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We interrupt your regulary scheduled thread to bring you this short commentary from Ideal08:
The Omega's bark, ok. They are Dawgs, ok. They step to Atomic Dog. I never thought the term Q-dog was derogatory, myself. DOGGYSTYLE, please clarify, if you would, with your opinion on the matter. I thought it was a play on words when used earlier, y'know, pun intended? Jazbri, how boring would conversations be if there were no jokes and sarcasm? Most, if not all, of my conversations are laced with jokes and heavy sarcasm. It's my nature. If it gets taken beyond the original plane, then it's because someone's skin is thin, and they took it there, feel me? As far as comments about Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. It's just like life, people are going to be people. I have been a stuck up sediddy (how the hell do you spell that???) b***h since I crossed. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif BUT, I've also been a PRETTY GIRL! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Take the bitter with the sweet. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif I'm not saying senseless stereotypes don't get under my skin sometimes. I'm just saying it's not that deep. We now return to your regularly scheduled thread. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif |
Happy Alphaversary, Shinxpoet!! Skeeeeee-Phi! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
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In the end it's only words on a screen, to be interpreted by your imagination. If you imagine the words to be ill tempered, then there have it. If you imagine them to be just fun and games and just joking around, then there you have it.
Personally, I interpreted fun and games from every post, but these last few have thrown me for a loop. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif |
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BTW, ya'll stoopid! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif |
Excuse me, I never said we were having problems. You must have me confused with someone else. So you like harrassing me, Huh?
Good I know there were some real people out there. Yes, I am still in love and getting married soon to this same girl. And how are you doing today,Big Pimpin'? |
I agree with what a lot of dog bang said. <<from what i could make out anyway>>
The thing is, stereotypes are pretty unimaginative. Imagine hearing someone say to you, "Nah, you don't wanna mess with she's a XYZ (sorority) and yeah baby girl pretty but she's dumb as a rock" or "Yeah, go for that one cuz she's a XYZ (sorority) and she may be a lil hard on the eyes but you know they known for giving up the azz". I mean really do you think one or even two experiences qualifies one to say that guys from this frat are dogs. Like dog bang said if the person was a iyitch when he came in he'll be iyitch after being made. Black women get pissed off <<I know I do>> when those professional ballers say that black women are too agressive, materialistic, negative, etc. and that's why I don't mess with them. What kind of ish is that? I'll get off my soapbox now; but, I know the same people who are classifying these men as "q-dogs" <makes me wince just typing it> would really take affront if they were classified as pretty but empty-headed or ugly but easy. [This message has been edited by jazbri (edited April 25, 2001).] |
I don't like harrassing you so don't flatter yourself. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif I'm simply responding to what you type. If I remember correctly, you posted a thread on our forum (it mysteriously disappeared) regarding your relationship with some girl. Unless there are two people using your name "dog dog bang bang"?
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Ok I'll post...
I was with an Alpha for 10 years of which 6 of those years we were married. When I was in college he took good care of me. He supported me, feed me, washed my clothes (panties included) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif. And for that i will always love him. BUT when we got married he took me for granted and things went down hill. Now I have also been with one of my Sexy Bruhs Of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity. We have our ups and downs but underneath he is a good person, that can get on my nerves like any other man. As far as saying that my Bruhs are Que Dogs, its not an insult if you understand why they call themselves dogs, which is to sum it up Dogs are loyal and protective. I was an Alpha Angel so I have love for the Alphas, BUT nobody puts it down like the Ques. They are out! And they love their women of Crimson and Cream! We accept them for who they are. If a man or a woman is going to do doggish things it has nothing to do with what organization they are members of. If you think there is a difference between an Omega Man and a Que Dog, you may not be right. Now thats my $19.13 worth! |
IDEAL08
I'm not the least bit offended by the conversation. To me GC is like a cyber-coffetable. If you would say what you think to friends over a cup of coffee, you can say it hear. I know personally that being in a relationship with an undergraduate Que(Dog)/Omega is a high risk/high reward proposition as it can be with other Greeks or GDI's. I don't mind the sarcasm either. That is AKATUDE's feeling and as long as she can handle the reciprocity its cool. As far as the term "Q-Dog", there is nothing wrong with it. A lot of older members don't like being addressed as such and they shouldn't. REDS695: Thanks for the love. And to all the ladies, pet your Q-Dog daily and twice on Sunday if you want to "manage his behavior". That is how I got housebroken. Now if I can find a way to stop sniffing so many booties..... |
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Hmmmm...
The Alpha: Really cool, extremely smart and super confident, I liked him lots, but had some...relationship issues. We're still friends though. The Kappa: Lots of fun to spend time with, very intelligent, we're still cool...only one problem: turns out he was married! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif The Omega: Never Dated One (I tried to hook one, but he was NOT feeling me, ROFL), but...my entire undergrad became a "Dogs Chase the Cats" scene. As such, have lots of peripheral with the Omegas. Seemed to be lots of fun, larger than life, down to earth...but none of my Sorors are still with them, so I guess that speaks for itself. The Sigma: Well...never really dated any. I LOVE my frat brothers, probably a few I would marry today, but er ah...never really dated any. BUT, they are the real-est men that I know! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif The Iota: Again, never dated one. A few of my Sorors have though...mixed opinions. ------------------ Finer Womanhood: the "Cat's Meow" Since 1920 |
While I was in school, I did not date Greek men, although my boyfriend since 2nd semester freshman year(now husband) was interested in KAPsi. He went Kappa grad chapter.
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Well, before my entry into Greekdom, I had some experiences with Greek men.
The Kappa - Forward, sometimes intrusive, cocky, overconfident, yet smooth, a ladies man.. not all that great with the lights out.. The Alpha - Intelligent, (but sometimes gets on my nerves thinking he knows it all) charismatic, gentle, articulate, a let me tell you!!! Brotha put it down in bed!! Umm Umm Umm..... I haven't had any experiences with Sigmas or Omegas as of yet. However, being that I've recently crossed the burning sands of Delta Sigma Theta, I'm sure my horizons will be expanding in the near future http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif ------------------ Determined Solo Tenacious Assertive Creative Essence |
much respect...
The Alpha Phi Alpha man...escourted me when i was 16 to my cotillion...he (19) was the son of my mothers friend. he was polite and friendly. The Omega Psi Phi man...*and i use man very loosely*...was a trip and a half. He did not give the fraternity a very good name. But that was as a boyfriend...as a friend...he was a'ight...it was just better off not knowing him. The Phi Beta Sigma man...continues to be the best boyfriend that i ever had. Considerate, friendly, polite, giving, and brilliant. He was always fun to be with. But as most good things come to an end we both agreed that our friendship was just too good to have a relationship. The Kappa Alpha Psi man...was nice. We went to a Red & White Ball together. But we definitely had no business trying to date...he was too all over the place with his. No Iota's but I had a good friend who was one and from what i saw he was a great guy. ...now...hmmmm...should i get on the ladies of the Divine Nine...nah...I'll just drop that one. peace |
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Skeeeeeeee-WEeeeeeeeee! http://www.plauder-smilies.de/tiere/shakin.gif http://www.plauder-smilies.de/tiere/ride.gif http://www.plauder-smilies.de/frog.gif http://www.plauder-smilies.de/coolman.gif http://www.plauder-smilies.de/happy/coffee.gif [This message has been edited by AKA2D '91 (edited April 28, 2001).] |
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Alpha: Very sweet, caring... forever the gentleman http://www.plauder-smilies.de/tales/koenig.gif Kappas: Cocky http://www.plauder-smilies.de/coolman.gif , but fun & freaky http://www.plauder-smilies.de/party/dance.gif Omegas: What this AKA can't get enough of... http://www.plauder-smilies.de/love/luvkiss.gif Sigmas: Don't really know any, but from what I hear....their extremely romantic http://www.plauder-smilies.de/love/mushy.gif |
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Sorors I never dated greeks during college because of several incicents on the yard that I had been schooled about. However, I married an Omega MAN!!! He is my best friend , lover, wonderful father and my knight in shining armor....white horse and all
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I had to reply!
I have only dated one greek! Myyy Alpha man is smart, sexy, patient, god fearing, my best friend and the 2nd most important man in my life ( right after my father). He is my heart! :) :D :p |
Omega: A guy that I have known and loved since I was 14 became a Que and I was already a Delta at the time. I thought we would be together, but he had other plans, he REALLY tripped out and thought he had to live up to the image that he thought he had to protray:rolleyes: After that, I'm friends with Ques and I love them like brothers, but that's as far as I'll go.
Kappas: Dated one as soon as I became a Delta, nice and treated me good, and another one from L.A. who thought he was the MACK that could say anything and I believed it, we had good conversations though. Alphas: Never have but I do love Alpha men. Sigmas: I will never date a Sigma and can count on one hand how many are my homies. They don't like me and I don't like them. Iotas: Have a few good friends that are Iotas but none are in my area GDI's: Dated many:) very sweet! |
DELTAQTE: but how do you REALLY feel about Sigmas? ha ha :D
Alpha: dated one for 5 years. We have a cute lil girl together. Sigma: dated one for about a year. Still my homie today. Ques: never had one..no desire to since the opprotunity never presented itself...(MJ had to go and reconcile with Juanita, dang it!) Iota: engaged to one now. :D :D :D Best two years of my life, and looking forward to 90+ more... |
OK, let's see:
I dated an Alpha for about a minute. Our birthdays are a week apart. We are both Leos and ya'll know that we are some conceited folks. Let's just say that he spent more time in the mirror than I did. The Que that I dated for about 30 seconds lived up to that dog image b/c while he was dating me, he was engaged to this girl at my church (who ended up an AKA), and was expecting a baby by another girl all at the same time. I still shudder when I think about him. No Sigmas to speak of. I dated two Kappas. The first one REALLY lived up to the pretty boy image. He thought he was so fine, so fine that he had at least 5 other girls besides me. I wasn't having it so I bounced him like a bad check. The second one wasn't all that much of a pretty boy but cleans up nicely when given an occasion to do so. He treated me with kindness and respect and wasn't all that intimidated by my intelligence and independence. He was especially supportive on my journey to Delta. That Kappa is my hubby now. :D |
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back in the day, I was week for a Kappa man......goooooodness gracious....
Lawd, that was back in 93 (ish) |
*singing like R. Kelly*
"Onnnne QUE can maaake.. oneeeee Woman HATE all QUEEEEEES"
This is a good subject just for us to share our experiences. The only thing I'll say on this subject is that I'd hope we all would see that your Fraternal/Sorority affiliation has no bearing on your personal relationships. as for my record: My high school sweetheart went AKA and we almost got engaged but she undermined the trust in our relationship and I had to break it off. A good friend of mine whose older sister is a AKA surprised everybody and went SGRho. We've been friends and have 'shared' with each other for 6+ years but have just enough differences where we've never given a relationship a shot. I've been with one Zeta in my life.. She was a straight amazon and beautiful on the inside and out.. but, she left the area to further her career and the Long Distance thing is not for us. I've had the great fortune of dating 4 DeviStaTing ladies of DST. For different subtile reasons, neither relationship lasted more than 2 years but all were great. Now, I JUST ATTENDED DELTA NATIONALS IN ATL THIS SUMMER. *this is the main point I want to make* JUST BECAUSE I HAVEN'T HAD THE RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE DELTAS lead TO MATRIMONY... and even if one didn't end on good terms..., I WOULD NEVER *EVA - EVA - EVA - EVA* "X" an entire group of dynamic, educated Women such as the : AKAs, Deltas, Zetas, SGRhos.. because on ONE or TWO or ETC bad experiences with said group of Sorors.. I'm not HAAAAARDLY trying to eliminate a group of over 100,000 highly educated Black Women from my dating pool... And I would suggest that no Black Woman eliminate and group of highly educated, driven, charming, hard body Men such as Omega Psi Phi because of a painful relationship experience in the past. don't fugg up and lose the love of your life. |
Do Perps Count?
I dated someone in college who told me he was a frat member, but mysteriously lost the fraternity key chain I bought him, lost/destroyed my film with him doing the frat hand signals, and wouldn't let me meet any of his brothers.
It finally dawned on me (after many other lies unraveled) that he wasn't a member of any frat. (Guys, I won't name the frat in this post. Unfortunately I don't have an address for you all to break the door down and crack this dude up for perpin'. Obviously it wasn't Sigma -- he would have been busted pretty quick.) |
I have been dating a Kappa for almost a year and he has been one of the most patient, ande aceepting males that I have encountered. Most of my friends say to stay away from "those kappas" but my baby treats me like a queen! And he keeps my head "IN THE CLOUDS"!!:D :)
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I dated an Alpha VERY briefly. Turned out he was also dating a soror who had graduated 2 years before I got here... obviously that didn't work out. :eek:
Also had a relatively brief relationship with a Kappa. Intelligent, respectful and that shimmy just did something to me... but we quickly discovered we argued much less as friends. :) My boyfriend now (and longest relationship to date) is a Sigma. He is handsome, sweet, loyal, respectful, intelligent, thoughtful, caring... you get the point. Maybe one day I'll try to scan a pic of the Skee-Blue paddle we made. :D |
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Thought I'd join my DAWG up in here and post another male perspective of this pretty interesting topic:
Zetas: Dated one .... let me take that back ... met one ... hung out with her, "got to know her," .... lost contact with her ..... (how convenient) AKAs: High school sweetheart turned out to be an AKA: we broke up before she crossed (she broke my heart ya'll). But a few years later, we gave it another go (she was an AKA by then). The second go-round lasted all of 48 hours and really was Sex Fest '98. Fin. I left her with this phrase from Louis XIV "Apres moi, le deluge!" ........ I have dated about 3 other AKAs over the course of time and they were all beautiful, sensual, intelligent......and temporary. Deltas: I've dated three Deltas: Red #1: Nice but stubborn, caring but moody ..... it never really had a chance, we were killing that "in-between" time. Red #2: Pretty, smart, compassionate, giving, Long Distance relationship, mind-blowing "relations", ..... lies and deceit.....on both our parts. Red #3: Just broke up with her man, new in town, we vibed to Badu together somethin' serious. After a good friendship had been established through time, we both moved away from the city in the same week for career purposes .... the night before I left town, we got hot and sweaty. Game over. SGRhos: Met one; hooked up with her; flew her to Cali for the weekend; fell in love with her mind, body, and soul; dated her for a year; moved her to Cali with me for good; married her; became a parent with her; and will be OWT with her from now until the sun sets on my spirit. GDIs: Lawd, lawd ... where do I begin? And let me be the first to tell you, Que DAWGS ain't doing all the doggin in the NPHC...... '08, '13, '20, and '22 have all represented in the playa arena....I have seen it, and been subjected to it. But it's all good......that's what life is about...livin' and learnin' what you want and don't want in a mate.....I like to call it taste testing. But no matter what, a big ROOOOOOO to every Edna out there. Frank will ALWAYS love ya'll ROOO |
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ClassyLady.... you're real close.....
"Apres Moi, le Deluge" is French for "After me, the Flood!!" He was referencing THE FLOOD.....like the 40 days, 40 nights flood that Noah faced in the Bible. The same flood that wiped out the entire earth and its population. Like ClassyLady said, he was trying to communicate to his kingdom that after he left the throne there would be nothing left to look forward to but problems and that France would be overwhelmed without him to lead them....they might as well cease to exist. Now of course, that's not what I said to her.... but that's how I was feeling. A little cocky of me to think that...but ya'll know how you're feeling when a relationship ends. We all feel like " I was the best she ever had! She ain't neva gonna find another like me!" Heh heh Anyway....I digress.....where was I? Oh yeah, I remember now .... ROOOOO |
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But I know where you're coming from when it comes to breakups...Most people do feel this way (maybe not to the obnoxious level you took it) ...but I'm feeling you nonetheless ;) |
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I have to make myself remember that all these guys were young, dumb and full of you know what:
Kappa- slut! Omega-my heart, had hate-hate relationship for a while(both leos, b-day's 10 days apart), my son loves his daddy though Alpha-So sweet, but a slut! Iota-...TBA maybe one day?? Sigma-no words, good guy, but again no words can explain this guy...are all sigma's that damn freaky????? I like this thread, these guys are simply members of these orgs, they are NOT the org! One guy out of thousands, good and bad will be rampant. |
Men of Omega
Lookie, you guys have different affects on different women...
Personally, I feel extremely protected when I'm out about with you. But that's me. Male bashin' ain't my floe... [spelling meant to be incorrect]--unless you want to discuss a certain kind of well ummm, pumpkin bashing??? Now folks comparing folks is cool at times, but talking about "street crossing" and "walking", well... Hey, there are other forums on THIS board for that... I guess I'm too old skool and remember back in the days 'bout loyalties. Maybe it's me and I gotta work it out, but the way I see it, bruhs that cross the street and talk to the other, fail to understand, that many of my fellow sorority sisterfriends can do it too... And in my surroundings, it's funny, but these same folks buy our tixs to all our dinners and functions... So hey, whatevas cleva... |
my turn...
lemme see
Alphas: he he he #1.. high school bf to college sweetheart- broke up one month after he crossed- the end of a three year relationship. HOPE TO NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN IN LIFE. #2 A very nice guy who was really feeling me. Unfortunately, I wasn't feeling his dragon breath. #3 A VERY sweet guy who I had to drop. Honestly, I wasn't convinced he was straight. #4 Phrat I am dating now is a keeper. So far, no major hurdles...(knocking on wood) Kappas: My dad is one so I am biased. I have only dated one and he was too much for me. We are great friends now and we fit together, but there is only so much time I'll wait for you to move from "dating" to being "with you". I think 5 months is long enough....had to holla. Sigmas: I have a great guy friend who is a Sigma, we flirt,but I am not sure if I could take it there. Omegas: UMMMMMMMMMMMMMM NO! My freshman year my friends and I went to Omega Apollo Night and after party. At the party my friend got bit on the toosh and I got molested...we both vowed NEVER. We were tramatized! Iotats: Never have, but can't say I never will. |
hmmm...
i'm not much on dating greek men period just because i have always been afraid of our business becoming "chapter discussion" and of course i believe in the rule that one time in the family is enough(i can't date you seriously and then date your brother 6 months later-- i'd feel like i was getting passed around! oh, no, none of that!) but i will say this much:
i have found LOVELY men in each organization that have truly impressed me here on campus... but i have NEVER met an IOTA that i didn't like! i have to give credit where it is due: the ALPHAS and the IOTAS have always been true gentlemen--even without having to ask me for my number! that says a LOT! |
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