CITA's got to go! Nuff said

I don't know about the rest of you but I like Cita. She is a funny character just like Sha Nae Nae was on Martin. No disrespect sorors but, when you receive a direct message as direct it will become a direct reflection of you. I only view Cita as a fictional character the grabs ratings because that's what she is. If I were to take offense it would probably be because what people say about my race is true; just not so sorors. That is just not so.

Sisterly,

pinkice9

Yes, I did notice this topic is a year old but I am a neo so do forgive me. I saw some horrible comments on this board. A year from these posts, Cita is still representing us dead wrong. I believe they did this because 1. This whole virtual reality thing is kinda cute these days and 2. Cita is cheaper than a real person. Doing a voice over doesn't pay as much as being on camera. BET saves a lot of money using Cita. Also it got pretty nasty going to the dark skin/light skin thing. Everyone has had their own experiences, now as for judging someone for who they want to be with is also DEAD WRONG. I can't believe I read on this board that someone believes that some black men date "unattractive" white women to "lighten" their family tree. Who is anyone to judge how that man sees that woman. You may see an ugly, pale piece of flab but that may be the love of his life. The only person that keeps him going, the only thing he has to look forward to. And to just attribute it to her skin tone, what a sad and disrespectful world we live in. I am disappointed.

Everyone has already said everything that I think about Cita. She is not a positive representation of African-Americans and BET would never hire a person to act like that, so why use animation. BET stopped being a positive force in the black community a long time ago. And since it was recently sold to Viacom, I don't expect anything to change.
Back to Cita. She is definitely not for young audiences. I agree she can be funny. But, it's adult humor for those who know better. If the show was on at 11:00 at night, I wouldn't have such a problem with it. Adults who like it can watch it, those who don't can change the channel. But, it comes on in the early afternoon, right after school gets out. I hate to think that young girls are watching this and thinking that is the way that you should act.
I had to respond because I feel very strongly about the issue of Cita and BET in general. I wish I had known about Greek Chat a year ago when this topic was started.

Let me just begin by saying that although I don't whole-heartedly agree with each of you I do understand your point of view.

One point that I'd like to stress in the whole light-skin/dark-skin issue is that, WE (as in African -Americans) bring entirely too much attention to this issue. WE make more difference btwn OUR people than others. Just as the sister pointed out that Rachael isn't even fully black. Since when did you have to have 100% black blood to be considered black! I distinctly recall the 1/16 rule. Besides it is my belief that life originated in Africa therefore we are all of African decent, even if our Caucasian brothers and sisters don't admit it. As they say "the truth shall set you free".
Anyway I never noticed that light/dark thing on Martin and really dont see the connection.
Yes, I have encountered racism in my lifetime and I find it ironic that I was mostly called out by my so called brothers and sisters! WE are the first ones to point out that someone is soooo dark or soooo light. It's like WE are color struck our dayum selves. I am all too familiar with blacks who think someone is cute to be so dark or so light. It's just like the "N" word. You can't expect others to step up and become "politically correct" if WE aren't.
BET has had dark-skinned vj's, anchors, etc. in the past. Donnie Simpson from Video Soul, the sister who hosted Tavis' show after his dismissal (she's been with the station for quite a while, although her name escapes me now), Joe Clair( orginial host of RAP CITY, Tiffany from INY, Free on 106&Park, Vanessa Bell Calloway from OH Drama!(the only intelligent host on the show, I might add)
Yes I acknowledge that there is racism within the media, television & Hollywood, however WE must acknowledge the part WE contribute to it .
Now back to the issue of CITA. I think she is an absolute disgrace and does a dis-service to the African-American Woman. She is insulting. From her loud a$$, foul mouth, her hoochie outfits to her off the wall advice to viewers letters. I fear that a young woman would look towards her as a role model for lack of guidance in the home. BET should pull her from the air. Unfortunately there are too many people that find her funny enough to support the show and keep her on the air. I have written BET in the past and I am strongly considering doing it again. There are some who feel that all of us are over reacting and that its just sheer comedy. All I can say is, they have the right to their opinions as I do mine.

By the way, I think Cita is the animated version of Kim Whitley from Oh Drama.(I can't stand her ignorant a$$)just my .10 cents (ten cents because I am a dime! of course , he he he)


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[This message has been edited by OhSoPrettyNikki (edited June 06, 2001).]

Hey y'all...I've been away for a minute, but am back & wanted to comment on the Cita/dark skin-light skin/BET thang...oh, wait...CONGRATS, Soror Akatude on starting your new life as a married lady http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif...Ok, now back to my comments...I'll admit it--Cita has said things from time to time that tickled me...but, I think overall she isn't a very good representation of us...especially, when it's probably mostly impressionable kids (K-12th grade), who think it's HOT to be GHETTO FAB http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif, that's watching her...However, on another note..I think that show "Oh Drama" totally contrasts with what some of us are saying about how light skinned/dark skinned sistah's act on TV...Lawd, that KIM http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, does she EVER act like she got some d@mn sense? And, can she shut up for 2 seconds?!! The other chile http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif (with the ringlet hairstyle)..I don't even know her name (that's how memorable SHE is--I know she's been in movies & on other shows)...she just seems like a dang groupie that slept with the right man in charge to get on the show...Now, Soror Vanessa (yes, I'm biased)..but, even if I wasn't an AKA...or if SHE wasn't an AKA, I'd still look at her as the only somebody on that show with some class! And, look-a-dair (there)...she dark skin-ded! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying there shouldn't be some comedy on the show (Kim), but you don't see Oprah acting a d@mn fool...constantly interrupting her guests & just being an overall distraction..this is just the $.08 of a dark complexioned sistah-soror.. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

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Just stopped in to see what was going on http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif This is a good topic. Black Enslavement Television is a huge disappointment. It was less of a travesty back in the days of Video Soul and Video Vibrations (you all remember those shows). The images were more well rounded and positive--the problem is that they ONLY showed videos.
NOW, BET shows raunchier videos (making our people look like uncontrollable animals who do nothing but bop our heads to beats and hump one another)...BET shows more news oriented programs...and,of course BET still shows Bobby Jones Gospel (praise the Lord). But, the trade-off for shows like Lead Story, BET Tonight, and Bobby Jones is that we are being pimped.
95% of the time, we are fed stereotypes and debauchery...the remaining 5% there is an attempt to uplift us----at a time when they KNOW that an overwhelming majority of our people under the age of 30 will NOT be viewing. BIG PROBLEM!

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Just for the record BET is owned by Viacom. The same company that owns:

MTV
MTV2
Nickelodeon
VH1
TNN
Showtime
The Movie Channel
Comedy Central
Paramount Pictures
UPN
CBS
Infinity Broadcasting
Blockbuster Video
and many more..

Judging by the other channels that they own I highly doubt that the uplifting of the African American race is high on their to-do list.

BTW, Viacom is not a Black owned company, and they are the reason why Tavis Smiley is no longer on the air. I could go into it but I don't think anyone wants to read one of my ridiculous rants about how these Oligopolies are controlling the media and how powerful they are when it comes to influencing the populous and how they are basically above the law. I know no one wants to hear about that. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

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Did you all know that Essence Magazine sold some of its shares to a non-AA conglomerate?

I heard Bob Johnson say this on C-Span when he was discussing BET and all that "stuff".

Well, I agree that BET wa a bit out of line about how ghetto and project that Cita is. Yet, what can you expect? As long as people think that the lighter the better, then that's what will happen. I am a medium skinned african american woman and I love my skin color. I love all skin colors. I also believe that Black comes in all shades, and black is black. Stereotypical or not, blacks must learn to bond toghether to end the racisim in our own culture before we expect anyone else to. Just my thoughts....

I also feel Cita is a terrible representation of Black Womanhood no matter what her complexion. I do wonder, however, whether or not complexion played a role in her design.

The question of BET and its use of light skinned v. dark skinned sisters is not a new one. As a freshman in college, (1991) a BET representative came to my campus and was basically blasted by the students over this very issue. At the time all of the females on the station were more light except one. I am not surprised that the issue continues today. In most mass media, light skinned women have been favored. Only more recently has it been considered "in" by the media (the media, not me) to be dark skinned. African American complexions are treated like a fad and a trend. It is cool to be dark or light depeninding on the year and has come and gone like stillettos and micro minis. I think it is horrible that something so fundamental and unchangeable as complexion is treated as a fad. It demeans us as a race and jeopardizes our children's self esteem.

Another quick observation- In the media, they almost always pair a couple in advcertising so that the nman is darker than the woman.

As a very fair skinned Black woman (fair enough that people ask who is the White girl in the chapter when I step- ignorant a@@es! Don't they how diverse this rainbow is? Can't they see this kinky hair up here?) I used to pray to go to sleep and wake up dark when I was a child. I think we damage each other on all sides of the spectrum.

Bottom line- I think America and Black Americans are still very colorstruck. I also think BET has gone far afield of its potential and is not likely to ever get back on the right path. And if the creation of Cita was not a red flag about that, I don;'t know what is!


3 BMAC Sp 99

Watz up, Soror Kim!

I must say that this observation is right on point. The media seems to think that the light-skinned woman/dark-skinned man is the ideal representation. You rarely see the opposite pairing like me and my husband. In fact, in real life, I observe the brown- or dark-skinned woman/light-skinned man more often.

I also have observed that when two Black females are paired as buddies or even sisters, the 'good/nice/rich' one is light-skinned and the 'bad/mean/poor' one is dark-skinned. One of the most glaring examples is "Martin" (or any other show/movie w/ Tisha Campbell!).

We cannot let the media define who we are and how we should view the beautiful range of hues in our race!



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