddnat right?"

"F*ckin' A."

"Soey kep'on f*ckin' me over and I kicked 'is f*ckin' a** in fo'im, iddnat right?"

"F*ckin' A."

"An' so now they tellin' me they gon' th'ow my f*ckin' a** inna f*ckin' stoc-kade! You know what? They some kinda f*ckin' me over!"

"F*ckin' A well tol', Bubba."
In those days when the Ooooooold Air Farce was the best Air Farce, it was not unusual to overhear conversations spoken in fluent Military Creole.

33girl 04-04-2004 11:54 AM

To expound on AlphaSigOU's post, Ben Bradlee said the phrase that summed up his military experience was "The f***ing f***er's f***ed."

I like that word and use it often - it has so many uses - but I do not like to hear GD or JC either.

The words that really offend me the most are doublespeak & corporatespeak - if you can't tell me what you mean then shut up - although I don't care much for "panties" either. :p

cutiepatootie 04-04-2004 12:04 PM

Re: here we go...
 
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Originally posted by AXJules
http://www.flexi.net.au/~mkendall/we...he%20beach.jpg
GHEY. Cheesy-horrible-too much happiness for one beach. Dorky. Filled with oddball joy so commonly depicted in bad 50's movies.


Having fun , happy maybe cheeseballish but still normal.
********************************


http://vikingphoenix.com/public/gchof/rosie-1.jpg GAY. A lesbian woman. Successful. Sexual orientation- towards other females. Shouldn't be used as an insult.


Abrasive obnoxious wants to rub her orientation into way to many faces by toting it around everywhere and in everything she does... No wonder why she isnt like anymore!





[/B]

Rudey 04-04-2004 03:23 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaSigOU
Being a New Yawk City native,
Actually you're not.

-Rudey
--And please stop calling it New Yawk

AlphaSigOU 04-04-2004 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
Actually you're not.

-Rudey
--And please stop calling it New Yawk

Last time I checked my birth certificate, it reads I was born in Flushing, Queens, New York. 'Far as I know, that makes me a New York City native. Granted, I may not have returned back to "The City So Nice They Named It Twice" in years but I think I've earned the right to call it 'New Yawk', since it's about the closest you can get to a New York accent in print. :rolleyes: :p

James 04-04-2004 05:24 PM

Y'all southern gals still carry smelling salts? Thats adorable. :)


But yeah most words that apply to sexual organs or the process pf producing body waste can take me aback in a conversation.

God damn . . isn't something bothers me, or Jesus Christ, although they aren't terms I use.





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Originally posted by BrownEyedGirl
Ditto ditto ditto! This was exactly my point in starting this thread.

If you use G.D. or "retarded" or any of the crude slang words for female anatomy in front of me, it's not that my eyes roll back in my head or I keel over and ask for my smellin' salts or swear you out of my life forever.

It's just that I think so highly of the people that I interact with and I prefer to see them use words that reflect their class, maturity, and intellect....


Dionysus 04-04-2004 05:24 PM

NIGGARDLY-can't you use a different word to describe something/someone that is stingy. :o

Tom Earp 04-04-2004 05:35 PM

OH God, Give it a rest, It is a True Word for being Miserly! Do that remind you of someone???!

Your Stuff is flowing above your Pants:eek: Must be BVDs!

AlphaSigOU, Remember, Rudey is not totally Responsible for His Stupidity, and I really do not want to Blame it on His Parents or Maybe Gene/Jean Pool!:o

Maybe He was Kicked to the curb at birth!:(

He is a Respite of Da on Site and it is so good to see someone besides me!:p

PhiPsiRuss 04-04-2004 06:03 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaSigOU
Last time I checked my birth certificate, it reads I was born in Flushing, Queens, New York. 'Far as I know, that makes me a New York City native. Granted, I may not have returned back to "The City So Nice They Named It Twice" in years but I think I've earned the right to call it 'New Yawk', since it's about the closest you can get to a New York accent in print. :rolleyes: :p
1) I personally know no one, who pronounces New York, "New Yawk."
2) "The City So Nice They Named It Twice" refers to New York, New York which is Manhattan, and not any other borough.

Tom Earp 04-04-2004 06:26 PM

Russ While I have Been To NY, NY several Times, I still Call It New Jerk for some of the Morons that I had Contact With!:rolleyes:

God, The Idiocy is underwhelming and outside their Bouroughs, They Have No Clue!:(

Hell, one nite found finally how to get From Brooklyn to Manhatten, 7 th and 7th!

Hell, no one could tell me how to find it! Da, Cabies, or COPS!

Finally found it, checked out with never sleeping in The Bed!:confused: Do They Really know beyond a block or two?

Sorry Dude but was a great frustration the times I was there!

Munchkin03 04-04-2004 06:55 PM

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Originally posted by Tom Earp
OH God, Give it a rest, It is a True Word for being Miserly! Do that remind you of someone???!
SHE SAID SHE DIDN'T LIKE IT. Regardless of the meaning, sometimes people just don't like when certain words are said. That's what this thread is about.

Why must you say stupid things that make no sense?

Rudey 04-04-2004 06:56 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaSigOU
Last time I checked my birth certificate, it reads I was born in Flushing, Queens, New York. 'Far as I know, that makes me a New York City native. Granted, I may not have returned back to "The City So Nice They Named It Twice" in years but I think I've earned the right to call it 'New Yawk', since it's about the closest you can get to a New York accent in print. :rolleyes: :p
I see so if an American couple go to France on vacation and their child is born in the hotel, they return to the States shortly after and the child is no longer there, then that child is a native of NY.

OK right.

The NY accent in print? So every single time you post about NY you have to imitate a NY accent in print? Actually it's certain people from certain parts that have that accent. Perhaps in the next post you make you can talk about how you are a huge knife fighter because you're a New Yawker. That'd just be great.

You're a Florida native. Accept it. You wrote a book about your memorable experience going to high school in Florida. You went to college somewhere else, but came back to Florida. Your connection with NY is nill.

-Rudey

Rudey 04-04-2004 06:57 PM

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Originally posted by Munchkin03
SHE SAID SHE DIDN'T LIKE IT. Regardless of the meaning, sometimes people just don't like when certain words are said. That's what this thread is about.

Why must you say stupid things that make no sense?

You're starting to make me like you.

-Rudey
--But you have a bit to go :)

Rudey 04-04-2004 07:03 PM

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Originally posted by Tom Earp
Disgusting post by an old ignorant man who won't stop harassing people.
You've stooped to insulting my parents now.

-Rudey
--Please stop talking to me

AlphaSigOU 04-04-2004 07:56 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
You're a Florida native. Accept it. You wrote a book about your memorable experience going to high school in Florida. You went to college somewhere else, but came back to Florida. Your connection with NY is nill.
OK, I'm willing to settle for almost nil. :) Can't deny I was born in New York, but I was raised in South Florida, in an area that was populated (then) by former New Yorkers who went south to retire.

Now let's get this topic back on track before it splits... :D

AXJules 04-05-2004 12:35 AM

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Originally posted by FHwku
AXjules, those people on the beach are wearing shoes. on the beach. the dude looking at the camera looks like he's singing and the bridesmaid is singing louder. beach etiquette says, "no shoes on the beach."

and you followed up the picture of gay, frolicking people with giant rosie head. pre-mullet.

Wait a sec....are you trying to say my post was, uh, GHEY???

James 04-05-2004 11:49 AM

I know its a double standard . . .

But when pretty girls use language harsher than "damn."

IT just jars and sounds worse than a man doing it.

alikat2 04-05-2004 02:26 PM

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Originally posted by decadence
Hottytoddy, I think that's a BIT different???

Banter between friends and throwing around the word all the time in daily life just ain't the same. They know [probably] you don't hate them for who they are, they [probably] can take it in the spirit it is meant.

It's a whole world away from conversations (of people aged over 8) like "you got a pen?" "yeah you can have this one but it's a bit gay" etc...
Would the replacement of a more sensitive word be so acceptable? "you got a pen?" "yeah you can have this one but it's a bit negro". No of course not (!!!) - there'd be outcry if people went around saying that - and rightly so. But one minority group is not acceptable to use in this way more than the next.
Using adjectives (however spelt) which refer to a minority group to say something is bad or sub-par isn't okay. Respecting different sensibilities is about maturity. Comments like "there's this guy and he's gay and he's just fiiiine with it" don't change it. Often, people do have a problem with it, whether they say so or not. And they aren't at fault for having a problem with it when part of who they are is used an a synonym for nasty, substandard, annoying.

This post reminded me--

My cousin uses the word "Jewish" as a synonym for stupid. For example, if a door is broken, he'll say, "Damn Jewish door" or something to that effect. I was shocked the first time I heard him say that. Not sure where he picked it up.

Rudey 04-05-2004 02:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by alikat2
This post reminded me--

My cousin uses the word "Jewish" as a synonym for stupid. For example, if a door is broken, he'll say, "Damn Jewish door" or something to that effect. I was shocked the first time I heard him say that. Not sure where he picked it up.

OK no, see that's going beyond what's acceptable and joking. That's running into the hate zone and doing a dance.

-Rudey
--What a damn stupid cousin

hottytoddy 04-05-2004 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by alikat2
This post reminded me--

My cousin uses the word "Jewish" as a synonym for stupid. For example, if a door is broken, he'll say, "Damn Jewish door" or something to that effect. I was shocked the first time I heard him say that. Not sure where he picked it up.

LOL, I have a friend that does that. We were craving a diet cherry coke one night and we went to the Chevron to get one. It was like 10:00 and it was closed. She was like "Damn Jewsish Chevron!"

Peaches-n-Cream 04-05-2004 09:49 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
OK no, see that's going beyond what's acceptable and joking. That's running into the hate zone and doing a dance.

-Rudey
--What a damn stupid cousin

I agree.

justamom 04-05-2004 10:16 PM

Me too!

Substitute any other highly charged word and you would get a THUNDEROUS response. Do him a favor and set him straight-before HE gets stereotyped as an idiot!

Just good advice.

Dionysus 05-26-2004 03:27 PM

Saying someone "expired" when they died.

Diamond Delta 05-26-2004 04:18 PM

I hate it when people say "irregardless":rolleyes:

Munchkin03 05-26-2004 08:25 PM

I hate the word "reiterate." Unless you've said something THREE times, you aren't reiterating anything. "Iterate" means "to repeat." Therefore, "reiterate" means to "re-repeat." Dumbasses. :mad:

I'm an agnostic bordering on downright atheism, but it bothers me to hear people say "I swear to God." It just sounds harsh and crass. I had a teacher who would say it all the time last semester, and it just rubbed me the wrong way.

AlethiaSi 05-27-2004 12:08 AM

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Originally posted by Sister Havana
I hate the word "fanny" to refer to your rear end.

lol- in london- a fanny is known as a women's uh..private area hahaha- how weird that words are used so differently

*i was warned about this word when i said "fanny pack" or something in conversation- this guy turns to me and says do you know what that means here??? lol

AOcutiePi4ever 05-27-2004 12:21 AM

ooooo my

i am the QUEEN of hating words, really, i have this serious hatred for some words and they make me SQUIRM

some of them are:

1. Toes (AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH)
2. handsome
4. tasty
5.snot



ughughugh i'm grossing myself out already

swissmiss04 05-27-2004 12:22 AM

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Originally posted by Dionysus
Saying someone "expired" when they died.
Nevermind that. It's a Southern (predominantly among African Americans) euphemism. I don't say it, though.
I hate when people say GD, JC (or even just "Jesus"), c*nt, tw*at, poophole, or ghetto. In general if something is said in a disrespectful way, then it pisses me off. I have sort of mixed feelings about "gay/ghey". I just usually don't say it.

swissmiss04 05-27-2004 12:25 AM

I also freaking hate it when people say "ATM machine". Redundant much???

SiKeS 05-27-2004 09:34 PM

bungalow

queequek 05-27-2004 11:53 PM

Owell, now I am bugged with the word "potato", since that was the first word jumped into one's mind down here when I mentioned Iowa. HELLLLOOO? Iowa, the potato state? ARE YOU NUTS? :rolleyes:

bluefish81 05-28-2004 12:16 AM

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Originally posted by Diamond Delta
I hate it when people say "irregardless":rolleyes:
Because it's not a real word? That drives me nuts too. I also get annoyed by "towards."

sageofages 05-28-2004 11:17 AM

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Originally posted by queequek
Owell, now I am bugged with the word "potato", since that was the first word jumped into one's mind down here when I mentioned Iowa. HELLLLOOO? Iowa, the potato state? ARE YOU NUTS? :rolleyes:
Tell me you are joking about "Iowa, the potato state"...right?

IDAHO is the potato state.

In Iowa we are the Hawkeye state, with the IOWA State Fair...one of the greatest attractions available in the US all summer!

www.iowastatefair.org

queequek 05-28-2004 01:32 PM

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Originally posted by sageofages
Tell me you are joking about "Iowa, the potato state"...right?

IDAHO is the potato state.

In Iowa we are the Hawkeye state, with the IOWA State Fair...one of the greatest attractions available in the US all summer!

www.iowastatefair.org

LOL, I know that, that's why I put :sarcasm: face after it.
:D

preciousjeni 05-28-2004 01:46 PM

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Originally posted by bluefish81
Because it's not a real word? That drives me nuts too. I also get annoyed by "towards."
"Anyways" bothers me! Also, I think "womyn/wymyn" is kinda tacky. I get it, but I don't like it.

preciousjeni 05-28-2004 01:50 PM

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Originally posted by swissmiss04
I also freaking hate it when people say "ATM machine". Redundant much???
How about "PIN number"??? LOL!

aurora_borealis 05-28-2004 02:05 PM

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Originally posted by queequek
Owell, now I am bugged with the word "potato", since that was the first word jumped into one's mind down here when I mentioned Iowa. HELLLLOOO? Iowa, the potato state? ARE YOU NUTS? :rolleyes:
You need the book by Tim Woodward "Is Idaho in Iowa?: The Dumbfounding Confusion".

Idaho isn't the "Potato State" anyway, it is the "Gem State", full of garnets. However if you moved to Idaho, you could rock this on your car:

http://www.idahohistory.net/license/potatoesth.jpg

That reminds me, it is time for lunch.

I find the over use of "like" to be tasteless and tacky in speech.

AlphaSigOU 05-28-2004 02:18 PM

Abusing the word "like" and "y'know" by using it as filler for conversation.

Like, it sounds so ignorant, y'know, coming like from college-educated people! :rolleyes:


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