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I wanna pose another question out there: I know that NPC bylaws state that if a girl who's in an NPC transfers she can do a local at her new school and if a girl who's in a local transfers, she can do any NPC with the exception of the ones that were on her old campus. On a local chapter level, how many sororities here would let their members do another sorority in this respect even if it was ok by NPC bylaws. I know that my sorority has a rule that after you've pledged for a certain number of weeks, and certainly after you've been initiated, you aren't allowed to do another sorority at all.
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I was initiated into a service sorority on my campus, and had a horrible experience. Thankfully, I was allowed to rush again because there were no rules that prevented it, and have found a happy home in Phi Chi. I know we have had girls that decided they would be happier in an NPC org, left Phi Chi, and joined one of the NPC's. We still love them very much and happily claim them as alum unless they disaffiliated instead of going alum. Our Greek life director is a DZ alum from one university, but when she transferred they didn't have DZ, so she joined a local. She's wonderful and I'm so glad we have someone with that experience. |
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If a girl who's in a local transfers, she can join ANY NPC - it doesn't matter if they were on her old campus or not. Unless she joined an NPC, quit, and then joined the local.
If you were in an NPC and didn't want the girl from the local, you just wouldn't give her a bid - it's not like you HAVE to take her. |
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I'm definitely not an NPC guru (that would be PenguinTrax and some others on GC whose names escape me....), but that is what I recall from the Green Book. PsychTau |
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I just read through this whole thread and this is what I think. I don't see why someone would join an NPC group, leave, and then join anthor NPC on the ame campus. Even if the girl was to transfer to a school without the first NPC, I don't see how she would be ok with joining anthor one. IMO, there is a certain amunt of loalty to your letters, and the fact that it is a national org that is known, why would someone do it?
I can undestand more if someone was to join a local, transfer, then join a NPC group at the new school, because she has no chance of getting invovled in the greek system because she was in a local and not a national. *I hope this makes sense.....* |
For anyone who doesn't know, absolutuscchick (Rachel) was a member of a local sorority, transferred, and joined an NPC sorority--Kappa Delta.
For the NPC/NPHC thing, I think it would depend. If a woman transferred in who was an NPHC member (we don't have any NPHC orgs on my campus :(), and wanted to find a sisterhood on our campus, I think we'd strongly consider her if we felt her motives were sincere and that she could be committed to both orgs. However, I don't know how her NPHC sisters would view that. My guess is--probably not so well. If an NPHC org were to come to our campus and women from our chapter wanted to join I think we'd be cool with that unless they were rude about it. I have a sorority sister who plans to join as an alum after college to the NPHC group her mother, grandmother, and sister are a part of. |
That is an interesting Question!
I am not sure of the Relationships between NPC and NHPC? But I think over the years, they have become closer in relationshops! Anyone help out here? But, inbetween NIC, NPC, there is a strong line on this. Well to my knowledge! |
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Belonging to only one NPC group is one of the reasons NPC was founded. Before 1902, there were instances when women belonged to more than one. Representatives of the organizations believed in life time commitment (and still do) They did not feel a person could have a lifetime commitment to more than one organization. |
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As I read this thread, I was trying to figure out how this situation could happen. Of course it's against the NPC rules; but how come the second sorority didn't realize or report it to either HQ? (Or the first sorority doing the same for that matter?) The only reason I can think of is if maybe there was some kind of drama whereby the girl felt wronged by the sisters in the first sorority and so she quit. Then, maybe the members of the second sorority sided with that girl and that's why they were willing to take her on as a new member. Does that make sense? They knew she was a member of the other NPC, but they felt she deserved to have a better sisterhood. Something like that? .....Kelly :) |
well, how about another scenario?
this happened with a frat boy on our campus. he was a member of a frat and then that frat closed so he pledged another on the same campus. could this be done in the NPC? could i join Gamma Phi Beta and then if my chapter closed, join, say, AOII, on the same campus? i would say no, personally but do the rules say anything about that? get out your green books ladies! (sorry i don't have one!) :eek: |
Okay, in all seriousness, the vast majority of the women on this thread seem to agree that being in two NPC sororities is wrong, yet there doesn't seem to be a way to enforce it. Why not require a transfer student to provide (or have the "new" school's Panhel find) a waiver from the original college, stating that Pammy PNM was never a member of an NPC sorority? Would that be too legalistic? Obviously, telling the truth doesn't seem to work in all circumstances, because this isn't the first time I've heard of this on GreekChat.
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NPC, CPH, and schools can make rules all they want...but it's up to the individual members of the NPC groups to enforce it. Educate your members on the rules and why they are there. I'm sure during recruitment you can figure out who knows a little more about Greek life than the others, and there are ways to ask questions. Follow your gut instinct...there's no problem with checking it out discreetly. That's my 2,000 cents!!! PsychTau |
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And that scenario is precisely what the rules talk about. ETA: In Gamma Phi if your chapter closes, you become an alumna unless you transfer to another school with a chapter. |
OK, I have a question...I know a woman can't belong to two NPC sororities. However, there's no rule against an NPC member joining a local sorority (someone posted about this earlier). I see the reasoning behind this, but for those of you who say you can't be loyal to two groups, what's the difference? That is, wouldn't you think joining two groups would be wrong no matter if they're local or national?
I don't know where I stand on this...I see the reasoning behind the rules, but in a way I see how they could be problematic in some cases. I don't think I would've had any problem joining a local sorority if I had transferred to a school with no DZ chapter. To me, it's like being a member of both, say, a service sorority and a social sorority. Of course you wouldn't discuss business of one group with the members of another, but I can see how it would work. |
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And as for the guy, jeez, that is surprising a guy joining one then another. I can understand either guys or girls doing it if they never were initiated(it 's happened on my campus several times) but not being initiated and then joining? That is just plain LAME. And yes, that is my opinion.:p |
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"A woman who is or who has ever been an initiated member of an existing NPC fraternity shall not be eligible for membership in another NPC fraternity." So a woman who gets initiated, but later disaffiliates, would therefore never be eligible to be a member of another NPC group. Same thing if the NPC sorority that initiated her terminates her membership -- she is not eligible to join another NPC sorority. |
This just happened to us this year.
"Suzie" joined our house through fall Rush 2002. We all liked her, but she quit a few days before initiation b/c she thought she could do better. This year she rushed as a junior and joined the house across the street (which, interestingly enough, is where she always said she wanted to wind up). |
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I don't know if NPHCs specifically have this policy, but I *think* that what I have heard expressed in the past by NPHC members was this: a) that it technically would be allowed to be a member of NPC and NPHC b) that it isn't done and it would be looked down upon Please please NPHC folks correct me if I am wrong! I will try to find the old threads! ETA: I found the thread I was thinking of: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...PHC+membership This thread shows the NPC and NPHC perspective on this issue. |
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If you terminate your membership from DG, you can never, EVER join DG again. Ever.
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Eeesh, and you have to be a really bad girl to have your membership terminated by the sorority!
Taualumna, that's interesting. The only thing I have to say about that is, it's probably never happened. The NPCs all have rules about how long you have to be a local (and how many girls, etc.) before you can apply to colonize. Then the colonization application takes forever and a day. Then usually you have to be a colony for X period of time before you're initated. So I'd imagine unless you were on the 20 year plan it wouldn't happen. |
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Coencidentally, my skeezy-ness alarm is going off. (1) poster has only one post (2) poster "wants to support" defecting member (3) seeming complete unfamilarity with NPC rules |
In response to TauAlumna's post, I believe that if the local did ever join the NPC, then that woman would have have to either go alum or inactive from one of the groups, and stay active in the other one. I know there was a thread about this on GC but I can't find it now.
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To me honestly i dont know how anyone can look at themselves in the mirror and think it is ok to pull of this fascade because you knew the rules of NPC and if it was me trying to hide and double track all my lies and misgivings would make me feel unbelievably guilty in every sense and sooooo disloyal to my chapter and sisters.
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(2) Nowhere did it say that the sister was necessarily initiated yet, only implied. (3) There are a whole heck of a lot of people there who DON'T know or understand NPC rules, including many members of NPC sororities. (4) And if my post caused this much drama, I'd stay away too. :p |
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Tau alumna - she cannot join the new NPC group. She can't have her name on the charter. They may, however, choose to recognize her somehow - for example, we have a Phoenix recognition pin we can present to sweethearts or advisors who may have been in another NPC group. Something like that could be done. |
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I don't like the fact that they say we can't be loyal for life to two organizations - what about everybody who's in a social GLO, a service GLO, a business GLO, a church, Knights of Columbus, the VFW, the Lions Club, etc? |
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In this situation, if you'd formally deaffiliated from XYZ, you would become an alum of your local and that's that. If not (say, if you'd transferred), you'd still be an XYZ. In neither case could you be initiated into ABC. |
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